Should I visit a cam girl from Romania ?

[FrenchKitty]

Can we get a Romanian in here so they can tell us how they make all these guys think they're in love with them (not that's that a great thing, but I can respect the skill :-D )? I mean srsly, these dang Romanians have some mad skillz lol. It probably doesn't hurt that most of them look like Victoria's Secret models, either!

Anyway, @ OP- no. Just no. When in doubt, don't go to Romania to meet a cam girl. You seem to have a lot of doubt ... so don't go to Romania to meet a cam girl. That's always been my motto anyway.

I used to have romanian neighbours and the woman and often met at each other's house for coffee and chats. She was shocked by my lack of skillz with my own husband, and tried to teach me a few tricks. Most of them are the kind our grandmother used to use at a time where they were not allowed outside the house/to vote/to own a credit card.
Feign submission, behave like you truly believe in your heart of hearts that you're the most fucking amazing princess in the entire world and have him think that you're shocked by the word "shit" said to you so much that you'll refuse to talk to him for weeks at a time, make him walk on his toes, keep him always unsure of what you're thinking, cultivate mystery, be ALWAYS pretty as fuck, things like that.
Things I am genetically programmed not to be able to keep up for longer than an hour at a time lol.

 

[HiGirlsRHot]

Can we get a Romanian in here so they can tell us how they make all these guys think they're in love with them (not that's that a great thing, but I can respect the skill :-D )? I mean srsly, these dang Romanians have some mad skillz lol. It probably doesn't hurt that most of them look like Victoria's Secret models, either!

Anyway, @ OP- no. Just no. When in doubt, don't go to Romania to meet a cam girl. You seem to have a lot of doubt ... so don't go to Romania to meet a cam girl. That's always been my motto anyway.

I think that is an excellent idea, but once they told us their secrets wouldn't they have shoot us, otherwise us guys could escape their evil clutches and the rest of the models could copy their winning formula? There does seem to be a lot of potential Victoria Secret models in the country :handgestures-salute:

 

[Zoomer]

I wouldn't go to Romania to meet a woman, ever. I've been to eastern Europe.... and actually getting involved intimately with a Romanian woman off the internet, let alone one in the sex trade is pretty unthinkable in my head.

Shop local, it's cheaper and safer.

Wow, talk about xenophobia raising its ugly head... again...

Was it not enough to just point out that getting involved with any woman off of the internet, let alone in the sex trade, is far more likely to be risky than by more conventional means?

Believe it or not the country of origin does not predetermine your dereliction of compassion and moral fibre. I am guessing it is "not believe" in your case though. The only additional risk of trying abroad would be not knowing the local language or customs, and therefore potentially being seen as a far less risky opportunity to those who'd see an individual as such - essentially as they'll "go home" and are less likely to get a reasonable police result.

However, having plenty of friends from all over eastern Europe - one thing about the lady friends I have made so far is that they are precisely that. Ladies. If I have children someday, I would be a father confident in the judgement of my daughters if they display the morals and behaviour of the ladies I know... which is far more than can be said for many of the English or US girls I know :lol:

For clarity, none of them are camgirls. Or should I say not that I am aware of anyway

 

[RedHerby]

there's a lot of strange "national hate" going on between the countries.

In Europe ? No no !!! We did just win the Nobel Peace Prize, all of us in Europe !!!

 

[curiousone]

Thank you all very much for your answers.
What the hell...decided to go publicly out with it so that everyone can see what an asshole I am.
I am probably not the only guy with this problem so it might be helpful for some other looser out there.
Judge gently pls )

I am probably going to go and meet her even though my brain and everything logical is saying no but my heart is saying yes. I just wanted at least the "forum" to know because I can not confess this to anyone else. Why I can not tell this to anyone else is because I live a happy family life with a beautiful wife and 2 greatest kids and if I were to tell this to anyone they wouldn't beleive me or would think i am crazy which i probably am. I am also a pretty exposed person in my surroundings so people would love to gossip this about me. I understand totaly what you ment to say with trying to find why I am in search for a little excitement and that there is probably something missing in my "real" life and im finding this in my "virtual" one.
I am a well educated person and a very busy man also and because I see that what you write actually has sense I will describe my situation a little bit more detailed to you. Of course you are not obliged to read it and even comment on it but I am gonna do it anyway. Confession feels good sometimes

