Things Members Say That Make You Go "WTF?"

[CallMeMaria]

That was a low blow. Let the records show that whilst I work full time, its still not 24/7 - and hell, we are now being punished for working too?

I did not blur out his username on purpose as he hurled this out in public. He evidently has no worry about it.

 

[rockin_rod]

That was a low blow. Let the records show that whilst I work full time, its still not 24/7 - and hell, we are now being punished for working too?

I did not blur out his username on purpose as he hurled this out in public. He evidently has no worry about it.

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What an asshole they must be to make that comment.

 

[bamdicted]

That was a low blow. Let the records show that whilst I work full time, its still not 24/7 - and hell, we are now being punished for working too?

I did not blur out his username on purpose as he hurled this out in public. He evidently has no worry about it.

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...and some people should not visit camsites

 

[MarieElise]

This was a response to me sending out my weekly schedule, in a mass email... lol. Some guys, seriously, all they can think about is marriage
I'm 42, who's gonna break the news to this guy that I'm neither marrying him, nor having his child...
You know what though, I'll take this over some of the other rude and abusive things, certain "porn site guests" have to say.

 

[Highlander884]

What an asshole they must be to make that comment.

Not an asshole but a shitstained cunt! Jesus I'm angry reading that, I'm so sorry for Maria .

 

[rockin_rod]

 

[Nienna]

That was a low blow. Let the records show that whilst I work full time, its still not 24/7 - and hell, we are now being punished for working too?

I did not blur out his username on purpose as he hurled this out in public. He evidently has no worry about it.

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That is so awful. I am so sorry.

 

[Nienna]

I love this place. I have learned so much here!

 

[Carmen_Monroe]

Today someone came into my room and asked me if i need a knight. Usually the people who ask to be a knight, are the rudest kind of people who think they can boss a model around. So i had this gut feeling . And this one was a good example.

User: “user Xy is good
17 days on the app and already level 47
go get him ”

User: “You also have to remind people to click on the heart always”

Me: I don’t beg for people to tip or do anything and i would appreciate it if you stop bossing me around.

User:” I can see that but you have to rip people off otherwise it won't work”

Me : Ewww what kind of mindset is that? I never rip someone off or beg for people to tip me, that’s not my style.. such an awful behavior coming into my room and feeling entitled to tell me how i have to run my shows. I surely don’t need a knight like that, bye!

What an entitled ass.

 

[Smoothie]

Today someone came into my room and asked me if i need a knight. Usually the people who ask to be a knight, are the rudest kind of people who think they can boss a model around. So i had this gut feeling . And this one was a good example.

User: “user Xy is good
17 days on the app and already level 47
go get him ”

User: “You also have to remind people to click on the heart always”

Me: I don’t beg for people to tip or do anything and i would appreciate it if you stop bossing me around.

User:” I can see that but you have to rip people off otherwise it won't work”

Me : Ewww what kind of mindset is that? I never rip someone off or beg for people to tip me, that’s not my style.. such an awful behavior coming into my room and feeling entitled to tell me how i have to run my shows. I surely don’t need a knight like that, bye!

What an entitled ass.

Wow, what a jerk. Also, his comment about ripping people off… I’d imagine no model would engage in that kind of talk even as a joke, since it could come back to haunt them if the site took it the wrong way.

If this guy was such a great knight/mod, he’d have known that.

 

[Freddy_Fantastic]

I was in a non-nude room on CB. Had some fun tipping a bit. The bio clearly stated that she is non nude and that there should be no graphic porn GIFs. Normally she is quite good in silencing or banning offenders. There is no mod. She doesn't need one because as said she handles it by herself. But then she went private and suddenly there was this guy posting pron GIFs without stopping. Why can we still write sth. into the chat while the Model is away? IMO it should be different.

 

[misterical]

I was in a non-nude room on CB. Had some fun tipping a bit. The bio clearly stated that she is non nude and that there should be no graphic porn GIFs. Normally she is quite good in silencing or banning offenders. There is no mod. She doesn't need one as far as I can see. But then she went private and suddenly there was this guy posting pron GIFs without stopping. Why can we still write sth. into the chat while the Model is away? IMO it should be different.

I think it's a great feature. Sometimes a sense of community exists in a model's room so members chatting amongst themselves and catching up isn't that unusual. It would be weirder to suddenly be wrenched away from that and into PM with other members if I'm honest.

 

[Natural9]

I was in a non-nude room on CB. Had some fun tipping a bit. The bio clearly stated that she is non nude and that there should be no graphic porn GIFs. Normally she is quite good in silencing or banning offenders. There is no mod. She doesn't need one because as said she handles it by herself. But then she went private and suddenly there was this guy posting pron GIFs without stopping. Why can we still write sth. into the chat while the Model is away? IMO it should be different.

she can easily ban him when she returns. Chatting while the model is in private gives those waiting for it to end something to do...talk to each other if they want

 

[Freddy_Fantastic]

still it was a wtf- moment for me

 

[CallMeMaria]

So here is a new science, apparently the color of the eyes has a direct correlation to the size of boobs...

