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Traditio said:
JustLooking said:
I'd hate a model to see I had 1000+ tokens and only tipped her 50. Keep it hidden guys!
i hold them in the token storage most of the time - not to hide them but to prevent me from spending all in one evening and then stay dry for the rest of the month...

If that worked I'd keep them there myself, but I keep dipping into the token storage & before I know it they've gone (lucky for me I get paid weekly) leaving me token-less for the rest of the week. But If you can resist taking them out it's a good idea.
 
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Unless a member needs to prove to an unfamiliar model that he has sufficient tokens to have a private, there is never a reason to display RPs or tokens.
 
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Sevrin said:
Unless a member needs to prove to an unfamiliar model that he has sufficient tokens to have a private, there is never a reason to display RPs or tokens.

Very true. I never look unless I'm unsure about a member.
 
I had a fellow cry "ungrateful model" in my room the other day! He flipped his lid after watching me leave for group mere seconds after I got tipped in public. He went on a rant in public, ranted on my profile and took the rant to lounge before finishing up the rant-tour with a ranty MFC mail. He was utterly unapologetic when I informed him that the tip I failed to "reward" in public came complete with a tip note that said, "Let's go group!" from a premium who then proceeded to spend twenty minutes in group

Now obviously Ranty Mc Rantsalot was a bit of a tool but do you think more than just a small unbalanced segment of the population perceives it that way? It's totally true that I do tend to get some tips in public right before I go group, but they come from hardcore "groupies" who are just stoked for group and want their hands free for the show. It hadn't occurred to me that non-group goers would see that and think I was being a douche and just ditching out on tippers! I don't love the idea the stopping and *explaining* what's going on every five minutes but I don't love the idea of that kind of misinterpretation either.
 
xoEve said:
It's easy to say appreciate every token but when someone comes in your room acting like a jackass, demanding things and you say "please tip if you have a request", they tip 1 token and I can see they have 200+ I get fucking irritated. The same guy did this to me 2 days in a row. One while I was doing a countdown said "will you show some ass if I tip?" I say yes of course, tips 1 token. I'm like really? Then someone makes up for it by tipping 50, I say thank you and do a flash and the dude says "wtf I don't get a flash for my tip too!?". I ignored him. He came back the 2nd day while I was doing a nude show and yells "finger your pussy!" and I say, you haven't tipped please don't make requests. Tips 1 token. Both times he has 200+ so I just banned him.
xoEve said:
It's easy to say appreciate every token but when someone comes in your room acting like a jackass, demanding things and you say "please tip if you have a request", they tip 1 token and I can see they have 200+ I get fucking irritated. The same guy did this to me 2 days in a row. One while I was doing a countdown said "will you show some ass if I tip?" I say yes of course, tips 1 token. I'm like really? Then someone makes up for it by tipping 50, I say thank you and do a flash and the dude says "wtf I don't get a flash for my tip too!?". I ignored him. He came back the 2nd day while I was doing a nude show and yells "finger your pussy!" and I say, you haven't tipped please don't make requests. Tips 1 token. Both times he has 200+ so I just banned him.
I understand that. I would get off my ass for 1 token, but I always say thank you and smile at the tippers, no matter the amount. I banned a guy that had 200 tokens because he said that he would tip, and all he tipped was 10 tokens. I was doing stuff besides sitting on my ass. I banned him after I logged off. Anyway, I completely understand not doing something for 5 cents, but not saying thanks, I do not get. I love other models, but what they do does irk my nerves sometimes, just like they irk mine. :love2: :romance-caress: :text-imsorry:[/quote]



I hear what youre saying about thank yous but think there are way more ungrateful members in my experience. What about the members who never say thank you or tip and leave right away, or you say hi to and don't even get a hi back or run out of tokens during a private and they log off immediately while youre working your ass off , no goodbye, no thank you no nothing. As much as i appreciate manners expecting or being irritated for the way others act is time wasted and not well spent in my honest opinion. I'd rather focus my attention on more important and positive things.
 
