Should I visit a cam girl from Romania ?

[Jupiter551]

anyone seen 'Hostel'?

 

[ComicOzzie]

So much for the idea that having a lot of money means you are smart. Sheesh!

 

[IsabellaSnow]

Ok I'm pretty bored of this, you're clearly not going to take any advise and just want attention/to make it a big deal.

You say she makes all her money off camming. Well get real. Cars and designer clothes are not cheaper in romania than other countries, not if they're real. If she's able to afford that kind of stuff from camming then chances are she would have left the studio she works in and cam from her own home, if her boss is as much of a dick as she makes out. Or she'd have found a better studio. Now I don't know this girl, but half of camming is building up a reputation and good regulars, she is apparently a complete scammer, keeps having to change sites and therefore I can't imagine she's earning enough to pay for all of her luxuries. Sure living is cheaper in Romania than here, but she'd still have to be making a decent income to keep up the rest. It seems she is lying one way or another. Either she doesn't have all this nice stuff, or she is earning money elsewhere. Now maybe she's not lying, technically if you came and visited her, and spent loads of money on her, bought her loads of expensive clothes etc, she would have made that money through camming.

It is her job to make you believe what you want to believe and try and extract money from you during.

As my first opinion was on this, was that you're over reacting, but in light of everything else you've said. Well whether she's a warm lovely person who you can tell all your secrets to on cam, it doesn't mean she's ever stopped thinking that it's her job.

Maybe it's not a long con, she enjoyed the company and was hoping one day you'd spend a little more on her. But she knows you're involved. If you do meet her and things go really well, then she could ruin your life. Do you think women who men have affairs with accept them quietly? Sure if they're married themselves, but not if they're single.

Would be a pretty convenient situation for her, she could quite possibly convince you to help pay for rent etc, and you'd barely ever even be there! There is also always the chance you are not the only one. If she wanted a real relationship, then would she be happy you turning up and then leaving her? If she weren't happy she holds a lot of information about you.
As swirl said, stop convincing yourself you don't want more, you clearly do, maybe you're trying not to raise your hopes, but that's why. What I'm saying that if your best hopes come true, after it happens, reality will set in.

Chances are it will get to your wife and your family, or maybe you'll leave them for this woman you're so infatuated with. What happens when the dream wears off? You're actually dating a very superficial women who scams people for money, is probably with you for money, she's from a completely different culture/country from you, things will get boring with her, just like any relationship. You'd have lost everything. And this is if your meeting goes well.

You've known this woman two years, she's not going away, why don't you look to your own life first, see what changes you can make, wait for her to send you the money back, maybe you make an excuse, say money's really bad, if you're even going to consider a flight you need that money back. See what she does. Maybe try getting some distance from her, spend some more time in real life and get some perspective. If she sends you the money back, you've cleared your head and have tried making yourself happier in your own life yet still feel you'd like to meet her, but with a clearer head, then do it. Right now you are thinking with emotions and hormones and ignoring your brain. There is no rush, calm down, relax.

 

[Jupiter551]

Yeah, be aware also that even if you do have a happy relationship with your wife it doesn't mean there might not be a little voice in the back of your head that misses the excitement of flirting or finding someone new. It may even be that the distance between you and this woman, and the fact you never had "virtual sex" makes her feel like some kind of safe option to flirt with. Just remember the grass always seems greener on the other side.

 

[HiGirlsRHot]

I am done with this thread. Sir if you are troll, you have my congratulations on at least being pretty clever and effective. If not could I have the contact info for your hot girlfriend, she deserves better. :angry4:

 

[curiousone]

I think I am gonna let her see this thread and what all of you have said...would love to see her reaction to it.
But not now...am gonna let some time pass...have to clear my mind a little first and get my health back.

 

[Jupiter551]

wow I would LOVE to see her response tbh

 

[DeviantDarla]

wow I would LOVE to see her response tbh

'Babe there's this girl I've been talking to online and sending money to for two years and i.told this random group of camgirls and theirs fans.. i want you to see what they had to say' ...

 

[AmberCutie]

To be quite honest I think that if you are happily "spoken for" and have two kids you should be not even dreaming of meeting some random from the internet, let alone in a foreign country!

