UncleThursday said:Nordling said:I see nothing wrong with feeling bad if a model you like isn't doing well--on a night, a week or a month--or even in general.
Just because it's a "business," it doesn't remove the human element from either model or member, and "business" isn't something we're born with. Yes, it can be taken to absurd extremes, but I'm with MegansDude here. If I thought models were simply performing robots and didn't give a shit about anything but the "business model" or some other buzz word, I'd lose most of the joy of entering cam chats.
I'm not saying don't feel anything. But I am saying don't get it all in your head when a favorite isn't doing well on a given day/week/month to the point where it weighs on you and you consider spending money you don't have to help her out. There's the normal empathy you should have, then there's being probably a little too involved. And to some that line can be hard to see for themselves.
So far, what I've spent I do have the money to back me up. I may sometimes spend a little more than I had planned, but it is always within my means. Thanks for the advice and concerns. I do appreciate that.