LovelyLemon said:
I had a fellow cry "ungrateful model" in my room the other day! He flipped his lid after watching me leave for group mere seconds after I got tipped in public. He went on a rant in public, ranted on my profile and took the rant to lounge before finishing up the rant-tour with a ranty MFC mail. He was utterly unapologetic when I informed him that the tip I failed to "reward" in public came complete with a tip note that said, "Let's go group!" from a premium who then proceeded to spend twenty minutes in group

Now obviously Ranty Mc Rantsalot was a bit of a tool but do you think more than just a small unbalanced segment of the population perceives it that way? It's totally true that I do tend to get some tips in public right before I go group, but they come from hardcore "groupies" who are just stoked for group and want their hands free for the show. It hadn't occurred to me that non-group goers would see that and think I was being a douche and just ditching out on tippers! I don't love the idea the stopping and *explaining* what's going on every five minutes but I don't love the idea of that kind of misinterpretation either.
And let me guess, this douche has never tipped a token in his life, has he? Honestly, every premium who derps "what r u going 2 do 4 that teep, bb" should just get banned because all they're saying is that they're a freeloading fucktard who wants a free show.
 
While there are very few models I've run into that dont say thanks, some seem to think a 20 token tip is the minimum to even say 'hi' in the chat... Thats .... well.. pure arrogance. And the funny thing is that I've seen rooms full of drooling drones waiting for a scrap of acknowledgement from the girls that are like this ...... makes me think of 'thank you mistress, please hit me again." :icon-lol: :icon-lol: :icon-lol:

I have seen a few noobs that dont have the tip/ thank you reflex figured out yet, but most get it pretty quickly.
One young girl tho, split from her sister and made her own account, was chided many times by a lot of members for not even seeming to give a shit. no smile or thank you for even a 50 - 100 tokens. I did watch her when 200 came in.. she did say "oh, 200 tokens... goodie." flashes one boob, and then continued texting whomever she had on her berry.

The thing that really pisses me off tho are indeed the freetards that attempt to dictate how my and others tips will be spent or applied. :angry4: :angry4: :angry4: :angry4: A few times when I tell them to STFU in chat and they decide to go heads up, i take the perverse pleasure of a tip for the banning said person ... :toothy7:



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I have grown to better understandings since I created this thread. I have found a place to call home, and I have tried to help others on this forum to the best of my ability. I had a negative attitude at the time, but I no longer feel that way, and this thread is so old that it had dust on it, but somebody had to drag it up to metaphorically dust it off and stir up trouble among the forum. Some of the ladies on here love to stir up shit. Can't we just let the thread die? I mean come on, who in the hell searches for a 3 month old thread just to get a rise out of people? I don't know what else to do, I have improved my views and have tried to become a better standing forum member through trying to make friends, and make more positive posts. People obviously would rather not see the positive, but rather see the negative. If things are going good, why stir up a hornet's nest? Anyway, end of rant.
 
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This thread was necroed by a perv, not one of those trouble-making models. That is one. Once you post a thread, it has a life of its own. It doesn't belong to you anymore. That is two. And for number three, lighten up. You will live longer.
 
Mercy dont let this old thread get to you. This is less about you now and more about members just talking back and forth. I created a thread a while back (5-6 months ago) also that I wish I had never created and caused some back lash but in the end it just gave people room to air their opinions. If you have nothing more to say just ignore it and move on that is what I do. We all have good days and bad days.....sometimes we say things we shouldnt but in the end we can learn from others opinions and our own mistakes. I think all of the models on this thread remember your apology and have moved on since then. Dont let one old thread ruin your ACF experience...we are all here to learn from each other and become better models.
 
realistically 10 tokens is 50 cents.. if you gave a stripper at the club 50 cents what would you get?
 
RufffRider said:
realistically 10 tokens is 50 cents.. if you gave a stripper at the club 50 cents what would you get?

Depending on the stripper a heel chucked at your head or a hysterical laugh followed by her walking away.
 
