How can i as a mod cheer up a model in quiet room?

[fromagegay]

So OP can I just ask; is this some kind of fetish thing? Seems a bit odd she's block and unblock you so much, and that you would keep going back . But then you kind of imply that neither of you really know each other, and you're aware of that. Seems a less than logical thing might be going on? Is this somehow related to an odd fetish?

ETA; wait ... Did I just read she banned you 5 times, but then thought "Oh what the hey, may as well make him a Mod". Lol. Wtf?

No she was talking about how she was scammed by an agency and is now independant i said her show is awesome but she needs a good mod , because the chat insane. 2 seconds later my username was red. I was not implying she make me one Also she banned me twice 5 was an exaggeration . She banned me because when i first started viewing was talking alot in the chat and then i made a different account because i deleted my original because i was getting addicted to her room. She pmed my new account asking me what happened my old account i told her i deleted it and she banned me. I made another account to ask her why she banned me and she banned that aswell. About a month later i made another account and i was talking to her she knows who my accounts are because i switched to different accounts to mod and view without being a mod and she would respond to me in pm.

When i was a mod She said shit to me like kiss u and all this crap and happy valentines day etc etc If she just wanted me to mod and ignore me then she would have

I joined her fan club about a year ago for a couple of months and spoke alot to her then but it was always her who initiated it obviously doing her job as a mod she just spoke to me like i was just someone helping her out which is pretty much what it was and we made each other laugh i didnt hound her or badger her and i respected her boundaries

I dont really know insta ban was pretty crazy

 

[fromagegay]

So OP can I just ask; is this some kind of fetish thing? Seems a bit odd she's block and unblock you so much, and that you would keep going back . But then you kind of imply that neither of you really know each other, and you're aware of that. Seems a less than logical thing might be going on? Is this somehow related to an odd fetish?

ETA; wait ... Did I just read she banned you 5 times, but then thought "Oh what the hey, may as well make him a Mod". Lol. Wtf?

Lets just say its complicated

 

[fromagegay]

You said you sent her 15 PMs though, not just “a PM.”

One PM in response to one question is reasonable. 15 PMs in response to one question is, yeah, a bit crazy. And a distraction.

15 pms yeah she dyed her hair changed her outfit i mean i barely speak to her during her shows as a mod but we spoke enough to be on decent terms . She changes her look completley and i was noticing different things and was complimenting her . I mean a regular viewer would do that and not get banned a regular viewer could do that in the chat and they do all the time

 

[Schnauzevoll]

please take a deep breath. this reads like you are having a meltdown. really.

 

[fromagegay]

please take a deep breath. this reads like you are having a meltdown. really.

I Would disagree with you lmao you are obviously just trying to wind me up

 

[NotYou]

Can you explain more on this?
A little bit about my experience.. I have a mod for my room , she is a female early 30s... She genuinely holds the room together. I am so active in what I am doing and usually AFK and cant let new viewers what's going on etc. She also helps me promote or ban people that are disrespectful. She never "talks sexy" , tips or whatever but she's always engaging with me to keep me talking ( I am usually a quiet one especially in a dead room.) So by this aspect I feel like she could possibly be effecting my room, but I guess my question still stands on how a mod can hurt a room? & is my mod effecting mine?

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Many mods will overrun the public chat and room and it makes users leave. We want to go to the model for the model, not to be judged etc by the mod.
And there are way too many bad experiences with users and mods where the mod thinks he is the one in control and the boss and acts all high and mighty. People are there for fun, not for the nonsense mods bring.

Spam in public chat, whether it's all the stuff saying "tip guys" or whatever else, is very annoying.
A mod should certainly be one to answer questions if you're unable to, or to just stay in the background until needed, not to spam the chat, regardless of how quiet the room is.

Some mods will literally reply to EVERY comment all users make. We are there for the model. I am not there to make friends with random strangers, weird guys, guys pretending to be women to try get closer [as mods] to models, or anything else. It is more of a headache than anything, so this is why many will leave instantly.

