Are all Romanian Cam Girls trust worthy –Worth Helping

[imlusifer4u]

I have a experience to share here. Not pointing out fingers on all Romanian Cam girls I know some who are very truthful and trust worthy.
I got to meet a Romanian in the site called http://www.chaturbate.com/bookofher been talking to her since 6 months. She always came up with problems like no money to eat, No money to pay bills etc etc. like a good friend I used to give her money which I could afford. She use to tell me that im her best friend a real friend till I gave her money when she needed it.
When I was in some financial problems and was not able to give her money she started ignoring me. When I asked her reason. She just said you didn’t give me money for a month now. I don’t care for you. Time is money. I don’t have time for you. If you want me to talk give me money. I was just confused how can one don’t appreciate for help done. I helped her when I had money with all goodness.
Again when I asked her she just banned me from her room saying these many days you were talking to my husband and this is last time I speaking to you. I felt cheated.
Guys just suggest me what to do here. Was it my mistake I helped her.

 

[ScarletVixen]

Are you the same guy from yesterday that posted a bunch of topics calling that same model a "money whore", "slut" and accusing her of credit card fraud and having an unemployed husband?

On topic: You're upset because a model stopped giving you special attention ("best friends") when you stopped tipping and then banned you for bothering her and her husband?

 

[Shaun__]

I read your topic, and I have to say I do not think all Romanian cam girls are worth helping. Neither are all of any other country's cam models though. Evey country has at least one bad apple I am sure.

 

[mynameisbob84]

You got played, yo. It happens. I don't know if it happens any more often with Romanian models than with other models, but there certainly seems to be more complaints of Romanian models misleading members than there are of models from other parts of the world doing the same. I don't know if that's purely down to members being more likely to publicly complain when they've been mislead by a "foreign" model, or if Romanian models are encouraged by their studios to engage in this type of behaviour, or if it's something else entirely, but the stereotypical image of Romanian models isn't particularly favourable. Which is probably a shame, as I would think most Romanian models can absolutely be trusted and have no desire to rip anyone off.

As for your question - "are all Romanian Cam Girls trust worthy" - no, of course they're not. Just as not all American cam models, or all UK cam models, or all European models are trustworthy. The majority are, but there's always, always going to be a minority looking to make some easy money. That counts for all walks of life, and not just camming, ya know?

And it's not that cam girls aren't "worth helping", it's just that, as a member, it's not your job to help them. If you spend a lot of time talking to a model, you should tip them. If you want a private or a group session with a model, you have to tip them first. If you're getting anything at all from a model, be it sexual gratification, conversation, company or entertainment, you should tip them something. But that doesn't in any way, shape, or form, mean that you personally are responsible for paying her bills or buying her food.

It's no more a member's responsibility to ensure a model's bills are paid than it is a model's responsibility to ensure a member's bills are paid :twocents-02cents:

 

[imlusifer4u]

Are you the same guy from yesterday that posted a bunch of topics calling that same model a "money whore", "slut" and accusing her of credit card fraud and having an unemployed husband?

On topic: You're upset because a model stopped giving you special attention ("best friends") when you stopped tipping and then banned you for bothering her and her husband?

Thanks for response. This is my first post here.

 

[imlusifer4u]

Are you the same guy from yesterday that posted a bunch of topics calling that same model a "money whore", "slut" and accusing her of credit card fraud and having an unemployed husband?

On topic: You're upset because a model stopped giving you special attention ("best friends") when you stopped tipping and then banned you for bothering her and her husband?

Thanks for response. This is my first post here.

Yes exactly i was upset . but later realised this is how it works after reading various thread on internet. i was layman so was confused. but now i feel this is how it works. i need to be cautious.

 

[SiaThunder]

I don't know if that's purely down to members being more likely to publicly complain when they've been mislead by a "foreign" model, or if Romanian models are encouraged by their studios to engage in this type of behaviour, or if it's something else entirely, but the stereotypical image of Romanian models isn't particularly favourable. Which is probably a shame, as I would think most Romanian models can absolutely be trusted and have no desire to rip anyone off.

The thing is in a studio you have "a training" (I've been through that) where they teach us what to say... how to fake something (anal, pee-shows, squirt-shows). I had a lot of troubles and I got 5 or 6 fines cause I didn't do what they said. I didn't want to fake anything cause that's not me.

Yeah I'm romanian! But I prefer to make less money than cheat. But that is me...

 

[imlusifer4u]

I don't know if that's purely down to members being more likely to publicly complain when they've been mislead by a "foreign" model, or if Romanian models are encouraged by their studios to engage in this type of behaviour, or if it's something else entirely, but the stereotypical image of Romanian models isn't particularly favourable. Which is probably a shame, as I would think most Romanian models can absolutely be trusted and have no desire to rip anyone off.