EvelynCates said:
It's easy to say appreciate every token but when someone comes in your room acting like a jackass, demanding things and you say "please tip if you have a request", they tip 1 token and I can see they have 200+ I get fucking irritated. The same guy did this to me 2 days in a row. One while I was doing a countdown said "will you show some ass if I tip?" I say yes of course, tips 1 token. I'm like really? Then someone makes up for it by tipping 50, I say thank you and do a flash and the dude says "wtf I don't get a flash for my tip too!?". I ignored him. He came back the 2nd day while I was doing a nude show and yells "finger your pussy!" and I say, you haven't tipped please don't make requests. Tips 1 token. Both times he has 200+ so I just banned him.


Sorry for ressurecting an old dead thread but i was searching for something found this thread and wanted to comment.

Read what you just said, and the way I put it to my guys when someone makes demands and tips like 1 token or 5 tokens or some shit, is like "would you go to a strip club ask for a lapdance than throw a few nickles at the stripper?" "no, you wouldn't, so dont pull that shit with me"
 
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LilyVonShtupp said:
Different guys do like different things. I agree to the extent that I do always say thank you for every tip. I am an overly polite, very "Good" girl. I even thank guests who compliment me even though they are likely to start begging afterwards. It simply isn't in me to be mean or cruel.

That being said, one token isn't getting you anything MORE than a thank you. That's like throwing pennies at a stripper. Yes, it's money. It's one penny more than she had before, but tossing pennies at her is an insult and nothing would make her seem more desperate than fawning all over the guy who gave her one penny. Frankly, if I were that stripper I'd get off stage and shove one of my insanely high platformed clear heels up his ass.

OMG i suck at commenting a thread before i read really anything! I thought I was so awesome with my comparison of throwing change at a stripper, i make the comment than realize the very next post after the one I quoted was a girl making the same comparison which I originally thought was so clever :-D

Great minds think alike I guess :-D
 
RainbowBryte said:
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LilyVonShtupp said:
Different guys do like different things. I agree to the extent that I do always say thank you for every tip. I am an overly polite, very "Good" girl. I even thank guests who compliment me even though they are likely to start begging afterwards. It simply isn't in me to be mean or cruel.

That being said, one token isn't getting you anything MORE than a thank you. That's like throwing pennies at a stripper. Yes, it's money. It's one penny more than she had before, but tossing pennies at her is an insult and nothing would make her seem more desperate than fawning all over the guy who gave her one penny. Frankly, if I were that stripper I'd get off stage and shove one of my insanely high platformed clear heels up his ass.

OMG i suck at commenting a thread before i read really anything! I thought I was so awesome with my comparison of throwing change at a stripper, i make the comment than realize the very next post after the one I quoted was a girl making the same comparison which I originally thought was so clever :-D

Great minds think alike I guess :-D

Now I must read the rest of this and keep my mouth shut, before i foolishly think im clever again :) lol
 
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RainbowBryte said:
OMG i suck at commenting a thread before i read really anything! I thought I was so awesome with my comparison of throwing change at a stripper, i make the comment than realize the very next post after the one I quoted was a girl making the same comparison which I originally thought was so clever :-D


Now I must read the rest of this and keep my mouth shut, before i foolishly think im clever again :) lol

:mrgreen: :-D :evil: to completely plagiarize and to fit the thread....

...Open mouth, insert insanely high platformed clear heels ...
:lol: :lol:
 
Zoomer said:
Honestly, I'm guessing you folks all hang in rooms where a tip during a show (where the model says thank you) involves her stopping, sitting in the lotus position, composing herself and then saying "Thank you so much for the gift thou art giving unto me, I appreciate it - and lo, I shall now begin the fap once more".

