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I suggest you make another account. Approach her with this one and see how far you can get. If you are ok with what you learn, then proceed.
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If you this is just a fantasy that you don't ever intend to take into real life, don't fuck with the fantasy. Enjoy what you have. You poke at it too much, you might ruin a good thing.
If you feel like this could be a real relationship, and she's telling you she feels the same way, then there's really only one thing to do. Ask her first, and if she's ok with it, and you can afford it, go see her.
Just use common sense if it's a country that has a reputation for being dangerous.
If you feel like this could be a real relationship, and she's telling you she feels the same way, then there's really only one thing to do. Ask her first, and if she's ok with it, and you can afford it, go see her.
Just use common sense if it's a country that has a reputation for being dangerous.
This post made me say outloud, "Oooh, that's a good idea!" complete with head nod of approval. My dog just looked at me like I was crazy.
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Ugh no! This is just as bad and annoying as people who used to make fake myspace accounts to try and catch their middle school lover cheating with the fake girls they created. This is fucking crazy. No no no. Just no.
Dog is right. This calls for an "are you crazy" look from a dog.
How is that wrong though? He just could use it to see if she treats and talks to every guy the same way and to know if he is special or not. Its really the only way to know. She could be doing this to every single member for all he knows. If she is he can find out and cut his losses. I see not one thing wrong with testing it out. And really IRL I see nothing wrong with it either. If someone is true and faithful they wont have anything to worry about. If they are cheating though Id rather know. Ive never done this to anyone but I would if I felt the need to test someones loyalty.
I dunno. I mean, I see your point, Jilly. But it sounds like this dude is falling in love with the camgirl. Now there's three options: walk away NOW before it gets worse, fall even harder for her and find out that she loves him back, or fall harder and find out that she's just doing her job. However, if she IS just telling him the same lies she tells other customers ("You're the first person I text when I wake up), it might be nice to know up front. I mean, I know that we're selling a fantasy, but that fantasy has ruined so many lives because men fall for it sometimes. Then we get these guys coming here (or other media outlets) saying, "Woe is me. I thought she loved me, but she just took hundreds of thousands of dollars and she was actually married the whole time!"
I get what you're saying, Jilly. But trying to see it from his point of view, that would be an easy way to skip this limbo that he's in. Either figure out that she's just working him or that she's actually into him. Every relationship needs trust. But if you're only seeing what she wants you to see, it's hard to know if that trust is realistic. It'd be similar to falling for a stripper. You don't know if she's actually in love with you or just trying to drain your wallet. So if your friends go there, you could casually ask them what they thought of "the red-head with the shoulder tattoo." If they each said that she had given them each her phone number, you would know that you aren't as special to her as it seemed.
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@I_Am_Iris @Teagan I guess it just reminds me so much of those crazy middle school girls who literally entrapped their little puppy loves into falling for an imaginary person.
I guess that I prefer to trust people. I have been told I'm naive, and maybe it's true. But I'd rather not waste time questioning a good thing and just enjoy a good thing. Of course you run the risk that it's not really good, but you move on from it.
I can definitely see the point of it. But how would you feel if you found out that a potential lover had done that to you? I would think they were a creep and a jerk! Even if I'd passed their little test.
I guess that I prefer to trust people. I have been told I'm naive, and maybe it's true. But I'd rather not waste time questioning a good thing and just enjoy a good thing. Of course you run the risk that it's not really good, but you move on from it.
I can definitely see the point of it. But how would you feel if you found out that a potential lover had done that to you? I would think they were a creep and a jerk! Even if I'd passed their little test.
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Yes, I agree. If anyone has objections to this type of thing, they should not do it. At the end of the day, op is going to have to be the one to live with his conscience (if he is burdened with one). If he has a lesson to learn here, he may be the type who finds more honor in learning it the hard way.
I certainly don't suggest this technique be used to do anything malicious. But I think a little harmless recon is called for here.
And I would add, if you find out something you don't like, you be a big boy and walk away. No going and f*cking up her Facebook.