Im 30 and something years old. Have been with my wife (actually gf but we didt merry yet - nothing is wrong, just didnt do it yet )) for 12 years. And to all of the comments there...my wife looks amazing...very few models look like her...take my word for it. I have a boy and a girl with her. Me an my girlfriend have a great sex life and I am not looking for substitution or spicing it up over web. We love each other and I really dont beleive there is a problem in our relationship.

I sometimes like to go to pornsites and wank and thats basicly all the sinning I do
I think that those actions probably don't put me in the category of freaks or mental people
2 and a half years ago I went on one of the webcam models websites and I met this model that I am talking about now. Lets call her Pink )
Usually I would just tip a model and go away but there was just something about her. She ignored me totaly on the first chat and I talked and I talked and got her attention. And from that day on and until today we never stopped chatting. She knows every little detail about me. We drank together, danced together, laughed, cried,...you name it we did it (virtualy ofcourse - over cam)...We never had "virtual sex". I dont even believe in such a thing and am more of a person who likes to touch skin as oppose to kyboard or a mouse. I never was with someone with who I a had so much fun with. Don't get me wrong...I am very sociable person...have lots of friends...but she literally is my best friend...at least I would like to beleive that...she knows all about my family and basicy everything I like and dont like.
She works as a model and scams members. You wanted to know how? She promises to strip, they tip her and then she doenst do it..If you ask me its funny and its not a big deal but as you know websites have a policy regarding that so they closed her account a couple of times. As she told me she is making good money on this websites. She likes desginer clothes, good cars, and basicly she isnt a modest person so to speak. I tip her for about 50,00€ per month max which is not much...and even this is used mainly as a joke or parordy of some kind...but she doesnt care about that. I have her phone number we talk over yahoo and sms even when she is of work and home. I know things about her family and a lot of other stuff...she allways claims to me that i am not a member that i am her friend...cause if i were a member she wouldnt be wasting time with me.
This is why I want to meet this woman, because we spent so much time 2 gether (there is almost not a day that would pass that we dont talk)
and I would really like to meet her once. Even if its just for a coffee, I really dont care. If I wanted sex I would pay for it in a night club or to a escort girl and I would get what kind of woman I wanted. And I am satisfied with my sex life with my girlfriend also. So truly the reason is just to meet her in real life. Its not the first time we planned to meet but we never did it. I allways panic. But this last time was really intresting because i was on a bussines journey in France and told her to meet me. She didnt want because she was scarred which i do understand. But she told me that why I don't come to her? First, I was on business, second it is not by the way for me and third its way more simple for her. She has no family, nobody to hide it from. Then this terrible thing happened to me at a night club in Paris where I went into a strip club for fun and I got ripped of for 500,00€ just for a strip dance in a bar which was suppose to cost 10,00€. That freaked me out so much that I started to think what if she is the same? She works in a studio...Her boss is an asshole...probably some mafia guy...She knows what I own and what i do...that my family has a lot of money...that I have a wife and kids...what if they really try to do something to me or demand ransome or something like that...I am probably a little paranoid but I had a big problems at that strip club in Paris with bodyguards and so on...so it got me thinking. At the same period I lend her 500€ cause her documents (with credit cards) were all stolen...Its been 2 months...she got her documents back but didn't return me the money...but all in all she says she is gonna give it back.
Thats why i said...ok...if she is truly honest to me...and she truly just cares about me...the only way I can check this is, if she can send me some sort of a material proof. I explained it to her...that I would like her ID photo, a photo of her car and a photo of the registration document of her car which says that she is the owner. To be completely honest I am a little ashame to ask such a thing but its the only way I could get some sort of a proof. When I told her all this she said I was crazy and she simply ignored what I wanted. On one hand I do understand her but on the other...if she truly wants to meet me like she says an truly trusts me why doesnt she take those 3 pictures and send it to me over email? If she asked me the same thing I would do it in an instant.
Its not about the pictures its just that then I would know that she truly owns a very expensive car and she is who she says and she is not intrested in my money or anything else but me as a person. Do I ask too much? Cause right now as far as I am conserned she could be living in some hole in Romania with her boss telling her what to do and that I am only one of her members that she scams. There is a little chance but I beleive there is some. I truly don't know if I am panicing to much or am I objective. The travel itself and the cost of it are of no importance to me...my safety is...not because of me...I don't care about myself...even if she does scam me...its the best fucking scam I ever saw...but its because I have children and a good caring family and I wouldn't like to hurt them.
But at the same time I have this GREAT wish...probably the greatest in my life...to meet her. I feel like if I don't I am going to be sorry for the rest of my life.
The more I read what I have just written the more crazy it looks to me )