I've heard girls moan or scream out the names of tippers during a show - yes, they were facing the camera (if they're not, then no - don't turn around :D ) - but honestly this thread makes it sound like saying thanks is a show stopper. You can moan the name of the tipper - they may fucking love it. There's no single right/wrong, every model is different - and you're fans/guys will get to know you and how it goes :)


Saying thank you can take the mind off of the current cum goal :) I use a laptop so half the time if Im doing a cum show or whatever I cant always see the screen unless its a show where tip amounts immediately effect the show, but I dont always see whats going on in my room because of angles and glare during a show, so when bigcock23598746 (made up name not sure if theres really a bigcock23598746) decides to tip even 1000 tks i never notice till after the show what was tipped of who tipped, in the heat of the moment i never like to have to stop and move the laptop screen and bend in to read shit, lmao, but i do hear the tip sound even if i cant always tell 100% whats going on and tip sound always gets a "oh fuck yeah baby" or some shit like that screamed orgasmically :)

again sorry for resurrecting a dead thread but i stumbled across it and just couldnt help myself :)


MercyRain said:
I have grown to better understandings since I created this thread. I have found a place to call home, and I have tried to help others on this forum to the best of my ability. I had a negative attitude at the time, but I no longer feel that way, and this thread is so old that it had dust on it, but somebody had to drag it up to metaphorically dust it off and stir up trouble among the forum. Some of the ladies on here love to stir up shit. Can't we just let the thread die? I mean come on, who in the hell searches for a 3 month old thread just to get a rise out of people? I don't know what else to do, I have improved my views and have tried to become a better standing forum member through trying to make friends, and make more positive posts. People obviously would rather not see the positive, but rather see the negative. If things are going good, why stir up a hornet's nest? Anyway, end of rant.

oh now I feel bad :(
 
I've rarely seen models ungrateful of the tips they receive. Indeed, some forms of tipping is considered disrespectful (perhaps a disparaging tip-note), but they're usually not upset at the tips themselves. It's the intention behind the tip that's the annoyance.

I'm not sure if one token tips are considered a positive thing, since they're contributing next to nothing but almost obligating the model to respond. Some models are indifferent, some are appreciative of it, and some despise it. I don't have any real judgement on it, but I wouldn't consider it the most courteous thing to do.

I don't quite understand Zoomer's quoted post. Is he in defense of the models of not being responsive to tipping because they're in awkward positions thus making it hard to respond, or is he suggesting that the models who express appreciation are doing it unnecessarily? I'm not sure what to infer from it.
 
Zoomer was in response to ppl saying that thanking for tips during a show is disruptive to the show, Im thinking what he was trying to say is that models can thank for tips in the middle of a show without actually disrupting or ruining the show, which is true, but in my opinion really goes on a case by case basis.
 
Ah, I see.

It does depend on the show. If it was a blowjob show for instance - it would be obtrusive. If it was a dildo show, then it wouldn't. If it was a shower show, it would depend on the setup of the system. In some cases, to express appreciation is to disrupt the show - in other cases, it's not. The most predominant forms (i.e. the most common) generally don't.

On a slightly unrelated note... I do have a slight pet peeve when a model makes it her mission to thank each and every tipper individually, with (seemingly) equal affection. To be 'too grateful' would be unrealistic/fake, and it's likely to just prevent the conversation from flowing properly. An easy solution would be to simply say 'Thank you guys!' instead of naming every individual tipper. Bah
 
AngelAndrea said:
xoEve said:
It not the amount of the tip its the intent. I have a few tippers who do NOT have a lot of money and only buy very little tokens at a time and tip 1-10 when they can but they are polite in my room, spark up conversation, and contribute a whole lot more than what tokens can buy. The fact is some people KNOW tipping 1 token can be an insult if done a certain way. It's like going into a strip club, walking up to the stage with a stack of 20's in your hand, demanding the dancer do something for you, and then leaving a dime.

I call those "ungrateful customers" lol. When someone I know tips me 1 token and I know they aren't token stacked I'm like "aww you're such a sweetie", but some fucktard saying "SHOW TITS BB" and I say "SHOW TIPS BB" and they give me a token I'm going to be offended because he THINKS OR IS IMPLYING I'M WORTH THAT! That is rude. especially if it's meant in mallice as most of these 1 token tippers do. It's all about the attitude behind it. And itmakes it wayworse when you can see they have like 2550 tokens and think your tits are worth a nickel... Not these tits BB. But to be nice and not asking for anything 1 token is a nice tip from a nice guy.