The thing is in a studio you have "a training" (I've been through that) where they teach us what to say... how to fake something (anal, pee-shows, squirt-shows). I had a lot of troubles and I got 5 or 6 fines cause I didn't do what they said. I didn't want to fake anything cause that's not me.

Yeah I'm romanian! But I prefer to make less money than cheat. But that is me...

she is as per my fullest knowledge cams from her house not from her studio. As i see her coming online in any time she wish. but in case of studio they follow the strict timings. i might be wrong..dunno

 

[SiaThunder]

[she is as per my fullest knowledge cams from her house not from her studio. As i see her coming online in any time she wish. but in case of studio they follow the strict timings. i might be wrong..dunno

I'm sorry for what happened to you... but look at the bright side... next time you'll be more careful

Take care

 

[imlusifer4u]

Most funny part was. whenever i tipped her she use to say why do you waste money buying tips from site. they will charge you more. instead she told me to pay money so that i save lol... i felt she is bothered about my money getting wasted. how wrong i was. she just needed money so that she need not to wait for period to end and payout time. i realized all this lately..only i can blame myself not anyone else

 

[IsabellaSnow]

As has been said before, you're not responsible for a models bills etc. She earns what she earns and needs to make do with it. You should tip what you feel comfortable tipping and accept that if you're tipping more you will receive more attention than if you're tipping less or not at all. You also need to accept that if you stop tipping or start tipping less the model can and may stop talking to you, or will give you less attention than before.
There are members who I really get along with and would love to talk to more, but they tip me so little now that I have to direct my attention elsewhere, as elsewhere are also cool people I enjoy chatting to unfortunately the ones who don't really tip much anymore cannot get much attention as I only have so many hours in the day. Time is money, and as much as I enjoy chatting to my regulars very much, if I'm not receiving any income at any points from them then I'd rather go outside and have real life experiences than always be sat at a computer.

The way this model did it was particularly harsh, and honestly I don't see the need of it. Why ignore a member completely when you can just direct less attention their way. Some of my best regulars have had months tipping less or not at all, then have tipped loads a month or two months later. Unless you didn't tip all that much before and were irritating her/being clingy/too much I don't see the benefit with cutting you off in that way.

As for whether you can trust all Romanian models, well no, that's ridiculous. You can take away the Romanian and Model part and just say "can you trust all people?" The answer is no. Fact is most people you cannot trust completely, but most people you can trust enough, it's up to you to use your instincts. Remember also, someone may be very trustworthy in certain situations with certain people, but that doesn't mean they won't let you down.

I think the complaint with Romanian models is that if a non Romanian girl scams someone it's "I've been scammed!" If that girl were Romanian, the comment is "I've been scammed by a Romanian!"
I do think there probably is more scamming going on from Romanian models simply because it's a poor country, though not as poor as it once was, but where ever you find poverty/poor people you will find crime, regardless of the country or area it's in. Doesn't mean they're all criminals, it's more that those who are the sort of people inclined to become criminals have more reasons to go down that road.

The other reason there's probably more scamming coming from Romanian models is just because there are more Romanian models. Even if you only had 1% of all models being scammers, 1% of 100 models is 1 model, whilst 1% of 1000 models is 10 models. Still not very much, but it's much more likely that if there were 10 Romanian models scamming people that lots of members would complain about it and make a big fuss. I think then the distrust that comes from this also means that these members are a lot more likely to make a fuss.

It's no different to the distrust I might feel being approached by a black dude with his hood up over a cap, it would have nothing to do with his colour, as I'd not feel remotely distrustful or nervous without that sort of dress sense, and I'd feel just as distrustful of anyone dressed in that way, because where I've lived people who dress like that have been more aggressive and more likely to rob you. Just like if most people met someone who's Romanian who's polite, friendly, seems perfectly well off, they'd never worry, or even think about it, it's only the image some people give off, like this girl going on about not being able to pay bills etc. Most people I know who wear hoods and caps, or come from poor council estates would never do anything like that and I trust them, it's still only a minority of those who actually turn to crime/scamming. Even so because it's less of a minority within those groups I am definitely more wary.

 

[SiaThunder]

Most funny part was. whenever i tipped her she use to say why do you waste money buying tips from site. they will charge you more. instead she told me to pay money so that i save lol... i felt she is bothered about my money getting wasted. how wrong i was. she just needed money so that she need not to wait for period to end and payout time. i realized all this lately..only i can blame myself not anyone else

You should've noticed from that it was all about money

 

[Jupiter551]

I wish to become bookofher-cb many jobless husband, and survive, nay prosper, in her mercy of wife. :geek:

 

[Maia99]

I don't know if that's purely down to members being more likely to publicly complain when they've been mislead by a "foreign" model, or if Romanian models are encouraged by their studios to engage in this type of behaviour, or if it's something else entirely, but the stereotypical image of Romanian models isn't particularly favourable. Which is probably a shame, as I would think most Romanian models can absolutely be trusted and have no desire to rip anyone off.

