Should I visit a cam girl from Romania ?

[Jupiter551]

the unicorn camgirl

:lol:

 

[IsabellaSnow]

I would like to thank Isabella_deL[/b]

Nawww

Thank you Isabella_del once more.

Nawwww..... wait, what? lol

Well I'm very happy to see you think you've made a new friend! But um.... yeah, I think I've already said it all and so has everyone else.

Oh and you'd be an idiot to show this camgirl this thread. But then I think we've already established that...

 

[curiousone]

Let's just sum this up and take all of your flowery, romantic thoughts about the unicorn camgirl out of the situation. Maybe it will give you some perspective on what you're actually up to here.

-The woman who's birthed your children (whom you're calling wife but haven't actually married) spends her attention on said kids. Most sane people would call that working.
My kids are not sad.

-Apparently, you need money badly enough to work 14 hour days. So, your wife and kids don't get too much attention from you either. If the working is needed, no shame in that. BUT
I don't need money...its the type of work I have...because I wish to remain anonymous I can't tell more about it. But its the kind of work I have and my gf knows this since the day we met and has nothing against it and supports me.

-You're spending what little free time you have on a camgirl.
Truth !

-You're spending money that you traded time with your family to get on a camgirl.
I don't believe I have spent a lot on her but something I have yes.

-You're giving gifts to a camgirl.

-You're thinking of taking a vacation for a camgirl.
Not a vacation. One day only. When I say 5 minutes is enough for me. I literally mean that.

Obviously, I'm all for being generous with camgirls if you've got it like that, but if you need to work that much, you don't have it. It sounds like you're spending time, money and emotions that frankly you're stealing from your family. Forget about the internet trophy. Take your family on vacation. Appreciate what you have, dude.

 

[curiousone]

Kinda makes it worse actually That at a young age you're considering infidelity to reaffirm your stud status, whilst leaving your wife at home looking after young children whilst Daddy gets to go see if he's hot enough to get laid?

Just seems even worse for some reason

Maybe she does think you are hot - maybe you are. But if you've no intention of leaving the wife and kids, you're only doing this to massage your own ego surely? "Daddy's still got it" (irrespective of whether it includes sex - and if it doesn't, what's the point?).

I don't think, however well reasoned, you will consider anyone's opinions (after having asked for them). At which point - go for it. Maybe it'll be "true love". Maybe it won't. Maybe your wife will leave you after finding out, maybe she won't. Maybe you can pick up some lounge kudos for fucking a camgirl, maybe you won't. Maybe you two will get on well, nothing will happen, and you return home after spending thousands of dollars "just to see if she like me" - maybe you won't. Maybe you'll make a friend for life (a reason to go), maybe you won't...

But honestly, if your mind is made up and you're not really paying attention to what people write other than to argue why you should go? Then who cares

This is what I am actually hoping for ... Maybe you'll make a friend for life (a reason to go)

 

[curiousone]

If this is all true you're a terrible father.

It is true...I would like to beleive that I am not but you are probably right...but love them to death

 

[FrenchKitty]

Let's just sum this up and take all of your flowery, romantic thoughts about the unicorn camgirl out of the situation. Maybe it will give you some perspective on what you're actually up to here.

-The woman who's birthed your children (whom you're calling wife but haven't actually married) spends her attention on said kids. Most sane people would call that working.
My kids are not sad.

I'm laughing SO hard right now I almost want to thank your post.

 

[curiousone]

There are no "little girls" on here...lol. Are you a man??? You sure don't sound like a man to me. And then you jokingly said that you should show your girlfriend this thread. Obviously, you were kidding around, because you wouldn't be STUPID enough to say "Honey, I have something to tell you. Oh, nevermind...just read what's on the computer screen. I'm gonna go get a beer....."


You misunderstood...I said I am planing to show this thread to the cam model I am talking about.
But as I said before...I know I am an asshole doing all this...There is no question about it...I am sorry I mentioned my family.
Just wanted to know if its a frequent thing that cam models do-meeting memebers...and if so if its a dangerous thing regarding safety.

 

[ScarletVixen]

:shock:

 

[mynameisbob84]

OK...I see its hard for most of you to get this but what if I would say that I think i literally found a soulmate on a fucking porn webcam site.
And that I just want to meet her once. For a drink or a fuck. I don't care whats it gonna be. I just want this 2 years to turn into 5 minutes of reality
even if over a coffe on the airport or a quickie at the Mcdonalds. I dont care about the fucking sex.
Then I am planing to end all this and focus on my family. There is NO fucking way I am leaving my family.
Just NO fucking way. But if I am for so long with my wife and my kids...that doesnt mean I live with a soulmate.

