F-in token beggars

[JerryBoBerry]

I just went to leave Jerry a nice comment on his profile wall but it wouldnt let me since it's set to friends only. *kicks rocks*

I can only assume collecting messages on his wall is not something he cares that much about. I know that's a confusing concept since the only reason I joined mfc was to collect nice comments on my wall.

I've been laughing at his comment since he posted it. That's one of 8 mfc accounts I have. One of two I share with models on the forum. (you know the other one too) And truth be told I deleted it years back. MFC misinterpreted an email I sent to them about 8 months later and they reinstated it. It's one I really haven't used much ever since, except for the odd joke to be signed in to two accounts and argue with myself. (running gag, trust me it's funny)

And yes. I think i blocked messages on that one. So there's not much chance of anyone even noticing that account let alone being able to post on it.

 

[shylurkerdude]

Never laughed so hard before 7 in the morning before. Thank you OP, hope none of these models who posted on your profile find this tread. Can't see that going well for you.

 

[shylurkerdude]

I know that's a confusing concept since the only reason I joined mfc was to collect nice comments on my wall.

Sorry Lollipop, now that I know this I will never post on your wall

 

[EmmEffCee]

He only allows people on his friends list to post on his profile wall as he doesn't hoard model compliments like a miser hoarding gold, unlike some posters in this thread. Not everyone recognizes the value of public compliments from models sadly.

*walks away in sad disappointment, for he could not compliment JBB on his profile wall due to not being his friend, nor is cool enough to get to know EmmEffCee because he is just a lowly cam member and not a model*

Yet once more this feeling of loneliness I have learned to know so well overwhelms my soul.

Your eloquent words would even convince me, if not for the fact that only 18 people in five years have seen fit to rate and admire, and even his profile page friend Amber hasn't seen fit to post on his wall.

 

[EmmEffCee]

Dammit!!! And I was just about to ask you to be my "room helper." Guess I blew it, huh?

Nice to find at least one cool and funny chick here

 

[yummybrownfox]

Speaking of which, wasn't there a time when that stupid 'rate and admire' feature was removed from MFC? That was nice. Too bad it only lasted for like 5 minutes. Lol. When they brought it back, that was when I decided to just hide the feature from my profile. Most useless feature ever. Members acting like they deserve a medal for rating and admiring, and then posting emotes telling everyone else "If you can't tip, at least rate and admire!" The typos in some of those emotes drove me nuts too. Lol.

 

[yummybrownfox]

Nice to find at least one cool and funny chick here

There's a lot of cool and funny chicks here though.

 

[AmberCutie]

Thanks, but I never said I don't know about token storage. A transfer takes no more effort than a storage retrieval.

Well that's just flat out wrong. It is a much easier process to simply open storage and move tokens back and forth. Transfers have limits per day, and you'd have to be logged on to 2 accounts at once.

Yes, the stars are indeed low. In hindsight, I wish I had blocked members from day one, because I probably have one star from just about every beggar, scammer, thief, stalker or video pirate I've called out in the last 2-3 years. If my ratings were only from performers, I'd be very surprised if I had fewer than five stars.

You cannot block members from rating/admiring.

18 people in five years have seen fit to rate and admire, and even his profile page friend Amber hasn't seen fit to post on his wall.

Even little old me? Do you think I'm BFFs with every ACF member? (Sorry @ACFFAN69 didn't mean to suggest we *aren't* friends, but I get the idea he thinks your name means we closer than we are, lol.) Over the 6.5 years I've been on MFC, I've only left a couple of profile comments because they aren't a very good means of communication.

Just to wrap up the hate-fest that seems to have blossomed here, I think @EmmEffCee means well at the bottom of it all even if he does get an inflated sense of pride for doing what he does. Some people are just like that. It's fine to try to help out the way he does. The place where folks like him will find issue is when they try to draw special attention to it and make it into a much bigger deal/favor/feat than it really is. Coming here and spouting off advice is what caused a problem, because for many, it was not favorable advice. The girls who have made it to ACF are much more "help themselves" oriented, whereas the rooms that would benefit from his tactics are possibly brand new or have a different mind-set on how to operate.

NBD.

 

[justjoinedtopost]

Never laughed so hard before 7 in the morning before. Thank you OP, hope none of these models who posted on your profile find this tread. Can't see that going well for you.

I am OP. I assume you meant @EmmEffCee.

Personally, I only have 2 models who have posted on my profile. I keep it disabled, and the posts on it are just for me. There is a third I am considering opening it up for long enough for her to post, but I want to make sure she is worthy first.

 

[TacoBelle]

I understand your insecurity, Jerry, given that no one has written anything nice on your profile page at http://profiles.myfreecams.com/jerryboberry since 2012.

