Respect to all the cam girls out there!

[Highlander884]

Just to add my 2 cents. I know both a tipper and a camgirl who both dated someone they met on cb and both felt it was a mistake and wouldnt recommend it.

 

[AmberCutie]

Many people work for money and then marry somebody they met during work.

Sex work is different than most work.

 

[yummybrownfox]

Many people work for money and then marry somebody they met during work.

Yeah, but it's silly to come on here basically telling everyone "So keep hope alive, fellas! It happened for ME (But did it really though, Romeo???), and it can happen for you!"

 

[schruti]

Sex work is different than most work.

It is. And it doesn't mean webcam workers can't meet, date or marry members. They have these freedoms like anybody else, and all of this happens.

In this very thread a quite successful webcam model declared she met many Chaturbate members. I know webcam workers who met members. I know webcam models who dated members.

Yeah, but it's silly to come on here basically telling everyone "So keep hope alive, fellas! It happened for ME (But did it really though, Romeo???), and it can happen for you!"

I agree. Most webcam models won't meet their white knight during work, and most visitors won't find their queen of hearts by watching webcams. Even building friendship during work is, in my opinion, harder for a webcam model than, for example, for a hair stylist.

It's possible, though. Thus I don't agree with generalizing statements like: “No webcam worker ever meets a member”. They are simply false. A statement about everybody is falsified by one single counter example. That's just logic.

And I am irritated about models pointing out they don't work in escort when nobody suggested they do. Should I mention I don't work in escort either?

 

[AmberCutie]

It is. And it doesn't mean webcam workers can't meet, date or marry members. They have these freedoms like anybody else, and all of this happens.

Did any of us say that we CAN'T?

Our argument is that MOST DO NOT. MOST just want people to STOP asking to meet up. We want people to STOP making it seem like it's such a common thing, because too many members EXPECT it. Also too many members get SCAMMED because they have been encouraged that it's common. IT'S NOT.

It happens.
Most times it does not.
It should not be encouraged as a way for dudes to meet girlfriends.


NOTE: when models go to PUBLIC CONVENTIONS and let their members know they'll be signing photos and allowing selfies, that is NOT the discussion here. That isn't "meeting up".

 

[yummybrownfox]

Thus I don't agree with generalizing statements like: “No webcam worker ever meets a member”. They are simply false. A statement about everybody is falsified by one single counter example. That's just logic.

And I am irritated about models pointing out they don't work in escort when nobody suggested they do. Should I mention I don't work in escort either?

The person who posted that obviously should've said "Cam models usually do not meet their members," so you or nobody else feels the need to dwell on the error of her post. Lol.

Models are probably pointing that out (That they're not escorts) because they're tired of getting shit like this in their cam rooms...

 

[MarieElise]

And I am irritated about models pointing out they don't work in escort when nobody suggested they do. Should I mention I don't work in escort either?

There are regulations against this, and the general topic of the thread is related to it. So pointing out that we are not escorts is totally fair. You are being a bit pedantic and neither considering the context (ie a forum where guys repeatedly come struggling with unreciprocated feelings and/ or scams from love con models). In addition to this, unless you are a model yourself, you would have no understanding of our perspective, how often we are harassed about this (as well as escorting). So it comes across as if you are the one over-generalizing, and talking like an expert on a topic which you are not, and have no experience.

I've read some of your other posts which I have thought were cool, but in this thread just listen to what models are saying please. This is an important and repeated topic to us, where we are trying to give out a strong, consistent message in order to save guys' drama and heartache. As well as to save ourselves from harassment and abuse, when we are trying to work.

 

[TokenGesture]

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[MarieElise]

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[schruti]

Did any of us say that we CAN'T?

I quoted two of us forum members who claimed only escorts meet their members in this thread.

Our argument is that MOST DO NOT.

That is our argument indeed. I agree.

The person who posted that obviously should've said "Cam models usually do not meet their members,"

That would have been quite a reasonable statement with which I would agree.

