How can i as a mod cheer up a model in quiet room?

[AudriTwo]

Its all good she banned me anyway

 

[Vixxen81]

This thread should be the benchmark for all future "are mods good" threads.

 

[Southernbarbii]

The story's probably a little different if the room is empty and I don't know your exact situation, but if your mod looks like they're completely dominating the room, as a viewer I'm going to think you're getting everything you need out of that interaction and not want to waste my time and money.

If your goal is to make money, I feel like if they're commanding your attention and not giving anything in return they're just taking advantage of you.

Bingo. The OP said she banned him so I’m guessing the latter was at play in this case.

 

[MarieElise]

Yeah I've had a few guys I avoid on SM for that reason. Yeah they buy shows and spend well, but they also take it upon themselves to "keep me company" through long shifts. Effectively driving all other business away. I end up just walking away from people like that, because camping out in free chat, taking all my attention, is a major turn off to other guys.

Not to mention I'm an introvert. "Keeping me company", drains the fuck out of me. I don't find it pleasurable.
I like to email back and forth with other models when I'm bored or lonely, not guys on the sites.

And I have plenty of model friends to do that with, that keep it exciting.
Sometimes I wish people just wouldn't take it upon themselves to do other people "favors".
People assume we are all sex workers because we have no friends and no family, and we are so in need of rescuing. Ummm nope. No thanks. Good here!
The only thing that might be a little different about me, and the viewers, personality-wise, is that I just dgaf. I'm a non conformist. That's it. I don't listen to what society tells me, or religion tells me. And IDGAF what other people's thoughts are on me not doing that Lots of friends, lots of family.

 

[fromagegay]

Yeah I've had a few guys I avoid on SM for that reason. Yeah they buy shows and spend well, but they also take it upon themselves to "keep me company" through long shifts. Effectively driving all other business away. I end up just walking away from people like that, because camping out in free chat, taking all my attention, is a major turn off to other guys.

Not to mention I'm an introvert. "Keeping me company", drains the fuck out of me. I don't find it pleasurable.
I like to email back and forth with other models when I'm bored or lonely, not guys on the sites.

And I have plenty of model friends to do that with, that keep it exciting.
Sometimes I wish people just wouldn't take it upon themselves to do other people "favors".

Thats not why she banned me she got a new look and asked me better? I went crazy and probably sent her like 15pms and picture of my face . Lmao she banned all my accounts but i made another one tipped her and apologised she said i was distracting her which was fair enough

 

[Vixxen81]

Thats not why she banned me she got a new look and asked me better? I went crazy and probably sent her like 15pms and picture of my face . Lmao she banned all my accounts but i made another one tipped her and apologised she said i was distracting her which was fair enough

She didn't ban all of your accounts, CB did. Just for clarification for anyone reading this. When a person is banned all of their associated accounts are banned as well.

A fan club member who decided to test me with a not known to me account got banned by me. He sent me a message on OF asking why I banned his known to me account. I didn't. As soon as I cleared the hidden bans and silences he could get back into the room.

To this day he still denies it was him and claims he was hacked but it's simply not true.

 

[fromagegay]

She didn't ban all of your accounts, CB did. Just for clarification for anyone reading this. When a person is banned all of their associated accounts are banned as well.

A fan club member who decided to test me with a not known to me account got banned by me. He sent me a message on OF asking why I banned his known to me account. I didn't. As soon as I cleared the hidden bans and silences he could get back into the room.

To this day he still denies it was him and claims he was hacked but it's simply not true.

Yeah i know im aware of that , its ip or bank card related. Yeah i dont think ill be going back to the room if she even clears them

 

[Vixxen81]

Yeah i know im aware of that , its ip or bank card related. Yeah i dont think ill be going back to the room

Ok. Some people don't know about it.

Probably for the best. Tons of rooms to choose from.

 

[MarieElise]

Thats not why she banned me she got a new look and asked me better? I went crazy and probably sent her like 15pms and picture of my face . Lmao she banned all my accounts but i made another one tipped her and apologised she said i was distracting her which was fair enough

was talking in general terms about the topic. since you were banned it seemed your specific stuff, in this thread got resolved, so I was moving forward with further related conversation.

