CommonAnomaly said:Yes. But, as always, it depends on the people involved.
I have met two models in person, one of which I have hung out with several times and crashed at her place for a few days while we hung out. She is my friend. I've met her boyfriend. Her cat hates me. And she's forbidden me from hitting on her sister. I love her dearly and would never do anything to change our relationship.
CommonAnomaly said:Maybe I'm weird, but my ability to masturbate to a naked woman has never been affected (positively or negatively) by knowing her general location on the planet. Muslims may need to face east to pray to mecca, but I don't need to face west to rub one out to Amber.
hornygods said:I've always felt that on a site like MFC, it's difficult to do that. How do your guys manage to do it?
hornygods said:In any given relationship, there are boundaries to be set, and lines to not be crossed. It takes tact, trust, and ultimately - comfort. A friendship, in the context of MFC, can only established if a model is comfortable with the idea of having a virtual friendship.
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I can say with almost absolute certainty, that the average member on MFC would not qualify as a 'friend'.
I personally define them to be the ones who stay when you're clothed, the ones who listen when you talk, the ones who care when you're hurt, the ones who helps when you're in need, and lastly - the ones who tip when nobody else would. They never judge, never lie, never betray, and lastly - never breaks your trust. They are worth more than their tokens - for they are the thread of sanity in an insane world. These people are, quite frankly, priceless. I only wish there could be more people like that on the internet, but that would be a quixotic fantasy.
Trav said:I think the definite answer to this question is absolutely they can be friends, if a model is willing to be.
I consider the model that I'm a "regular" for to be a great friend. I mean, this is a person that I've spent hours interacting with, practically every day, for over a year and a half. I've spent more time chatting with her than I do with most of the friends that actually live near me.
I think if you're a friendly and cosiderate person who doesn't act like an idiot, it's difficult to spend that kind of time interacting with someone and not develop a friendship unless you're actively trying not to. I would feel like I was actually offending her if I didn't call her a friend though.
chitti said:I guess you look at the money exchange as a. ?.what? ?.. Loan. .?...gift? Does this ever come the other direction? I'm guess you don't find said model randomly sending you money do you.... Friendship..... No.... Good customer.....yes.
chitti said:I guess you look at the money exchange as a. ?.what? ?.. Loan. .?...gift? Does this ever come the other direction? I'm guess you don't find said model randomly sending you money do you.... Friendship..... No.... Good customer.....yes.
I guess you look at the money exchange as a. ?.what? ?.. Loan. .?...gift? Does this ever come the other direction? I'm guess you don't find said model randomly sending you money do you.... Friendship..... No.... Good customer.....yes.
The_Brown_Fox said:chitti said:I guess you look at the money exchange as a. ?.what? ?.. Loan. .?...gift? Does this ever come the other direction? I'm guess you don't find said model randomly sending you money do you.... Friendship..... No.... Good customer.....yes.
If a member and model end up enjoying nice phone conversations with each other outside of MFC (and the phone call isn't a contest/raffle prize), or enjoy communicating regularly over the 'net without the model getting money for it, that sounds like friendship to me...even if it is strictly over the internet/phone (and not in person).
And as for sending money...I've never heard of a model sending money to a guy friend she met on a cam site (Is it his birthday? LOL), but if they have one of those 'loaning-each-other-money' friendships, that's their choice.
Just Me said:The_Brown_Fox said:chitti said:I guess you look at the money exchange as a. ?.what? ?.. Loan. .?...gift? Does this ever come the other direction? I'm guess you don't find said model randomly sending you money do you.... Friendship..... No.... Good customer.....yes.
If a member and model end up enjoying nice phone conversations with each other outside of MFC (and the phone call isn't a contest/raffle prize), or enjoy communicating regularly over the 'net without the model getting money for it, that sounds like friendship to me...even if it is strictly over the internet/phone (and not in person).
And as for sending money...I've never heard of a model sending money to a guy friend she met on a cam site (Is it his birthday? LOL), but if they have one of those 'loaning-each-other-money' friendships, that's their choice.
I used to think this was a good barometer but I do not think you realize the lengths that some models/studios will go through to keep an illusion of friendship or even more. I have first hand knowledge that some studios encouraged this in the hopes that a member will spend more money on their models when on MFC. Sad but true.
Trav said:While that probably does happen, I'd wager it's far less common than 2 people actually becoming friends when they've spent a significant amount of time chatting with each other, regardless of any business relationship. If you get along with someone and have interesting/fun conversations, friendship is pretty natural. Manipulating people and keeping up the appearance of being a friend is far less natural.
HoldItNow said:Trav said:While that probably does happen, I'd wager it's far less common than 2 people actually becoming friends when they've spent a significant amount of time chatting with each other, regardless of any business relationship. If you get along with someone and have interesting/fun conversations, friendship is pretty natural. Manipulating people and keeping up the appearance of being a friend is far less natural.
I'll be your friend Trav.
For the right price.
Trav said:HoldIt, bb, we talked about this. I want to keep our relationship strictly professional.
Just Me said:I do not think you realize the lengths that some models/studios will go through to keep an illusion of friendship or even more. I have first hand knowledge that some studios encouraged this in the hopes that a member will spend more money on their models when on MFC. Sad but true.
The_Brown_Fox said:Just Me said:I do not think you realize the lengths that some models/studios will go through to keep an illusion of friendship or even more. I have first hand knowledge that some studios encouraged this in the hopes that a member will spend more money on their models when on MFC. Sad but true.
I'm not worried about what other models/studios do in their rooms. Some people are willing to deceive others for money, which is just sad. Thank goodness I'm not one of those people.
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