What are some ways you give your regulars special treatment?

[Phoenix4987]

I've been a regular in this model's room for about 7 months now. For my birthday, she mailed me a package (it hasn't got here yet) bought a cake and we celebrated on skype after she got off work. I was taken aback, like I was really surprised. To me, that's a little more than what the job calls for and so I was curious if other models had done anything similar for their more lucrative customers.

 

[Sevrin]

I'm not entirely sure you will get a lot of answers, but things like this are not unheard of. And it doesn't necessarily primarily have to do with being lucrative. The thing is, the really special stuff is not something you'll see discussed in public. Not only would that make it less special, but it might make members who haven't received such special consideration jealous, and models don't need that kind of grief.

 

[DeeBella]

I use to make surprises to members when is them bday like a special video , some pics of me with them name on my body and so on , but i never heard someone to mail a surprise . Maybe she did sent you and package didn;t arrived yet , who knows maybe u will receive it . I guess surprises are more like i said : pictures , videos , something cute that makes the member feel special . But i must agree i do surprises to my regular members ( which i consider friends too )

 

[Phoenix4987]

You make a good point Sevrin, I didn't really take some of those things in consideration. I guess I'm at the point to where I feel like there's legitimately something more between us than a normal model-customer relationship. And part of me is cautious because I'm fully aware that it might just be part of the fantasy. That's why I was feeling a little insecure and wanted some outside opinions. Perhaps the answer was in front of me all along and I was just overthinking things.

 

[CrazyCatLady]

You make a good point Sevrin, I didn't really take some of those things in consideration. I guess I'm at the point to where I feel like there's legitimately something more between us than a normal model-customer relationship. And part of me is cautious because I'm fully aware that it might just be part of the fantasy. That's why I was feeling a little insecure and wanted some outside opinions. Perhaps the answer was in front of me all along and I was just overthinking things.

I don't think you should feel insecure....I also don't know that you should feel that there is more than friendship though.

I have a few regs I have become really close true friends with. It's almost impossible not to. Speaking to someone daily. Sharing your ups and downs. Confiding in them. I think it's natural to develope a real caring friendship with someone. From a cam girls perspective there are not a lot of people that we can confide in that will truly understand our job. Even if we can they won't be present daily in our room to see the ups and downs. It's a great feeling to have someone you can vent to and also share great moments with. That's a real friendship...at least for me.

 

[Phoenix4987]

So true. When you speak to someone everyday and you share details about your lives, it's impossible not to develop a friendship with someone. And it's a shame that not a lot more people can wrap their heads around what people have to do for a living. I can see how it would be a big sigh of relief to have someone to actually have some conversation and understanding with other than "turn around bb." I think many customers don't realize or don't care that there's a person on the other side of the screen with a life of their own.

I didn't want to turn this into a "I think I'm in love with what do I do?" thread, so I haven't said too many details. But, I'll share this small snippet. I'm 29, former military, guitar player/singer, and I've been told I'm easy on the eyes. We text everyday, sometimes video chat, sometimes phone call. And every time she's working, she let's me know beforehand and I stay the whole time and keep her company. The rest I'll keep to myself so I don't make a lengthy topic nobody wants to read haha. Ultimately, I know, nobody can tell me what she's feeling besides her. She's definitely told me and I guess it's up to me to decide what to believe.

Thank you for your responses, it has definitely been insightful.

 

[MFCuser]

just be careful. for every actual love interest ive seen between a model and member there are 20 cases i can point to where the model is either intentionally or unintentionally leading the member on. I would say its possible to develop real friendship, but anything beyond I would be very skeptical.

 

[MFCuser]

but to answer your main question, what you described is, in my experience, for some models, completely within the realm of what is pretty normal for well tipping regulars.