Yes, she pretty much said it all, didn't she? lolWell I can only really commend your honesty, otherwise I've nothing much to add to what @JoleneBrody has said.
I have no idea for certain if it's the norm or not, but I can tell you I know of plenty of others who do, and heard some stories that might make Jolene rethink her position of me being as BAD as a member can get.But multiple accounts being "the norm"? I can't know that this isn't true, but I'd be surprised if it is. I'm not setting myself up as any sort of paragon here but, off the top of my head, I can't think of any possible reason why I might ever want to do it.
I did this once with the two accounts I mentioned earlier, when I mentioned I was starting to feel second class (again, my own behaviour was a huge part of that). I did it with the intention of full disclosure after the fact, just to make a point I had given up on getting heard any other way. Turned out to be a pretty good thing actually.I would say multiple accounts aren't abnormal but slyly interacting with one person as multiple different people is definitely not the norm, and is the shady type of dishonesty that ruins friendships. It's a massive betrayal.
But there are some cases where slyly interacting with one person as multiple different people is not a bad thing.
Disagree. Without lies, society would fall apart.That's what we in the business refer to as "being a liar." There's nothing honest about this behavior and it's not good or okay.
Some of the times I have gone to fuck with my favorite with sneak accounts, she picks up pretty quick on it. Been a time or two it got past her, but usually by my third line i get a message "Is so-and-so-username you?" Of course I always deny it until after the fact.
The problem is, I have lied so much she doesn't believe me when I tell the truth. Couple of times she has said "That's you isn't it?" and I can't convince her it really isnt. One of these days, I am going to wind up taking the rap for some really pervy shit I had nothing to do with.
It got to the point I couldn't even request a pose without getting my balls busted. So I made 2 other accounts, and managed to get some nastiness for very cheap, stuff I wouldn't have had a chance in hell of getting. Then I told her they were both me, and asked WTF!? (to be fair, my own behaviour greatly contributed to this situation, not fair to make it sound like she was just shitting on me).
I have a couple of reasons for having multiple accounts, but the reason for the "Dear God, I hope not..." remark was this. See, I come from a very conservative background. I was taught to be nice to ladies. So there have been a few times where I have chatted politely with a model just like my mother taught me, then something will happen. Then I have to leave, and come with another account so she won't know (hopefully) it's me saying "MMMM get doggy and spread that cunt you nasty whore, god I'd love to pump you full of cum".
There have also been 2, maybe 3 times now, where I just got over the top obnoxious with one account, then immediately began badmouthing myself to other members behind my back with another account. I have no clue what sort of dysfunction causes this, but hopefully with enough therapy I'll get to the bottom of it.
I have no clue what sort of dysfunction causes this, but hopefully with enough therapy I'll get to the bottom of it.
Yes, she pretty much said it all, didn't she? lol
I have no idea for certain if it's the norm or not, but I can tell you I know of plenty of others who do, and heard some stories that might make Jolene rethink her position of me being as BAD as a member can get.
I did this once with the two accounts I mentioned earlier, when I mentioned I was starting to feel second class (again, my own behaviour was a huge part of that). I did it with the intention of full disclosure after the fact, just to make a point I had given up on getting heard any other way. Turned out to be a pretty good thing actually.
If I start to get to know a model, I let them know it's me if I am on a different account.
But there are some cases where slyly interacting with one person as multiple different people is not a bad thing. Say I have 1000 tokens to spend. I have been tipping a model for a while, and she is in a bad slump. She's cried to me in private (not for tips) because she can't get any viewers. What's going to make her feel better: just tip her my 1000 (oh him again), or have a couple different guys she doesn't know come in tipping and paying a little attention?
Or what if she's got a physical feature she hates, and it's bothering her. I can tell her it's perfect for the 100th time, and it won't mean shit. But somebody she doesn't know comes in and starts raving about how wild it drives him, it might make her feel better about it.
(I can't believe nobody cares which account I got my free Viber add with today )
Well I can only really commend your honesty, otherwise I've nothing much to add to what @JoleneBrody has said.
But multiple accounts being "the norm"? I can't know that this isn't true, but I'd be surprised if it is. I'm not setting myself up as any sort of paragon here but, off the top of my head, I can't think of any possible reason why I might ever want to do it.
I do use multiple accounts, but my reasoning is actually the opposite. I use them to keep myself from being bothered by other members at times. In the room that I'm regular in I've felt that my main account is a bit too visible, and some expectation from the room comes along with it nowadays. If I just want to come in and be a bit more discreet I will use an alternate account. The model, in whose room I'm a regular in, knows all my accounts, and I tip from all of them.With that being said I use them very sparingly.