 

[misterical]

Its all good she banned me anyway

Anyone see this coming?

 

[fromagegay]

Anyone see this coming?

Yes i did was inevitable these shows suck anyway always leave you wanting more. Not my fault i loved her and she didnt care

 

[MarieElise]

these shows suck anyway always leave you wanting more.

that's actually a sign she was giving really good shows.
it's not her shows that suck, it's your inability to handle the context.
You're clearly not a good match for camsites.

You were infatuated. You cannot love a person, who you only saw part of an online persona of. That's just called being infatuated or having a crush.
ETA; and that's fine, not a context everyone can handle. When that happens best to bow out, and leave camsites be.

 

[fromagegay]

that's actually a sign she was giving really good shows.
it's not her shows that suck, it's your inability to handle the context.
You're clearly not a good match for camsites.

You were infatuated. You cannot love a person, who you only saw part of an online persona of. That's just called being infatuated or having a crush.
ETA; and that's fine, not a context everyone can handle. When that happens best to bow out, and leave camsites be.

Yeah i know .... shes awesome. I can handle the context i just like her too much because of the lack of context because i dont know her shes awesome for what little i do know

 

[MarieElise]

i just like her too much because of the lack of context because i dont know her

Ok then on some level you must realize what you're "in love" with, is a projection from your own mind, then.

 

[fromagegay]

Ok then on some level you must realize what you're "in love" with, is a projection from your own mind, then.

Yep

 

[MarieElise]

Yep

happens to the best of us

 

[yummybrownfox]

Yes i did was inevitable these shows suck anyway always leave you wanting more. Not my fault i loved her and she didnt care

Lol. I’m sorry, but men who say shit like “ShE pUt Me In ThE fRiEnD zOnE, bRuH” get on my nerves. Men who think they’re entitled to a woman’s affection/phone number/body just because HE has a thing for her…or he’s been friends with her for some time (or he pretended to be her friend)…then when she doesn’t feel the same about you, y’all complain about her to others, and you act like it makes her a bitch. Some guys will even post on social media to get their friends to be like “Fuck her, bro. She doesn’t deserve you anyway.” Lol. Now ya got people (who don’t even know her) bashing the poor girl just to try to cheer you up. Lol. Y’all need to stop it with that shit…..

Rejection is a part of life, and something that we ALL have to deal with from time to time.

 

[fromagegay]

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Lol. I’m sorry, but men who say shit like “ShE pUt Me In ThE fRiEnD zOnE, bRuH” get on my nerves. Men who think they’re entitled to a woman’s affection/phone number/body just because HE has a thing for her…or he’s been friends with her for some time (or he pretended to be her friend)…then when she doesn’t feel the same about you, y’all complain about her to others, and you act like it makes her a bitch. Some guys will even post on social media to get their friends to be like “Fuck her, bro. She doesn’t deserve you anyway.” Lol. Now ya got people (who don’t even know her) bashing the poor girl just to try to cheer you up. Lol. Y’all need to stop it with that shit…..

Rejection is a part of life, and something that we ALL have to deal with from time to time.

So she rejected me ... or i was distracting her ? Cams dont make any sense she likes me so she made me a mod . She doesnt like me because shes a cam model and im just a viewer i didnt say anything makes her a bitch im just genuinely confused as to how she can ban me so quickly its hardly rejection of it wasnt real in the first place. I mean shes seen pictures of me before . And we chatted for like 9 months and got on fine while i was modding and as soon as i logged on she asked me what i thought of her new look . She just reacted and im just trying to work out why she went straight to banning me. I mean shes seen pictures of me before and all i said did was say i like her new look. She said i was just distracting her a little bit

Also your looking too far into it i dont care any further about it if she doesnt like me or i am distracting thats fine end of this is camming after all its not real life

Your peojecting onto me you think anyone even knows anything about this cam girl hardly its someone i once spoke to online