You are being a bit pedantic …

I tend to apply logic. At least two statements of this thread declared every webcam model who ever met a member to be an escort. I know webcam models who met members and who don't work as escorts and who probably won't like to be called escorts.

I also wrote that most webcam models won't meet their visitors, and I consider the original post misleading.

And for the guys out there who often fall in love with the models... let me just say that not all girls are out to scam their clients.

In doubt, I often apply the plumber test: Can we say the same about plumbers?

And for the gays out there who often fall in love with the plumbers … let me just say that not all plumbers are out to scam their clients.

Indeed, they are not. I know several honest plumbers. That's no reason to fall in love with them. The same applies to webcam models.

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The best idea since furnitureporn.com

 

[MarieElise]

I tend to apply logic. At least two statements of this thread declared every webcam model who ever met a member to be an escort. I know webcam models who met members and who don't work as escorts and who probably won't like to be called escorts.

Yeah I know what you mean, I do that too. But then sometimes I realize that I'm focusing on one tiny piece and forgetting the larger context. Forrest and trees.
But, yeah, your point is fair enough, and I can see where you are coming from with it.

I think the fear is just that a lot of people who read the forum, and who are absolutely not having any kind of genuine connection w a model will feel encouraged by it. You know how it is, people jump to odd-ass conclusions in their minds, and it takes very, very little for some of them to do so. The very few people who are having some kind of genuine connection, and I mean very, very few/ less than 1% I would guess, doubt it. Then the ones who are absolutely not having any kind of connection, are busy buying flight tickets. And God forbid I mention it, but getting tattoos also *sigh*.

Anyway, hopefully that helps clarify.

I gotta go build my karma and try to think of useful stuff to say on Reddit now.
Holy shit! Where to begin!

In doubt, I often apply the plumber test: Can we say the same about plumbers?

LMAO. Not sure why this struck me as so funny, but it did!! Maybe something to do with the whole plumbers crack thing.

 

[yummybrownfox]

I still have a hard time with the quote feature on here messing me up sometimes, and schruti's over here quoting 7 different statements in one post. Lol.

 

[cbhours]

I still have a hard time with the quote feature on here messing me up sometimes, and schruti's over here quoting 7 different statements in one post. Lol.

Honestly I don't know how to work the quote feature either, I just click each reply button

Edit: oh I see the insert quotes button now xD

 

[NotYou]

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[AmberCutie]

Honestly I don't know how to work the quote feature either, I just click each reply button

Edit: oh I see the insert quotes button now xD

Yeah it’s pretty cool. You can click quote and insert all quotes, or you can “reply” and type your response, and go up and do another “reply” underneath it and yadda yadda.

 

[yummybrownfox]

Honestly I don't know how to work the quote feature either, I just click each reply button

Edit: oh I see the insert quotes button now xD

One wrong move (Me hitting backspace one too many times?), and what I'm trying to say winds up embedded in with the quoted person's post. Lol.

 

[Smoothie]

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Starting a new thread titled “Grocery cashier gave me coupon for yogurt, am I being played?”

 

[Diana_Devil]

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[AudriTwo]

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Starting a new thread titled “Grocery cashier gave me coupon for yogurt, am I being played?”

Guys, please help me out. I think this cashier who I prefer to use because she checks out fairly quickly likes me. I got four packs of pepsi, but was only charged for one. Pretty sure that is special treatment. The last time I went grocery shopping, she asked me to put her close sign to the end of the belt. Instead of sending me to wait in another line, she checked me out. So she totally wants to spend time with me. Oh! and she now knows I prefer paper and bags without asking. She asks everyone else "paper or plastic." She remembers what we talk about!

 

[Smoothie]

I got four packs of pepsi, but was only charged for one. Pretty sure that is special treatment.

It’s a common scam. She’s giving you the PE (“Pepsi Experience”). A lot of shoppers fall for it.