 

[misterical]

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So she rejected me ... or i was distracting her ? Cams dont make any sense she likes me so she made me a mod . She doesnt like me because shes a cam model and im just a viewer i didnt say anything makes her a bitch im just genuinely confused as to how she can ban me so quickly its hardly rejection of it wasnt real in the first place. I mean shes seen pictures of me before . And we chatted for like 9 months and got on fine while i was modding and as soon as i logged on she asked me what i thought of her new look . She just reacted and im just trying to work out why she went straight to banning me. I mean shes seen pictures of me before and all i said did was say i like her new look. She said i was just distracting her a little bit

Also your looking too far into it i dont care any further about it if she doesnt like me or i am distracting thats fine end of this is camming after all its not real life

Your peojecting onto me you think anyone even knows anything about this cam girl hardly its someone i once spoke to online

Your literally arguing with me about something that hasnt even happened yeah beat a guy over the head why dont you

Bashing this poor girl no one has said anything about her if she doesnt like me thats fine i dont even know what your talking about she is a cam model she talks to me the same way she talks to everybody so its hardly rejection its not real i was distracting her so she banned me

I think the mistake was believing it was something it wasnt even if she liked me at all now she can continue to do the same to i dont know how many countless others

And i dont need people to cheer me up im a grown ass man o dont react badly to these things

Maybe she is only into guys with a good grasp of punctuation.

 

[fromagegay]

Many mods will overrun the public chat and room and it makes users leave. We want to go to the model for the model, not to be judged etc by the mod.
And there are way too many bad experiences with users and mods where the mod thinks he is the one in control and the boss and acts all high and mighty. People are there for fun, not for the nonsense mods bring.

Spam in public chat, whether it's all the stuff saying "tip guys" or whatever else, is very annoying.
A mod should certainly be one to answer questions if you're unable to, or to just stay in the background until needed, not to spam the chat, regardless of how quiet the room is.

Some mods will literally reply to EVERY comment all users make. We are there for the model. I am not there to make friends with random strangers, weird guys, guys pretending to be women to try get closer [as mods] to models, or anything else. It is more of a headache than anything, so this is why many will leave instantly.

I dont communicate to viewers , bare in mind im also a viewer myself and before modding. She shouldnt have made me a mod then especially since i didnt ask

 

[fromagegay]

Maybe she is only into guys with a good grasp of punctuation.

Shouldnt have made me a mod then

 

[misterical]

You’re killing me with the run-on sentences, and your long-windedness. It sounds like dealing with you was getting to be too much for her. And I can see why. She changed her look and asked you about it…then you “went crazy” and “sent her like 15 PMs…and a picture of your face?”

Totally agree. I'm already exhausted by him and he's not asked to see my tits or ass. God knows what he must be like in a room. Fuck's sake.

 

[misterical]

Shouldnt have made me a mod then

She made you a moderator to keep an eye on the chat in the room. Not because she's in love with you. You're just words on a screen dude.

 

[NotYou]

Just from your stupid responses like your most recent one, you'd definitely kill the room and mood for me and I would leave. If you have the attitude of "she shouldn't have made me a mod then", how about you ask her to un-mod you?

 

[fromagegay]

Just from your stupid responses like your most recent one, you'd definitely kill the room and mood for me and I would leave. If you have the attitude of "she shouldn't have made me a mod then", how about you ask her to un-mod you?

Because obviously i was happy to mod for her. I got to see a different side of her Well she banned me anyway after having spoken to her almost everyday for 9 months so thats a mood killer and im not particukarly concern buddy about how you feel in the room

 

[misterical]

Spam in public chat, whether it's all the stuff saying "tip guys" or whatever else, is very annoying.
A mod should certainly be one to answer questions if you're unable to, or to just stay in the background until needed, not to spam the chat, regardless of how quiet the room is.

Again yesterday, I had to endure the mod with the crazy profile (who we've discussed here before). I counted about 20 gifs from him in the space of about a minute and a half. Totally distracting, totally domineering, thanking viewers for tips, constant stream of adverts for tip menu items (in gif format) etc etc. Horrible experience.

OP: You seem to have mistaken being made a mod for an indication of her having feelings for you. As a moderator you are meant to deal with the annoying assholes in the room. Instead, you seem to actually be the annoying asshole in the room.

 

[fromagegay]

She made you a moderator to keep an eye on the chat in the room. Not because she's in love with you. You're just words on a screen dude.

