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Miss_Lollipop said:
Perhaps best summed up as - "breaking a promise with no explanation and little/no remorse, especially when that promise is made in return for $$"

Thanks :D

SexyStephXS said:
Okay, if she put it in her topic than yeah, that feels kinda scummy. I always profusely apologize on twitter if I don't log in. I thought you meant she made a comment in passing like "hey guys, if we reach this goal I might be able to log in tomorrow!" Not an actual "xxxx tokens for me to log in tomorrow!"

It is ok...probably my fault for not fully articulating the situation originally.
 
This might be an unpopular opinion but I am going to go ahead and agree that that sounds really rude and unprofessional. I know that one of the benefits of our job is getting to pick our own schedules and take time off when we need it but I feel like offering something as an incentive that people have paid for and then not delivering it is scammy behavior. It feels different I suppose because it's less common to offer up scheduling changes, so it kind of seems like it could be a general attack on our right to skip a show if we want to, but I feel like if it was promised and people tipped for it, that's not cool. I think it's important to NEVER offer up something that you're not completely ready to give.

Of course I have no doubt that they would have been far more understanding if she'd given just a touch more information. I do feel they are owed SOMETHING, though details are of course her private business. I also understand that if it was an emergency or something she got swept away with in the moment it might not be possible to tweet right then or even for a day or two if it was serious, but if it was me I would tweet as soon as physically possible. A large part of our job is communication and interaction with members and while we definitely shouldn't share more than we're comfortable with, I think that it's important to keep them filled in about things that are relevant. Feeling like you've been stood up is hurtful, even over the internet, and I can imagine it feels worse if you've actually paid for that event. It's like buying tickets to a play only to sit down and wait, surrounded by other playgoers, without the show ever starting or any explanation? Then eventually everyone shuffles out confused and worried? Yeah, that sucks.

I know that there are many types of camgirls and I respect that we all get to make different choices for our businesses! One of the great attractions to camgirls is that we are real people who are all different and unique. We have faults and lives too and many members are wonderful about realizing that and understanding that sometimes things don't go according to plan. I know that I skew more towards professionalism than some models and I can't really fault them for camming in the way that suits them, it is just harder for me to understand sometimes when models do things like this I guess. I don't know the whole story at all and I'm sure that she has a very different point of view, but looking at it from the member's side I would probably be pretty frustrated.
 
Sometimes I think models don't realize how important professionalism is to a lot of members. Plenty of awesome models that treat it like a legit business so why would members want to risk it with models that do nothing but make up excuses/don't do what they said they would?

-Models that are never smiling/never look happy
 
Models without any sort of personality. From my view, you need to be able to hold a convo to get me interested in potentially sticking around. You could be the most attractive girl on the site, but that's no good if you're boring too!
 
I don't know about "most annoying", but at least a little bit annoying...

When a model feigns surprise when you tip them, even though you've always tipped them whenever you've been in their room. It suggests that they view you as somebody who doesn't tip and kinda makes you wonder if you'd be viewed any differently if you actually hadn't consistently tipped them and if that's the case, would you have been better off saving yourself some money and not tipping in the first place seeng as all those previous tips have seemingly been forgotten/never registered to begin with.

(I realise the answer to that rhetorical question is 'no', because you should be tipping if you're getting any enjoyment out of a cam girl being on cam, regardless of whether they recognise the fact that you're tipping them or not. But shit like that irks me, I guess)
 
mynameisbob84 said:
I don't know about "most annoying", but at least a little bit annoying...

When a model feigns surprise when you tip them, even though you've always tipped them whenever you've been in their room. It suggests that they view you as somebody who doesn't tip and kinda makes you wonder if you'd be viewed any differently if you actually hadn't consistently tipped them and if that's the case, would you have been better off saving yourself some money and not tipping in the first place seeng as all those previous tips have seemingly been forgotten/never registered to begin with.

