Mistaking camsites for dating sites?

[regurgit]

Hi everyone, new member here, really enjoying the community.

I have asked a few models what is the most common request by guys, expecting to hear about cum shows, feet, or whatever. Surprisingly though I was told they often dive straight in and ask if they want to get married.

I don't know if it's just a misguided idea of what a camgirl wants to hear, but I've read enough lovecon posts here (back tattoo anyone?) to know that some guys characters and mental health make them susceptible to treating camsites as dating sites.

Is it really that common for guys visit camsites in the hope of starting a relationship?

 

[Vixxen81]

Yes.

 

[MarieElise]

Hi everyone, new member here, really enjoying the community.

I have asked a few models what is the most common request by guys, expecting to hear about cum shows, feet, or whatever. Surprisingly though I was told they often dive straight in and ask if they want to get married.

I don't know if it's just a misguided idea of what a camgirl wants to hear, but I've read enough lovecon posts here (back tattoo anyone?) to know that some guys characters and mental health make them susceptible to treating camsites as dating sites.

Is it really that common for guys visit camsites in the hope of starting a relationship?

Yes. Guys come in never having even interacted w you before and start talking marriage. It’s beyond creepy and off putting. I think with those types they have decided that they like you, and that you look “good enough“. But they seem to be missing that they don’t know you at all, you have not seen them; they could be disgustingly ugly messy, unclean, and bad communicators. You have had no chance to get to know them. But men like that usually don’t see women as people who have the right to choose. That much I’ve learned well. And with the amount of abuse that goes on in this world, that’s actually a red flag; people that try to push commitment too fast. It’s just disgusting. I can’t think of anything more offputting. Sorry to go on a rant I just find it so absolutely vile, But disturbingly common.

ETA: I guess what I find so offensive about it, is that it just indicates a sexist lack of respect. I am thinking that these types assume that a woman is there looking for a man. That a woman couldn’t possibly be there to make money and have fun. That all women need men to look after them. It’s just so absolutely disgustingly immature, and offensive. And the fact that it’s pretty common in domestic violence, for the perpetrator to push commitment faster than is normal, makes it doubly concerning. Uuuugh I can’t emphasize enough, how much I hate that. And how absolutely concerning I find it, deep within my soul. I had 2 different guys doing it to me in my room lastnight, and I was only on live streaming 38 mins. Hopefully that tells you how common it is. That’s why I like busy nights. Because guys who are actually horny and want to pay for shows, cut these guys off. And I know people say that white nights aren’t good or whatever, but I love when these weird creepy fucks get cut off.

 

[Lilly_____]

But they seem to be missing that they don’t know you at all

Yes haha every time a guy says something like, wow you're cute, fun and you like anal? Marry me!

Even if they're just joking, the real me is so bitchy and obsessed with cleaning, they would regret marrying me the next second.

 

[MarieElise]

Yes haha every time a guy says something like, wow you're cute, fun and you like anal? Marry me!

Even if they're just joking, the real me is so bitchy and obsessed with cleaning, they would regret marrying me the next second.

I’m a clean freak too but my last few relationships have been with losers who don’t appreciate it. C’est la vie. Fuckers be fuckers I’m pretty sure there’s an Eminem song about good looking women who don’t cook or clean… well I’m right fucking here!! I call balls on that Mathers!!

 

[misterical]

Yes. Guys come in never having even interacted w you before and start talking marriage. It’s beyond creepy and off putting.

Wait? Are you telling us that women don't immediately fall in love and want to marry "words on a screen guy"?

 

[Vixxen81]

And god forbid you outright reject them. Most think we'd stop camming if we married them. Nah, bro, I'm not here for anyone to save me from myself or the site. I'm a big girl and know what I'm doing.

 

[yummybrownfox]

Hi everyone, new member here, really enjoying the community.

I have asked a few models what is the most common request by guys, expecting to hear about cum shows, feet, or whatever. Surprisingly though I was told they often dive straight in and ask if they want to get married.

I don't know if it's just a misguided idea of what a camgirl wants to hear, but I've read enough lovecon posts here (back tattoo anyone?) to know that some guys characters and mental health make them susceptible to treating camsites as dating sites.

Is it really that common for guys visit camsites in the hope of starting a relationship?

Marriage is the #1 most common request? Not dating or a casual hookup...but flat out marriage? I apologize for this sounding fucked up, but out of curiosity...what parts of the world are the models from? I really think some of those guys are hoping to score a hot model from what they assume must be a poorer country.

But then again, these Captain Save-A-Ho guys visit U.S. models' rooms too. Lol.

 

[misterical]

Marriage is the #1 most common request? Not dating or a casual hookup...but flat out marriage? I apologize for this sounding fucked up, but out of curiosity...what parts of the world are the models from? I really think some of those guys are hoping to score a hot model from what they assume must be a poorer country.

