I think (or have the illusion) that I’m friends with some East Europe cam models. Ok, only internet friends, not real life friends. But we are connected on Facebook or are email pen pals. With 2 there are Skype sessions from our own homes, not studio. Normal Skype sessions, not xxx fun, just chatting, with clothes on. So, what did work for me to get online friends with cam models?
- You must first be a regular in the models room for some time, be nice, proof you are a kind person.
- It did also help that when I did go for xxx fun, it was very ‘normal’, just 2 naked bodies cam2cam masturbating, no toys, no anal, no fetish. It looks like models are relieved thy get a normal person in pvt ... (and a tip to my colleague perverts, smile afterwards, stay a few minutes in pvt after cum, look like you are in heaven now. Of course models do not get horny from the sight of a naked middle-age man wanking, they see that to much, but the idea that they did make a other person happy, some models do like that and feel proud on their work).
- No sex at all is even better
I have 3 online friends from the LiveJasmin Soul Mates & Hot Flirt there was never xxx fun between the model and me.
- Outside the cam sites the sex part must not exists at all. Thats part of the model/member business on cam sites, the model gets money, I get sexual satisfaction. Its stupid to think that you can bring that outside that environment.
- How older the model how better
Im 45, to share things about life, the other person must be 35+, it works better that way. There are young cam models in their early twenties with who I have this kind of contact with, its interesting when they talk about their plans for life, however those contacts are not deep.
( above are not 'rules' or things I demand, im just analysing why some model/member relations did evolve to friendship )
So, now I have a few East Europe models in my Facebook friend list, there is nothing that indicates its adult cam related. One (male) colleague did guess it, I just smiled stupidly and did not say anything. And their is a real life friend who does’nt need to ask to understand what it is.
Its interesting, a peek in the lives of persons so different then me. To share things in our lives. To have a facebook chat when you come home and want to talk. Some friendships slowly faded away. Some of those friendships are ended, because one party could not handle it, getting feelings and wanted more. Some are there for a long time now, im happy with it, a enrichment of my (online) life.