I haven't even finished reading the replies in this RIDICULOUS thread yet, but I had to jump at the chance to quote this.

This is the ONLY answer that should be posted here.

STAHP!

 

[AmberCutie]

wow I would LOVE to see her response tbh

Her response would be to deny any ideas that she's just playing into his fantasy for money. A good scammer keeps up her facade even when called out. Don't be silly.

 

[HiGirlsRHot]

wow I would LOVE to see her response tbh

'Babe there's this girl I've been talking to online and sending money to for two years and i.told this random group of camgirls and theirs fans.. i want you to see what they had to say' ...

I am pretty sure he was referring to the Romanian cam girl rather than his girlfriend and mother of his children. While I'd love see "Pinks" reaction, I'd pay money to see a video of the girlfriends reaction reading this thread. On second thought I won't pay. It would probably be too depressing, since she'd likely just end up crying rather than methodically destroying all of his favorite possessions, formatting his hard drive, and tossing him out of the house.

 

[Anonymous]

To the OP

I've met people I've only known from the internet quite a few times. Even a couple camgirls. That said, given your situation, I'd seriously reconsider what you're really looking for. Sorry, but you just dont seem like youre playing with a full deck.

 

[Jupiter551]

wow I would LOVE to see her response tbh

Her response would be to deny any ideas that she's just playing into his fantasy for money. A good scammer keeps up her facade even when called out. Don't be silly.

I was thinking she might get rather offended lol

 

[mynameisbob84]

I haven't even finished reading the replies in this RIDICULOUS thread yet, but I had to jump at the chance to quote this.

It's just some guy asking a bunch of strangers whether or not he should leave his wife and kids behind so he can travel to another country and meet up with a girl he met on a cam site who said she likes him and whose job it is to make guys feel liked, and then ignoring everbody's advice and indeed his own concerns and declaring he's gonna do it anyway.
I'm just not seeing where you got "ridiculous" from :whistle:

 

[Zoomer]

STAHP!

I'm struggling to work out what the acronym is. So that's all, help provided? :?

 

[AnaVictoriaXO]

STAHP!

I'm struggling to work out what the acronym is. So that's all, help provided? :?

STAHP originally started as a joke on how one of the girls from Jersey Shore says "stop" to her bf when they are fighting and has since become a meme on the interwebz. SO yeah, it means stop lol.

 

[JoleneBrody]

My advice.
Pay to watch her fuck herself over the net, get over this weird emo bullshit and continue fapping on the internet. I guarantee you'll feel differently about her as soon as she's not so hidden and forbidden.

Fapping to porn when you're in a "happy" relationship is normal, everyone masturbates. Holding down a two year emotional relationship is NOT! Dude, you referred to this girl that you've never met in ways you should ONLY refer to your wife! If you think a lack of sex is gonna save you I think you are HORRIBLY mistaken.

Have fun splitting up your belongings and making child visitation agreements because yer already pretty fucked.

 

[Jupiter551]

My advice.
Pay to watch her fuck herself over the net, get over this weird emo bullshit and continue fapping on the internet. I guarantee you'll feel differently about her as soon as she's not so hidden and forbidden.

Fapping to porn when you're in a "happy" relationship is normal, everyone masturbates. Holding down a two year emotional relationship is NOT! Dude, you referred to this girl that you've never met in ways you should ONLY refer to your wife! If you think a lack of sex is gonna save you I think you are HORRIBLY mistaken.

Have fun splitting up your belongings and making child visitation agreements because yer already pretty fucked.

Hahaha JJ I think you just said what we all knew but couldn't put into words

 

[JoleneBrody]

My advice.
Pay to watch her fuck herself over the net, get over this weird emo bullshit and continue fapping on the internet. I guarantee you'll feel differently about her as soon as she's not so hidden and forbidden.

Fapping to porn when you're in a "happy" relationship is normal, everyone masturbates. Holding down a two year emotional relationship is NOT! Dude, you referred to this girl that you've never met in ways you should ONLY refer to your wife! If you think a lack of sex is gonna save you I think you are HORRIBLY mistaken.

