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Please note that nobody said you were being misogynistic on purpose but we have all been raised with a whole lotta internalized misogyny which we tend to not recognise in ourselves until it's pointed out by others.Bear with me. I love and appreciate women, so your use of the M word is misplaced. Due to the magic of the Internet, I also pay women to entertain me, sexually. At that point it gets fuzzy, at least in my male brain. If the model is in a great mood, self-actualizing, making bank, and physically enjoying herself (please god let me be the one to hit the lovense at the perfect time), there is no confusion full speed ahead. On the other hand, if I have become well acquainted with a model who I really, really like, and it's clear she is not having a great day, why on earth would I ask her to perform for me? In the case of the model for whom I suffer, I don't want to use her, I dream of loving her. I mainly stick to private tips and reactions to show my appreciation for her beauty and attention.
What you wrote was definitely misogynistic.
Heck, you even used incell dog whistles in it.
Paying a sex worker isn't inherently good or bad.
How you treat them or think about them is.
Having fantasies about saving someone when you can't afford one hour of their time should really be a bit of a reality check...that's misogynystic AF.
She's almost certainly doing absolutely wonderfully...so why do you think she needs saving?
Think long and hard about it.