Thx for any ideas ?

 

[RedHerby]

... Why I can not tell this to anyone else is because I live a happy family life with a beautiful wife and 2 greatest kids ...

Any ideas ?

yep, I will mail them to the Romanian Mafia.

 

[BobbyB]

Thank you all very much for your answers.
What the hell...decided to go publicly out with it so that everyone can see what an asshole I am.
I am probably not the only guy with this problem so it might be helpful for some other looser out there.
Judge gently pls )

I am probably going to go and meet her even though my brain and everything logical is saying no but my heart is saying yes. I just wanted at least the "forum" to know because I can not confess this to anyone else. Why I can not tell this to anyone else is because I live a happy family life with a beautiful wife and 2 greatest kids and if I were to tell this to anyone they wouldn't beleive me or would think i am crazy which i probably am. I am also a pretty exposed person in my surroundings so people would love to gossip this about me. I understand totaly what you ment to say with trying to find why I am in search for a little excitement and that there is probably something missing in my "real" life and im finding this in my "virtual" one.
I am a well educated person and a very busy man also and because I see that what you write actually has sense I will describe my situation a little bit more detailed to you. Of course you are not obliged to read it and even comment on it but I am gonna do it anyway. Confession feels good sometimes

Im 30 and something years old. Have been with my wife (actually gf but we didt merry yet - nothing is wrong, just didnt do it yet )) for 12 years. And to all of the comments there...my wife looks amazing...very few models look like her...take my word for it. I have a boy and a girl with her. Me an my girlfriend have a great sex life and I am not looking for substitution or spicing it up over web. We love each other and I really dont beleive there is a problem in our relationship.