Yeah i know that but its bizzarley addictive when she tells me her schedule , her daily goals, her profit margins , talks to me everyday about basic shit, asks me about the video footage, asks me about her new looks, how old i am, were i am from, her hobbies interests etc when i was a fan club member about 9 months ago she had already seen how i looked because i sent her pictures then yeah i know, and she later asked could she see my dick and tried selling me wattsapp alot, she knows what i look like i mean thats how she remembered me when i made a second account a month after i deleted the first account, i sent her the same pic of my face in pm and she strangely remembered who i was and asked me what happened my other account. I know im just words on a screen which is why i like an idiot send her a picture. When i was modding i switched between that account and another one to just be a viewer , she knows that account aswell. And i sent the same picture while i tipped her. Later on when i was modding on the other account i apologised said i was being an idiot and she asked me how old i was. Ive spoke to her for a while now like 9 months

 

[fromagegay]

Again yesterday, I had to endure the mod with the crazy profile (who we've discussed here before). I counted about 20 gifs from him in the space of about a minute and a half. Totally distracting, totally domineering, thanking viewers for tips, constant stream of adverts for tip menu items (in gif format) etc etc. Horrible experience.

OP: You seem to have mistaken being made a mod for an indication of her having feelings for you. As a moderator you are meant to deal with the annoying assholes in the room. Instead, you seem to actually be the annoying asshole in the room.

Not at all your mistaken she made me a mod to moderate i am not confused about that, i never said she had feelings for me and also i never used that many gifs. Its just a bit daft to ask someone to moderate and then ban them because they respond to you when you ask them

 

[misterical]

Yeah i know that but its bizzarley addictive when she tells me her schedule , her daily goals, her profit margins , talks to me everyday about basic shit, asks me about the video footage, asks me about her new looks, how old i am, were i am from, her hobbies interests etc when i was a fan club member about 9 months ago she had already seen how i looked because i sent her pictures then yeah i know, and she later asked could she see my dick and tried selling me wattsapp alot, she knows what i look like i mean thats how she remembered me when i made a second account a month after i deleted the first account, i sent her the same pic of my face in pm and she strangely remembered who i was and asked me what happened my other account. I know im just words on a screen which is why i like an idiot send her a picture. When i was modding i switched between that account and another one to just be a viewer , she knows that account aswell. And i sent the same picture while i tipped her. Later on when i was modding on the other account i apologised said i was being an idiot and she asked me how old i was. Ive spoke to her for a while now like 9 months

You've such a strong connection with her that she is selling you her Whatsapp. Think about that for a minute. Words on a screen, tokens in a balance guy.

 

[fromagegay]

You've such a strong connection with her that she is selling you her Whatsapp. Think about that for a minute. Words on a screen, tokens in a balance guy.

The wattsapp was months ago , she stopped trying to sell me stuff . I am well aware of the buisness . Thats probably why she made me a mod . Didnt say we had a strong connection . But we spoke alot and i made her smile and laugh . I myt be words on a screen.... but shes not

 

[yummybrownfox]

Actually what i said was "these" shows suck because they always leave you wanting more. the context was about not knowing the model beyond her persona if you actually read through the posts you will see what i meant . I never said "her" show sucks. She banned me for distracting her and yummybrown is in here talking about going online and bad mouthing with "the bros" about it like she was a gf or something and creating ridiculous scenarios out of thin air. Lets keep things in perspective shall we this is a cam site.

My name isn’t “yummybrown.” You can call me “fox,” “brownfox,” or “yummybrownfox.”

And I was just going on a tangent about how, often times, guys who behave like you tend to do that (Bash a woman for having the nerve to not have feelings for you). You may not necessarily be badmouthing her directly, but your comments (“These shows suck anyway”…”I loved her, and she didn’t care”) sound like you’re salty that she’s just not into you.

Yes, I’m glad to see you say that THIS IS A CAM SITE. So maybe keep that in mind the next time you think you’re “Ooh, she made me a mod…she asked to see my cock…she’s really feelin’ me.” If she’s banned you several times and then made you a mod even after that (and she still realizes it’s you with a new account), that seems weird. Maybe you were such a good spender that she kept wanting to get back to “making it rain” in her room, and she thought it’d be worth it to give you another chance. I don’t know. But it sounds like both of y’all need to just be done with each other, and stop doing this to yourself. Too much drama for a cam site which is supposed to be fun for everyone involved. Again…15 PMs back to back is too much. Hell, I’ve even had to ask a friend of mine recently to please tone it down with all the back to back Facebook Messenger messages. She kept dinging my phone with messages, instead of put her thoughts into small paragraphs. I’d prefer that over my phone dinging so many times with one little sentence.

 

[misterical]

Again yesterday, I had to endure the mod with the crazy profile (who we've discussed here before). I counted about 20 gifs from him in the space of about a minute and a half. Totally distracting, totally domineering, thanking viewers for tips, constant stream of adverts for tip menu items (in gif format) etc etc. Horrible experience.