False.

Nice to find at least one cool and funny chick here

I love that you have short-term memory loss. Just a few posts before this, you thought that she was not so cool.

Apparently, there's nothing that DOESN'T peeve you, Shelly. In fact, I'm starting to feel sorry for you.

She is cool, though. You've just gotta know that she'll stick up for who and what she believes in. And @GenXoxo, bitter? HA! She's one of the sweetest people on this entire forum.

You know what, @EmmEffCee? I hope that you can reign in your sensitivities and trollish-retaliations so that you can actually enjoy ACF. You seem like an educated individual who does have models' best intentions at heart. However, like Amber said, ACF girls tend to be much more self-sufficient and know how to handle these matters already. So maybe try befriending new models. But don't expect veteran models to jump at the chance to 'add you as a friend' without you giving them a reason to (shining personality or lots of tokens) first.

 

[JerryBoBerry]

Even little old me? Do you think I'm BFFs with every ACF member? (Sorry @ACFFAN69 didn't mean to suggest we *aren't* friends, but I get the idea he thinks your name means we closer than we are, lol.)

Not to sound egocentric but I think he was talking about me. His little troll rant [@EmmEffCee] last night was aimed at me since I had been calling him out on his bullshit in several of his posts.

He only allows people on his friends list to post on his profile wall as he doesn't hoard model compliments like a miser hoarding gold, unlike some posters in this thread. Not everyone recognizes the value of public compliments from models sadly.

Your eloquent words would even convince me, if not for the fact that only 18 people in five years have seen fit to rate and admire, and even his profile page friend Amber hasn't seen fit to post on his wall.

What I'm finding most telling in all your posts [@EmmEffCee] is you are so arrogant two things seem to have never entered your realm of thinking.

1. It's possible for members to NOT beg a model to post on his profile wall like you do just to accumulate fake platitudes to bolster his low self esteem.
2. You've not imagined a possibility wherein someone would actually delete comments from a message wall, even nice ones.

Back when I use to care about something as silly as a profile I liked to keep it trimmed down and simple. Just keeping a few messages from people I knew a little better. I didn't see much point in keeping pages and pages of messages for no reason. Although I'm now the bees knees according to @I_Am_Iris so I'll be keeping that one.

Well-known performers NinjaBee, Sherlynn, Lotus_Kai, MyFreeAsian, SmilingDancer, Ayisa_Kisa, LaLaMiss, B_E_L_L_E, Aloha_Ali, KawaiiMIX, AliveFantasy, Malu_Here, and Ang____ (better known as AngelaLala) have all posted kind comments on my profile page

Hold the presses, I figured it out. Went to those profiles. Most are non existent now. But I was able to visit enough to realize your pattern. You don't get comments on your profile because you're some great guy all models trust and like. You're one of those annoying fake dudes who perpetually go to models profiles to rate and admire, then make sure they know it. So you're more likely to get a message on yours for having done nothing. You catch em young before they realize you did jack squat for them.

Hahahaha. OMG you really are one of those "special people" I sensed right off the bat.

Spoiler: Lotus_Kai's Profile Message Wall

Spoiler: LaLaMiss's Profile Message Wall

 

[AmberCutie]

Not to sound egocentric but I think he was talking about me. His little troll rant [@EmmEffCee] last night was aimed at me since I had been calling him out on his bullshit in several of his posts.

Ah yes, you're right! I have trouble seeing the target of the nonsense-spewing in a scenario like this. My point still stands, though.

 

[shylurkerdude]

I am OP. I assume you meant @EmmEffCee.

Personally, I only have 2 models who have posted on my profile. I keep it disabled, and the posts on it are just for me. There is a third I am considering opening it up for long enough for her to post, but I want to make sure she is worthy first.

Yes my mistake, I did mean EmmEffCee sorry about that

 

[justjoinedtopost]

Hold the presses, I figured it out. Went to those profiles. Most are non existent now. But I was able to visit enough to realize your pattern. You don't get comments on your profile because you're some great guy all models trust and like. You're one of those annoying fake dudes who perpetually go to models profiles to rate and admire, then make sure they know it. So you're more likely to get a message on yours for having done nothing. You catch em young before they realize you did jack squat for them.

Hahahaha. OMG you really are one of those "special people" I sensed right off the bat.

Spoiler: Lotus_Kai's Profile Message Wall

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Story time.

Young friend of mine was approached by some guy. Had a screenshot of a 100,000 token tip he gave (no idea if legit or not, it doesn't show up on mycamgirl.net). She wasted about 3 days with him pm-ing, during which he described all the help he could give her, bring her high tipping viewers, get her in the top 100 (she was only planning on camming for 2 more months), on and on and on. She was also approached by 2 other accounts during this time, people asking her to see if he would transfer some tokens to them (they said his pm's were off).