Your literally arguing with me about something that hasnt even happened yeah beat a guy over the head why dont you

Bashing this poor girl no one has said anything about her if she doesnt like me thats fine i dont even know what your talking about she is a cam model she talks to me the same way she talks to everybody so its hardly rejection its not real i was distracting her so she banned me

I think the mistake was believing it was something it wasnt even if she liked me at all now she can continue to do the same to i dont know how many countless others

And i dont need people to cheer me up im a grown ass man o dont react badly to these things

 

[fromagegay]

Lol. I’m sorry, but men who say shit like “ShE pUt Me In ThE fRiEnD zOnE, bRuH” get on my nerves. Men who think they’re entitled to a woman’s affection/phone number/body just because HE has a thing for her…or he’s been friends with her for some time (or he pretended to be her friend)…then when she doesn’t feel the same about you, y’all complain about her to others, and you act like it makes her a bitch. Some guys will even post on social media to get their friends to be like “Fuck her, bro. She doesn’t deserve you anyway.” Lol. Now ya got people (who don’t even know her) bashing the poor girl just to try to cheer you up. Lol. Y’all need to stop it with that shit…..

Rejection is a part of life, and something that we ALL have to deal with from time to time.

I mean in previous posts were talking about the lack of context and "falling" for a persona. I mean what context does she have of me ....almost none so its all well and good to think im going to lead up to the bad guy when shes banning me and having basically no context at all so im not exactly sensitive to "rejection"

Lets try and keep things in perspective bad mouthing her like any of this was real

And if she "rejected" me because i sent her a picture although i have done a few times before over 9 months and it was because of that then im totally fine with that but she just banned me and then said i was distracting her . If its becaise i sent her a picture just be honest its when people dont know they react badly to shit but yeah who care like any of this is real anyway

Shes banned me like 5 times she unbanned me when she made me her mod then yep banned me again like i said it was inevitable i didnt ask her to be her mod she just made me mod

 

[fromagegay]

Lol. I’m sorry, but men who say shit like “ShE pUt Me In ThE fRiEnD zOnE, bRuH” get on my nerves. Men who think they’re entitled to a woman’s affection/phone number/body just because HE has a thing for her…or he’s been friends with her for some time (or he pretended to be her friend)…then when she doesn’t feel the same about you, y’all complain about her to others, and you act like it makes her a bitch. Some guys will even post on social media to get their friends to be like “Fuck her, bro. She doesn’t deserve you anyway.” Lol. Now ya got people (who don’t even know her) bashing the poor girl just to try to cheer you up. Lol. Y’all need to stop it with that shit…..

Rejection is a part of life, and something that we ALL have to deal with from time to time.

Shes banned me before its not really rejection when she basically knows next to nothing about me so whatever.. hey bro the cam girl banned me she doesnt deserve you bro i mean what the hell did she make me her mod for anyway she knows what im like shes banned me 5 times

 

[yummybrownfox]

Thats not why she banned me she got a new look and asked me better? I went crazy and probably sent her like 15pms and picture of my face . Lmao she banned all my accounts but i made another one tipped her and apologised she said i was distracting her which was fair enough

You’re killing me with the run-on sentences, and your long-windedness. It sounds like dealing with you was getting to be too much for her. And I can see why. She changed her look and asked you about it…then you “went crazy” and “sent her like 15 PMs…and a picture of your face?”

She didn’t have those same feelings as you, and now you’re on here talking about “These shows suck anyway” and “I loved her, and she didn’t care.” That’s really the part of your post that irritated me. It’s sour grapes because she doesn’t share your feelings. You became obsessed. Don’t make anymore accounts. Banned you 5 times? Good grief. She clearly doesn’t want you in her room. Stop forcing a model to deal with you…when she’s made it clear she doesn’t want you in her room. It’s so creepy. Please just move on.

 

[fromagegay]

You’re killing me with the run-on sentences, and your long-windedness. It sounds like dealing with you was getting to be too much for her. And I can see why. She changed her look and asked you about it…then you “went crazy” and “sent her like 15 PMs…and a picture of your face?”

