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Maia99 said:
I think test for whether the person they met on a camsite is a genuine/real friend who doesn't give a fuck about money and will still give exactly the same attention when the money is taken out of the equation...
So yeah, basically deluded people who seem confused with online relationships with camgirls and real life relationships with people who talk to them for things other than money.
Jeeze, some guys need to get a grip, if I met them in real life, even if I got along with them, I would probably barely end up being friends with them, they'd never see me strip/get naked, they'd never talk to me about really personal things etc. You can't have the relationship you have with a camgirl AND have it be the same as a real life relationship. The only way you'd get both would be if you were dating the girl, which sounds like a lovely situation, except you probably never would be able to date her even if you met under different circumstances.
I've been on MFC for 3 years, have met dozens of Romanian models, and have yet to be scammed by any of them. What am I doing wrong? 
Keep trying young man, you'll get there. I have faith in you. In the meantime try to diversify. Tip models of many nationalities. Maybe you'll get lucky. :lol:ComicOzzie said:I've been on MFC for 3 years, have met dozens of Romanian models, and have yet to be scammed by any of them. What am I doing wrong?
Is that the scene from The General with Buster Keaton? Been a while sine i watched that. If i remember right that was the most expensive silent movie made during the silent film era. Over a million dollars to destroy that train. (Mel Brooks Silent Movie since has beat that amount.)yossarian said:This thread:
imlusifer4u said:Most funny part was. whenever i tipped her she use to say why do you waste money buying tips from site. they will charge you more. instead she told me to pay money so that i save lol... i felt she is bothered about my money getting wasted. how wrong i was. she just needed money so that she need not to wait for period to end and payout time. i realized all this lately..only i can blame myself not anyone else
Sorry to hear my man, but you got played and used as a 'sugar daddy,' or 'white knight' as they refer to them in many U.S. cam circles.
Once the girl spots you as a nice guy that basically refuses to say 'no,' she milked you for every penny you had. Now, of course, she does not represent the whole of models in any way whatsoever, but there will always be models like her looking to appeal to a man's emotional side if she knows his wallet will be at full dispense. Once she had you 'emotionally' with her sob stories of financial hardship, she knew you'd be a 'tip slave' for as long as she wanted.
Fortunately for you, you were able to stop yourself short as soon as you came low on funds. You'd be surprised, there are a lot of guys out there that would have sold their car, re-mortgaged their house...basically anything...to keep their cam girl happy financially.
Being a cam fan should be approached just as everything in life...with responsibility and moderation. You over indulge and live outside your means, and you will crumble.
Again, sorry to hear you got taken, but at least now you know what not to do. I'm going through a similar situation, but fortunately for me it was for a specific service I'm being scammed on, so hopefully I can take some course of action through the cam site itself. Best of luck with your endeavors.
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Its very simple. If you show her how naive you are. Start getting close by letting out all your details expecting her to open up with you to share all her personal life details. Chances of getting trapped are maximum. Cam girl knows whome to target at that particular time and squeeze him the max. In cb I see a top tipper just becomes a mod in her room easily. Cam girl does it just to show that how important are you in her room. How much she believes and trust in you. But the fact is you are her soft target to fulfill her financial needs..
Dont be surprised after some time not getting the same attention. She might have got a new trap who is more naive than you lol.
This is reality my friend . Who understand this I believe never get fooled in any chance.
Moral is being stupid is your choice. Cant blame cam girls..some romanian cam girls are born to cheat. Sorry its harsh but true..be safe cheerz
Dont be surprised after some time not getting the same attention. She might have got a new trap who is more naive than you lol.
This is reality my friend . Who understand this I believe never get fooled in any chance.
Moral is being stupid is your choice. Cant blame cam girls..some romanian cam girls are born to cheat. Sorry its harsh but true..be safe cheerz
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rwesmill said:imlusifer4u said:Most funny part was. whenever i tipped her she use to say why do you waste money buying tips from site. they will charge you more. instead she told me to pay money so that i save lol... i felt she is bothered about my money getting wasted. how wrong i was. she just needed money so that she need not to wait for period to end and payout time. i realized all this lately..only i can blame myself not anyone else
Sorry to hear my man, but you got played and used as a 'sugar daddy,' or 'white knight' as they refer to them in many U.S. cam circles.
Once the girl spots you as a nice guy that basically refuses to say 'no,' she milked you for every penny you had. Now, of course, she does not represent the whole of models in any way whatsoever, but there will always be models like her looking to appeal to a man's emotional side if she knows his wallet will be at full dispense. Once she had you 'emotionally' with her sob stories of financial hardship, she knew you'd be a 'tip slave' for as long as she wanted.
