She said she is a bad person and that her boss and her ex said if I come to Romania I will be robbed and beat up
I can only imagine what sort of bullshit some cam model's exes would say about them.Update: so this girl thought it would be a great idea to put on fb that we were in a relationship, long story short funny to say lol but mom didn't believe she was real so messaged like 20 of her friends and her ex and she found out that she is a cam model etc and found the girls boss on Facebook too and now this girl is loosing her job at cam studio today because of this, idk how to react even tho today she was going to quit and cam from home but her ex told my mom that she cheated on him multiple times and that she is a really bad person and pretty much a prostitute. Is a crazy situation unfolding lol
Yeah her boss sent my mom message saying that she no longer works there and shit sounds weird haha but uh she facetimed me earlier this morning crying because she doesn't want me or my family to think I'm going to get killed by her but she thanked me very much about losing her job because she said she was tired of feeling like an object :/I can only imagine what sort of bullshit some cam model's exes would say about them.
I'm of two minds on this one.
You're now indirectly responsible for her (supposedly) losing her job (only a bit early, but still). If she's a scammer she's going to hold that over you when she asks for money/assistance of some sort.
Her ex saying hateful shit about her makes me think she might be for real. What cam model hasn't been called a derogatory name by an angry dude? Most of them conflate online cam work with in-person sex work. She might be a Full Service Sex Worker, not inherently a bad thing, but definitely something that you should discuss.
Young and stupid (inexperienced)? Not the first time I heard this.Wait. My coffee has just kicked in. Why is she Facebook friends with her boss on her real-life Facebook? That.... doesn't sound right.
Her boss is a female around her age and her husband the one that owns the studio, she thought she could trust and thought she was friends with her boss they even go out of town together and shit but not anymore she couldn't believe whather boss was sayingWait. My coffee has just kicked in. Why is she Facebook friends with her boss on her real-life Facebook? That.... doesn't sound right.
Lmao I kno is embarrassing xDDamn, 20 year olds come with moms. I forgot about that...
I do have friendships with cam models (and I have never been really their client... well, I'm of no one, actually) that exceed by very far the distant treatment you mention, and is not the end of the world. Au contraire...Is quite interesting. Of course, is nothing related to "love", neither sex...But that way you described, sounds a bit like if any relation that starts online, in any social tool, can't end in something more...being skeptical as a rule is fine (and safe), but to come to a conclusion in that line could be in certain way non realistic, as well, 'cause nice stuff also happens: A friend of mine is happily married and knew her husband in a chat (not sex cams, but...) having a huge baby now, I do have friends I initially only knew in a forum (graphic artists, like me) then I and some others ended proposing to meet all, and now, well, only a few of them still in contact, but after many real life meetings, and deeper contacts, those are now absolutely great friends of mine, and also super great to have this level of friendship with people not only of my same profession, but indeed having the same focus at it. ). Not been "emotional" IMO, not that great advantage, in general, in several aspects, (of course, very convenient in some cases) but to each her/his own... I would agree though in the advice of not "falling in love" (I mean, don't push the fantasy) with someone only met online, by any site, cams related or not. Anyway, I'm probably not in the best perspective as I don't see the advantage of online sex fantasies, anyway...There's already enough amount of human relation fakes in RL... But that's me, am weird. (I applaud that it gives you all solid and nice income, of course...)
Just really wanted to see if anyone else has done this, and what do u want to know.
Just really wanted to see if anyone else has done this, and what do u want to know.
Thanks and can't waitI just want to know what happens. (having done this) You have your ticket so you are going. Good luck and Happy Trails!
I didn't allow her to get involved at all trust me I'm an adult the fact she got involved is embarrassing lol but uh my whole damn family Knows now so but I don't really give a fuck she was just concerned which I understand but this girl has been talkin to my mom now I feel this girl either wants a real relationship which would be really difficult or maybe just needs help in her life idk but I will help her as much as I can non financially because she still hasn't even asked for any money.This already sounds like more drama than it's worth. Maybe because of my player inclinations, I like to keep my relationships in their prospective bubbles. Everyone already knows everyone in your case and it's a huge headache. Why did you allow your mom to get involved? What does she think about you visiting a sex worker? All her friends are also in on it. They will all know you met on cam site even if it does have a chance to get serious. Potentially all her friends who didn't know she worked on a cam site now do. Maybe because you are young and none of these things matter but I think this situation is unsalvageable. I would move on.