OP: You seem to have mistaken being made a mod for an indication of her having feelings for you. As a moderator you are meant to deal with the annoying assholes in the room. Instead, you seem to actually be the annoying asshole in the room.

Case in point:

 

[fromagegay]

My name isn’t “yummybrown.” You can call me “fox,” “brownfox,” or “yummybrownfox.”

And I was just going on a tangent about how, often times, guys who behave like you tend to do that (Bash a woman for having the nerve to not have feelings for you). You may not necessarily be badmouthing her directly, but your comments (“These shows suck anyway”…”I loved her, and she didn’t care”) sound like you’re salty that she’s just not into you.

Yes, I’m glad to see you say that THIS IS A CAM SITE. So maybe keep that in mind the next time you think you’re “Ooh, she made me a mod…she asked to see my cock…she’s really feelin’ me.” If she’s banned you several times and then made you a mod even after that (and she still realizes it’s you with a new account), that seems weird. Maybe you were such a good spender that she kept wanting to get back to “making it rain” in her room, and she thought it’d be worth it to give you another chance. I don’t know. But it sounds like both of y’all need to just be done with each other, and stop doing this to yourself. Too much drama for a cam site which is supposed to be fun for everyone involved. Again…15 PMs back to back is too much. Hell, I’ve even had to ask a friend of mine recently to please tone it down with all the back to back Facebook Messenger messages. She kept dinging my phone with messages, instead of put her thoughts into small paragraphs. I’d prefer that over my phone dinging so many times with one little sentence.

The last time i tipped her was about 6 months ago, i like to think she just liked how i spoke to her i mean there was virtually no reason to want me around the room because she couldnt peak my interest with wattsapp snapchat etc and i just said genuine shit to her so that was my only believing why she was communicating with me at all im not salty shes not into me im salty because of the dynamic .... so your telling me models are into some viewers, how would we know considering she treats us all in a similar way.

 

[fromagegay]

Case in point:
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I know ive seen how annoying mods are... so why is this available .... i think its just another way of making viewers get attached and it also manipulates regular viewers who think shes got a mod now

 

[yummybrownfox]

The last time i tipped her was about 6 months ago, im not salty shes not into me im salty because of the dynamic .... so your telling me models are into some viewers, how would we know considering she treats us all in a similar way.

WHERE IN MY POST did I say that? When I said “give you another chance,” I was referring to her allowing you back into your room. Stop putting words in my mouth. You are exhausting. Stop “falling in love” with cam models, and find something else to do with your time.

And there’s another piece of the puzzle…you haven’t tipped the girl in 6 months. It figures you didn’t mention that in your original post…..

So…you sent her money via private shows? Or sent her money outside the cam site? Or you just straight up didn’t give her any money in 6 months? I’m about to go to work, and I’m not reading through this whole thread right now…

 

[fromagegay]

WHERE IN MY POST did I say that? When I said “give you another chance,” I was referring to her allowing you back into your room. Stop putting words in my mouth. You are exhausting. Stop “falling in love” with cam models, and find something else to do with your time.

And there’s another piece of the puzzle…you haven’t tipped the girl in 6 months. It figures you didn’t mention that in your original post…..

So…you sent her money via private shows? Or sent her money outside the cam site? Or you just straight up didn’t give her any money in 6 months? I’m about to go to work, and I’m not reading through this whole thread right now…

Say what in your post. Yeah i know what you meant by give me another chance to tip, its the your salty shes not into you ...im not implying she was but shes bound to be marginally into some viewers even a little bit. I dont mean like she wants to be with you or anything.

But just the dynamic. I dont know she let me back i always apologised if she banned me and yeah to give me another chance to tip i get it, but then she made me mod and the dynamic changed. We started communicating more like 2 mature adults not a paying customer , to the point we were joking about performing sex acts or she was to me. She said that once but she was obviously just winding me up and said yes i think this will happen lol she wished me happy valentines day, asked me how old i was after i messed about with the pic on another account that she knows off, .

Yea i hadnt tipped her in like 6 months im currently not working and i told her that i told her on one of her broadcasts i have to leave for a job interview. She obviously knew i wasnt going to be dropping serious cash . She doesnt even need a mod and already has 3 other mods. I hear what your saying i have obviously gotten carried away with modding the fact she discloses things like her daily targets, profit margins, her hobbies, a video game shes playing, asks me how old i am , we shared a few laughs and she looked genuinely happy when i replied back to happy valentines day. Apart from that i sometimes think she liked having a mod when it was quiet to charge her sexual energy. Honestly who knows why any model has a mod around who can freely communicate with her who knows .