(I realise the answer to that rhetorical question is 'no', because you should be tipping if you're getting any enjoyment out of a cam girl being on cam, regardless of whether they recognise the fact that you're tipping them or not. But shit like that irks me, I guess)

No matter how many times a person has tipped me, I will continue to be surprised when they decide to give me more of their money. For one thing, just because someone has always done something doesn't mean I will expect them to do the same thing. The first 10 times I ate at Waffle House, I got the Chocolate Chip Waffle with extra chocolate chips. Eventually, I decided to try something new and ate the steak and eggs instead. (I actually really like it for when I'm craving a particular brand of greasy meat...) For another, I don't rate myself as highly as most others seem to rate me, which is also why I'm always surprised by compliments.

However, I don't always show the surprise. I try to always show gratitude, but I do have dulled-emotions days.
 
AedanRayne said:
I'm with Luna on this... I don't expect anyone to tip me. I'm not forcing them yet they do it out of the goodness of their heart.

Me three. I never expect it no matter how many times someone comes in and tips. It's always a surprise unless I was told they we're going to. Even then it's an amazing feeling and brightens my day. It's a surprise in the best possible way.
 
mynameisbob84 said:
I don't know about "most annoying", but at least a little bit annoying...

When a model feigns surprise when you tip them, even though you've always tipped them whenever you've been in their room. It suggests that they view you as somebody who doesn't tip and kinda makes you wonder if you'd be viewed any differently if you actually hadn't consistently tipped them and if that's the case, would you have been better off saving yourself some money and not tipping in the first place seeng as all those previous tips have seemingly been forgotten/never registered to begin with.

(I realise the answer to that rhetorical question is 'no', because you should be tipping if you're getting any enjoyment out of a cam girl being on cam, regardless of whether they recognise the fact that you're tipping them or not. But shit like that irks me, I guess)

It actually makes me sad that you think this....

You've come and tipped me before, but it doesn't mean that if you turned up to my room now I wouldn't be both happily surprised by your presence and also happily surprised if you chose to tip me again. I don't know if you'd have tokens that day, I don't know if you were just passing through, I hadn't expected to receive those tokens, so yeah, I'd be surprised. I don't go "Oh here's someone who's tipped me in the past, I'm sure they're going to tip again" and then when they tip go "cheers for that"... I see someone who's tipped in the past/is on my friendslist, am happy to see them, and if/when they tip I am genuinely surprised and am very pleased and happy about it.

If anyone does something nice for me, whether they've done it countless times in the past, I'm still surprised! It's a good feeling.... It makes me sad that it makes you feel like you previously haven't been appreciated if someone is surprised at getting to see you in her room.... because that's just so absolutely NOT the case. At least not for me.
 
Isabella_deL said:
mynameisbob84 said:
I don't know about "most annoying", but at least a little bit annoying...

When a model feigns surprise when you tip them, even though you've always tipped them whenever you've been in their room. It suggests that they view you as somebody who doesn't tip and kinda makes you wonder if you'd be viewed any differently if you actually hadn't consistently tipped them and if that's the case, would you have been better off saving yourself some money and not tipping in the first place seeng as all those previous tips have seemingly been forgotten/never registered to begin with.

(I realise the answer to that rhetorical question is 'no', because you should be tipping if you're getting any enjoyment out of a cam girl being on cam, regardless of whether they recognise the fact that you're tipping them or not. But shit like that irks me, I guess)

It actually makes me sad that you think this....

You've come and tipped me before, but it doesn't mean that if you turned up to my room now I wouldn't be both happily surprised by your presence and also happily surprised if you chose to tip me again. I don't know if you'd have tokens that day, I don't know if you were just passing through, I hadn't expected to receive those tokens, so yeah, I'd be surprised. I don't go "Oh here's someone who's tipped me in the past, I'm sure they're going to tip again" and then when they tip go "cheers for that"... I see someone who's tipped in the past/is on my friendslist, am happy to see them, and if/when they tip I am genuinely surprised and am very pleased and happy about it.

