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LacieLaPlante said:
I never look at the amount of tokens people have and I didn't realize models did so much until this thread. I just kinda assumed most people kept theirs hidden.

Welcome to your new reality :) Be careful not to get addicted to it though, premiums can tell when you're clicking through to see how much of a token wad their sitting on and that creates an uncomfortable vibe in the room. I only click on dudes in public chat who are actively begging to ascertain if it's worth my time or not to explain the tip-with-requests concept.

This is an odd post! Odd from my perspective because I don't think anyone would ever argue that models should be *less* grateful, but the backhanded tone of the OP seemed to invite a lot of cyclical discussion about "I appreciate tips, but not 10 token DOGGY STYLE FINGER ASS tips... but all tips are good tips, except for insulting tips" and round and round we go.

Keep in mind that when you see a girl getting tipped and not being enthused (by your personal standards) that you can't see what's written in the tip note. In my room a 20 token "love your smile" tip gets more enthusiasm than a 100 token "Bend over doggy finger ass bb" tip. To an uninformed viewer this WOULD seem confusing but it's perfectly justifiable from where I'm sitting.
 
LacieLaPlante said:
I never look at the amount of tokens people have and I didn't realize models did so much until this thread. I just kinda assumed most people kept theirs hidden.

I imagine that when you've got 4 guys trying to talk dirty and indicate they want a private if you do something - whilst also managing a room of x members too - it (in my members viewpoint) has to be an invaluable method of prioritising whom you interact with if you can see that info.

Tokens are bought to spend on naked ladies (you expect). If you see 10000 tokens in your room and not saying much, two things. 1) If he leaves without saying anything - he'll spend the tokens elsewhere.
Furthermore, it is entirely possible he wants the attention - why else show off your token value? He wants to feel the models chasing after him...

Having a busy room may make it un practical to look, but for some chasing a potential sale that'd otherwise leave may be a really worthwhile thing :) I guess that combo is why models may look :)

Traditio said:
Never ever had a model not reacting appropriate to a tip.
I must be in the wrong rooms.
Just the opposite i am quite astonished how many models remember me and be nice despite my lousy tips.

I guess that's simple sum of averages :D You may think you tip lousy, but get 100 "lousy" tips and you may have a great nights income - so it costs nothing to remember and be nice to people, and it can therefore only have positive rewards if you are (as they may/do tip) :)


As for "ungrateful" models who don't say thanks for the tiniest tip - you don't have the full info, and maybe it's all down to business strategy too - but why care? :D

Some won't say anything - so what? If the guy feels like he's wasted his tip, he'll move on to another model who he will potentially spend his tokens upon = WIN FOR THE NEXT MODEL! Maybe other small tippers who feel their small tips won't be appreciated will likewise save up and move on to the next model too = WIN FOR NEXT MODEL!
Maybe the model herself feels that gushing over small tips encourages fewer large tips and therefore it's part of her strategy? :?
Lastly - who knows wtf they wrote in their tip note :lol: Maybe it says something like "let the dog lick ur pussy til you cum bitch". Maybe she therefore ignores them because otherwise she gives them attention she doesn't want to, or will have to find their name to ban them... Maybe saying something about it may change the atmosphere of the room as the regulars rip into the member, maybe if she ignores the sick request they tip more - or even apologise - or even just leave quietly with no further issue. WHO KNOWS?

Just meh :twocents-02cents:
 
LovelyLemon said:
LacieLaPlante said:
I never look at the amount of tokens people have and I didn't realize models did so much until this thread. I just kinda assumed most people kept theirs hidden.

Welcome to your new reality :) Be careful not to get addicted to it though, premiums can tell when you're clicking through to see how much of a token wad their sitting on and that creates an uncomfortable vibe in the room. I only click on dudes in public chat who are actively begging to ascertain if it's worth my time or not to explain the tip-with-requests concept.

This is an odd post! Odd from my perspective because I don't think anyone would ever argue that models should be *less* grateful, but the backhanded tone of the OP seemed to invite a lot of cyclical discussion about "I appreciate tips, but not 10 token DOGGY STYLE FINGER ASS tips... but all tips are good tips, except for insulting tips" and round and round we go.

Keep in mind that when you see a girl getting tipped and not being enthused (by your personal standards) that you can't see what's written in the tip note. In my room a 20 token "love your smile" tip gets more enthusiasm than a 100 token "Bend over doggy finger ass bb" tip. To an uninformed viewer this WOULD seem confusing but it's perfectly justifiable from where I'm sitting.

What she said!
I usually only look if it is someone I don't know requesting a private, or the begging thing like lemon said.
I'm just not down with going private for 80 tokens... sorry, not fun!
 
i say thanks for every tip but seriously how grateful can someone be for a 50 cent tip. if you threw nickels at a stripper i dont think her reaction would be "omg thanks so muccccch" the bouncer would prolly throw your ass out. as we are virtual strippers we should expect no less.
 
