Hi all -
I'm a newbie here, and pretty much a newbie to watching cam girls in general. I hang out a different site, but I have read some of the posts here and you all seem pretty cool and honest, so here goes. I don't know what gets long and boring, so apologies if this goes into that place.
So, I am on this other site, and have been for 6 mos. I never went private. I mean, never. I went into rooms, made my list of faves, and regularly dropped in on the rooms of about 4-5 women I tried to tip $10 to each every week or so, sometimes more, sometimes less. I never stayed long in a room -10-20 min tops. Usually I was there less because she's go private or I had the guys on the floor needing me at work or I was off work and so damn tired I was worried I would say something stupid if I stayed long. I'm the type of guy who goes in, says hi, never says bb, is nice, finds an opening for real complements and some good laughs, tips, and heads out. It was fun, the girls were sexy, and it broke up my day.
One woman though stood out - very charming, very funny, very kind and fair but firm with her room, sexy and teasing as well. It was clear she had been doing this for some time and had a big fan base, but she was also comfortable enough to show a bit of herself. One day she said you (me) should save your tips for a private. So, strangely, I was soon thinking of a private with her, but I also did not want the first private to be be either her seeing my junk the minute the private opened, or even all about getting off. So, I set up a "pre-date" - a tour of where I work ( I own my own little shop) on an evening I had closed, so we could just talk and get to know each other better. She knew it was a pre-date, but not what it would entail other than a no- junk greeting.
Well, the date went - superbly. That's the freaking word. The first and ultimately best part was that I couldn't get my camera to work - which turned out to be me being an idiot and not clicking on the camera button on her site. So I'm like crap , I want to show her the shop, she's saying that she wants to see me, and she looks amazing, I have a new shirt and haircut, and I can't show shit, let alone junk or shop. That was a blessing in a way, so we talked for an hour, til I ran out of tokens. Er... ran out of tokens after I added some. She said she had really been wanting to meet me, made me laugh my ass off, and she did too - we also talked a few serious things about camming, about men and women, and paid each other some really nice and heartfelt compliments. She made my day. Hell, my week.
So, kind, flirty emails and dropping in on her room over the next week, I had an idea. We both want to have another kinda pre-date so she could see me and the shop, but I have to be a bit frugal . But I don't have a ton of cash, and being surprisingly (to me) in deep smit with this woman, I still have payroll, rent, supplies, house payment etc. I ain't crazy, but I don't want just 15-20 min increments of this woman.
Anyway, we go on a week with messages and room chatter. Then, Mr. Wonderful here gets an idea - she had told a funny story about saving her favorite stuffed bear from the bin. So, I find an animal sanctuary in her state (have no idea what city she is in, nor do I care), and sponsor a real bear in her name - first name only, I have never asked and will never ask for her last name. I went in her room to tell her about it, cuz I wanted to see her face when I told her. Turns out so did a whole lot of other guys, and I felt like part of a tidal wave of testosterone on the poor woman. She tried to acknowledge what I had said but then boom - private again. So I send her a message saying again what I did, my apologies for being part of the tidal wave, my reasoning for the gift, and where she can see a picture of the bear I adopted for, well, us I guess. I said I hoped she liked it. She hasn't had time to read the email or respond to it, so jury is still out on her actual reaction.
FINALLY this guys gets to the punchline - I thought, well, what if it rolls off her back and she say "eh." I'm a kind of romantic guy, and I thought this would be a nice thing to do - showing I pay attention to detail and I can think up an interesting gift. If that rolls off, well, I'll admit it - there would be a bit of a sting there. Maybe she was just being nice, and the superb chat for me was just another talk with a nice guy for her. But NOW I am wondering if that was too real life too soon, and if that will freak her out. A little too pushy or close to home from a guy with one date. From funny nice slow guy to Say Hello to Uncle Creepy is a single bound. Just too new to know protocol, and too much in smit to have put the brakes on a (maybe too early?) romantic idea.
So there it is - good, thoughtful gift, or a creepy mistake? Future advice welcome as well - including that I probably need an editor.