If anyone does something nice for me, whether they've done it countless times in the past, I'm still surprised! It's a good feeling.... It makes me sad that it makes you feel like you previously haven't been appreciated if someone is surprised at getting to see you in her room.... because that's just so absolutely NOT the case. At least not for me.

I've never seen the expression of surprise that Bob is writing about ("wow, I can't believe he tipped me!"), but I'm wondering if he's reading something into that just isn't there. I see a wide variety of expressions when models receive tips, most generally in the category of joyful appreciation. But if a model really does register surprise at a tip, I suppose there could be reasons for that other than a personal reaction to the tipper. Maybe she's surprised by the amount. Maybe she's surprised because it was "just because" and nothing particularly special was going on at the moment. Maybe there'd been a dry spell and the tip came as a pleasant jolt. Who knows. What I do know is that the models I visit frequently haven't registered a "negative" kind of surprise that little 'ol me would tip them. But if I did ever perceive the type of surprise Bob describes, I probably would be a little put off by it as well. I just haven't seen it happen.
 
I think maybe I should clarify. I'm not talking about the genuine and completely understandable surprise that might meet an abnormally large tip or a tip from a member who maybe hasn't visited for a while, or even a tip from a member who doesn't generally tip. I'd never have any issue with any of that, because... why would I? It's all gravy, ya know?

What I'm referencing is when a model jokingly feigns surprise and makes a sarcastic remark after a routine, completely-normal-for-that-member tip: "OMG, he tipped". Even though they're doing it in jest and (I'm pretty sure) mean no offence by it, it still kinda stings because in order for the joke to make sense in the model's mind, she would have to view that member as someone who doesn't generally tip. Which would be fine if they didn't generally tip, but when they're fairly regular in that model's room and they always, always tip (in consistent, albeit small amounts at regular intervals for the duration of their stay in that room)... I guess that kind of thing irks me. :twocents-02cents:
 
I don't know about this feigning happiness or surprise when I tip a model but I like to feel my tip has been appreciated. A model doesn't have to gush over a 10 token tip but a "thanks" is always appreciated.

But what annoys me the most is when a model spends all night PM'ing someone and ignores her room except to remind people to tip or only to quickly thank someone who does... It comes off to me as very unprofessional and dismissive of everyone's time (including the models)
 
LadyLuna said:
mynameisbob84 said:
I don't know about "most annoying", but at least a little bit annoying...

The first 10 times I ate at Waffle House, I got the Chocolate Chip Waffle with extra chocolate chips. Eventually, I decided to try something new and ate the steak and eggs instead. (I actually really like it for when I'm craving a particular brand of greasy meat...)

Luna, if this were a reddit post I'd upvote the fuck out of you simply for mentioning Waffle House. You, my dear, truly are a queen!
 
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mynameisbob84 said:
I think maybe I should clarify. I'm not talking about the genuine and completely understandable surprise that might meet an abnormally large tip or a tip from a member who maybe hasn't visited for a while, or even a tip from a member who doesn't generally tip. I'd never have any issue with any of that, because... why would I? It's all gravy, ya know?

What I'm referencing is when a model jokingly feigns surprise and makes a sarcastic remark after a routine, completely-normal-for-that-member tip: "OMG, he tipped". Even though they're doing it in jest and (I'm pretty sure) mean no offence by it, it still kinda stings because in order for the joke to make sense in the model's mind, she would have to view that member as someone who doesn't generally tip. Which would be fine if they didn't generally tip, but when they're fairly regular in that model's room and they always, always tip (in consistent, albeit small amounts at regular intervals for the duration of their stay in that room)... I guess that kind of thing irks me. :twocents-02cents:
I always have, and will continue to, do this anytime Bawksy tips in my room. Because he prided himself on being a 0/0 premium for so long, that when actual tokens come in from him, it shocks me to oblivion.
 
