I made a camgirl stop caming!

[vacker]

Hello. So I am this man with sleeping problems. So I get REALLY bored when whole my country sleeps and I've watched movies, played games, read and all shit you can do alone. So I found a cam site a couple years ago and the most cam girls have REALLY good music (I'm a musician by the way), so I got interested; A hot girl and nice music + we have conversations.. What more I need?

So I got used to cam sites, started talking to them and just talking about whatever, nothing personal but yet it felt personal. I talked to a Romanian girl so much that I then asked her how come she does caming (not that I have anything against it, as I'd not be able to meet her if she didn't so..) and then we talked more and more about it etc. Then I showed her a song of mine, and she - once she came home - messaged me privately from the song-site. We then talked more personal, and she said she quit caming because of what I said and all, that she want more of life etc...

Now I wonder, have I done a good thing here or? We talk a lot in Skype and sometimes we have "free shows" (but it's not a show, more we're attracted to eachother and it's not as "fake" as in cam sites with no emotionals). But I mean... In my world, I've done the best thing; I made a cam girl choose another path, she started studying etc... But HAVE I really done a good thing?

 

[LaceyRoyce]

Hello. So I am this man with sleeping problems. So I get REALLY bored when whole my country sleeps and I've watched movies, played games, read and all shit you can do alone. So I found a cam site a couple years ago and the most cam girls have REALLY good music (I'm a musician by the way), so I got interested; A hot girl and nice music + we have conversations.. What more I need?

So I got used to cam sites, started talking to them and just talking about whatever, nothing personal but yet it felt personal. I talked to a Romanian girl so much that I then asked her how come she does caming (not that I have anything against it, as I'd not be able to meet her if she didn't so..) and then we talked more and more about it etc. Then I showed her a song of mine, and she - once she came home - messaged me privately from the song-site. We then talked more personal, and she said she quit caming because of what I said and all, that she want more of life etc...

Now I wonder, have I done a good thing here or? We talk a lot in Skype and sometimes we have "free shows" (but it's not a show, more we're attracted to eachother and it's not as "fake" as in cam sites with no emotionals). But I mean... In my world, I've done the best thing; I made a cam girl choose another path, she started studying etc... But HAVE I really done a good thing?

you did not make her do anything - it sounds like she had been thinking about this and made this choice, and your conversations were no more than a catalyst for it. I wouldn't worry.

 

[vacker]

I am certain I've done it. She even introduced me (through camera) to her parents.. Then they said in romania "Don't tell him you're a camera girl". And we'd talked so deep conversation about a lot of things. She said 100% it was because of what I said and how I had my life.

 

[ACFFAN69]

Hello. So I am this man with sleeping problems. So I get REALLY bored when whole my country sleeps and I've watched movies, played games, read and all shit you can do alone. So I found a cam site a couple years ago and the most cam girls have REALLY good music (I'm a musician by the way), so I got interested; A hot girl and nice music + we have conversations.. What more I need?

So I got used to cam sites, started talking to them and just talking about whatever, nothing personal but yet it felt personal. I talked to a Romanian girl so much that I then asked her how come she does caming (not that I have anything against it, as I'd not be able to meet her if she didn't so..) and then we talked more and more about it etc. Then I showed her a song of mine, and she - once she came home - messaged me privately from the song-site. We then talked more personal, and she said she quit caming because of what I said and all, that she want more of life etc...

Now I wonder, have I done a good thing here or? We talk a lot in Skype and sometimes we have "free shows" (but it's not a show, more we're attracted to eachother and it's not as "fake" as in cam sites with no emotionals). But I mean... In my world, I've done the best thing; I made a cam girl choose another path, she started studying etc... But HAVE I really done a good thing?

Thanks for ruining it for the rest of us! If I was into Romanian girls I'd be so mad right now!

But in all seriousness, you didn't stop her from camming, she quit herself because she wasn't happy with the job. I doubt anyone is so good at rhetoric that they would be able to completely change someones mind in a 180 degree fashion. At best she had to have been considering it first and you were the straw that broke the camels back. Or more cynically she is playing the long scam, thinking she can get more money from you supporting her then she did on cam.