JoleneJolene said:
I'm just not down with going private for 80 tokens... sorry, not fun!
You ungrateful twat!

Lulz, sorry I HAD to! J/k of course.

CammiStar said:
MercyRain said:
That's why I don't want to win the MFC contest, it would change me too much.

I was trying to figure it out, but what does this have to do with the topic?
I believe her tone with that comment is that girls who have made it to the top 20 no longer appreciate the smaller tips and are now ungrateful of anything less than super giant tips. She doesn't want to become that.
Jaydenrainey said:
i say thanks for every tip but seriously how grateful can someone be for a 50 cent tip. if you threw nickels at a stripper i dont think her reaction would be "omg thanks so muccccch" the bouncer would prolly throw your ass out. as we are virtual strippers we should expect no less.

Lol I like this comparison. :clap:
 
AmberCutie said:
JoleneJolene said:
I'm just not down with going private for 80 tokens... sorry, not fun!
You ungrateful twat!

Lulz, sorry I HAD to! J/k of course.

Just because I complained when you made me fist my ass while doing a backflip on a unicycle in our 80 token private does NOT make me ungrateful!
Sheesh!! Some peoples children!
 
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This whole thread is just epic LULZ :lol: :lol: :lol:

From her Advert thread: " I am a big girl and I need love too."

I am not a skinny minnie, and I get all kinds of love.

Pro tip: Its all in the attitude baby, live it learn it and LOVE it.
 
LacieLaPlante said:
I never look at the amount of tokens people have and I didn't realize models did so much until this thread. I just kinda assumed most people kept theirs hidden.

Sadly, although I ADORE the girls I chat with (most of which visit here) and feel I can trust them to not fully look at me as a dollar sign (although with I do understand that IS a big part of the equation), I started hiding mine once I realized it was in the open. I feel bad walking into a room with tokens that I might spread across three girls that I like and having the first girl think that I'm going to spend them all there.

As for ungratefulness, it's hard out there now on both sides of the cam, for the most part. Money's stretching thinner and thinner for both the average cam girl and the average cam fan. The people that I frequent are pleasant and sweet, but I know that they are hurting on certain nights. And with talking to quite a few cam fans, I knowwww that the budgets for a lot of us are getting tight as hell. For now, we just have to:

1. Keep the tips flowing to those we enjoy whenever possible, even if not as much as before.
2. Keep having fun in chat. Fans, if you are waiting till the end of the week to get paid, please keep talking in chat -- and do NOT whine about how broke you are. It makes you seem needy. Be fun, be pleasant, thank the tippers, and keep your cam host smiling in any way possible.
3. (Cam Girls) Keep positive... A bad night or two is going to happen. Just make sure to never take it out on your regulars. They already support you 150%... don't lose that over a few non-revenue producing nights.

We'll all muddle through.

I'm Bob, and I approve this message.
 
BTW, please have it noted on the record I've only made two requests in my time at MFC, one for BabyGirlBrit to breakdance and one for Kori Love to do the Chicken Dance from "Arrested Development." Both were attempted and were about 60% successful. I want some of my tokens back.
 
JoleneJolene said:
AmberCutie said:
JoleneJolene said:
I'm just not down with going private for 80 tokens... sorry, not fun!
You ungrateful twat!

Lulz, sorry I HAD to! J/k of course.

Just because I complained when you made me fist my ass while doing a backflip on a unicycle in our 80 token private does NOT make me ungrateful!
Sheesh!! Some peoples children!


*gigglesnort!!!!!**
 
Jaydenrainey said:
i say thanks for every tip but seriously how grateful can someone be for a 50 cent tip. if you threw nickels at a stripper i dont think her reaction would be "omg thanks so muccccch" the bouncer would prolly throw your ass out. as we are virtual strippers we should expect no less.

I actually know someone who got thrown out of a strip club and arrested for throwing change at strippers... true story.

I do believe we are virtual strippers as well, as I say thanks for every tip I got on MFC but I wasnt going to do backflips for a few nickels... when you have a super active room and it is raining yellow or whatever and people are tipping like crazy it is hard to go back through and thank absolutely every single person.. you know?
 
Since this thread has been semi-hijacked, I will keep with the hijacked theme :)

When a model is doing a paid for show and people begin to tip, do you thank the tippers? If you are in the middle of a sexy oil show, is it ungrateful to not stop to say thanks to keep from interrupting the flow? I have always wondered this. I do not want people to think I am ungrateful, but I really do not want to stop my sexiness to pause and in a normal voice say "Thank you UserName18890" then go back to 'show mode'. I think it ruins the show. Thoughts?



