Peeves about models - repeating many of what has been said before, but yes, my pet peeves so I'll vocalise them, but also include explanations or my personal opinions about them.
Ridiculous topics - those "x tokens for good day", or "tips make me smile", "Help me boost my camscore". Sure, will help, but try helping us help you by letting us know how!
Shows in pvt? Grp? Free-chat? Give targets, preferably with "waypoints" (i.e. x topless, xx naked, xxx show - where x specifies token values) so you don't wait until topic completed before seeing anything.
Lack of engagement (this won't apply to most models here, all seem very bubbly) - I imagine models hate it when they have a room of silent guys, and constantly trying to start conversations must be tough. However, if I'm there trying to start conversation with you, it's nice if you can at least try to be receptive. Being able to talk makes things more relaxed and gives atmosphere to the room. A big friendly hello (spoken or typed) goes a long way, and if others are having a topic of convo - perhaps invite the new person into give their thoughts on it is a great way to integrate them into the room and help ease them into unfamiliar territory
Also smiles help hugely. Don't have to grin like an idiot all the time, but just try not to look miserable. Even just bop along to music if it's quiet, it's far more inviting to say hello and interact than with someone who is silent and sullen
Random PM's - if I haven't been in your room, and don't know you, please don't PM expecting me to come and tip you...PM's from models I talk to are always welcome
Going private or group during a tipped for free-chat show. If you're trying to illicit private or group through starting to play, then it's fine - awesome/fantastic, go for it. If it's a free-chat show that was the topic, and tipped for, by members - then a big NO if you go private/group as it starts, or half way through. I don't visit models who do this anymore, so...
Sound - either not having it at all, or the mic close to the speakers/music too loud so that you just get distorted noise. Am fine hearing just hear the tapping of your keys, or gentle background music - there's potential to hear more. Without sound you deprive one of the senses... since it only leaves sight, its not a good idea. Don't believe me - try watching tv/films whilst muted
Begging - I don't mean starting a show to try and generate tips and politely reminding people if nothing is tipped, or telling them you'll stop/stopping - taking the initiative and prompting is fine. However, those who sit there, do nothing, and whine about tips repeatedly - that is very annoying. I don't visit models who do this anymore, so...
Sudden disappearance - usually working other sites and taking privates there - the model just goes "away", please please say "pvt, brb" at least in chat text. It let us know.
Why? It is hard to build a rapport with someone if they repeatedly, at random times, disappear without warning. If I just wanted to see naked ladies and fap, I'd watch porn. I enjoy the engagement the site brings
Sudden disappearance removes that feeling of engagement, so will see me move on eventually.
Logging off halfway to a goal without explanation. Sure, don't do a full show, do a reduced show...but to just log off for the night? The confidence to tip the model ever again is utterly destroyed. This is why I like those way points in a topic, or milestones. Hit topless, hit naked, hit show. If the show is never reached, at least topless/naked resulted so you don't feel you tipped for nothing...
Peeves of members:
Rudeness - the random members who turn up, say utter crap in the hope of upsetting models and members alike. I don't know why they get their kicks doing this.
Lies/false promises/time wasters/beggers/demanders - Everyone knows what these members say/do. Of particular annoyance are the ones that pray upon new models, especially those who haven't cammed before, and try to take advantage.
All members during a show who
didn't contribute (including premiums). When a show starts, suddenly the room fills up and people pile on the requests, the begging. If only there was an EXTRA mute button which muted everyone who hasn't tipped...*sighs*. If you want to have personal smut talk with the model, take her private! However, don't mind reading appreciative comments, just those personal ones about what the member is doing to themselves during a public show *eek*. IMO Freeloaders who are cracking one out and yet sat on tokens are also bad.
Trying to take a model pvt during free-chat show (tipped for show). I think some people do this on purpose, getting a kick out the idea that a lot of guys will be frustrated.
Members who ignore topic yet expect a tip to achieve something that is in the topic (such as 100 token tip towards 500 token topic, and demand pussy play and accuse model of lying/misleading when it fails).
The Lounge. I don't go in much. There are some good members in there, but there are a lot of self righteous arrogant assholes in there who feel justified in being utterly horrible and trying to make some models lives a misery. They don't tip, they're rude, and slag everyone off.
White Knights - being supportive is fine, and I like a sort of normative enforcement whereby those who deviate from the norm behaviour will be prodded by other members towards more acceptable behaviour. But those who put up a plethora of ban emotes from simple, and reasonable, questions... eek.
Oh boy, long post, apologies