Very much agreed, the actions that were described were my only point, not the multiple accounts themselves.Same here. I have several accounts. And in fact I've also used them to tip the same model without her knowing it was the same person.
To the people who think there's no reason to have more than one I simply say they haven't come across the reasons 'yet.' There's several valid reasons for more than one...forget 'several,' there's pretty much an infinite number of reasons.
And yes, I would be devastated if a found out a member was tipping from more than one account just to make me feel better.
Yeah I don't think there is anything but kind intentions behind that, just not something I as a model would feel good about if I found out.I would hope you would consider circumstances though. The reason I did it was one model I know was really having a bad day. Not just tips, but in her personal life. She was feeling down about herself.
Well, she had one of those topics going where so many new tippers had to tip 5 tokens before she would do something. It was going slow because she was depressed, and it was carrying over into the room. So there wasn't much talking going on. New people in the room left quickly...it was gloomy to say the least.
So not only did I start tipping the 5 on my various accounts, I also started changing names under them to tip again as even more people. The result was her mood started lifting, she started smiling more, interacting with people (actual people, not just all the names that were me), and the room started reacting back. Others started tipping, not because others were tipping, but because the way the atmosphere changed with her mood. It kind of cascaded and helped her out of her funk.
So I don't really think that was a bad thing. She's not on the forum, so I don't think she'd ever find out. And I never told her. But I would hope she would understand there wasn't anything sinister or underhanded about it.
no need to apologize for "having a go at me". You didn't come across that way, and even if you did I wouldn't mind. I would have to feign outrage (which I am quite adept at).
I pretty much assume at this point that multiple accounts are the norm. Dubious? Duplicitous? Idk. I just know that is the way it is.
Don't use multiple accounts for nefarious purposes though. Worst I ever did was after a model got comfortable enough with my tips to tell me she "just wasn't in the mood" to dance after 400 tokens, then turned around 30 minutes later and danced her ass off for 100 tokens. It got to the point I couldn't even request a pose without getting my balls busted. So I made 2 other accounts, and managed to get some nastiness for very cheap, stuff I wouldn't have had a chance in hell of getting. Then I told her they were both me, and asked WTF!? (to be fair, my own behaviour greatly contributed to this situation, not fair to make it sound like she was just shitting on me).
I have a couple of reasons for having multiple accounts, but the reason for the "Dear God, I hope not..." remark was this. See, I come from a very conservative background. I was taught to be nice to ladies. So there have been a few times where I have chatted politely with a model just like my mother taught me, then something will happen. Then I have to leave, and come with another account so she won't know (hopefully) it's me saying "MMMM get doggy and spread that cunt you nasty whore, god I'd love to pump you full of cum".
There have also been 2, maybe 3 times now, where I just got over the top obnoxious with one account, then immediately began badmouthing myself to other members behind my back with another account. I have no clue what sort of dysfunction causes this, but hopefully with enough therapy I'll get to the bottom of it.
Lol, not really, but I will concede it might sound that way. I had good intentions, my lies were for the greater good, but lord knows I don't feel like filling in all the details right now. Besides, it wasn't the lies that caused her to doubt me, it was the getting caught.When you have made yourself into a totally untrustworthy human being, that is when society falls apart. You admit that you lied so much that a girl didn't even believe when you were telling the truth any more! That's a problem and very inappropriate/unhealthy behavior.
Bolded some of the scary, unhealthy, unsafe, mean-spiritied, and self-destructive behaviors you are engaging in. I thought you were an okay dude on this forum until about an hour ago. Now I'm afraid of you because you don't think you're doing anything wrong.
Let me clarify something about this bit. When I approached her with these two accounts, it was not to manipulate her into doing something she didn't want to do. It was not to manipulate her into doing something bizarre that she was dead set against, but her poor little butt had to do for the money. By industry standards, the nastiness I got was remarkably tame. I know what acts she doesn't like, and would not request them. Not with any account.That would just sting but I was very directly talking about OP's admitted use of another account to get things out of a model that she trusted him enough to say she doesn't really like doing, specifically.
A girl trusts you, OP, enough to tell you the truth of what she actually sexually enjoys and doesn't, and you respond by using a secret account to get her to do the things you know she doesn't enjoy but financial feel the need to still do?
What a great friend.
Now the behaviour I just detailed, I make no excuse for. Definitely not ok, and I don't think it's fine at all. Got a great deal of remorse and shame about the whole deal, and struggling to keep it from turning into guilt.I'm proud of you for owning up to the fact that you need help and getting help, but that doesn't excuse a bit of this behavior nor does it make it okay that you think it's perfectly fine to keep doing.