I sometimes like to go to pornsites and wank and thats basicly all the sinning I do
I think that those actions probably don't put me in the category of freaks or mental people
2 and a half years ago I went on one of the webcam models websites and I met this model that I am talking about now. Lets call her Pink )
Usually I would just tip a model and go away but there was just something about her. She ignored me totaly on the first chat and I talked and I talked and got her attention. And from that day on and until today we never stopped chatting. She knows every little detail about me. We drank together, danced together, laughed, cried,...you name it we did it (virtualy ofcourse - over cam)...We never had "virtual sex". I dont even believe in such a thing and am more of a person who likes to touch skin as oppose to kyboard or a mouse. I never was with someone with who I a had so much fun with. Don't get me wrong...I am very sociable person...have lots of friends...but she literally is my best friend...at least I would like to beleive that...she knows all about my family and basicy everything I like and dont like.
She works as a model and scams members. You wanted to know how? She promises to strip, they tip her and then she doenst do it..If you ask me its funny and its not a big deal but as you know websites have a policy regarding that so they closed her account a couple of times. As she told me she is making good money on this websites. She likes desginer clothes, good cars, and basicly she isnt a modest person so to speak. I tip her for about 50,00€ per month max which is not much...and even this is used mainly as a joke or parordy of some kind...but she doesnt care about that. I have her phone number we talk over yahoo and sms even when she is of work and home. I know things about her family and a lot of other stuff...she allways claims to me that i am not a member that i am her friend...cause if i were a member she wouldnt be wasting time with me.
This is why I want to meet this woman, because we spent so much time 2 gether (there is almost not a day that would pass that we dont talk)
and I would really like to meet her once. Even if its just for a coffee, I really dont care. If I wanted sex I would pay for it in a night club or to a escort girl and I would get what kind of woman I wanted. And I am satisfied with my sex life with my girlfriend also. So truly the reason is just to meet her in real life. Its not the first time we planned to meet but we never did it. I allways panic. But this last time was really intresting because i was on a bussines journey in France and told her to meet me. She didnt want because she was scarred which i do understand. But she told me that why I don't come to her? First, I was on business, second it is not by the way for me and third its way more simple for her. She has no family, nobody to hide it from. Then this terrible thing happened to me at a night club in Paris where I went into a strip club for fun and I got ripped of for 500,00€ just for a strip dance in a bar which was suppose to cost 10,00€. That freaked me out so much that I started to think what if she is the same? She works in a studio...Her boss is an asshole...probably some mafia guy...She knows what I own and what i do...that my family has a lot of money...that I have a wife and kids...what if they really try to do something to me or demand ransome or something like that...I am probably a little paranoid but I had a big problems at that strip club in Paris with bodyguards and so on...so it got me thinking. At the same period I lend her 500€ cause her documents (with credit cards) were all stolen...Its been 2 months...she got her documents back but didn't return me the money...but all in all she says she is gonna give it back.
Thats why i said...ok...if she is truly honest to me...and she truly just cares about me...the only way I can check this is, if she can send me some sort of a material proof. I explained it to her...that I would like her ID photo, a photo of her car and a photo of the registration document of her car which says that she is the owner. To be completely honest I am a little ashame to ask such a thing but its the only way I could get some sort of a proof. When I told her all this she said I was crazy and she simply ignored what I wanted. On one hand I do understand her but on the other...if she truly wants to meet me like she says an truly trusts me why doesnt she take those 3 pictures and send it to me over email? If she asked me the same thing I would do it in an instant.
Its not about the pictures its just that then I would know that she truly owns a very expensive car and she is who she says and she is not intrested in my money or anything else but me as a person. Do I ask too much? Cause right now as far as I am conserned she could be living in some hole in Romania with her boss telling her what to do and that I am only one of her members that she scams. There is a little chance but I beleive there is some. I truly don't know if I am panicing to much or am I objective. The travel itself and the cost of it are of no importance to me...my safety is...not because of me...I don't care about myself...even if she does scam me...its the best fucking scam I ever saw...but its because I have children and a good caring family and I wouldn't like to hurt them.
But at the same time I have this GREAT wish...probably the greatest in my life...to meet her. I feel like if I don't I am going to be sorry for the rest of my life.
The more I read what I have just written the more crazy it looks to me )

Thx for any ideas ?

If you are happy with your wife and your kids maybe just play it straight and take them all on a holiday to Romania and just arrange that your model friend stays in the same hotel, if you are lucky your wife and her will get along nicely and everybody is happy

 

[MissKlass]

That post was wayyyyy too long, and I am unsure as to why you also sent a copy of it to my inbox lol. :shock:

 

[AllisonWilder]

You're aware (and think it's funny) that a model is scamming members and think that it's a good idea to hop a plane and go see her? At this point it doesn't seem to matter what country she lives in, this just sounds like a really, really bad plan.

Your wife (girlfriend) and kids, will likely not be pleased, not that I blame them. If I was told by my boyfriend of any length of time that he was 'getting on a plane to go meet a camgirl, but it's okay because we've never had virtual sex', I would likely tell him that he was welcome to go and stay with said camgirl because I most likely wouldn't be there when he got back.

Edited to add: She's not giving you your money back. Ever. Also, she's never sending you these documents. You will never know her real name or any real identifying information about her. Ever.

 

[IsabellaSnow]

Yes I am unsure of that too. And yes, way too long.