Fortunately for you, you were able to stop yourself short as soon as you came low on funds. You'd be surprised, there are a lot of guys out there that would have sold their car, re-mortgaged their house...basically anything...to keep their cam girl happy financially.
Being a cam fan should be approached just as everything in life...with responsibility and moderation. You over indulge and live outside your means, and you will crumble.
Again, sorry to hear you got taken, but at least now you know what not to do. I'm going through a similar situation, but fortunately for me it was for a specific service I'm being scammed on, so hopefully I can take some course of action through the cam site itself. Best of luck with your endeavors.
Its rightly said..man who experienced it himsrlf knows the pain.. looking forward for the thread with your experience ..let all know what have you gone through. If you are willing to
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are you fuckin' kiddin me?
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talktomeanytime said:
do you know ALL romanian girls to say that? why generalize? are you frustrated?
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Maia99 said:
I just looked at his history of posts on here. Just about everything he says makes me go WTF.....
This sounds pretty boring.talktomeanytime said:
Yeah, at this point it's safe to use the troll word and just ignore the stupid.yummybrownfox said:
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talktomeanytime said:Lets close the thread here...All cam girls going mad on me.... Save me
You brought it on yourself. When you express a controversial opinion you need to be OK with people expressing their opinions as well, even when they're totally the opposite of your own. It's just the way things work.
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Generally agree what most people said, over generalization of Romanian girls....with that said certain (could be a small amount or a large amount don't know) studios do encourage the models to milk their customers by acting as if the member is special. (Got my info from an old favorite who got fired for telling me...she was about to quit anyways, and luckily we still talk)
To the topic creator, just watch out next time. There is nothing wrong with paying a model to just chat, but understand that most of the time the time spent with you is based on how much she likes you and how much you tip. There are a few cases where it might not matter if you tip...but those are rare cases and involves not doing any sexual acts with the model
Personally when I find models I want to talk with (without the desire for sexual act show) I do the following:
Enter as basic, if allowed, and talk to her
Figure out the amount of tokens you can afford to her per month
After getting to know her as a basic, take her private as premium (just to chat)
Explain to her that you don't expect anything from her, and for her to treat you as a low priority over any other potential tippers (ie. only chat when there is nothing else for her to do...such as an empty room when talking doesn't cut into her activity)
Promise to tip her the x amount of tokens you can afford per month (If she is in a studio then I usually ask whether she wants it in one lump sum...as if she doesn't meet her quota she might not get it if I distribute it over the month).
Lastly I actually tip her the x amount promised
Anyways that is my naive look on things (sorry if I offend anyone on this one)
To the topic creator, just watch out next time. There is nothing wrong with paying a model to just chat, but understand that most of the time the time spent with you is based on how much she likes you and how much you tip. There are a few cases where it might not matter if you tip...but those are rare cases and involves not doing any sexual acts with the model
Personally when I find models I want to talk with (without the desire for sexual act show) I do the following:
Enter as basic, if allowed, and talk to her
Figure out the amount of tokens you can afford to her per month
After getting to know her as a basic, take her private as premium (just to chat)
Explain to her that you don't expect anything from her, and for her to treat you as a low priority over any other potential tippers (ie. only chat when there is nothing else for her to do...such as an empty room when talking doesn't cut into her activity)
Promise to tip her the x amount of tokens you can afford per month (If she is in a studio then I usually ask whether she wants it in one lump sum...as if she doesn't meet her quota she might not get it if I distribute it over the month).
Lastly I actually tip her the x amount promised
Anyways that is my naive look on things (sorry if I offend anyone on this one)
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You make it sound like "making members feel like they are special" is a bad thing. That's what the job is about...entertaining, which includes psychological elements. And "milking customers?" What does that even mean...isn't it the job of someone in any business to promote their wares? These are elements of every business in every country in the world...to sell via promotion.
MFC is NOT a hookup site. If you meet someone at a business where you go and get to know them and befriend them, fine, but that's not the prime purpose of the site. If you go on the site thinking otherwise, you will definitely be disappointed.
MFC is NOT a hookup site. If you meet someone at a business where you go and get to know them and befriend them, fine, but that's not the prime purpose of the site. If you go on the site thinking otherwise, you will definitely be disappointed.