AmberCutie said:
mynameisbob84 said:
I think maybe I should clarify. I'm not talking about the genuine and completely understandable surprise that might meet an abnormally large tip or a tip from a member who maybe hasn't visited for a while, or even a tip from a member who doesn't generally tip. I'd never have any issue with any of that, because... why would I? It's all gravy, ya know?

What I'm referencing is when a model jokingly feigns surprise and makes a sarcastic remark after a routine, completely-normal-for-that-member tip: "OMG, he tipped". Even though they're doing it in jest and (I'm pretty sure) mean no offence by it, it still kinda stings because in order for the joke to make sense in the model's mind, she would have to view that member as someone who doesn't generally tip. Which would be fine if they didn't generally tip, but when they're fairly regular in that model's room and they always, always tip (in consistent, albeit small amounts at regular intervals for the duration of their stay in that room)... I guess that kind of thing irks me. :twocents-02cents:
I always have, and will continue to, do this anytime Bawksy tips in my room. Because he prided himself on being a 0/0 premium for so long, that when actual tokens come in from him, it shocks me to oblivion.

Sure, but this sounds more like a private joke between you and Bawksy. One that makes sense to you both because of Bawksy previously priding himself on being a 0/0 premium. Had Bawksy been tipping you from the start, consistently, every time he came in your room for a decent period of time, and then one day you decided to react with mock surprise to one of his tips, that would be closer to what I was trying to describe in my initial post.
 
mynameisbob84 said:
AmberCutie said:
mynameisbob84 said:
I think maybe I should clarify. I'm not talking about the genuine and completely understandable surprise that might meet an abnormally large tip or a tip from a member who maybe hasn't visited for a while, or even a tip from a member who doesn't generally tip. I'd never have any issue with any of that, because... why would I? It's all gravy, ya know?

What I'm referencing is when a model jokingly feigns surprise and makes a sarcastic remark after a routine, completely-normal-for-that-member tip: "OMG, he tipped". Even though they're doing it in jest and (I'm pretty sure) mean no offence by it, it still kinda stings because in order for the joke to make sense in the model's mind, she would have to view that member as someone who doesn't generally tip. Which would be fine if they didn't generally tip, but when they're fairly regular in that model's room and they always, always tip (in consistent, albeit small amounts at regular intervals for the duration of their stay in that room)... I guess that kind of thing irks me. :twocents-02cents:
I always have, and will continue to, do this anytime Bawksy tips in my room. Because he prided himself on being a 0/0 premium for so long, that when actual tokens come in from him, it shocks me to oblivion.

Sure, but this sounds more like a private joke between you and Bawksy. One that makes sense to you both because of Bawksy previously priding himself on being a 0/0 premium. Had Bawksy been tipping you from the start, consistently, every time he came in your room for a decent period of time, and then one day you decided to react with mock surprise to one of his tips, that would be closer to what I was trying to describe in my initial post.
Roger that, lil' buddy.
 
mynameisbob84 said:
I think maybe I should clarify. I'm not talking about the genuine and completely understandable surprise that might meet an abnormally large tip or a tip from a member who maybe hasn't visited for a while, or even a tip from a member who doesn't generally tip. I'd never have any issue with any of that, because... why would I? It's all gravy, ya know?

What I'm referencing is when a model jokingly feigns surprise and makes a sarcastic remark after a routine, completely-normal-for-that-member tip: "OMG, he tipped". Even though they're doing it in jest and (I'm pretty sure) mean no offence by it, it still kinda stings because in order for the joke to make sense in the model's mind, she would have to view that member as someone who doesn't generally tip. Which would be fine if they didn't generally tip, but when they're fairly regular in that model's room and they always, always tip (in consistent, albeit small amounts at regular intervals for the duration of their stay in that room)... I guess that kind of thing irks me. :twocents-02cents:

I've never made a joke like that but I'd kind of read it as the opposite - like they're saying that they aren't surprised at all, because you normally tip. I don't think that makes it much better because it seems kind of expectant, but I just thought it was funny because I read it completely differently! Either way I can see where you're coming from.
 