Look, if you're that stupid and selfish then you deserve to be scammed. She is a scammer. That is what she does on cam. She has clearly played you. Do you think she does not do the same to other guys? Maybe wait until she does actually give you your money back. That might prove she's not scamming you. If she has money etc then she wouldn't need you to send her money, whether or not all her cards were stolen. Not sure how she received the money without cards...

A camgirl and a member can become friends, and they can meet. But this is different for you. Fact is you're willing to leave your family and put them at risk for this woman who is telling you all these sweet things, giving you all this attention, who chances are is also giving a load of other guys attention too. 2 years is a long time, but if she truly believes you're rich then the long con can be worth it.
If she is not scamming you then she will be wanting more, she might try and get between you and your family, she might tell your family or at least threaten it. Are you looking to have a relationship with this woman?
Oh I will also point out that because you and your wife aren't married, if something happens to you, your wife and children are fucked. Having children is pretty much the main reason you should get married, for their safety. You are putting a big risk on your family that they could be very hurt by this. If you were single, well you're just risking yourself. But you are not in this case.
If she does only wear designer clothes, have amazing cars etc, she is getting her money from somewhere. She doesn't care at all whether she scams people or not. This will include you. But seeing as you find the idea of other people being scammed funny then again, I really hope she does fuck you over if you go.

It makes me sad that someone in the world would do something so selfish and moronic. As HiGirlsHot was saying, cam girls are not real life, even english and american cam girls who tend to be quite blunt/realistic, we are still nowhere near real life. But a lot of eastern european girls do play on mens hearts and weaknesses, doing that whole "hard to get" part at the beginning, letting those who stick around get caught up in the web, it's an act, a routine. Like was said earlier, it's a skill, but it's dangerous. It's one of the reasons I can be very blunt on cam, is because I do not want to hurt anyone or effect their real lives. I constantly hear men sour at british and american girls because we're not as "receiving" as romanian girls, because we don't stroke their egos and make them feel wanted in the same way. And then I hear the guys after going on about how evil all romanian girls are because they've been scammed by one etc. Thing is, the reason they've been scammed is because most of the genuine ones won't lure you in like that and offer to meet in the first place.

(Ok, I spent a bit too much time in that angelparty's room after they'd all gone group... and read quite a bit of the very nasty conversations the men were having about romanian girls, and actually british and american girls too)

Remember everyone, if it seems too good to be true, it probably is! (except for me... of course )

 

[Anonymous]

Remember everyone, if it seems too good to be true, it probably is! (except for me... of course )

Haha...I like that. You should make that your forum signature. :-D

 

[Anonymous]

Are we all being PUNK'D? :lol:

 

[IsabellaSnow]

I will also remind you, that have you not seen "Taken"? I mean seriously, anyone who watches that film will understand that if you go meet that pretty girl, you will be hooked up on drugs and sold as a prostitute for the rest of your life! Oh yeah, they do not discriminate between sexes! lol

 

[bob]

curiouser and curiouser, curious

i'm sure we don't know as much a pink does about your life, but you've just told us a great deal about it....your confession, as you say....you paint a very rosy picture and -for a variety of reasons- rightfully question whether or not this innocent meeting is worth putting that rosy picture in jeopardy.......

it doesn't feel like you have to be convinced of the risks....it feels like you want absolution because you're just gonna ignore them, because you have a "best friend" that you don't trust, and you're driven to find out what is illusion, and what is reality.

it feels frankly, like you're half awake and caught up in some dream, that has slowly turned dark and uncertain.....and that the darkness and uncertainty is consuming you.....you want it to be different than it is.....

Have been with my wife (actually gf but we didt merry yet - nothing is wrong, just didnt do it yet )) for 12 years.

i'm not surprised you haven't married yet....and i'd be surprised if she doesn't have SOME idea that there's a game afoot.