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Maybe I should be glad I'm broke, fat and ugly. If she says she loves me, I know she isn't after anything.
Not sure what the point of this thread is? In my mind I wasn't sure if I'm supposed to be thinking Borat-esque "GREAT SUCCESS!" or something?
Is it just because you're beaming with pride that someone likes you and had to tell someone who neither knows, nor cares, who you or the model are?
Am I supposed to say congrats or something? Erm, congrats?
Or are you hoping people will tell you that it must be real (without knowing anything about it) so go ahead?
Or urge caution because maybe it's not real?
There's nothing to go on for us - we don't know you, or her, nor what you talk about, your interactions, nothing.
If you're looking for advice on what to do - you don't need it. Just have some confidence and do what you think is best. That way, whatever the outcome, you can't regret it
Is it just because you're beaming with pride that someone likes you and had to tell someone who neither knows, nor cares, who you or the model are?
Am I supposed to say congrats or something? Erm, congrats?
Or are you hoping people will tell you that it must be real (without knowing anything about it) so go ahead?
Or urge caution because maybe it's not real?
There's nothing to go on for us - we don't know you, or her, nor what you talk about, your interactions, nothing.
If you're looking for advice on what to do - you don't need it. Just have some confidence and do what you think is best. That way, whatever the outcome, you can't regret it
Marriage...babies...he cheats with the nanny...divorce...shared custody that doesn't work...he marries a girl half his age...she marries up...years of therapy for the kids...awkward holidays...regrets & recriminations...death.
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Listen it sounds like you have made up your mind already. If you really like her then go for it! You are a grown man and can handle your own business. I know most of the time stuff like this dose not work but sometimes it dose ( and yes i know a few that if has worked out for them) anyway I hope the best for you. Im a romantic at heart and
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And this is the best case scenario. Don't even want to think what might happen if things turn out badly.
If Drew Carey and Niki Skyler got married or anything approaching marriage she wouldnt be on MFC.
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Why? There are PLENTY of married cam girls on MFC (and other sites)
There were quite a few articles back when they made their relationship public, and in most of them, Drew was quoted saying that he would want her to quit camming if they were to ever get serious or married.
I took his comment as why would she even bother with camming if she married into that kind of money. Didn't know they almost got married(I'm assuming the poster here just made that up for some reason) or that he was quoted with not being cool with it. What a hypocrite, dude is all about hookers and escorts but wouldn't be cool with a camgirl.
http://radaronline.com/exclusives/2014/05/drew-carey-sugar-daddy-porn-star-niki-skyler/
From the article: 'He[Drew] doesn’t want a wife who gets naked in front of strangers!'
Plus media misrepresenting such as calling Niki a porn star rather a cam girl.
From the article: 'He[Drew] doesn’t want a wife who gets naked in front of strangers!'
Plus media misrepresenting such as calling Niki a porn star rather a cam girl.
I'm specifically referring to Drew Carey's situation not cam girls in general, many of which are married.
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She also shoots for Twisty's and stuff. So technically, porn star too
So, are there a lot of known Hollywood celebrities who have MFC member accounts? Do any models here have any famous celebrity customers? If so, how did you react and feel when they told you who they were? I am absolutely certain that it is pretty common for top models to run into celebrities and even have a few as regs.
Yes, I'm actually Vanilla Ice...ssshhh, don't tell anyone.
For reals or are you just making this up? Or did the same person that told you about Drew Carey getting married tell you this? You have to have some stories to tell if you claim to be certain about it.
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Sorry, she specified "celebrity".
There is no ending because i will not rush things and i will live every moment with her to the full until the time is right
Metal, if this woman turns out to be a blow-up doll that you think is real, we're all going to be devastated. We're emotionally invested now.
"Rushing things" in this situation is a proposal. But since you wrote that huge first message here, you want to do something, don't you?
Idleness makes things worse. Not only in your case.
Go for it, metal! You have nothing to lose! What is the worst that could happen? She rejects you, she is really a hermaphrodite, she is married to the mob, etc. At least, you can say you gave it your all...you don't want to look back on this when you are 70 and have regrets.
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