I am obviously getting carried away with the dynamic which is probably designed to have this exact effect.

I Am usually fairly neutral when i was modding and keep my distance but when she changed her look and schedule and the second i logged in she pmd me asking what i thought of her new look. I mean its all a bit of a mind fuck really. Especially since i last tipped any cash was about 6 months ago

ok ,well thank you , i appreciate your input

 

[misterical]

Say what in your post. Yeah i know what you meant by give me another chance to tip, its the your salty shes not into you ...im not implying she was but shes bound to be marginally into some viewers even a little bit. I dont mean like she wants to be with you or anything.

But just the dynamic. I dont know she let me back i always apologised if she banned me and yeah to give me another chance to tip i get it, but then she made me mod and the dynamic changed. We started communicating more like 2 mature adults not a paying customer , to the point we were joking about performing sex acts or she was to me. She said that once but she was obviously just winding me up and said yes i think this will happen lol she wished me happy valentines day, asked me how old i was after i messed about with the pic on another account that she knows off, .

Yea i hadnt tipped her in like 6 months im currently not working and i told her that i told her on one of her broadcasts i have to leave for a job interview. She obviously knew i wasnt going to be dropping serious cash . She doesnt even need a mod and already has 3 other mods. I hear what your saying i have obviously gotten carried away with modding the fact she discloses things like her daily targets, profit margins, her hobbies, a video game shes playing, asks me how old i am , we shared a few laughs and she looked genuinely happy when i replied back to happy valentines day. Apart from that i sometimes think she liked having a mod when it was quiet to charge her sexual energy. Honestly who knows why any model has a mod around who can freely communicate with her who knows .

I am obviously getting carried away with the dynamic which is probably designed to have this exact effect.

I Am usually fairly neutral when i was modding and keep my distance but when she changed her look and schedule and the second i logged in she pmd me asking what i thought of her new look. I mean its all a bit of a mind fuck really. Especially since i last tipped any cash was about 6 months ago

ok ,well thank you , i appreciate your input

Jesus, you didn't tip her in 6 months, yet you are sending her 15 PMs in a row when she's trying to make money from people who actually do tip? No wonder she banned you.

 

[fromagegay]

Edit: she sent me gifs like damn hes sexy . So obviously fucking with my head

 

[fromagegay]

Jesus, you didn't tip her in 6 months, yet you are sending her 15 PMs in a row when she's trying to make money from people who actually do tip? No wonder she banned you.

SO what getting me to mod i suppose myt increase those numbers , she has 3 mods who tip her 1 token

Last time i tipped her anything real was when i first started viewing i had 2000 tokens in my account and was addicted to her room i told her this and was deleting my account and wanted her to have then yeah i know. I later became fan club member. At one point she was threatening me to buy her a new toy or she would stop responding . I never bought her a $180 toy at that point i stopped tipping. Except here and there. I didnt hassle her either. Its when she made me a mod an unbanned the other accounts. Bare in mind i had not been talking to her or badgering her. But she knew i had been around for 9 months because she told me

I understand its about tokens , but its all a bit of a mind fuck and thats the way its designed to be maybe im just playing the game wrong ... obviously... i just liked her that was it... and i tried to keep hold of ny cash

Well thank god thats over

 

[AudriTwo]

Why are you trying so hard to blame her for your behavior?


How old are you OP? and how old is she?

 

[fromagegay]

Why are you trying so hard to blame her for your behavior?


How old are you OP? and how old is she?

Im not "blaming" anyone im definitley not blaming her , its the dynamic and how it plays out it has the potential to be very misleading

And yeah i suppose theres an age gap

I dont know what her "real" age is i am 34 my guess is shes about 25

 

[AudriTwo]

I dont know what her "real" age is i am 34 my guess is shes about 25

i dont care about the age gap but your behavior is something i'd expect from 19 year olds. not a 34 year old man. it's time to grow up.

dude all of this is immature and quite frankly, exhausting. are you exhausted? because i sure am. you are trying so hard to paint her in a bad light. i'm not going to say anything negative about her, because she ain't here to defend or share her perspective. but you are trying to cast blame on her. it's easier to do that than take accountability.

the fact that you haven't tipped her in 6 months is insulting and tells me you only care about yourself. it was never about making her feel good. camming is a job for cammodels. it's fine if you couldn't afford it, but you had zero business being on a camsite if you couldn't afford it. you are what we in the business call an emotional wanker. emotional wankers just want attention, good or bad.