 

[RainForest]

So here is a new science, apparently the color of the eyes has a direct correlation to the size of boobs...

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He also gets his pandemic advice from the Donald.

 

[MarieElise]

I wonder if some people have a constant echo in their heads, when the one brain cell does have a little electrical activity?
I used to say fancy things like "I find it attractive when men have contextual awareness", instead of "they are not stupid".
However, ironically, no one (who acts like an idiot) ever knew what that term meant

We Asked A Licensed Therapist Why TF Men Send Dick Pics

Aside from the fact that the suck.

betches.com

(Just the one though, all my other messages this am were appropriate and cool )

 

[Wuggie]

I wonder if some people have a constant echo in their heads, when the one brain cell does have a little electrical activity?
I used to say fancy things like "I find it attractive when men have contextual awareness", instead of "they are not stupid".
However, ironically, no one (who acts like an idiot) ever knew what that term meant

We Asked A Licensed Therapist Why TF Men Send Dick Pics

Aside from the fact that the suck.

betches.com

(Just the one though, all my other messages this am were appropriate and cool )

Woah I never knew there was a study of why men send those pictures, it had always confused me as it's something I only done for people that asked and even then not all FWBs have I agreed to send those kind of pictures to..

for validation, I could have guessed maybe, but for control I would never have guessed thank you for posting the article!! and Happy to hear you only had one idiot like this visit today (it's kind of sad when just having one idiot show up is a good day huh)

 

[MarieElise]

Woah I never knew there was a study of why men send those pictures, it had always confused me as it's something I only done for people that asked and even then not all FWBs have I agreed to send those kind of pictures to..

for validation, I could have guessed maybe, but for control I would never have guessed thank you for posting the article!! and Happy to hear you only had one idiot like this visit today (it's kind of sad when just having one idiot show up is a good day huh)

Oh the day hasn't started... this was just from my first round of DM checks.
There will be a lot more idiots who show up.
But I appreciate it

ETA; I think I (personally) find it less sad, and more frustrating, that so many people are so poorly behaved.
Maybe because I'm British, but the lack of manners thing, and the frequent poor etiquette, just absolutely disgusts me.
Sure - I could pretend it doesn't.
But then I feel like I'd be part of the problem, if I did that.
I don't think anyone truly enjoys calling other people out (just more unpaid work), but it's necessary for change and improvement.
I'll never give up hope for improvement of the status quo.

Honestly, I thought it was illegal in CA for guys to do that. And I'm fine with that. Anything that encourages impulse control, is great in my book.

What To Do When You Get An Unsolicited "Dick" Pic

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https://www.wired.com/story/psychology-dick-pics/.

 

[Ozzie_]

(Just the one though, all my other messages this am were appropriate and cool )

I think that is a great response!

It is informative for the sender (if they choose to take notice) but also firmly points out that it isn't acceptable behaviour.

Of course, that you and others have to frame responses, in whatever form, to unsolicited photos sucks.

 

[MarieElise]

I think that is a great response!

It is informative for the sender (if they choose to take notice) but also firmly points out that it isn't acceptable behaviour.

Of course, that you and others have to frame responses, in whatever form, to unsolicited photos sucks.

Thank Ozzie. I'd prefer to frame it as a stupid behavior, rather than labelling a whole person as stupid. Ultimately that would be better.
But it's kind of a toss up between trying to engender an emotional response that makes it memorable/ learning moment, and being too light, and it going in one ear, and straight out the other.
I really, genuinely do want to see many of these guys improve.
And the unsolicited dick pic thing, is a huge societal problem rn.
I really do think it should be a crime.

 

[Ozzie_]

I really, genuinely do want to see many of these guys improve.

Hopefully some of them do learn

And the unsolicited dick pic thing, is a huge societal problem rn.

I really do think it should be a crime.

Agree 100%!

I think (being a male who would NEVER send one, I have not researched it) in some (many? all?) jurisdictions in Australia it is illegal. How easy it is to report, get action and prosecute, I am also unaware of.

 

[yummybrownfox]

That was a low blow. Let the records show that whilst I work full time, its still not 24/7 - and hell, we are now being punished for working too?

I did not blur out his username on purpose as he hurled this out in public. He evidently has no worry about it.

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Now see…if cam models can get banned just for saying “…when I was a kid,” then these hateful members who flat out mention a model’s child like this need to have consequences too.

 

[Smoothie]

And the unsolicited dick pic thing, is a huge societal problem rn.
I really do think it should be a crime.

I think it should be, too. Just like public exposure is a crime. In both cases, you’re showing unsolicited sexual material to people who didn’t ask for it, and will likely see it against their will without having an opportunity to avoid it.

Not to mention if it’s unsolicited, then the recipient won’t know to be careful when and where they check their messages. Which opens up the chance of exposing the image to others, unknowingly.