 

[Weirdtimmy]

I will also remind you, that have you not seen "Taken"? I mean seriously, anyone who watches that film will understand that if you go meet that pretty girl, you will be hooked up on drugs and sold as a prostitute for the rest of your life! Oh yeah, they do not discriminate between sexes! lol

I doubt a middle eastern princess would pay $500,000 for a virgin male. They're literally covering the planet at this point

 

[IsabellaSnow]

I will also remind you, that have you not seen "Taken"? I mean seriously, anyone who watches that film will understand that if you go meet that pretty girl, you will be hooked up on drugs and sold as a prostitute for the rest of your life! Oh yeah, they do not discriminate between sexes! lol

I doubt a middle eastern princess would pay $500,000 for a virgin male. They're literally covering the planet at this point

Did my sarcasm not show again this time?! dammit! I even put a "lol" after it. I give up.

 

[Anonymous]

I will also remind you, that have you not seen "Taken"? I mean seriously, anyone who watches that film will understand that if you go meet that pretty girl, you will be hooked up on drugs and sold as a prostitute for the rest of your life! Oh yeah, they do not discriminate between sexes! lol

We can't all have Liam Neeson for a dad :c

Oh how I wish I could.

 

[IsabellaSnow]

I will also remind you, that have you not seen "Taken"? I mean seriously, anyone who watches that film will understand that if you go meet that pretty girl, you will be hooked up on drugs and sold as a prostitute for the rest of your life! Oh yeah, they do not discriminate between sexes! lol

We can't all have Liam Neeson for a dad :c

Oh how I wish I could.

This was my friends facebook status a few days ago whilst trying to buy his girlfriend a present on ebay:

"Person who keeps outbidding me on Ebay - I don't know who you are. I do know what you want. If you are looking for ransom, I can tell you I don't have money. But what I do have are a very particular set of skills; skills I have acquired over a very long career. Skills that make me a nightmare for people like you. If you give up outbidding me now, that'll be the end of it. I will not look for you, I will not pursue you. But if you don't, I will look for you, I will find you, and I will out bid you!!!!"

It made me laugh at least!

 

[Swirl]

hey curiousone,

You say that you are just looking for comments and that you are probably going to go meet her anyway, but I don't think that is really true. I think you want to be talked out of doing this by people who are looking at the situation from the outside. Obviously, the thing that really jumps out to me is that you have a wife (or whatever she is) and children. I say you should step back and examine that part of your life first. I mean, really you say you are 'happy' but are you really happy if you are considering doing this thing? Hell, I understand that married dudes get bored having sex with their wives and may come online to look at other naked ladies, but this is really taking it to the next level. It's cheating, obviously, especially if you go and meet the girl. Also, as for the chances of you being scammed...you say if she can keep this scam up for 2 years then it's the best scam ever....but is it? How hard is it for some young hot model to keep this act up when the guys feelings are involved? Many guys come online because of whatever is missing in their real relationships....they come prepped already. It's not that the models are so great at scamming....it's that the guys are so ready to be scammed. I don't know if you are being scammed or not obviously but there are red flags everywhere...why even take the risk? You say that you are educated and smart. Maybe is time for you to act like it. Oh, and stop lying to yourself that you only want to meet her for a coffee...everyone knows you want a whole lot more than that!

 

[Paulie Walnuts]

To be fair, zoomer is right I am a little xenophobic, I've been around and all I wanted to do was get back home.

To be fair to the Romanians, I've been to Detroit also, and I think I'd rather go back to Eastern Europe than go back to Detroit.

And I'm sure there are lots of perfectly lovely people in Detroit. I'm not talking the risk and sticking around there to find em.
:lol:

There are shithole districts in every country, and I suppose I am a little unfair to judge a whole nation from the shitholes I've seen, because I haven't seen the nicer side of the tracks while I was there.

Come to think of it, there are places in the relatively harmless city of Pittsburgh that I wouldn't drive though without a police escort.... and that's my back yard.
:hand:

I apologize to the Romanians.
And to the Detroit... dwellers. But your fair city still scares the hell out of me.

Now that I think about it Eastern Europe probably aint all that bad.

 

[curiousone]

Yes I am unsure of that too. And yes, way too long.

If she has money etc then she wouldn't need you to send her money, whether or not all her cards were stolen. Not sure how she received the money without cards...
I offered myself to lend her the money...she never asked...but she told me she is gonna give it back to me soon...and that time has already passed.