This looks like a circle jerk...
:3some:
 
agreed. I mean if a girl is doing something where she's facing the cam and it doesnt interrupt the flow of the show then no problem, but when a girl is not facing the cam and is doing something and getting into her own groove very few things are worse than when she stops everything gets in front of the cam and says thank you after every tip, or if guys are expecting her to do so.
 
CandieMoose said:
When a model is doing a paid for show and people begin to tip, do you thank the tippers? If you are in the middle of a sexy oil show, is it ungrateful to not stop to say thanks to keep from interrupting the flow?

Show goes first! If you stop the show all the time it is unsatisfactory for you and for your single handed viewers...
 
I agree Candie, that's part of why I try to give a little applause emote when Amber's busy to just say "hey, we recognize your generosity and Amber will too once she turns around."

It's like when a model is acting like she's going to cum. You hear from her...

(panting)
(moaning)
(more panting)
*tip sound*
(in normal voice) Oh, thanks bb!
(more moaning)
(more panting)

It's just so much fail. :woops:
 
CammiStar said:
LovelyLemon said:
Keep in mind that when you see a girl getting tipped and not being enthused (by your personal standards) that you can't see what's written in the tip note. In my room a 20 token "love your smile" tip gets more enthusiasm than a 100 token "Bend over doggy finger ass bb" tip. To an uninformed viewer this WOULD seem confusing but it's perfectly justifiable from where I'm sitting.

Very well put as usual LL! Another "ah ha, YES - THIS!!" moment courtesy of the beautiful and lovely lemon.

:clap: :clap: :clap:
 
Mikeythegeek said:
I agree Candie, that's part of why I try to give a little applause emote when Amber's busy to just say "hey, we recognize your generosity and Amber will too once she turns around."

It's like when a model is acting like she's going to cum. You hear from her...

(panting)
(moaning)
(more panting)
*tip sound*
(in normal voice) Oh, thanks bb!
(more moaning)
(more panting)

It's just so much fail. :woops:
This.
It drives me nuts. At least keep the pant in your voice. Once I've gotten too far I'm sorry, you'll have to wait until I'm done to get thanked and then it wont be by name, though high tips are likely to get a thank you note with something special when I have calmed down and have time.
 
PrincessXina said:
Mikeythegeek said:
I agree Candie, that's part of why I try to give a little applause emote when Amber's busy to just say "hey, we recognize your generosity and Amber will too once she turns around."

It's like when a model is acting like she's going to cum. You hear from her...

(panting)
(moaning)
(more panting)
*tip sound*
(in normal voice) Oh, thanks bb!
(more moaning)
(more panting)

It's just so much fail. :woops:
This.
It drives me nuts. At least keep the pant in your voice. Once I've gotten too far I'm sorry, you'll have to wait until I'm done to get thanked and then it wont be by name, though high tips are likely to get a thank you note with something special when I have calmed down and have time.
Once in a while I re-enact the scene that Mikey described in my chat just to prove the point of how annoying it is. :)

So yeah, if you thank during a "sexy" show, keep the "sexy" in your voice during the thank you.
 
AmberCutie said:
Once in a while I re-enact the scene that Mikey described in my chat just to prove the point of how annoying it is. :)

So yeah, if you thank during a "sexy" show, keep the "sexy" in your voice during the thank you.
The re-enactments you do of that is what popped into mind when I saw Candie's post. When I didn't filter the model list, I would see it all the time. It's been a while since I've seen a model actually do that.
 
CandieMoose said:
Since this thread has been semi-hijacked, I will keep with the hijacked theme :)

When a model is doing a paid for show and people begin to tip, do you thank the tippers? If you are in the middle of a sexy oil show, is it ungrateful to not stop to say thanks to keep from interrupting the flow? I have always wondered this. I do not want people to think I am ungrateful, but I really do not want to stop my sexiness to pause and in a normal voice say "Thank you UserName18890" then go back to 'show mode'. I think it ruins the show. Thoughts?



This looks like a circle jerk...
:3some:


Once the show begins...all tips during the show should be viewed by model and tipper as encouragement and appreciation for the show you are performing. If a tipper is looking for a 'personal' thank you for their tip, there's ample opportunity to get one either before the show starts or after it finishes.

Once started, the show needs to flow smoothly so the model can get into her 'zone', and give the quality show she wants to give...to interrupt it with constant 'thank yous'....is kinda like getting a knock at the door during a :romance-threesome: ...total buzz kill.

Most tippers would understand this, the ones that don't are there for the wrong reason.

:twocents-02cents:
 
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CandieMoose said:
Since this thread has been semi-hijacked, I will keep with the hijacked theme :)

When a model is doing a paid for show and people begin to tip, do you thank the tippers? If you are in the middle of a sexy oil show, is it ungrateful to not stop to say thanks to keep from interrupting the flow? I have always wondered this. I do not want people to think I am ungrateful, but I really do not want to stop my sexiness to pause and in a normal voice say "Thank you UserName18890" then go back to 'show mode'. I think it ruins the show. Thoughts?