I can see some people finding your last statement a little arrogant though, as though you are saying that being a cam girl is a bad path. I suspect it was a language issue and you probably didn't mean it how you worded it though. I think you might be saying that that you helped her on a more long term path, whereas before she had no plans post-camming? If that is the case, I think you did a good thing, not so much because "you convinced her to stop camming" but because you convinced her to have a backup plan after camming.

I wish you and her the best, strictly from your post it sounds like a beautiful story!

 

[TokenGesture]

Must have been the song. Was it a big noisy rocker, "Hitachi To Hell"? Or a sensitive ballad, "What Comes After (Dildo At 500)?".

 

[vacker]

The ironic part about this was I didn't gave her any money, so she's not a scam. And yeah that might be it that she consider it before, but I see no point for her lying telling me I was the reason as nothing will be gained from it.. And about that path part is what you said; a plan after. My bad. I am not a judger so don't read anything from me as if I'm judging anyone. In fact, there's nothing cooler than a social, fun camera girl. Only annoying part is when you both are middle of an interesting discussion some horny dude private her.


And by the way, it took almost 6 month if not more for her life to turn "180 degrees" - she didn't change her life in a day, she first quit her job and it took a while - and a lot of support until she manage to change everything. She even considering going back and I said "Do what you feel doing!" as I don't like to play with other peoples life.


If you're interested of how it ended briefly; I told her not to fall in love with me. She mentioned she likes dating and I told her to date the right guy, try not find an asshole. She started studying and she wanted travel the world. I don't know how that ended, all I know is that she got a boyfriend she really likes and I respected that and stayed away, so it got cold and we stopped talking. + I can still not sleep at nights so I am trying to find an awesome camgirl just to talk with, as the most of camgirls are better DJs than the clubs DJs (and no I am not desperate need to talk to a girl on the interet, but as I mentioned my whole country is sleeping at this time and I get easily bored + the music IS REALLY amazing that they play.)

 

[LaceyRoyce]

I am certain I've done it. She even introduced me (through camera) to her parents.. Then they said in romania "Don't tell him you're a camera girl". And we'd talked so deep conversation about a lot of things. She said 100% it was because of what I said and how I had my life.

Just because you made a convincing argument does NOT mean you made her do it. It means you helped her make a choice. Her choice.

If she didn't want to, she wouldn't have done it.

Don't worry It sounds like this situation went well for everyone involved in the long run

 

[vacker]

Okey then let's say I didn't do it.
But I lost a hot cam girl Well luckily there's more hot girls out there

 

[GracieHart]

Okey then let's say I didn't do it.
But I lost a hot cam girl Well luckily there's more hot girls out there

 

[LilyEvans]

Of all the things that didn't happen...this didn't happen the most.

 

[PlayboyMegan]

 

[AmberCutie]

Of all the things that didn't happen...this didn't happen the most.

I just look at the title of this thread and say "no, you didn't."

 

[mynameisbob84]

I was the inspiration for the song "Whatta Man" by 90s RnB girl group, Salt 'N' Peppa. I also recently found the original copy of the Bible in my attic and once went mano a mano with a wild bear after a disagreement over whether or not Ghostbusters 2 was in actual fact, shit.

 

[vacker]

Okey I just feel you guys are being really sarcastic or I can't read english anymore, so here's how it is:

If I point a gun to a mother, telling her to kill her children or else I'll slowly rape them and hurt them till they die by pain.
So the mother decides to shoot them so they don't get a painful death.

Here's how you guys say it is: You may be a part of it, but it was HER choice to kill them. Not yours. (I am innocent and don't deserve jail)

Here's how I say: I made her kill them. (I deserve jail)

Sorry for so dramatically and excessive story but it had to be done to make my point crystal clear.



Simply as this, if I didn't exist or entered her chat and talked to her she'd not quit and still be a cam girl. It's a butterfly effect. Believe it or not!

 

[Katie_Meow]

Wtf. Just... quit while you're ahead. I.e. Stop posting.

 

[Worship Jaclyn]

What?

 

[PlayboyMegan]

Okey I just feel you guys are being really sarcastic or I can't read english anymore, so here's how it is:

If I point a gun to a mother, telling her to kill her children or else I'll slowly rape them and hurt them till they die by pain.
So the mother decides to shoot them so they don't get a painful death.