Don't think this is covered by other posts, but models who use the tag "English". Fine, English is a language. But it's the main language of the site. If none of my regular rooms I visit are online, I try to find other English models to maybe look at, see what's going on, and have a laugh and a joke. It's not as fun to have to wade through several overseas models, not that I have anything against them.
 
Misono said:
Don't think this is covered by other posts, but models who use the tag "English". Fine, English is a language. But it's the main language of the site. If none of my regular rooms I visit are online, I try to find other English models to maybe look at, see what's going on, and have a laugh and a joke. It's not as fun to have to wade through several overseas models, not that I have anything against them.

If you go to the bottom of the page you can uncheck nationalities you want omit from your search. So if you just want to see what English models are online, just uncheck every nationality other than UK.
 
mynameisbob84 said:
Misono said:
Don't think this is covered by other posts, but models who use the tag "English". Fine, English is a language. But it's the main language of the site. If none of my regular rooms I visit are online, I try to find other English models to maybe look at, see what's going on, and have a laugh and a joke. It's not as fun to have to wade through several overseas models, not that I have anything against them.

If you go to the bottom of the page you can uncheck nationalities you want omit from your search. So if you just want to see what English models are online, just uncheck every nationality other than UK.

Unsure how I never noticed that in the 3 years I've been around...
 
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mynameisbob84 said:
I think maybe I should clarify. I'm not talking about the genuine and completely understandable surprise that might meet an abnormally large tip or a tip from a member who maybe hasn't visited for a while, or even a tip from a member who doesn't generally tip. I'd never have any issue with any of that, because... why would I? It's all gravy, ya know?

What I'm referencing is when a model jokingly feigns surprise and makes a sarcastic remark after a routine, completely-normal-for-that-member tip: "OMG, he tipped". Even though they're doing it in jest and (I'm pretty sure) mean no offence by it, it still kinda stings because in order for the joke to make sense in the model's mind, she would have to view that member as someone who doesn't generally tip. Which would be fine if they didn't generally tip, but when they're fairly regular in that model's room and they always, always tip (in consistent, albeit small amounts at regular intervals for the duration of their stay in that room)... I guess that kind of thing irks me. :twocents-02cents:

I can see how that's off-putting. I'm still trying to work out the concept of people teasing being a good thing, let alone how sarcastic surprise can be anything other than insulting.
 
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LadyLuna said:
I can see how that's off-putting. I'm still trying to work out the concept of people teasing being a good thing, let alone how sarcastic surprise can be anything other than insulting.

It might be puzzling to someone who isn't familiar with the rough & tumble of MFC. But models are only human, and sometimes you have to leave some tokens on the table to retain your sanity.
 
Bitch about not getting enough tips when they are clearly making money hand over fist. Saw a girl throw a tantrum the other night-she had already made at least $1500 just when I was in her room, and then the tips slowed down. She was drunk, and then proceeded to call the members faggots and other names. Kinda hard for me to feel sorry for her when she was clearly making money.
 
Misono said:
mynameisbob84 said:
Misono said:
Don't think this is covered by other posts, but models who use the tag "English". Fine, English is a language. But it's the main language of the site. If none of my regular rooms I visit are online, I try to find other English models to maybe look at, see what's going on, and have a laugh and a joke. It's not as fun to have to wade through several overseas models, not that I have anything against them.

If you go to the bottom of the page you can uncheck nationalities you want omit from your search. So if you just want to see what English models are online, just uncheck every nationality other than UK.

Unsure how I never noticed that in the 3 years I've been around...

Ohhhhh dear........ :?
:lol:
 
Been a while since I visited this thread and probably have said these before somewhere.

Most annoying to me is when models passively or flat out beg for ''offline tips'' on social media like Twitter.

2nd most annoying is models having watermarks all over their feed. Watermarks can be removed if someone really wants to. Also, 99% of members don't give a shit what the high tip is, current high tip can be added in the topic if it's that much of a concern.