The thing is in a studio you have "a training" (I've been through that) where they teach us what to say... how to fake something (anal, pee-shows, squirt-shows). I had a lot of troubles and I got 5 or 6 fines cause I didn't do what they said. I didn't want to fake anything cause that's not me.

Yeah I'm romanian! But I prefer to make less money than cheat. But that is me...

Interesting. I work in a studio and never been taught how to fake. However, some do teach that to new models as trainers, but that depends on the trainer herself. Fines for not doing fake? Never. I know in most studios, 'learning how to fake on cam' is purely to promote the studio and cam life in Romania, but a normal studio wouldn't ban the true act for being easier to do after all and that means more money to the girl=more money to the studio itself. I've seen girls who didn't know how to use a computer, didn't know English, had no idea what is this all about, why not having someone to explain them?
I'm not saying studios are all respectable, but here, being so many studios more or less known, it's better to be careful which one you pick to start.
About teaching what to say... purely sexual stuff only. The other things are for lazy girls who need more cash with less effort and come on, that's not something that can be taught. Everyone can come up with a drama.

I tend to see too much underapreciation coming from...romanian girls! Like they do feel people are against them for some reason and that is just for being romanian. If a member comes in and says she's a bitch, she tends to think he said that because she's romanian. I've never been insulted by a member for being what I am (except some Italians who called me gypsy...but that's another story and has some political stuff involved...).


Oh, and sorry, but it's your fault for letting her scam you. Don't put the guilt on everyone here, just because you were too blind to see beneath surface.

 

[yossarian]

Dude, give it a rest.

 

[IsabellaSnow]

Oh, and sorry, but it's your fault for letting her scam you. Don't put the guilt on everyone here, just because you were too blind to see beneath surface.

pretty much, also, although this is quite a harsh approach to camming, but it's kind of like bitching about having paid for a magazine subscription, paying every month, and then being cut off when you can no longer pay. What do people really expect from camgirls? You're not paying for her to genuinely care about you, it is her job. As much as I do genuinely care about some of my regulars I would advise members to not be naive about how much a model cares about you. This is her job, you are a paycheque and someone nice to talk to. It is her job to make you feel cared about and to try and get you to part with money. It's not her job to actually care about you. She's not a scammer, she just cams in a certain way and when you stopped spending money you were no longer important. What she didn't do, which most camgirls, or any form of company would do, is to try and keep you sweet and get you to spend more money on her. I think you were probably pissing her off anyway. One of those annoying regulars that many models keep because they tip, then as soon as the tips stop they use it as an excuse to get rid of them.

 

[MemberEd]

I have a experience to share here. Not pointing out fingers on all Romanian Cam girls I know some who are very truthful and trust worthy.
I got to meet a Romanian in the site called http://www.chaturbate.com/bookofher been talking to her since 6 months. She always came up with problems like no money to eat, No money to pay bills etc etc. like a good friend I used to give her money which I could afford. She use to tell me that im her best friend a real friend till I gave her money when she needed it.
When I was in some financial problems and was not able to give her money she started ignoring me. When I asked her reason. She just said you didn’t give me money for a month now. I don’t care for you. Time is money. I don’t have time for you. If you want me to talk give me money. I was just confused how can one don’t appreciate for help done. I helped her when I had money with all goodness.
Again when I asked her she just banned me from her room saying these many days you were talking to my husband and this is last time I speaking to you. I felt cheated.
Guys just suggest me what to do here. Was it my mistake I helped her.

I'm just curious. When you joined the cam site, were you looking to make friends or for something else? Did you first go into this models room because she looked friendly? The point I'm going to make is, if you give her tokens (or whatever they use at Chaturbate) directly in exchange for a flash or you give her tokens to fix her roof and she gratefully flashes you is it really any different? Did you get absolutely nothing in exchange for your money?

 

[zippypinhead]

It doesn't even sound like she scammed him. It sounds far more like he didn't understand that he was doing business with this woman, who, based upon her page, seems very much to be in it to earn money and nice things (I mean, seriously, this guy thinks he's buying this girl's groceries, and she's got an iPhone 5 on her wishlist?) When his money ran out and he kept pestering her, her patience ran out. That doesn't make her untrustworthy. That makes her a cam model. There are threads on this forum full of models describing the exact same action.

Move on, friend. She obviously wasn't for you.