Have fun splitting up your belongings and making child visitation agreements because yer already pretty fucked.

Hahaha JJ I think you just said what we all knew but couldn't put into words

Heh, well thanks. I feel all good about myself now! If anything this thread has turned into one big "thank" orgy of ACF lurve!

 

[IsabellaSnow]

My advice.
Pay to watch her fuck herself over the net, get over this weird emo bullshit and continue fapping on the internet. I guarantee you'll feel differently about her as soon as she's not so hidden and forbidden.

Fapping to porn when you're in a "happy" relationship is normal, everyone masturbates. Holding down a two year emotional relationship is NOT! Dude, you referred to this girl that you've never met in ways you should ONLY refer to your wife! If you think a lack of sex is gonna save you I think you are HORRIBLY mistaken.

Have fun splitting up your belongings and making child visitation agreements because yer already pretty fucked.

Hahaha JJ I think you just said what we all knew but couldn't put into words

Heh, well thanks. I feel all good about myself now! If anything this thread has turned into one big "thank" orgy of ACF lurve!

It has a bit, I've thanked almost everyone! For once we can all find something we agree on without being angry at whoever we're all mutually disagreeing with! Aww I love you guys! :-D

 

[JoleneBrody]

 

[curiousone]

OK...I see its hard for most of you to get this but what if I would say that I think i literally found a soulmate on a fucking porn webcam site.
And that I just want to meet her once. For a drink or a fuck. I don't care whats it gonna be. I just want this 2 years to turn into 5 minutes of reality
even if over a coffe on the airport or a quickie at the Mcdonalds. I dont care about the fucking sex.
Then I am planing to end all this and focus on my family. There is NO fucking way I am leaving my family.
Just NO fucking way. But if I am for so long with my wife and my kids...that doesnt mean I live with a soulmate.
I am not gonna leave them even if I see "Pink" is perfect for me. Would hurt a little bit at first but then I would forget with time.
But just dont wanna be somewhere in 50 years on a bed with shit in my pants waiting to leave this fucking world and thinking why the fuck didn't
i just go and meet her. I am young now. This is the time. I have listened to to much old people confessing what they should have done.
I don't wanna be the person that should have done it. I wanna be the person who did it.
I realise that a partnership demands a lot of compensation and then its never perfect. I am not hoping or dreaming of a partnership with "Pink".
Told her that millions of times. She knows it very well. I wanna meet her. Its not the other way around. I know its wrong from me.
I was just asking more because of my safety consirn going to that place as oppose to the moral value which I know is totaly wrong.
Would simply like to meet her to cut the fucking phantasy line so to speak and then just end all this and focus on my real life.
I can't go on with this double life...2.5 years is enough.
And to everyone...she never fucking demanded anything from me. NEVER. The only thing she did is told me she lost her documents. Thats why I sent her the money.
Here is kind of a formula of our relationship: 85% of time we joke, 5% of time we talk about kids, 5% of time we talk about our feelings,
3% of time i try to find out who she is (here she mostly freezes when it comes to technical information, but she tells me anything else),
the last 2% are probably me falling asleep over the web cam

 

[jackie_O]

Dude, when old people talk about life regrets, they aren't fucking talking about going to another country to fuck a woman you met on a free cam site who is just as likely as to not be trying to scam you, behind their wife/gf and 2 kid's backs.

Guys, I'm pretty sure we're posting in a troll thread.

 

[Meoff_69]

Thank you

Danke- German
obrigado- Portugese
gracias- Spanish
grazie- Italian
spasiba- Russian
dziękuję- Polish
dank u- Dutch
Diolch yn fawr- Welsh
Go raibh maith agat- Irish
Dankie- Afrikaans
Asante- Swahili
Domo Arigato- Japanese
Fuck you!- New Yorker or Coolsvillian

Aaaand...my proverbial "thank" load...hath been blowneth! *lights a smoke*

 

[JoleneBrody]

If your life falls apart because of your mid-life crisis over some Eastern European model you don't even trust... I think that will haunt you far longer than never meeting the girl you never intended to live life with. :roll:

If you can't call it quits and move on to being that dedicated family man you speak of without meeting her once, Then you're weak! Stop being a weak ass pussy and man up. No one likes a bitch boy!