Here's how you guys say it is: You may be a part of it, but it was HER choice to kill them. Not yours. (I am innocent and don't deserve jail)

Here's how I say: I made her kill them. (I deserve jail)

Sorry for so dramatically and excessive story but it had to be done to make my point crystal clear.



Simply as this, if I didn't exist or entered her chat and talked to her she'd not quit and still be a cam girl. It's a butterfly effect. Believe it or not!

Cool. So let's just pretend I belive you. So what? What do you want/expect me to say? Good job! You're awesome! High five! Gold star!
Now that's said, what more are you looking for?

 

[JerryBoBerry]

Okey I just feel you guys are being really sarcastic or I can't read english anymore, so here's how it is:

If I point a gun to a mother, telling her to kill her children or else I'll slowly rape them and hurt them till they die by pain.
So the mother decides to shoot them so they don't get a painful death.

Here's how you guys say it is: You may be a part of it, but it was HER choice to kill them. Not yours. (I am innocent and don't deserve jail)

Here's how I say: I made her kill them. (I deserve jail)

Sorry for so dramatically and excessive story but it had to be done to make my point crystal clear.



Simply as this, if I didn't exist or entered her chat and talked to her she'd not quit and still be a cam girl. It's a butterfly effect. Believe it or not!

Cool. So let's just pretend I belive you. So what? What do you want/expect me to say? Good job! You're awesome! High five! Gold star!
Now that's said, what more are you looking for?

I believe he's looking for more ego stroking in addition to the delusional amount already in his head.

 

[AmberCutie]

Okey I just feel you guys are being really sarcastic or I can't read english anymore, so here's how it is:

If I point a gun to a mother, telling her to kill her children or else I'll slowly rape them and hurt them till they die by pain.
So the mother decides to shoot them so they don't get a painful death.

Here's how you guys say it is: You may be a part of it, but it was HER choice to kill them. Not yours. (I am innocent and don't deserve jail)

Here's how I say: I made her kill them. (I deserve jail)

Sorry for so dramatically and excessive story but it had to be done to make my point crystal clear.



Simply as this, if I didn't exist or entered her chat and talked to her she'd not quit and still be a cam girl. It's a butterfly effect. Believe it or not!

You're too fuckin weird. Bye dude.

 

[RoseGranger]

If I point a gun to a mother, telling her to kill her children or else I'll slowly rape them and hurt them till they die by pain.
So the mother decides to shoot them so they don't get a painful death.

What. The. Fuck. Wildly unacceptable comparison. I understand you're upset that no one is clapping you on the back for saving a camgirl from our depths of sin and depravity but Jesus dude. Show some tact. You came to a forum for camgirls talking about saving a girl while putting down 90% of the forum.

 

[Nordling]

Just out of curiosity, Mr. Save-a-Cam-Girl-From-Herself, what is your native language?

 

[AshleyFox]

Just out of curiosity, Mr. Save-a-Cam-Girl-From-Herself, what is your native language?

He's banned now, so I guess we'll never know. Thanks, Amber - that dude was... :? :shock:

My guess as to his native: a mix of asshatery and douchebaggery

 

[HiGirlsRHot]

You're too fuckin weird. Bye dude.

LOL banned for being too weird, on this place, by Amber.

That sir takes true talent.

 

[AmberCutie]

You're too fuckin weird. Bye dude.

LOL banned for being too weird, on this place, by Amber.

That sir takes true talent.

Tone is hard on forums, so I can't quite tell if this was a shot or not.

But to clarify, when his first analogy involved rape and murder, that's the first and last straw.

 

[Johndoe91]

I think i speak for all of us here...

 

[HiGirlsRHot]

You're too fuckin weird. Bye dude.

LOL banned for being too weird, on this place, by Amber.

That sir takes true talent.

Tone is hard on forums, so I can't quite tell if this was a shot or not.

But to clarify, when his first analogy involved rape and murder, that's the first and last straw.

As I have said you do a great job moderating, and show a lot of restraint when banning and deleting posts. MFC attracts more than its fair share of weirdos.
His first post was on or over the line, the murder one was on the other side of the grand canyon over it.