Very true. Went off my chill pills early last year. Went running back to doctor and therapist few weeks back because I knew for a fact I was on the verge of a breakdown. Took me 3 days to get an appointment with my doctor. Longest 3 days of my life.Gave you a chill pill because I think members who get SO involved and overthink things SO much all need chill pills
No. For one, I really am nice. Sometimes I do get in situations where I feel taken advantage of, but I don't really try to re-negotiate in those situations; more likely, I become irate.None of my "fresh customers" were purposed with negotiating any deals.The message I seem to be getting from you is that you try to be nice and end up feeling taken advantage of, so you tried to re-negotiate the "deal" by posing as a fresh customer?
Again, my nice is not a persona. And I don't "behave like a jerk". When I am a jerk, I am a jerk. They are never separated by much, and which one has control of the mouth has control, makes no difference which account I may be on. But I do like the Hulk reference (think it may be the megalomania).Another subtext is that you don't want to shatter your nice guy persona, so you behave like a jerk on a separate account; yet you disclose this later, negating the reason you separated your Bruce Banner/ Hulk personas to begin with.
Doubt it. Think I could write a pretty good book based on the last year though.I totally think a study into your intentions could fill some colleague psychology thesis.
If they know all of them, how are you able to be discreet and why bother?
For me, my having multiple accounts is so that I can enjoy my favorite models company without feeling the pressure from other members either to carry the room token wise, or to be very chatty (if I'm feeling quiet). Said model completely understands why I do this, and is extremely supportive. As I said in my previous post, I use them sparingly. Though recently with the advent of the "hidden" and "silent" tip commands it has made my cam experience all the betterI do use multiple accounts, but my reasoning is actually the opposite. I use them to keep myself from being bothered by other members at times. In the room that I'm regular in I've felt that my main account is a bit too visible, and some expectation from the room comes along with it nowadays.
The beginning of my post you're referencing has brief reasoning for my multiple accounts:
For me, my having multiple accounts is so that I can enjoy my favorite models company without feeling the pressure from other members either to carry the room token wise, or to be very chatty (if I'm feeling quiet). Said model completely understands why I do this, and is extremely supportive. As I said in my previous post, I use them sparingly. Though recently with the advent of the "hidden" and "silent" tip commands it has made my cam experience all the better
Oh, and the "ignore" feature has become a good friend
Agreed.This thread took sort of an odd turn now didn't it?
Apologies for the confusion.@justjoinedtopost I always took you to be a mild and entertaining troll-type but I'm thoroughly perplexed now, and unsure if the stories are for show/trolly purposes or if you really do this sort of thing.
I don't even know what's real anymore!
I really think you need to make him your room helper..... just sayin!!!I know this thread is an aboslute cluster fuck at this point but.. I just really REALLY need to post this somewhere before I remove it from my wallllll..... LULZ.
Just in case anyone IS NOT AWARE saying "rated and admired 5 stars" does not mean clicking on the things on my profile. It just means he likes me.
Hahaaaaaaa this is really just my favorite thing everI know this thread is an aboslute cluster fuck at this point but.. I just really REALLY need to post this somewhere before I remove it from my wallllll..... LULZ.
Just in case anyone IS NOT AWARE saying "rated and admired 5 stars" does not mean clicking on the things on my profile. It just means he likes me.
Personally, I think it fits in quite nicely with the theme this thread has taken. If it was me, I absolutely would not be able to resist a pm asking him for some tokens.I know this thread is an aboslute cluster fuck at this point but.. I just really REALLY need to post this somewhere before I remove it from my wallllll..... LULZ.
Just want to throw this out there about 3-Token-Beggar (formerly known as 6-Token-Beggar). This second beg of hers, combined with a couple other little things I have noticed, has convinced me she does not deserve to be labeled a token beggar.Few hours later, right about time for her to get off, guess what happened? Yup. Another token beg. Wasn't six tokens though. 3. It was 3. She asked me if I could please send 3 tokens.
I know this thread is an aboslute cluster fuck at this point but.. I just really REALLY need to post this somewhere before I remove it from my wallllll..... LULZ.
Just in case anyone IS NOT AWARE saying "rated and admired 5 stars" does not mean clicking on the things on my profile. It just means he likes me.
Yes, as long as the tomfoolery is kept to a minimum.This thread is all over the place now, but just to acknowledge that yes, several people have given perfectly good reasons why they have (or might have) multiple accounts. Don't have a problem with that at all, if they're just used in those ways.