A camgirl and a member can become friends, and they can meet. But this is different for you. Fact is you're willing to leave your family and put them at risk for this woman who is telling you all these sweet things, giving you all this attention, who chances are is also giving a load of other guys attention too. 2 years is a long time, but if she truly believes you're rich then the long con can be worth it.
I don't plan to leave my family. And beleive me I know its not right what I do to my family. The question was if anybody heared of a similar situation and being scammed doing it?

Oh I will also point out that because you and your wife aren't married, if something happens to you, your wife and children are fucked.
That you shouldn't worrie about )) They are well taken care of. But thank you for worrying.

If she does only wear designer clothes, have amazing cars etc, she is getting her money from somewhere. She doesn't care at all whether she scams people or not.
She gets her money by working as a cam model and by that only.

It makes me sad that someone in the world would do something so selfish and moronic. As HiGirlsHot was saying, cam girls are not real life, even english and american cam girls who tend to be quite blunt/realistic, we are still nowhere near real life. But a lot of eastern european girls do play on mens hearts and weaknesses, doing that whole "hard to get" part at the beginning, letting those who stick around get caught up in the web, it's an act, a routine. Like was said earlier, it's a skill, but it's dangerous.
Agree with that !

 

[LadyLuna]

Come to think of it, there are places in the relatively harmless city of Pittsburgh that I wouldn't drive though without a police escort.... and that's my back yard.
:hand:

Ladies, LADIES! Put your wallets away, get out of your cars! Don't scare the poor man off! Jesus, have a little restraint!

 

[curiousone]

curiouser and curiouser, curious

i'm sure we don't know as much a pink does about your life, but you've just told us a great deal about it....your confession, as you say....you paint a very rosy picture and -for a variety of reasons- rightfully question whether or not this innocent meeting is worth putting that rosy picture in jeopardy.......

it doesn't feel like you have to be convinced of the risks....it feels like you want absolution because you're just gonna ignore them, because you have a "best friend" that you don't trust, and you're driven to find out what is illusion, and what is reality.

it feels frankly, like you're half awake and caught up in some dream, that has slowly turned dark and uncertain.....and that the darkness and uncertainty is consuming you.....you want it to be different than it is.....

Have been with my wife (actually gf but we didt merry yet - nothing is wrong, just didnt do it yet )) for 12 years.

i'm not surprised you haven't married yet....and i'd be surprised if she doesn't have SOME idea that there's a game afoot.

I hate to admit it but you probably nailed the way I feel even better that I would in a million years. To everybody that is saying "post is to long to read" let me say that is only a drop in the sea of events that happened during those two and a half years to us. There are 99% of good things and 1% of bad. You are right in everything you say except for the wedding part. If you all most know I am also a wedding organiser also and have full head of them so thats why even my girlfriend doesnt want one. We are gonna have one but a mini one because we are full of the big ones. Its difficult to judge if you don't know the whole story.

 

[curiousone]

I doubt a middle eastern princess would pay $500,000 for a virgin male. They're literally covering the planet at this point

)))))))

 

[sweetiebatman]

To be quite honest I think that if you are happily "spoken for" and have two kids you should be not even dreaming of meeting some random from the internet, let alone in a foreign country!

 

[Just Me]

curiouser and curiouser, curious

i'm sure we don't know as much a pink does about your life, but you've just told us a great deal about it....your confession, as you say....you paint a very rosy picture and -for a variety of reasons- rightfully question whether or not this innocent meeting is worth putting that rosy picture in jeopardy.......

it doesn't feel like you have to be convinced of the risks....it feels like you want absolution because you're just gonna ignore them, because you have a "best friend" that you don't trust, and you're driven to find out what is illusion, and what is reality.

it feels frankly, like you're half awake and caught up in some dream, that has slowly turned dark and uncertain.....and that the darkness and uncertainty is consuming you.....you want it to be different than it is.....