But then again, these Captain Save-A-Ho guys visit U.S. models' rooms too. Lol.

I have always visited Latina models and I've lost count of how many guys talk about marriage or dating to them, usually within the first few minutes of text chat. It always struck me as completely tragic. That said, I always got the impression that (by virtue of them suggesting marriage so soon) that these guys were largely just bullshit talkers. The ones I always look askance at are the guys who fall for these long term, slow release love scams and end up spaffing $100,000 on a model in Bucharest.

 

[yummybrownfox]

I have always visited Latina models and I've lost count of how many guys talk about marriage or dating to them, usually within the first few minutes of text chat. It always struck me as completely tragic. That said, I always got the impression that (by virtue of them suggesting marriage so soon) that these guys were largely just bullshit talkers. The ones I always look askance at are the guys who fall for these long term, slow release love scams and end up spaffing $100,000 on a model in Bucharest.

I'm gonna leave the topic of cam sites for a minute, and just go on my lil' tangent about dating.....

I believe that some of these guys who make a habit of prematurely telling a woman "I want to marry you" are A) guys who are homeless - or about to be homeless - and want their girl to provide them a place to stay, while proving him some free in-house booty. Or B) guys who know they're fucked-up individuals, and figure they'll marry her because she's loyal af...and he figures she'll be stuck with him and his b.s. for the rest of his life (While he makes no effort to try to be a better man/partner for her). Oh, and free in-house booty. Lol.

 

[Smoothie]

I'm gonna leave the topic of cam sites for a minute, and just go on tangent about dating for a sec.....

I believe that some of these guys who make a habit of prematurely telling a woman "I want to marry you" are A) guys who are homeless - or about to be homeless - and want their girl to provide them a place to stay, while proving him some free in-house booty. Or B) guys who know they're fucked-up individuals, and figure they'll marry her because she's loyal af...and he figures she'll be stuck with him and his b.s. for the rest of his life (While he makes no effort to try to be a better man/partner for her). Oh, and free in-house booty. Lol.

Yes, and probably also guys with such terrible game / social skills that their luck with women is abysmal. So when they get even a small glimmer of hope, they swing for the fences. In their minds, every shot could be their last shot.

 

[regurgit]

Marriage is the #1 most common request? Not dating or a casual hookup...but flat out marriage? I apologize for this sounding fucked up, but out of curiosity...what parts of the world are the models from? I really think some of those guys are hoping to score a hot model from what they assume must be a poorer country.

But then again, these Captain Save-A-Ho guys visit U.S. models' rooms too. Lol.

All the girls were from Eastern Europe, so you're hunch seems right

 

[Diana_Devil]

Hi everyone, new member here, really enjoying the community.

I have asked a few models what is the most common request by guys, expecting to hear about cum shows, feet, or whatever. Surprisingly though I was told they often dive straight in and ask if they want to get married.

I don't know if it's just a misguided idea of what a camgirl wants to hear, but I've read enough lovecon posts here (back tattoo anyone?) to know that some guys characters and mental health make them susceptible to treating camsites as dating sites.

Is it really that common for guys visit camsites in the hope of starting a relationship?

and just to answer to your topic title .. no they are not mistakeing it , they come on cam site with this exact propuse because they think models are there for charity because has no other choice , so if they save the model from camming she will sit on her knees cook , clean , bare kids and suck his cock 5 bilions times at day , while not even have courage to look into his eyes because he is the Lord and the supreme saviour , and all this for a plate of food and some second hand clothes that he will also shout it in her eyes if she dare something to say , because of course if he was not to save her she will still be a cam whore and have no other choice.....


Now you have the complete picture what its happening to their minds

 

[Deleted member 70169]

I only had my had asked twice. These are mostly joking... but good regulars 100% want to meet ya and fuck ya senseless

 

[AudriTwo]

I will tell users im married and they still try to meet up/hook up/date/whatever. Its so disrespectful. They will go as far as question why "my husband allows me" or shame him for not taking care of me that i "have to do this."

These users are incredibly sexist and obviously dont see me as my own person with bodily autonomy. A woman who is open with sharing their sexuality and nudity cannot be possibly doing this on her accord.

 

[Catwave]

Marriage is the #1 most common request? Not dating or a casual hookup...but flat out marriage? I apologize for this sounding fucked up, but out of curiosity...what parts of the world are the models from? I really think some of those guys are hoping to score a hot model from what they assume must be a poorer country.

But then again, these Captain Save-A-Ho guys visit U.S. models' rooms too. Lol.

