ik like to stick to my post on https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/threads/respect-to-all-the-cam-girls-out-there.40129/, read it and make your conclusions.
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When you arrive, be sure the first thing you do is present her with your back tattoo.
If you don't, she will just slam the door, and so she should, clearly, you are not committed to the relationship without the tattoo
I actually think you're mentally already committed and that no amount of cynicism in these comments will deter you. The fault is in our self-perception as being unique. 'This experience feels unique for me, it bears all the hallmarks of being that way, therefore it must be. Hence it's legit.'
There used to be a commercial for the Cancer Treatment Centers of America in which a patient relates her exchange with a CTCA oncologist. "I asked him how long I have left and he told me, 'Peggy, I've seen all your scans and nowhere did I see an expiration date.'" Cut to the look of marvel on her face by the clever, seemingly true response, and she tells us just how impressed she was by that remark.
If that doc had indeed found an expiration date on her, that would been the true marvel because of course living things don't have expiration dates. What the line does reveal is a doctor who has been asked that question a thousand times, and 800 times ago, he landed on the 'no expiration date' and it was a smashing success and he now employs it at every opportunity. Peggy doesn't need to know that he's already said it four times that day alone.
You're Peggy in all this. Newly diagnosed with feelings for a cam model. The model is the doc; she's known dozens of Peggys. She has a way of doing her job that she has found to be a success. None of this translates into Peggy finding true love with, nor fucking, the doctor IRL.
I don't wish a bad outcome for you, I wish you the best. But I also wish you had checked your uniqueness at the home page, and I think you will have wished that too.
There used to be a commercial for the Cancer Treatment Centers of America in which a patient relates her exchange with a CTCA oncologist. "I asked him how long I have left and he told me, 'Peggy, I've seen all your scans and nowhere did I see an expiration date.'" Cut to the look of marvel on her face by the clever, seemingly true response, and she tells us just how impressed she was by that remark.
If that doc had indeed found an expiration date on her, that would been the true marvel because of course living things don't have expiration dates. What the line does reveal is a doctor who has been asked that question a thousand times, and 800 times ago, he landed on the 'no expiration date' and it was a smashing success and he now employs it at every opportunity. Peggy doesn't need to know that he's already said it four times that day alone.
You're Peggy in all this. Newly diagnosed with feelings for a cam model. The model is the doc; she's known dozens of Peggys. She has a way of doing her job that she has found to be a success. None of this translates into Peggy finding true love with, nor fucking, the doctor IRL.
I don't wish a bad outcome for you, I wish you the best. But I also wish you had checked your uniqueness at the home page, and I think you will have wished that too.
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It's important that you research the proper way to do this in her country/culture as well. The repercussions for an improper back tattoo reveal can be pretty brutal in some places, I've heard.
Ooh!! Can I please get some Charlie Hunnam then??Hell, since all of these relationship threads keep coming outta the woodwork (and probably making some of these lurkers' eyes light up with hope...smh)...and Eli is talking about knockin' boots with Gordon Ramsay, I might as well go ahead and say how much I'd love to get with Danny Pino...the Cuban actor who played Detective Nick Amaro on Law and Order SVU...and is currently playing drug cartel leader Miguel Galindo on Mayans M.C.And I need for him to KEEP the facial hair!
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Sounds like you have a good friend you also pay money to masturbate with.
Don't make it weird by expecting more than that or trying to define your relationship in a vanilla/civvie context. There are many ways for human beings to have relationships that exist beyond the dichotomy of "totally platonic" and "romantic partner" and I really don't see any benefit to trying to make this into anything more than it already is. It will add weird pressure to this dynamic that doesn't have to be there. Just let it be what it is my dude. If you want a non-SW analog of this read about "Relationship Anarchy" and see if any of it resonates with you.
Also keep in mind that in Latin cultures saying "my love" isn't the same as in American English. It's more like British English where you'll call someone "love" like a pet name, the way older women in the south call everyone "sweetie" or "honey". Reading into this seems a bit dubious and I'd personally take it to only mean in this context, especially since calling people by pet names is kinda what a lot of SWs do as part of your work voice.
I feel like this is where a lot of drama begins for some of these guys. I've noticed this in a couple of "in love with a cam girl" threads, and legit had no idea it wasn't meant like the direct translation.
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I’m gonna start buying a pretty pair of shoes every time I read one of these. That’ll help bulk up the collection in no time!
You're going to be selling your house to fund your shoe collection pretty soon then haha
And for Colombians, at least, whilst "te quiero" and "te amo" both translate to "I love you", they are used in two different situations. Even worse for the first phrase, which is basically for friends / close friends (but, I believe, not lovers), it also translates in English to "I want you" which has quite sexual/romantic connotations in English, but again, it's not the meaning for the Latina saying it.
Makes me wonder how many models have been unjustly accused of running a love con just for greeting a person with “my love” repeatedly and thinking nothing of it.
Or how many guys set themselves up for disappointment because they take translations literally.
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Dad and Grandmom always tell me "Love you" when we're ending a phone call, or a goodbye hug. Mom isn't affectionate like they are. She says "See ya!"
I'm kinda torn if I should even respond to a member's "Goodnight, Shelly. Love you" by saying "Goodnight! Love ya!" Or just wave or blow a kiss on camera, and be like "Aw, you're sweet! Goodnight!" Lol. I am definitely not trying to give anyone false hope, or have them thinking I've led them on.....
Do as you wish - 100 people can tell you don't do it because it's dangerous, but in your mind you are still going to think about it, so what's the use? Better an "oops" than a "what if". In regards to your confusion around how she feels about you, why don't you just communicate? Ask her, etc? Have a heartfelt, genuine and sincere conversation with her. It is better than constantly asking yourself and seeking advice who know the situation from a few written lines.
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I just do finger guns and wink at the camera because I'm awkward.
It's such a strange saying really, isn't it? Easy to say, almost impossible to define. No wonder we confuse each other and ourselves.Dad and Grandmom always tell me "Love you" when we're ending a phone call, or a goodbye hug. Mom isn't affectionate like they are. She says "See ya!"
I'm kinda torn if I should even respond to a member's "Goodnight, Shelly. Love you" by saying "Goodnight! Love ya!" Or just wave or blow a kiss on camera, and be like "Aw, you're sweet! Goodnight!" Lol. I am definitely not trying to give anyone false hope, or have them thinking I've led them on.....
Best advice I ever got as a teenage kid (I really can't remember which parent to credit it to) was to be honest about my feelings, but know that once said, you can never 'unsay' it - so be as sure as you can that you really mean it.
Actually, it was probably Dad, because the lecture went on to add that you should never say ILY just to progress past 3rd base
These days, after a failed marriage and numerous other mishaps, I stick to saying such words of wisdom as "I love rib and 'slaw night" and "I love my coffee".
And of course, I love my kids
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