3rd is when models expect tips for doing nothing aside from being on screen, then complain about no tips.

4th is when models have diarrhea of the mouth and incessantly rattle on from one topic to another, barely taking a breath in between.

:twocents-02cents:
 
Bocefish said:
Most annoying to me is when models passively or flat out beg for ''offline tips'' on social media like Twitte

This is one of mine too. "Doing x tonight so won't be on cam but feel free to offline tip me" and "If you buy me y I'll love you forever" are two that I see often. I tend to give models the benefit of the doubt and assume that a) they're being flippant and don't realise that it could be construed as begging and b) they actually do intend to send anyone who offline tips/buys them something a video or something of similar value. Without assuming those two things though, these tweets read as "Not working today but I'd like to get paid anyway. By you" and "I want this item but don't want to buy it myself. Can you buy it for me please? I'll 'love you forever' but only in an abstract and ultimately meaningless way".

That said, there's nothing at all wrong with "Offline tip x and I'll send you y" or "don't forget you can buy x, y and z while I'm not on cam with an offline tip" or even "can't make it on cam today but anyone good enough to offline tip will be rewarded when I get back on cam".
 
Misono said:
mynameisbob84 said:
Misono said:
Don't think this is covered by other posts, but models who use the tag "English". Fine, English is a language. But it's the main language of the site. If none of my regular rooms I visit are online, I try to find other English models to maybe look at, see what's going on, and have a laugh and a joke. It's not as fun to have to wade through several overseas models, not that I have anything against them.

If you go to the bottom of the page you can uncheck nationalities you want omit from your search. So if you just want to see what English models are online, just uncheck every nationality other than UK.

Unsure how I never noticed that in the 3 years I've been around...

Or you can just check Only Show United Kingdom, will save a few clicks. :-D
 
mynameisbob84 said:
This is one of mine too. "Doing x tonight so won't be on cam but feel free to offline tip me" and "If you buy me y I'll love you forever" are two that I see often. I tend to give models the benefit of the doubt and assume that a) they're being flippant and don't realise that it could be construed as begging and b) they actually do intend to send anyone who offline tips/buys them something a video or something of similar value. Without assuming those two things though, these tweets read as "Not working today but I'd like to get paid anyway. By you" and "I want this item but don't want to buy it myself. Can you buy it for me please? I'll 'love you forever' but only in an abstract and ultimately meaningless way".

See I don't see this as begging. I see it as being cheeky.

If I'm ill I don't get sick pay, whilst many people in other jobs would. So if I can't work for various reasons. Many members do like offline tipping their favourite girls, or might want to buy some content she has on her profile. She's basically saying that although she won't be working, that any offline tips/purchases would be very much appreciated as she still has to make income. I don't see how that's begging at all.

Begging would be "guys, I can't work tonight so please can you offline tip me? I need the tokens badd". That's closer to begging because it's directly asking people for money. The other one is indirectly mentioning that if someone were to choose to tip, that it would be very welcome. It's hardly like they're calling anyone personally out, I have over 3k twitter followers, probably only a handful will even read this tweet, and I'm hoping that possibly maybe one of my regulars might have tokens and might take the indirect hint, but if they don't want to, it's hardly like I've called them out and have told them to tip, it's just there for them to follow or ignore.

Seeing the amount of free entertainment models give out, and then free pictures on twitter and their profiles, I don't think it's really wrong to want someone who might not be watching you at that precise moment, but who has watched and got enjoyment from you to tip you at some point in time. Just because a girl isn't online at that specific time doesn't mean she doesn't still deserve tokens, just like if a usually tipping member doesn't have tokens one night, it doesn't mean he doesn't deserve to still watch and chat to the model when she's on cam.