I'm a newbie here, and pretty much a newbie to watching cam girls in general. I hang out a different site, but I have read some of the posts here and you all seem pretty cool and honest, so here goes. I don't know what gets long and boring, so apologies if this goes into that place.
So, I am on this other site, and have been for 6 mos. I never went private. I mean, never. I went into rooms, made my list of faves, and regularly dropped in on the rooms of about 4-5 women I tried to tip $10 to each every week or so, sometimes more, sometimes less. I never stayed long in a room -10-20 min tops. Usually I was there less because she's go private or I had the guys on the floor needing me at work or I was off work and so damn tired I was worried I would say something stupid if I stayed long. I'm the type of guy who goes in, says hi, never says bb, is nice, finds an opening for real complements and some good laughs, tips, and heads out. It was fun, the girls were sexy, and it broke up my day.
One woman though stood out - very charming, very funny, very kind and fair but firm with her room, sexy and teasing as well. It was clear she had been doing this for some time and had a big fan base, but she was also comfortable enough to show a bit of herself. One day she said you (me) should save your tips for a private. So, strangely, I was soon thinking of a private with her, but I also did not want the first private to be be either her seeing my junk the minute the private opened, or even all about getting off. So, I set up a "pre-date" - a tour of where I work ( I own my own little shop) on an evening I had closed, so we could just talk and get to know each other better. She knew it was a pre-date, but not what it would entail other than a no- junk greeting.
Well, the date went - superbly. That's the freaking word. The first and ultimately best part was that I couldn't get my camera to work - which turned out to be me being an idiot and not clicking on the camera button on her site. So I'm like crap , I want to show her the shop, she's saying that she wants to see me, and she looks amazing, I have a new shirt and haircut, and I can't show shit, let alone junk or shop. That was a blessing in a way, so we talked for an hour, til I ran out of tokens. Er... ran out of tokens after I added some. She said she had really been wanting to meet me, made me laugh my ass off, and she did too - we also talked a few serious things about camming, about men and women, and paid each other some really nice and heartfelt compliments. She made my day. Hell, my week.
So, kind, flirty emails and dropping in on her room over the next week, I had an idea. We both want to have another kinda pre-date so she could see me and the shop, but I have to be a bit frugal . But I don't have a ton of cash, and being surprisingly (to me) in deep smit with this woman, I still have payroll, rent, supplies, house payment etc. I ain't crazy, but I don't want just 15-20 min increments of this woman.
Anyway, we go on a week with messages and room chatter. Then, Mr. Wonderful here gets an idea - she had told a funny story about saving her favorite stuffed bear from the bin. So, I find an animal sanctuary in her state (have no idea what city she is in, nor do I care), and sponsor a real bear in her name - first name only, I have never asked and will never ask for her last name. I went in her room to tell her about it, cuz I wanted to see her face when I told her. Turns out so did a whole lot of other guys, and I felt like part of a tidal wave of testosterone on the poor woman. She tried to acknowledge what I had said but then boom - private again. So I send her a message saying again what I did, my apologies for being part of the tidal wave, my reasoning for the gift, and where she can see a picture of the bear I adopted for, well, us I guess. I said I hoped she liked it. She hasn't had time to read the email or respond to it, so jury is still out on her actual reaction.
FINALLY this guys gets to the punchline - I thought, well, what if it rolls off her back and she say "eh." I'm a kind of romantic guy, and I thought this would be a nice thing to do - showing I pay attention to detail and I can think up an interesting gift. If that rolls off, well, I'll admit it - there would be a bit of a sting there. Maybe she was just being nice, and the superb chat for me was just another talk with a nice guy for her. But NOW I am wondering if that was too real life too soon, and if that will freak her out. A little too pushy or close to home from a guy with one date. From funny nice slow guy to Say Hello to Uncle Creepy is a single bound. Just too new to know protocol, and too much in smit to have put the brakes on a (maybe too early?) romantic idea.
So there it is - good, thoughtful gift, or a creepy mistake? Future advice welcome as well - including that I probably need an editor.