I told her, it smacked of bs. Scam. Well, he started asking for stuff, and she said tip, and he kept pointing back at his profile, the screenshot of the big tip he supposedly made. She told him it did her no good, since she wasn't the one who got the tip. Finally, she started ignoring him, and he started carrying on about "I see now how you treat friends", that kind of crap. Then two other accounts approached her, asking "What did you do to piss him off? He is in all the lounges warning people to stay away from you!!"

Well I checked out his profile. Had several pages of models posting things like "Hi bb ur welcome in my room anytime!", shit like that. Every one was a newer, low camscore, EE model.

 

[AmberCutie]

Story time.

Young friend of mine was approached by some guy. Had a screenshot of a 100,000 token tip he gave (no idea if legit or not, it doesn't show up on mycamgirl.net). She wasted about 3 days with him pm-ing, during which he described all the help he could give her, bring her high tipping viewers, get her in the top 100 (she was only planning on camming for 2 more months), on and on and on. She was also approached by 2 other accounts during this time, people asking her to see if he would transfer some tokens to them (they said his pm's were off).

I told her, it smacked of bs. Scam. Well, he started asking for stuff, and she said tip, and he kept pointing back at his profile, the screenshot of the big tip he supposedly made. She told him it did her no good, since she wasn't the one who got the tip. Finally, she started ignoring him, and he started carrying on about "I see now how you treat friends", that kind of crap. Then two other accounts approached her, asking "What did you do to piss him off? He is in all the lounges warning people to stay away from you!!"

Well I checked out his profile. Had several pages of models posting things like "Hi bb ur welcome in my room anytime!", shit like that. Every one was a newer, low camscore, EE model.

Was his name Playboy555?

 

[justjoinedtopost]

Was his name Playboy555?

hmm. Gonna out him here, against my better judgement.

Connvoy

Online now as a matter of fact, but the profile locked down now. He did have some high rewards points, so who knows about the 100k tip. It's still showing up in his images on the preview popup.

But big tipper or not, I got the chat logs showing the bs he was up to

 

[AmberCutie]

hmm. Gonna out him here, against my better judgement.

Connvoy

Online now as a matter of fact, but the profile locked down now. He did have some high rewards points, so who knows about the 100k tip. It's still showing up in his images on the preview popup.

But big tipper or not, I got the chat logs showing the bs he was up to

I mention Playboy because he was notorious for scammy shady shit like that.

It's entirely possible this Connvoy dude actually tipped it but is now using it as some sort of leverage and bragging right. Not everyone who tips generously does so just for the happiness of the model, some are up to nefarious schemes. Expensive nefarious schemes.

 

[justjoinedtopost]

It's entirely possible this Connvoy dude actually tipped it but is now using it as some sort of leverage and bragging right. Not everyone who tips generously does so just for the happiness of the model, some are up to nefarious schemes. Expensive nefarious schemes.

Definitely the vibe I got. And the two other accounts coming to the model asking her to see if he would transfer tokens, then the two "HE'S RUINING YOU IN THE LOUNGES!" followups pretty much solidified that opinion.

If I'm not mistaken, he didn't tip her one token (memory may be faulty here thought). I do know at one point he clicked the group button, so I pm'ed him asking him how long he could stay in group, was going to go myself. Got no answer, but his pm's were open.

 

[LaceyRoyce]

I'll just leave this here. When i clicked his username and realized who he was I removed it.. but yeah. He's absolutely a liar, not just an odd but well intentioned person.

 

[ANA_K]

I never think about profile comments. I feel like it's a feature that could eventually go away anyway.
Why do lounge guys act like they are part of some incredibly privileged gentlemen's club? It's just a chat room & they call it "The Lounge"!
I have gotten some pretty interesting emails after members posted me in the lounge. Apparently, my career on MFC has been over about 10 times now. lol

 

[JoleneBrody]

Oh god that's my favorite stupid thing ever!

 

[yummybrownfox]

When members come on here acting like they're so wonderful to models, and then other posters provide proof that they're full of shit (screenshots), I think it's like the funniest thing ever. Like that guy who used to post on here who'd been wanting to check me out, but when he visited me all he did was BEG. Maybe it was that vlad guy. I don't remember.

 

[justjoinedtopost]

Why do lounge guys act like they are part of some incredibly privileged gentlemen's club? It's just a chat room & they call it "The Lounge"!

Hey, there's no reason to start bashing lounge guys here.

 

[dilligaf0]

they're called "lounge lizards" for a reason.