 

[takuy]

A perfect way to test if a model genuinely cares (or is "trustworthy"), is to see if she can still hold a conversation without you throwing tokies at her for a while. :thumbleft:

 

[rexcode]

There seems to be this irrelevant word "Romanian" in your question. Let's get rid of of that distraction, and then I'll try to provide a proper answer.

Are all camgirls worth tipping? No.
Are some camgirls worth tipping? Yes.

 

[IsabellaSnow]

A perfect way to test if a model genuinely cares (or is "trustworthy"), is to see if she can still hold a conversation without you throwing tokies at her for a while. :thumbleft:

Though I don't recommend doing this just to "test" the model. Honestly, how much does it really matter? As much as I'll still talk to people when they no longer tip, it does start to get on my nerves when they expect the same/similar kind of time and attention as when they did tip. It actually shows to me that they clearly don't care about me. I wouldn't go to a friends work, not buy anything and expect them to hang out with me most of the time. This could get them fired or in trouble, just as a member trying to take up my time whilst not tipping will make me lose out on income. I also wouldn't expect them to spend all or loads of their free time with me even if they're a close friend.
Members who stop tipping deliberately to try and test a models friendship are deluded at best and cruel at worst. If you feel the need to test someone then I think really it's you who needs to be tested. I wouldn't ever stop getting naked or doing stuff for regulars just to see if they still continue tipping and chatting to me. In fact, most models find that if they change things about how they do stuff they lose a lot of close regulars, why is it one rule for members and another rule for models? I don't go posting topics on ACF every time a close regular stops tipping and starts visiting someone else, or makes out they'll tip me big for a special occasion and then doesn't, they may have told me how much they care about me etc, but at the end of the day many of them disappear without much thought about me. Sure I might mention it to friends, maybe post something about it in the models only section and I have quietly cried or have got upset about a few, but I don't have some kind of breakdown and accuse them of being scamming, nasty guys. I don't question whether all guys from their nationality are dicks or are worth my time. I just accept that's life and move on. I may have spent lots of time and effort on that person, but it's in the past, I'll move onto different people.

 

[yossarian]

No, the perfect way to test if the model genuinely cares (is "trustworthy") is to run up to her, turn around and fall backwards. If she catches you, she cares.

 

[zippypinhead]

No, the perfect way to test if the model genuinely cares (is "trustworthy") is to run up to her, turn around and fall backwards. If she catches you, she cares.

Ah, the ol' web model trust fall. Classic.

 

[Rose]

No, the perfect way to test if the model genuinely cares (is "trustworthy") is to run up to her, turn around and fall backwards. If she catches you, she cares.

You might want to throw your wallet first so I can make sure you don't lose your money during the fall. I'll keep it real safe.

 

[Mirah]

meh, there are "scammers" from everywhere. USA, Canada, Romania, UK. but to generalize is a bit ridiculous and insulting to the girls (Romanian, in this case) who works their asses off without ~scamming~

move on, learn from it.

 

[LadyLuna]

Are all (group of people) (generalization)?

No, not all people within that group fit that generalization. Some will, some won't. Sometimes generalizations happen because most of the group fits that generalization. Sometimes, it happens because many more people complain about that particular group than the other groups, regardless of how often each group fits that generalization. But no matter what group of people you're talking about, and what quality you're talking about, some of them will fit the quality, and some of them won't. Every group of people has their honest people, and their dishonest people. Every group of people has their cheaters, and assholes, just like every group of people has their sweethearts, and philanthropists. Every group has some smarter people, and some dumber people. Every group has some healthy people, and some not-so-healthy people. Every group has some logical people, and some intuitive people.

I think most camgirls are honest. But you don't hear many stories about the honest ones, just about the scammers. That's because people are much more likely to speak up about a complaint, than about a good time.

 

[Anonymous]

This guy would have got first time experience to take this serious and post here. Its the same way maximum times people experiance cam girls. just move on..don't waste much time thinking about it ...cheerz

 

[Anonymous]

No, the perfect way to test if the model genuinely cares (is "trustworthy") is to run up to her, turn around and fall backwards. If she catches you, she cares.

why to test them??its their job they are definately not trustworthy to be tested..its my view especially when it comes to business

 

[Maia99]

No, the perfect way to test if the model genuinely cares (is "trustworthy") is to run up to her, turn around and fall backwards. If she catches you, she cares.

why to test them??its their job they are definately not trustworthy to be tested..its my view especially when it comes to business

test for what?

 

[RedHerby]

I'm so good ! Really! My capabilities to select Romanian cam models for xxx fun or as online friend is amazing ! Only 100 % hard working honest Romanian models pass my selection, I'm never be scammed ! 

I think I will write a report how to select Romanian models, there is clearly a market for that! Ok, already a free tip! Ignore blond Romanian models, Romania is not located in Scandinavia, if a female lies about her hair color then she is a scammer !