I would suggest you treat his tip as serious, and maybe move your neckline down about an inch to show a little extra skin. See how he reacts. It might be a game for him where he is fishing for a reaction. He may not appreciate your response, but the rest of your room will, and it will let you put a positive spin on what otherwise might have been a bad vibe in your room.
 
Red7227 said:
AngelAndrea said:
xoEve said:
It not the amount of the tip its the intent. I have a few tippers who do NOT have a lot of money and only buy very little tokens at a time and tip 1-10 when they can but they are polite in my room, spark up conversation, and contribute a whole lot more than what tokens can buy. The fact is some people KNOW tipping 1 token can be an insult if done a certain way. It's like going into a strip club, walking up to the stage with a stack of 20's in your hand, demanding the dancer do something for you, and then leaving a dime.

I call those "ungrateful customers" lol. When someone I know tips me 1 token and I know they aren't token stacked I'm like "aww you're such a sweetie", but some fucktard saying "SHOW TITS BB" and I say "SHOW TIPS BB" and they give me a token I'm going to be offended because he THINKS OR IS IMPLYING I'M WORTH THAT! That is rude. especially if it's meant in mallice as most of these 1 token tippers do. It's all about the attitude behind it. And itmakes it wayworse when you can see they have like 2550 tokens and think your tits are worth a nickel... Not these tits BB. But to be nice and not asking for anything 1 token is a nice tip from a nice guy.

I would suggest you treat his tip as serious, and maybe move your neckline down about an inch to show a little extra skin. See how he reacts. It might be a game for him where he is fishing for a reaction. He may not appreciate your response, but the rest of your room will, and it will let you put a positive spin on what otherwise might have been a bad vibe in your room.

I would wonder... What would you do for a nickle in your daily job ? [and that's a nickle only if they're not studio fodder.]
Unless a person is a regular in a room and the model knows them, why would anyone take a one token tip as serious ?
With the exception of those mentioned, the vast majority of one token tippers do indeed have the intention of insulting or stirring up shit and bringing in a negative vibe to a room. I can't count the number of times I've read chat in the lounges where they are all 'loling', hi 5'n each other and carrying on about how they did this to a girl and totally disrupted her room and or show simply BC it is seen as an insult and the 'game' to them is being mean spirited to those they deem not worthy. As said, its the implication and intent behind the tip.
 
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It's also irritating when the opposite thing happens. I show how grateful I am for a 400 token tip, and get this:

03:25:57 PM guiguilf: but you are used to with such tips why you look so exciting... good play anyway... hehe

So, because I sometimes get very nice sized tips, I should *not* show that I'm happy to receive a 400 token tip? :think: :woops:

Idiots... idiots EVERYWHERE.
 
AmberCutie said:
It's also irritating when the opposite thing happens. I show how grateful I am for a 400 token tip, and get this:

03:25:57 PM guiguilf: but you are used to with such tips why you look so exciting... good play anyway... hehe

So, because I sometimes get very nice sized tips, I should *not* show that I'm happy to receive a 400 token tip? :think: :woops:

I didn't understand that moron's comment. You are always truly humbled by every tips you get. Be it from the mega tips to the common tips. It is not like you jump around and screech "thank you" in a fake ear bleeding high pitched shrill. You get a big smile on your face, your eyes well up, and you then you thank the tipper. You are a very very genuine down to earth internet entertainer.
 
I tipped a model on the 3rd page 10tkns. I think I was the only premium in her room, if I remember correctly. I just tipped her because she was dressed up nicely. Put some time into her hair, make-up, and outfit. Was nice to see. I didn't request anything. She said something along the lines of, "That's not a tip. Not enough."
 
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PlayboyMegan said:
I tipped a model on the 3rd page 10tkns. I think I was the only premium in her room, if I remember correctly. I just tipped her because she was dressed up nicely. Put some time into her hair, make-up, and outfit. Was nice to see. I didn't request anything. She said something along the lines of, "That's not a tip. Not enough."

Might explain why she resides on the third page.
 
I have had a couple instances where I've tipped a girl and she hasn't even acknowledged my tip. I'm not dropping huge tips or anything but it would be nice if they would at least say thanks. That kind of behavior ensures I will never come back to their room again.
 
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