Of course, in a perfect world, that would happen for all children.JickyJuly said:I believe a child deserves both. I believe it's a parent's absolute obligation to provide both. If they can't do both, they should skip creating someone who requires both and didn't ask to be there.PlayboyMegan said:that's the only point that we disagree on in that whole post. You believe a child's needs is money. I believe a child's needs is mentally healthy parents.JickyJuly said:that child's needs.
There's not much more we can say about that.
For some, birth control fails. For some, abortion and adoption is not an option they want to choose. I believe you should be mentally fit (this does NOT mean have no mental illnesss. It means have them under control) or choose adoption for your child. But when it's just about money, people find a way. You shouldnt have to choose abortion or adoption just because you're not financially stable at the moment. Circumstances change. Money comes and goes. You may not agree with going to charities for help, but I think it's perfectly acceptable and even noble to ask for help. No facts or statistics there, just some of my opinions on the matter.