I'm Australian citizen born in Eastern Europe, there is a disturbing difference in the response I get from guys when I answer the "where are you from?" with my place of birth (and they assume I'm still living there I guess?). I remember someone asked where I'm from and quickly started talking to me about getting married, take me to the US, that he will "help me out" and try saving me from here. I was so confused, what exactly is he trying to save me from? the drop bears?

It happened enough times for me to just change my answer to "I'm aussie", people then ask about my accent etc and at least I get some chat.

A common request (when members don't think they can "save me"), is if I would meet up with them (for sex or just for dates). Treating cam sites as Tinder/dating sites indeed.

 

[Dan Epstein]

Cam has websites, dating has apps. Mic drop.

 

[misterical]

I walked in on the tail end of a conversation once where a model was telling a member that she was a webcam model and not a prostitute. The fact that she had to even explain that at all was concerning.

 

[yummybrownfox]

while proving him some free in-house booty.

Meant to say “providing”…lol.

 

[Lilly_____]

I walked in on the tail end of a conversation once where a model was telling a member that she was a webcam model and not a prostitute. The fact that she had to even explain that at all was concerning.

Just a (hopefully) helpful note; that name is usually frowned upon by escorts so I'd avoid it

 

[regurgit]

I'm Australian citizen born in Eastern Europe, there is a disturbing difference in the response I get from guys when I answer the "where are you from?" with my place of birth (and they assume I'm still living there I guess?). I remember someone asked where I'm from and quickly started talking to me about getting married, take me to the US, that he will "help me out" and try saving me from here. I was so confused, what exactly is he trying to save me from? the drop bears?

It happened enough times for me to just change my answer to "I'm aussie", people then ask about my accent etc and at least I get some chat.

A common request (when members don't think they can "save me"), is if I would meet up with them (for sex or just for dates). Treating cam sites as Tinder/dating sites indeed.

Very sad

 

[misterical]

Just a (hopefully) helpful note; that name is usually frowned upon by escorts so I'd avoid it

Sorry, no ill intent meant. I was quoting her verbatim.

 

[Vixxen81]

justintime77769
tipped 1 token -- Hello beautiful!! I’m from Michigan. I’m 45 years old
justintime77769
tipped 1 token -- Do you want to know more about me?

Me: Hello Justin from Michigan this isn't a dating site, take it to Tinder or whatever app that's about
Also Me: You should want to know more about me, not the other way around

 

[Chiara_Montague]

(Not cam but Niteflirt.) Had a client just a couple of hours ago that was trying to convince me and my boyfriend to move in with him and his mom... Sex workers are selling a fantasy! Why don't they get it?! And it's a mother, son cuckholding thing and I was only talking to the son but he said him and his mom have been looking for a couple to move in with them as a part of this cuckholding thing. Take that shit to FetLife! Don't proposition random sex workers! I'm not down just because I talk about cuckholding. It's a fantasy ONLY!!!

Edit: added emphasis

 

[Vixxen81]

(Not cam but Niteflirt.) Had a client just a couple of hours ago that was trying to convince me and my boyfriend to move in with him and his mom... Sex workers are selling a *fantasy*! Why don't they get it?! And it's a mother, son cuckholding thing and I was only talking to the son but he said him and his mom have been looking for a couple to move in with them as a part of this cuckholding thing. Take that shit to FetLife! Don't proposition random sex workers! I'm not down just because I *talk* about cuckholding. It's a *fantasy* ONLY!!!

Their fantasy is you moving in with them.

 

[Chiara_Montague]

Their fantasy is you moving in with them.

Totally but he'll go on and on about how it'll work between the four of us and it'll be the perfect "arrangement" that they've been looking for in real life.

 

[Ozzie_]

I was so confused, what exactly is he trying to save me from? the drop bears?

Or, if he is knowledgeable, the magpies in Spring

 

[Diana_Devil]

I will tell users im married and they still try to meet up/hook up/date/whatever. Its so disrespectful. They will go as far as question why "my husband allows me" or shame him for not taking care of me that i "have to do this."

These users are incredibly sexist and obviously dont see me as my own person with bodily autonomy. A woman who is open with sharing their sexuality and nudity cannot be possibly doing this on her accord.

yes exactelly this !

 

[Diana_Devil]

(Not cam but Niteflirt.) Had a client just a couple of hours ago that was trying to convince me and my boyfriend to move in with him and his mom... Sex workers are selling a fantasy! Why don't they get it?! And it's a mother, son cuckholding thing and I was only talking to the son but he said him and his mom have been looking for a couple to move in with them as a part of this cuckholding thing. Take that shit to FetLife! Don't proposition random sex workers! I'm not down just because I talk about cuckholding. It's a fantasy ONLY!!!

Edit: added emphasis

omg got his too

banned him imediatelly when he mention cuckolding with mother

 

[rockin_rod]

Or, if he is knowledgeable, the magpies in Spring