Have been with my wife (actually gf but we didt merry yet - nothing is wrong, just didnt do it yet )) for 12 years.

i'm not surprised you haven't married yet....and i'd be surprised if she doesn't have SOME idea that there's a game afoot.

I hate to admit it but you probably nailed the way I feel even better that I would in a million years. To everybody that is saying "post is to long to read" let me say that is only a drop in the sea of events that happened during those two and a half years to us. There are 99% of good things and 1% of bad. You are right in everything you say except for the wedding part. If you all most know I am also a wedding organiser also and have full head of them so thats why even my girlfriend doesnt want one. We are gonna have one but a mini one because we are full of the big ones. Its difficult to judge if you don't know the whole story.

So, this Romanian cam model is a guy? Are you trying to come out here? We are very LGBT friendly here. :lol:

yes, I know I am stereotyping, but there is so much wrong with this person I have nothing constructive to add, too many lies and my troll radar(trolldar?) is going off.

 

[Jupiter551]

'getting on a plane to go meet a camgirl,

whose existence you've hidden for two years*

 

[Just Me]

Would really appreciate if someone would give some advice on this:

I've been friends with a cam girl from Romania for a long time.
It has now come to a point where she wants me to visit her in Romania.
I am not particulary crazy about it and wanted her to visit me.
She refused because she is scared. Ok. I beleive her that its not easy to go somewhere alone,
especially if you are a girl. I like her a lot and we really clicked for all this 2 years we know each other
but she works in a studio and I don't know the background of that.
To be completely honest I am a little affraid to go and visit her because I don't know if there is a possibility
that she, or even more possible the boss of the studio, would like to scam me, or robb me, or something like that.
I know its unfair to estimate such things but I am really careful about things.
When I asked her this ofcourse she declined and laughed and told me I'm crazy.
But when I told her to send me a pic of her ID and some other things that proove that she has enough money,
which she claims to have, she refuses. Even worse, she just ignores my wishes.
Why I want her to confirm me her financial status? Because then I would really have no doubt that she wants to meet me
as a person and that she (or her studio boss) don't have any weird plans for me.
I may panic to much but I know that most of this studios are illegal and that they are owned by mafia so that is why I am extra precocious.
Can anybody give some tips on what to do cause I'm really confused about it.

Thx!

I guarantee you will be raped and murdered by the studio boss. Good luck and have fun. :thumbleft:

 

[curiousone]

curiouser and curiouser, curious

i'm sure we don't know as much a pink does about your life, but you've just told us a great deal about it....your confession, as you say....you paint a very rosy picture and -for a variety of reasons- rightfully question whether or not this innocent meeting is worth putting that rosy picture in jeopardy.......

it doesn't feel like you have to be convinced of the risks....it feels like you want absolution because you're just gonna ignore them, because you have a "best friend" that you don't trust, and you're driven to find out what is illusion, and what is reality.

it feels frankly, like you're half awake and caught up in some dream, that has slowly turned dark and uncertain.....and that the darkness and uncertainty is consuming you.....you want it to be different than it is.....

Have been with my wife (actually gf but we didt merry yet - nothing is wrong, just didnt do it yet )) for 12 years.

i'm not surprised you haven't married yet....and i'd be surprised if she doesn't have SOME idea that there's a game afoot.

I hate to admit it but you probably nailed the way I feel even better that I would in a million years. To everybody that is saying "post is to long to read" let me say that is only a drop in the sea of events that happened during those two and a half years to us. There are 99% of good things and 1% of bad. You are right in everything you say except for the wedding part. If you all most know I am also a wedding organiser also and have full head of them so thats why even my girlfriend doesnt want one. We are gonna have one but a mini one because we are full of the big ones. Its difficult to judge if you don't know the whole story.

So, this Romanian cam model is a guy? Are you trying to come out here? We are very LGBT friendly here. :lol:

yes, I know I am stereotyping, but there is so much wrong with this person I have nothing constructive to add, too many lies and my troll radar(trolldar?) is going off.

I am anything but gay ))

 

[Jo_Bunny]

LOL...that is my only reply.