 

[Jackbear_]

First I just want to say that I have a high admiration to all those girls who choose to get into the cam business. It take a lot of guts to put yourself out there and I have to come to realize that the stress and anxiety that many of you face on a daily basis would be unbearable to most people.
And for the guys out there who often fall in love with the models... let me just say that not all girls are out to scam their clients.
Here's my story...
A year and a half ago I found myself browsing through the unlimited number of girls on these cam sites. Just browsing to see what was out there because I had been stuck in a hotel alone for a good week.
As I was browsing i came across a girl who look as if she was having a horrible day. Sometimes you can just tell by the look on a girls face that she just needs a boost of confidence. So we began to chat. I enticed her request after awhile to go into a private show and she proceeded to do her routine as she does to appeal her clients.
When she was done she asked me if I liked her show and I said a few words, but I think because of the language barrier it didn't translate correctly and she started to cry. She was about to log off and I told her I would stay and talk to her if she wanted me to. We talked for a good hour and she told me all that was going on in her life. Mother was sick, no money, working for a guy who gives her and other girls shelter and food if they perform. Don't get me wrong, I had my guard up, but I felt horrible for this girl and what she had been through. If in fact it was the truth she was telling me.
For the next few days I got on the site to visit with her and we continued to talk. She seemed to be very excited to have a member come back on a regular basis and not always ask her to show them her pussy. Dont get me wrong, she's young, beautifully attractive and has a great body, but once you've seen a girls pussy, well... it's just a pussy, if you know what I mean.
Anyways we were talking and often while we were doing so she was on her phone talking with her sister and keeping an eye on the status of her mom. Then it happened... she went to place her phone on the table and I watched it slide off as she was trying to catch it and it slammed on the floor. She picked it up and I just seen the life pour out of this precious girl. Her screen had cracked and she couldn't get the phone to work. She just started crying saying no no no... I felt bad for her and said, look. Do you have PayPal? I will send you some money to go buy a new phone so you can keep an eye on your mom. She was like really. And later told me that she thought I was joking because no one had ever given her anything in her life like that before. And I so I did and a few days later she was over joyed with her new phone, shared much respect with me and gave me her personal contact information.
Now again... still being cautious about the whole cam industry. I've heard the stories, but I just wanted to bring a smile to this girls face at that time. Something just felt like I needed to give this girl a boost and let her know that not all people in this world are assholes and out for themselves.
A month passed and her mom fell very ill and she ended up passing away. I was with her the entire time while she was on her mother's bedside via whatsapp. She didnt have many friends or family. She doesn't know who her father is and only has her sister. After that moment the relationship continued to thrive. I fell in love with this girl and had plans to go meet her and then Covid hit. Fuck me!
So over the next 8 months we continued to talk and watch our feeling flourish for one another.
Then the time finally came that I could make the trip down to visit with her and as she said. It was magical. We had a great time. Fast Forward...
1 1/2 years later from when I first met her online we are now engaged and she has just moved here to America to fulfill her dreams and have a fresh new start at life.
I'm 17 years older then her, but age doesn't seem to bother her at all. The fact that someone finally gave a shit about her means more to her than anything in the world.
So I just want to say... Not every story ends up with the guy being scammed. There are many decent girls out there who are just looking for someone to love them, and if you are sincere and honest about your intentions and who you are you can find true love online.

It’s a very nice storyline interesting congratulations many well always say this or that but it is what it’s is life happens. Just enjoy what you have I always say it’s the little things that matter more but yeah not everyone gets a happy ending. Your not encouraging anyone but. Hope is good at least for those who actually are able to Accomplish such thing

 

[DoD404]

It’s a common scam. She’s giving you the PE (“Pepsi Experience”). A lot of shoppers fall for it.

I got there that she served him a SPH by underating his pepsi. It's just weird when unsollicited

 

[NotYou]

Well, you've heard of and love Fake Taxi, now comes Real Cashier!! haha

 

[GraysonDrake]

Cashiers meet their clients.
Actors meet their spectators.
Camgirls meet their members.

Many cashiers, actors or camgirls won't, some will. Like anybody else, camgirls decide whom to meet, and sometimes it's a member.

Pretty sure the camgirls who do so are also escorts/sugar babies, and sugaring is also a form of sex work so that's still on the clock my dude.