Just reading this already made my cooter shrivel up and hide.

 

[curiousone]

Dude, when old people talk about life regrets, they aren't fucking talking about going to another country to fuck a woman you met on a free cam site who is just as likely as to not be trying to scam you, behind their wife/gf and 2 kid's backs.

Guys, I'm pretty sure we're posting in a troll thread.

wake up little girl. most of guys do cheat...most of them do it just because of sex...most of them never tell to anybody...and take it from me...when old people talk about life regrets it may not be about a webcam experience because they didnt have one 50 years ago...but are far worse situations then mine...oldtimers are far away from innocent people that we like to beleive they are...they just look it and express themselves a little different...if they say "she was so romantic" it would mean "we fucked like crazy all night" nowdays.

 

[jackie_O]

Dude, when old people talk about life regrets, they aren't fucking talking about going to another country to fuck a woman you met on a free cam site who is just as likely as to not be trying to scam you, behind their wife/gf and 2 kid's backs.

Guys, I'm pretty sure we're posting in a troll thread.

wake up little girl. most of guys do cheat...most of them do it just because of sex...most of them never tell to anybody...and take it from me...when old people talk about life regrets it may not be about a webcam experience because they didnt have one 50 years ago...but are far worse situations then mine...oldtimers are far away from innocent people that we like to beleive they are...they just look it and express themselves a little different...if they say "she was so romantic" it would mean "we fucked like crazy all night" nowdays.

Tells me to wake up....

.... is thinking of travelling thousands of miles to meet a girl who is pixels on a screen and is a known scammer.

Definitely a troll thread, now where is that cam memes thread.

 

[JoleneBrody]

Dude, when old people talk about life regrets, they aren't fucking talking about going to another country to fuck a woman you met on a free cam site who is just as likely as to not be trying to scam you, behind their wife/gf and 2 kid's backs.

Guys, I'm pretty sure we're posting in a troll thread.

wake up little girl. most of guys do cheat...most of them do it just because of sex...most of them never tell to anybody...and take it from me...when old people talk about life regrets it may not be about a webcam experience because they didnt have one 50 years ago...but are far worse situations then mine...oldtimers are far away from innocent people that we like to beleive they are...they just look it and express themselves a little different...if they say "she was so romantic" it would mean "we fucked like crazy all night" nowdays.

You're a douche canoe. Please give me your girl friends number, I'll take over from here.

 

[curiousone]

Dude, when old people talk about life regrets, they aren't fucking talking about going to another country to fuck a woman you met on a free cam site who is just as likely as to not be trying to scam you, behind their wife/gf and 2 kid's backs.

Guys, I'm pretty sure we're posting in a troll thread.

wake up little girl. most of guys do cheat...most of them do it just because of sex...most of them never tell to anybody...and take it from me...when old people talk about life regrets it may not be about a webcam experience because they didnt have one 50 years ago...but are far worse situations then mine...oldtimers are far away from innocent people that we like to beleive they are...they just look it and express themselves a little different...if they say "she was so romantic" it would mean "we fucked like crazy all night" nowdays.

Tells me to wake up....

.... is thinking of travelling thousands of miles to meet a girl who is pixels on a screen and is a known scammer.

Definitely a troll thread, now where is that cam memes thread.

what is a troll thread? im not english

 

[curiousone]

Dude, when old people talk about life regrets, they aren't fucking talking about going to another country to fuck a woman you met on a free cam site who is just as likely as to not be trying to scam you, behind their wife/gf and 2 kid's backs.

Guys, I'm pretty sure we're posting in a troll thread.

wake up little girl. most of guys do cheat...most of them do it just because of sex...most of them never tell to anybody...and take it from me...when old people talk about life regrets it may not be about a webcam experience because they didnt have one 50 years ago...but are far worse situations then mine...oldtimers are far away from innocent people that we like to beleive they are...they just look it and express themselves a little different...if they say "she was so romantic" it would mean "we fucked like crazy all night" nowdays.

You're a douche canoe. Please give me your girl friends number, I'll take over from here.

)) thank you but no thank you
if you were in my position and single would you do it?