That makes no fucking sense! You say you've found your soulmate and you want to meet her but that you won't be leaving your wife no matter what. So, what's the point in meeting this girl?? Just so you get an added layer of regret to slip into your marriage? I don't understand. What's your end game?

Find soul mate > risk everything to meet soulmate > leave soulmate and go back to wife assuming she hasn't left by that point > mission accomplished?

I've heard better plans, yo.

I am not gonna leave them even if I see "Pink" is perfect for me. Would hurt a little bit at first but then I would forget with time.

So why do it??

Told her that millions of times. She knows it very well. I wanna meet her. Its not the other way around. I know its wrong from me.

So don't do it!!

I was just asking more because of my safety consirn going to that place as oppose to the moral value which I know is totaly wrong.

Is this a wind up, mate?

Would simply like to meet her to cut the fucking phantasy line so to speak and then just end all this and focus on my real life.

Right, 'cos once you've actually met the girl of your dreams and maybe even fucked her, it'll much easier to move on, right?

And to everyone...she never fucking demanded anything from me. NEVER. The only thing she did is told me she lost her documents. Thats why I sent her the money.
Here is kind of a formula of our relationship: 85% of time we joke, 5% of time we talk about kids, 5% of time we talk about our feelings,
3% of time i try to find out who she is (here she mostly freezes when it comes to technical information, but she tells me anything else),
the last 2% are probably me falling asleep over the web cam

So you essentially know nothing about her??? You joke around and then you try to "find out who she is" and then she freezes. And then you conclude that this is your soulmate
Common sense, sir. get some. In fact, get a load. Buy it in bulk. Garner as much as you possibly can. And apply just the teeniest tiniest bit of it to your situation.

 

[mynameisbob84]

Holy fuckballz! There's another page of this shit?? This is amazing! :-D

 

[curiousone]

I deserve to be thrown around like a rag doll.
Period.

 

[IsabellaSnow]

on said kids. Most sane people would call that working.
My kids are not sad.

SAID kids moron. S A I D. Not SAD. It means he's mentioning the kids you described.

And yes, you told us, you're a wedding planner, you're right, from any more information your identity will be revealed.

Also if you don't need the money then you wouldn't have to work these long hours, you could cut down. Having a family is a reason to do a job that gives you more time. Unless you need the money. Which I think you do. Let's get the facts right.

- You have visited a camgirl who you say is your best friend/could be your soul mate.

- You spend very little on her so you gave her something else to compensate (btw, tipping a stripper your grandmothers necklace, that's low)

- When she was in trouble you lent her 500 euros, yet even though you've watched her/got loads of attention from her for x amount of time, yet you're expecting it back? That seems to me that you need the money back.

- You work 14 hour days, so much you cannot spend any time with your family.

- You got really pissed off that you spent 500 euros on a lapdance then realising it was meant to be cheaper. Now I do come from a wealthy background, and I know that with wealth often also comes casual generosity. Who cares? If you have the cash and liked the stripper/the dance why get so arsey about the money?

- You admitted earlier you're a wedding planner.

To be perfectly honest, none of this is making me think you're this wealthy, high profile person you're making out you are.

Either you are well off and are just a cheap greedy prick. Or you are actually struggling/working hard to maintain a decent lifestyle.

 

[ScarletVixen]

I deserve to be thrown around like a rag doll.
Period.

:thumbleft:

 

[mynameisbob84]

Out of respect of her I will not tell her model name. You are missing the point.
If you would go into her room you would see nothing special exept that
she looks really good. She scams members as said and she tells me everything about it
and is not hidding it from me. She is also kind of a tutuor to the rookie camgirls that come to
the studio that she works in. She teaches them how to behave, what to say, what to do, aso...
She has a lot of experience with camming and truly knows what she is doing.

Like i said...I am gonna let some time pass...and then I am gonna probably send her this thread
so she can look why I have this second thoughts of meeting her.
But actually we went of topic...I am not trying to justify if its right or not what I do.
I know its wrong. The question is...is it likely i will be scammed on the location of meeting.

YES!!!!!!
Holy mother of God, man! She's told you she scams people! And you've taken that as a green light to fly to another country to meet her! What is wrong with you??

 

[IsabellaSnow]

What is wrong with you??

Lol let's not go there......