The overwhelming majority of cam models have no desire to meet their viewers, just like the overwhelming majority of retail and service industry workers have no desire to meet you when their shift ends. Also cashiers don't have clients......

Seriously dude, please go read about parasocial relationships.

 

[schruti]

Pretty sure the camgirls who do so are also escorts/sugar babies, and sugaring is also a form of sex work so that's still on the clock my dude.

Pretty sure and pretty wrong.

Seriously dude, please go read about parasocial relationships.

Much easier: Your general rule about all “camgirls who do so” is falsified by a single camgirl who met a member and was neither an escort nor a sugar baby.

I think it's a good idea to remember people that most cam girls won't meet their members. It's an even better idea to do so by using true statements, not false statements. It's much harder to falsify a statement about most camgirls than a statement about all or “the camgirls who do so”. You actually do that in a later statement to which I agree.

 

[GraysonDrake]

Pretty sure and pretty wrong.


Much easier: Your general rule about all “camgirls who do so” is falsified by a single camgirl who met a member and was neither an escort nor a sugar baby.

I think it's a good idea to remember people that most cam girls won't meet their members. It's an even better idea to do so by using true statements, not false statements. It's much harder to falsify a statement about most camgirls than a statement about all or “the camgirls who do so”. You actually do that in a later statement to which I agree.

Dude the girl in the post is literally a sugar baby.

Also telling me I'm wrong without giving evidence isn't a counter argument, it's just contradiction

 

[schruti]

Dude the girl in the post is literally a sugar baby.

Nice! Finally, you make a plausible statement about one cam girl instead of claiming a general rule which is falsified by a single exception.

Also telling me I'm wrong without giving evidence isn't a counter argument, it's just contradiction

You already demonstrated that you consider a statement without evidence an argument.

And now for something completely different:

This thread is about one guy and one girl. He claims he found love on a webcam site. Several people tell him he found an escort or sugar baby. I think it's important to understand that the chances to find love on a webcam site are very low. It's hard to convey that message by claims that are too general to be true. Of course it sounds quite impressive if people claim that every cam girl who ever met a member works in escort. Just, it's completely false because at least one cam girl met a member without working in escort.

Choosing between a true statement and an impressive statement, I usually prefer the truth.

 

[yummybrownfox]

Years ago when "Meet me" raffles or contests were sort of the thing on MyFreeCams, I was friends with a model who did meet up with a guy (It wasn't to have sex with him, and no, they were not boyfriend and girlfriend), and I can tell you with 100% certainty that she was not an escort or sugar baby. And I don't think he was a newbie to her room who just happened to win. I think he was one of her big-tipping regulars, and someone she trusted.

 

[GraysonDrake]

Nice! Finally, you make a plausible statement about one cam girl instead of claiming a general rule which is falsified by a single exception.

You already demonstrated that you consider a statement without evidence an argument.

And now for something completely different:

This thread is about one guy and one girl. He claims he found love on a webcam site. Several people tell him he found an escort or sugar baby. I think it's important to understand that the chances to find love on a webcam site are very low. It's hard to convey that message by claims that are too general to be true. Of course it sounds quite impressive if people claim that every cam girl who ever met a member works in escort. Just, it's completely false because at least one cam girl met a member without working in escort.

Choosing between a true statement and an impressive statement, I usually prefer the truth.

Ehhhhh this is pedantic enough to not really warrant all the energy you're dumping into it, you're kinda dying on this hill over a technicality in phrasing. My claims are quite generalized, but they are based in evidence and anecdotal experiences from many people. It is Extremely rare to the point of insignificance that a cam model would genuinely want to meet, fall in love with, and marry a viewer with no ulterior motives, or outside of a sugaring/escort situation.

There's also the larger ethical issue of trying to dissuade poor thirsty saps from thinking there's a chance so they don't try to initiate unwanted romantic relationships with models or fall for scams.

 

[schruti]

Ehhhhh this is pedantic enough …

Call it whatever you like. I stick to the truth.