 

[MarieElise]

I think it should be, too. Just like public exposure is a crime. In both cases, you’re showing unsolicited sexual material to people who didn’t ask for it, and will likely see it against their will without having an opportunity to avoid it.

Not to mention if it’s unsolicited, then the recipient won’t know to be careful when and where they check their messages. Which opens up the chance of exposing the image to others, unknowingly.

Consent is sexy! (I think one of the articles I linked, said that too). But worth highlighting, for sure.

I actually love looking at hard dicks, and I do find it arousing visually. However, there is nothing as ick, disgusting, and repugnant a turn off, than having one sent without it being specifically asked for first. That's when it immediately isn't exciting anymore, and feels super violating, pukey and weird.

 

[Highlander884]

Thank Ozzie. I'd prefer to frame it as a stupid behavior, rather than labelling a whole person as stupid. Ultimately that would be better.
But it's kind of a toss up between trying to engender an emotional response that makes it memorable/ learning moment, and being too light, and it going in one ear, and straight out the other.
I really, genuinely do want to see many of these guys improve.
And the unsolicited dick pic thing, is a huge societal problem rn.
I really do think it should be a crime.

Well the good news is in uk it is now illegal. I'm annoyed that this wasn't put in much earlier. I mean when I first found out that they were going to add photos/videos to phones I knew straight away it would mean unsolicited dick pics. Did no one in any government not think "hmmmm maybe we should make a law about showing your dick to strangers online since we've already made it illegal to do in person".

As a guy who likes perving at hot women, nothing angers me more that just about any female who could be described as good looking will get sent dick pics or at least pervy comments and requests about onlyfans. Yeah I would love it if a hot lady would like to see my penis but unless one asked I'm going to assume they don't want to see it.

And it's not just ladies who pose sexy and take selfies to get followers, blah blah blah. It's just ordinary have a social account girls. I follow a lady in her 20s who reviews old snes games, never takes photo of herself beyond her profile which is just her in regular clothes in front of her game collection and yet 3 times she's had 2 dick pics and 3 pervy requests and had to make clear all she wants to do is share her opinion on games.
I mean yeah collecting old Nintendo games is kinda hot but no way should she or anyone else have to put up with this shit just because someone has a boner for them.

Although sometimes I do know someone might say something without realising it. I follow a female artist who takes videos/photos of herself walking along beaches looking for fossils and I just once ask her out of curiosity if she did these walks by herself and well she said that was a creepy thing to ask a woman. I didn't mean anything sinister or planning on joining her was just curious if it was just her that went fossil hunting by herself. I guess she had the same online harassment as well.

 

[MarieElise]

Well the good news is in uk it is now illegal. I'm annoyed that this wasn't put in much earlier. I mean when I first found out that they were going to add photos/videos to phones I knew straight away it would mean unsolicited dick pics. Did no one in any government not think "hmmmm maybe we should make a law about showing your dick to strangers online since we've already made it illegal to do in person".

As a guy who likes perving at hot women, nothing angers me more that just about any female who could be described as good looking will get sent dick pics or at least pervy comments and requests about onlyfans. Yeah I would love it if a hot lady would like to see my penis but unless one asked I'm going to assume they don't want to see it.

And it's not just ladies who pose sexy and take selfies to get followers, blah blah blah. It's just ordinary have a social account girls. I follow a lady in her 20s who reviews old snes games, never takes photo of herself beyond her profile which is just her in regular clothes in front of her game collection and yet 3 times she's had 2 dick pics and 3 pervy requests and had to make clear all she wants to do is share her opinion on games.
I mean yeah collecting old Nintendo games is kinda hot but no way should she or anyone else have to put up with this shit just because someone has a boner for them.

Although sometimes I do know someone might say something without realising it. I follow a female artist who takes videos/photos of herself walking along beaches looking for fossils and I just once ask her out of curiosity if she did these walks by herself and well she said that was a creepy thing to ask a woman. I didn't mean anything sinister or planning on joining her was just curious if it was just her that went fossil hunting by herself. I guess she had the same online harassment as well.

Glad to hear it's illegal in the UK.

Yes, no woman, no matter what she poses in or not in, deserves to have consent completely disregarded.

I get that the walking alone comment was innocent on your part, but remember as women we live in a world where every step out of our house, or even to our computer DM inbox, has undertones of sexual violence. Just the way it is for us. So pretty much every woman you know, has to approach life from a whole different stance from you. I think the best way to imagine it, for a guy, would be; imagine you woke up in prison every day, and you were the smallest, best-looking guy in there. That's what it's like for us; every single day, in the "free" world. I think it's great for all guys to remember that at all times, they interact w women.

 

[MarieElise]

... I should have just went with it, but he's super nice. So ...

 

[CallMeMaria]

I have no words. Frozen too, seriously? I cant even with these people today.

 

[RainForest]

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I have no words. Frozen too, seriously? I cant even with these people today.

If hell exists, it will be this chicken torturing his ass