She didn’t have those same feelings as you, and now you’re on here talking about “These shows suck anyway” and “I loved her, and she didn’t care.” That’s really the part of your post that irritated me. It’s sour grapes because she doesn’t share your feelings. You became obsessed. Don’t make anymore accounts. Banned you 5 times? Good grief. She clearly doesn’t want you in her room. Stop forcing a model to deal with you…when she’s made it clear she doesn’t want you in her room. It’s so creepy. Please just move on.

your here making up scenarios of something i havent done or said and are like please bro just move on. I think you need your head seen to

The post before you was the end of it

I think you have problems of your own and are trying to dump them onto me

It has literally nothing to do with you

Ive already moved on love you know back to the real world

Have a good one PEACE

 

[Vixxen81]

Oh bb if.you breathe wrong I'm banning you. I have way more shit on my plate than your hard dick.

 

[yummybrownfox]

your here making up scenarios of something i havent done or said and are like please bro just move on. I think you need your head seen to

The post before you was the end of it

I think you have problems of your own and are trying to dump them onto me

It has literally nothing to do with you

Ive already moved on love you know back to the real world

Have a good one PEACE

I don’t need to make anything up…especially since you’ve already admitted to us that you were acting crazy in your interactions with her. If you’ve truly moved on, that means you’re not gonna make another account to bother her (for her to ban you for a 6th time), right? Great. Have a lovely evening.

 

[AudriTwo]

this is a whiplash of a thread. "help on cheering model up" to "her show sucks"

 

[fromagegay]

this is a whiplash of a thread. "help on cheering model up" to "her show sucks"

Actually what i said was "these" shows suck because they always leave you wanting more. the context was about not knowing the model beyond her persona if you actually read through the posts you will see what i meant . I never said "her" show sucks. She banned me for distracting her and yummybrown is in here talking about going online and bad mouthing with "the bros" about it like she was a gf or something and creating ridiculous scenarios out of thin air. Lets keep things in perspective shall we this is a cam site.

 

[fromagegay]

You’re killing me with the run-on sentences, and your long-windedness. It sounds like dealing with you was getting to be too much for her. And I can see why. She changed her look and asked you about it…then you “went crazy” and “sent her like 15 PMs…and a picture of your face?”

She didn’t have those same feelings as you, and now you’re on here talking about “These shows suck anyway” and “I loved her, and she didn’t care.” That’s really the part of your post that irritated me. It’s sour grapes because she doesn’t share your feelings. You became obsessed. Don’t make anymore accounts. Banned you 5 times? Good grief. She clearly doesn’t want you in her room. Stop forcing a model to deal with you…when she’s made it clear she doesn’t want you in her room. It’s so creepy. Please just move on.

How could she have shared feelings its a cam site. Its very misleading though as to what is acceptable considering she is "masterbating" for 9 hours a day while talking to me. I mean yoi can hardly blame people for sending her a pm to say she looks amazing after she bloody asked me. Yeah im the crazy one in this situation

 

[MarieElise]

So OP can I just ask; is this some kind of fetish thing? Seems a bit odd she's block and unblock you so much, and that you would keep going back . But then you kind of imply that neither of you really know each other, and you're aware of that. Seems a less than logical thing might be going on? Is this somehow related to an odd fetish?

ETA; wait ... Did I just read she banned you 5 times, but then thought "Oh what the hey, may as well make him a Mod". Lol. Wtf?

 

[Smoothie]

I mean yoi can hardly blame people for sending her a pm to say she looks amazing after she bloody asked me. Yeah im the crazy one in this situation

You said you sent her 15 PMs though, not just “a PM.”

One PM in response to one question is reasonable. 15 PMs in response to one question is, yeah, a bit crazy. And a distraction.

 

[LilyLaughing]

I went crazy and probably sent her like 15pms

Yeah im the crazy one in this situation

Are you okay? A break from the internet is always an option.