 

[mynameisbob84]

If this is all true you're a terrible father.

It is true...I would like to beleive that I am not but you are probably right...but love them to death

You love your kids and you recognise that your actions/thoughts during this whole episode might make you a "terrible" father. I think I see a way out of that. Stop being selfish and stupid and start looking after your family, sir :thumbleft:

 

[curiousone]

- When she was in trouble you lent her 500 euros, yet even though you've watched her/got loads of attention from her for x amount of time, yet you're expecting it back? That seems to me that you need the money back.
I would like it back so that I would actually know that she didn't scam me.

- You work 14 hour days, so much you cannot spend any time with your family.
Wedding planer is a side a job ok? I manage 3 companies and they are all doing well. Can't fucking explain more.
Just beleive me when I say that money is not a problem...Donno why this is of any importance...I wish I was a homeless guy cause then
at least I would really know that this cammodel wants to be friends/lover with me and is not here to scam me on long term.

- You got really pissed off that you spent 500 euros on a lapdance then realising it was meant to be cheaper. Now I do come from a wealthy background, and I know that with wealth often also comes casual generosity. Who cares? If you have the cash and liked the stripper/the dance why get so arsey about the money?
If you are invited into a strip club in the middle of Piccadeli (the fucking Mouling Rouge street) in Paris by a woman who promises you get a harmless strip dance to look at for 10 € with drinks included and then get beaten up by 3 body guards and some turkish mafia boss who wants 500€ because the stripper took my hand and put it on her ass (and the price list says TOUCHING 500,00€)...believe me...I can get pissed with a reason...if that wouldnt occur to me...this thread wouldn't be posted here and I would be already back from Romania.

- You admitted earlier you're a wedding planner.
Its 10% of what I do...I donno why I have to justify my financial status here. I am not Bill Gates but I am certainly not poor...and all this is fucking relative.
And I don't care about the money in this fucking thread and am not talking about it...I am talking about trust.

 

[sweetiebatman]

I wish you'd stop fucking swearing :lol:

Seriously though, It just seems like you are getting all aggressive because you are not getting the answers you want to hear, and as for any information being irrelevant, why on earth have you mentioned it?! We will all assume any given information has relevance to your "issue"

 

[Anonymous]

You misunderstood...I said I am planing to show this thread to the cam model I am talking about.

Showing this thread to the cam girl is probably just gonna confirm her suspicions that you're a weirdo. But you go right ahead and waste time and money on a model who told you she SCAMS PEOPLE, if that's what you wanna do. You'll be right back on this forum crying the blues about how your "soulmate" deceived you.

Just wanted to know if its a frequent thing that cam models do-meeting memebers...and if so if its a dangerous thing regarding safety.

No, it's not a frequent thing. You may find some models who occasionally do 'Meet me' raffles or whatever, but I know of at least one model who will hire a security guard for her safety. But nah, MOST cam models don't meet members in person.

 

[curiousone]

You misunderstood...I said I am planing to show this thread to the cam model I am talking about.

Showing this thread to the cam girl is probably just gonna confirm her suspicions that you're a weirdo. But you go right ahead and waste time and money on a model who told you she SCAMS PEOPLE, if that's what you wanna do. You'll be right back on this forum crying the blues about how your "soulmate" deceived you.

Just wanted to know if its a frequent thing that cam models do-meeting memebers...and if so if its a dangerous thing regarding safety.

No, it's not a frequent thing. You may find some models who occasionally do 'Meet me' raffles or whatever, but I know of at least one model who will hire a security guard for her safety. But nah, MOST cam models don't meet members in person.

In this case it is me who is thinking of getting a security guard.

 

[ScarletVixen]

You misunderstood...I said I am planing to show this thread to the cam model I am talking about.

Showing this thread to the cam girl is probably just gonna confirm her suspicions that you're a weirdo. But you go right ahead and waste time and money on a model who told you she SCAMS PEOPLE, if that's what you wanna do. You'll be right back on this forum crying the blues about how your "soulmate" deceived you.

Just wanted to know if its a frequent thing that cam models do-meeting memebers...and if so if its a dangerous thing regarding safety.

No, it's not a frequent thing. You may find some models who occasionally do 'Meet me' raffles or whatever, but I know of at least one model who will hire a security guard for her safety. But nah, MOST cam models don't meet members in person.

In this case it is me who is thinking of getting a security guard.

Save some money for a lawyer too...and child support... :whistle:

 

[AmberCutie]

Oh my god. You're stupid.

Please go away now.