This looks like a circle jerk...
:3some:

During public shows, I have actually had members freak out if I dont say thank you because I am enjoying myself and be like "DID YOU SEE MY TIP?!?!"....."BB I TIPPED DID YOU SEE IT!!!!!???" I am like "Dude, I am rubbing my snatch, do you want me to stop?!"
 
I like most the models i Have seen. So far only 2 i dont agree with but i still like them.

as far as the tipping goes. Being a BBW i am grateful for every token. Each token gets me that closer to the next step. whatever it may be. When i make tips i come on to see if i can make the next day better. So far not working but hey at least I try.


All the models are beautiful in their own way, my :twocents-02cents:
 
Honestly, I'm guessing you folks all hang in rooms where a tip during a show (where the model says thank you) involves her stopping, sitting in the lotus position, composing herself and then saying "Thank you so much for the gift thou art giving unto me, I appreciate it - and lo, I shall now begin the fap once more".

I've heard girls moan or scream out the names of tippers during a show - yes, they were facing the camera (if they're not, then no - don't turn around :D ) - but honestly this thread makes it sound like saying thanks is a show stopper. You can moan the name of the tipper - they may fucking love it. There's no single right/wrong, every model is different - and you're fans/guys will get to know you and how it goes :)
 
Zoomer said:
Honestly, I'm guessing you folks all hang in rooms where a tip during a show (where the model says thank you) involves her stopping, sitting in the lotus position, composing herself and then saying "Thank you so much for the gift thou art giving unto me, I appreciate it - and lo, I shall now begin the fap once more".

I've heard girls moan or scream out the names of tippers during a show - yes, they were facing the camera (if they're not, then no - don't turn around :D ) - but honestly this thread makes it sound like saying thanks is a show stopper. You can moan the name of the tipper - they may fucking love it. There's no single right/wrong, every model is different - and you're fans/guys will get to know you and how it goes :)


Yeah, I could totally understand that and see it as a good alternative, but what is the model didnt know their name and it was just a member who popped in her room.. what is she supposed to say? "Mmmm MyCockisHuge3473" lol.
 
Cassidy Nicole said:
Zoomer said:
Honestly, I'm guessing you folks all hang in rooms where a tip during a show (where the model says thank you) involves her stopping, sitting in the lotus position, composing herself and then saying "Thank you so much for the gift thou art giving unto me, I appreciate it - and lo, I shall now begin the fap once more".

I've heard girls moan or scream out the names of tippers during a show - yes, they were facing the camera (if they're not, then no - don't turn around :D ) - but honestly this thread makes it sound like saying thanks is a show stopper. You can moan the name of the tipper - they may fucking love it. There's no single right/wrong, every model is different - and you're fans/guys will get to know you and how it goes :)


Yeah, I could totally understand that and see it as a good alternative, but what is the model didnt know their name and it was just a member who popped in her room.. what is she supposed to say? "Mmmm MyCockisHuge3473" lol.
The alternative at any time is "Thank you, sweetie." And carry on with the show. I think this is an easy solution, unless you're doing like a dildo sucking show and literally have your mouth full, a sweetly stated plain old thank you is easy enough.
 
Zoomer said:
Honestly, I'm guessing you folks all hang in rooms where a tip during a show (where the model says thank you) involves her stopping, sitting in the lotus position, composing herself and then saying "Thank you so much for the gift thou art giving unto me, I appreciate it - and lo, I shall now begin the fap once more".

I've heard girls moan or scream out the names of tippers during a show - yes, they were facing the camera (if they're not, then no - don't turn around :D ) - but honestly this thread makes it sound like saying thanks is a show stopper. You can moan the name of the tipper - they may fucking love it. There's no single right/wrong, every model is different - and you're fans/guys will get to know you and how it goes :)

Hahaha!! I was thinking this!!

When I get tipped in group, I don't stop. I say thanks to the guy even if I'm on the cusp of orgasm. They do love it and encourages others to tip!
 
LacieLaPlante said:
I never look at the amount of tokens people have and I didn't realize models did so much until this thread. I just kinda assumed most people kept theirs hidden.
If a member has any sense they'll hide all details about tokens & reward points, nobody needs to know. I usually tip for a public show but never 100+ Tips of a hundred or more are for models on my friends list ( I want to get their camscore up). If a model ignores a tip that's just rude, unless the tip is rude (I's say under 10 is pretty rude). I'd hate a model to see I had 1000+ tokens and only tipped her 50. Keep it hidden guys!
 
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JustLooking said:
I'd hate a model to see I had 1000+ tokens and only tipped her 50. Keep it hidden guys!
i hold them in the token storage most of the time - not to hide them but to prevent me from spending all in one evening and then stay dry for the rest of the month...
 
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