Boce I can understand your number 4, that if models chat too fast it could be really hard to keep up, but I must say, I'm probably guilty of this sometimes. When the room slows down and people start chatting, I often get caught up in the chat, and so many people are responding that just to respond to every person I'm pretty much having to talk non stop without a breath, it can be very overwhelming for me, even though I enjoy the chat. It's not something I do often, as I rarely make much by way of tokens during the chat as people get so caught up in it. Though I'm sure some members don't like it, I also get a whole bunch of people who clearly love the chat. It's something that may be a deal breaker for you, but a deal maker for another. In cases like this... well, best just go elsewhere. There are some things that models do that are universally annoying, this one... I think it's more of a preference thing.
 
Isabella_deL said:
mynameisbob84 said:
This is one of mine too. "Doing x tonight so won't be on cam but feel free to offline tip me" and "If you buy me y I'll love you forever" are two that I see often. I tend to give models the benefit of the doubt and assume that a) they're being flippant and don't realise that it could be construed as begging and b) they actually do intend to send anyone who offline tips/buys them something a video or something of similar value. Without assuming those two things though, these tweets read as "Not working today but I'd like to get paid anyway. By you" and "I want this item but don't want to buy it myself. Can you buy it for me please? I'll 'love you forever' but only in an abstract and ultimately meaningless way".

See I don't see this as begging. I see it as being cheeky.

If I'm ill I don't get sick pay, whilst many people in other jobs would. So if I can't work for various reasons. Many members do like offline tipping their favourite girls, or might want to buy some content she has on her profile. She's basically saying that although she won't be working, that any offline tips/purchases would be very much appreciated as she still has to make income. I don't see how that's begging at all.

Begging would be "guys, I can't work tonight so please can you offline tip me? I need the tokens badd". That's closer to begging because it's directly asking people for money. The other one is indirectly mentioning that if someone were to choose to tip, that it would be very welcome. It's hardly like they're calling anyone personally out, I have over 3k twitter followers, probably only a handful will even read this tweet, and I'm hoping that possibly maybe one of my regulars might have tokens and might take the indirect hint, but if they don't want to, it's hardly like I've called them out and have told them to tip, it's just there for them to follow or ignore.

Seeing the amount of free entertainment models give out, and then free pictures on twitter and their profiles, I don't think it's really wrong to want someone who might not be watching you at that precise moment, but who has watched and got enjoyment from you to tip you at some point in time. Just because a girl isn't online at that specific time doesn't mean she doesn't still deserve tokens, just like if a usually tipping member doesn't have tokens one night, it doesn't mean he doesn't deserve to still watch and chat to the model when she's on cam.

I think it very much depends how it's phrased. If content is offered in return for offline tips, or at least hinted at, it's not begging. It's a proposed transaction that folk can choose to take advantage of or ignore. If it's a model straight out asking for tokens/wishlist purchases without offering anything in return, I'd have to categorise that as begging.

It would be like a waitress seeing somebody who frequents their café or whatever out in town and letting them know that if that person wanted to tip them now, they're free to do so, even though no service is being provided at that particular moment. It sounds absurd, but all the reasons for tipping a cam girl offline (the person has enjoyed the service she's provided them in the past, etc.) apply. And yet I don't think anybody would expect it to happen.

The members who might offline tip a model are the members who will tip regardless of whether the model has publicly stated that offline tips are welcomed. They know that the model appreciates offline tips. They'll tip because they like the model, ya know? Any time I've ever offline tipped a model, it's because they've been having a bad day, or a bad week, or it's their birthday and I know I won't be online that night. I've never offline tipped a model because she's implicitly asked me to and likely never will :twocents-02cents:
 
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Isabella_deL said:
See I don't see this as begging. I see it as being cheeky.

If I'm ill I don't get sick pay, whilst many people in other jobs would. So if I can't work for various reasons. Many members do like offline tipping their favourite girls, or might want to buy some content she has on her profile. She's basically saying that although she won't be working, that any offline tips/purchases would be very much appreciated as she still has to make income.

This, if I was ill wrapped up in bed with flu for a week offline tips would really cheer me up. Though obviously I also would try and sell content etc. but the generosity is always welcomed and really appreciated.
 
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