 

[alexa_voltage]

I really don't understand why so many members have an issue with model saying a simple "Hello! How are you____" If you come in our room its awkward to sit there and not saying anything if we notice you came in. I understand everyone has their own opinion but I thought one of the biggest reasons people go to cam sites is for the interaction?? Doesnt that mean part of that interaction is saying hello to your members??? I feel like for so many of use cammers it is just a way to interact with members! Not a way to make more money.

 

[EllieGeorge]

During the week I had a really nice Skype with a model. An hour later she was back on MFC so I PMed her to thank her for the Skype.... her reply was "MB some tkns??" I just replied "OK bye" I don't see myself going back to her room, it was such a negative and spoiled the positive thoughts I had for her.

Um no. I always pm my friends to say hey, hru and to let them know I'm online but otherwise yeah... I'll pm and say I had a great time. More tokens is soooo rude

 

[EllieGeorge]

Ugh, I hate it when camgirls do that-gives all of us a bad name and doesn't help with the guys who call us money hungry and token whores. Even if I'm having a horrible earnings day, I won't do that. I wait for members to initiate messaging me-sometimes I feel like even a "Hi" can be interpreted as "Come to my room and tip me," even though I genuinely just want to say hi.

Really? Because I do it every time I log on. I just say Hru today? If they don't respond, I don't push

 

[EllieGeorge]

I like to be left alone if I am not in a model room.....
If I want to contact a girl I will do so and because I am fully aware that models want to make money I see even an innocent " How are you today ?" as an attempt to increase revenue....

Or... I just want someone to talk to because my room is quiet. I'm not begging for increased revenue. The guys on my friends list are friends... maybe I wanna know how you are.

 

[LaceyRoyce]

Or... I just want someone to talk to because my room is quiet. I'm not begging for increased revenue. The guys on my friends list are friends... maybe I wanna know how you are.

Ellie I pm dudes. I am careful to do it in a non-beggy way and if i get no response or a response that indicates they'd rather be left alone, I don't message that member again but ... I'm sorry quite frankly, pming members on my friendslist to say hi - sometimes when im offlien and and sometimes when I'm online..and just..chat. (like genuinely, get to know them) is fun for me, creates good connections with them, and overall makes my room busier and more interactive and seems to increase my profits.

yes I want to make money. But a "hey, how have you been" really can be just a hey how have you been. I did ask myself once, after a really unsettling conversation with a reporter... if i was being fully honest about my concern. I was messaging a member who had gone dark, someone i'd hung out with in person, knew very well..and just.. basically adored as a person (and yes, also a big tipper). He kept implying that i was really just 'chasing a whale'. And while, if .. he came back and tipped that would have been lovely, I was (and still am) incredibly concerned about this person. It made me FURIOUS to imply that I didn't care about him as a friend. I did some soul searching and .. really really came to the conclusion that if he never tipped a dime again, it still would have been rewarding to me to find out that he was OK and stuff.

So yeah. I dunno, i know opinions are pretty mixed on it.. but in my experience pming people I know and who have tipped and seem to be interested in me, with a chatty and NO PRESSURE to respond or tip message has worked out in my favor... both for deepening friendships and overall tokies.

 

[EllieGeorge]

Ellie I pm dudes. I am careful to do it in a non-beggy way and if i get no response or a response that indicates they'd rather be left alone, I don't message that member again but ... I'm sorry quite frankly, pming members on my friendslist to say hi - sometimes when im offlien and and sometimes when I'm online..and just..chat. (like genuinely, get to know them) is fun for me, creates good connections with them, and overall makes my room busier and more interactive and seems to increase my profits.

yes I want to make money. But a "hey, how have you been" really can be just a hey how have you been. I did ask myself once, after a really unsettling conversation with a reporter... if i was being fully honest about my concern. I was messaging a member who had gone dark, someone i'd hung out with in person, knew very well..and just.. basically adored as a person (and yes, also a big tipper). He kept implying that i was really just 'chasing a whale'. And while, if .. he came back and tipped that would have been lovely, I was (and still am) incredibly concerned about this person. It made me FURIOUS to imply that I didn't care about him as a friend. I did some soul searching and .. really really came to the conclusion that if he never tipped a dime again, it still would have been rewarding to me to find out that he was OK and stuff.

So yeah. I dunno, i know opinions are pretty mixed on it.. but in my experience pming people I know and who have tipped and seem to be interested in me, with a chatty and NO PRESSURE to respond or tip message has worked out in my favor... both for deepening friendships and overall tokies.

Thank you for this Similar to you, I have "lost" a friend who used to chat with me everyday whether on kik or cam and I'm honestly concerned about him. I dont care if he comes back or not as long as he's ok.

I mean we are real people with real emotions. Yeah I cam to make money, but I also make connections with people like I did when I waitressed/worked retail.