Sorry, I'll expand on the milking via making them feel special...it is one thing to interact with people giving tokens and being friendly, I have no problem with that...it is a whole different thing to pretend you are real life friends, and you only one they care about them but then "tragedy" strikes and they need money quickly, to me that is milking members. It is much like used car salesmen. There are some who sell it at reasonable prices and make no false sense of quality...then there are the milkers who make you believe the car is "brand new" when it has already been in 3 accidents and will break down within a month.
I never said MFC was a hookup site...but it can be a good place to find models who are a pleasure to talk to (I did note that it still depends on tipping). Despite what some people believe not everything on MFC has to revolve around sexual acts... The act of knowing that someone enjoys your company, not just for the tokens but rather who you are can be a huge thing. Sorry it is hard for me to explain properly. It isn't that you are seeing her as someone to have a friendship with or even relationship with, but rather you enjoy the company.
Look a good example is of the model who actually told me about the things she was told to do:
I got to know her very much like my previous post on here (but back then I was just a basic, no premium)
I enjoyed talking to her so much and felt like I was freeloading so I became premium...I had already knew from seeing her room she was shy and didn't overly enjoy getting naked in public chat...do I took her private, and we talked...very much like when I was still a basic. After a few months (not too much tipping, since I was still in school at that time), I took her private again. We enjoyed each others company (and it helped that she was half naked, but I wouldn't have cared if she was fully clothed). So yes MFC is not a hookup site, but although mostly civilized conversations, many things talked about between myself and the model, would not have been said on hookup sites...so there is sometime to be said about finding a model who feels like should could have been a friend if met in a different circumstance...who hasn't fantasized about being able to tell a friend something dirty that not.
*oh and just a note...turned out in the case of the first model we actually did become friends after she was fired (honestly wasn't actually expecting that....I had always thought she still only talked to me mainly for the money)
I never said MFC was a hookup site...but it can be a good place to find models who are a pleasure to talk to (I did note that it still depends on tipping). Despite what some people believe not everything on MFC has to revolve around sexual acts... The act of knowing that someone enjoys your company, not just for the tokens but rather who you are can be a huge thing. Sorry it is hard for me to explain properly. It isn't that you are seeing her as someone to have a friendship with or even relationship with, but rather you enjoy the company.
Look a good example is of the model who actually told me about the things she was told to do:
I got to know her very much like my previous post on here (but back then I was just a basic, no premium)
I enjoyed talking to her so much and felt like I was freeloading so I became premium...I had already knew from seeing her room she was shy and didn't overly enjoy getting naked in public chat...do I took her private, and we talked...very much like when I was still a basic. After a few months (not too much tipping, since I was still in school at that time), I took her private again. We enjoyed each others company (and it helped that she was half naked, but I wouldn't have cared if she was fully clothed). So yes MFC is not a hookup site, but although mostly civilized conversations, many things talked about between myself and the model, would not have been said on hookup sites...so there is sometime to be said about finding a model who feels like should could have been a friend if met in a different circumstance...who hasn't fantasized about being able to tell a friend something dirty that not.
*oh and just a note...turned out in the case of the first model we actually did become friends after she was fired (honestly wasn't actually expecting that....I had always thought she still only talked to me mainly for the money)
Nordling
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:lol: ...if I had a nickel every time a model told me "you're my favorite..." lol I'm not cynical, but be real. Models need to be tipped for their time. You have taken advantage of a model.
This reminds me of the South Park episode where Butters falls in love with the waitress at Hooters (or whatever they called it on the show).
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Calling someone your "favorite" is still drastically different from trying to convince members you are "real life friends"
Sorry but I think to some extent we are slightly arguing the same point here. NEVER have I said don't tip models...I have said instead of the sexual acts, I find virtual friendships instead and that I still tip x amount each month
To me taking advantage would have been taking her private and making her do things I knew she didn't like doing...instead I took her private and just make her just enjoy herself...yes I didn't tip as much as I would of liked to, but I still ended clocking in 1 hour of privates (2 half hours) plus tips...this is all with the understanding that other people who could tip came ahead of me in talking. So while you might view I took advantage of her, I argue I didn't...and the fact we are still online friends even though she is out of the business now means she didn't feel taken advantage of either.
*As a note I budget the amount I spend...and each model decided to talk to gets the amount I have set out for her, scaled if I have more money to spend (Usually only 2 models at a time). Just because I like the girls who don't necessarily like doing sexually explicit things, which being real there are actually a large percentage of girls who fit into this category (usually lower cam scores)...it is just nice to talk to them and from my experiences while they might not be camming for long, they are appreciative when you they have someone who can take them private a few times and don't have to worry about putting on a sexual act.
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