Hi Moby Dick,
Thank you so much for posting this!
It shows you care and value the feelings of the models you view,
which I know they definitely appreciate!
I have copied and pasted the questions to try to answer each of them individually for you.
Please excuse my wordiness, I just want to try to explain my perspective as thoroughly as possible.
Does anyone have any ideas on how a guest can help out a room?
In my opinion the best way is to tip a good amount when you are there.
It doesn't have to be hundreds, but enough to show the model you value her.
We see it and
we appreciate it.
Even though we love our jobs, at the end of the day, models DO cam to pay the bills.
And we work HARD planning our shows. It may not pay off right away, either. It took me months and still building.
The models who had instant success and thousands of views on day 1 of camming? Wasn't me.
I'm only now seeing in December the results of what I started in April, after not giving up every day.
And it was hard to not give up.
The reason I didn't??
Viewers like you who cared.
Who took time to value me and show that my effort WAS paying off.
When I was newer to camming , viewers often wouldn't tip more than a token because they didn't want to be the
only person tipping toward an "expensive tip menu" or goal that looked too high to reach (because I expect more than literal cents a day.)
I was disappointed that some guys would actually be OFFENDED that I wanted to make a living wage!!
Some of my first months of camming would be a room full
of dark purple names with tokens not tipping at all.
But they would be complimenting the absolute cheesiest lines,
hoping somebody else would tip first, and trying to get me to lower my rates.
The guys who would tip big tips/for menu items anyway, just to turn my day around?
Just to make sure I was able to make a decent wage camming... instead of having to struggle for hours for tips of less than $1?
*
They made me SO happy!!
And I made sure they got AMAZING shows!
Most are still my regulars and I appreciate them so much for being there for me when nobody else was.
If you don't want to be the only viewer tipping - think about taking the model private or getting their content.
Either way, they will be happy you value their time and aren't just trying to get something free.
They have LOTS of those guys, I promise you. And asking for tips isn't easy even if it looks it.
========================================================================
*
(While all tips are very much appreciated... many models during the pandemic are coming from a club environment.
They are often shocked that some guys on cam sites are demanding THE ABSOLUTE MOST .and for less than a dollar at that!
The models coming from a club are often used to making a decent living.
Often just to talk and sip champagne with the dress still on.
They are not impressed by 5 cents with a demand to immediately and swiftly, "open ur bobs now!!!"
The guy doesn't even have enough tokens to buy another o for the word boob, apparently.
==========================================================================
Tipping for menu items when you have a request shows you are serious and you care.
For example, if you want to PM with a model, tip them on tip menu for it. It shows you respect their
time and business ability (models set their own prices.)
It stands out from the 1-token
[5 cents for the model] demanding guys who want
the world (I have so many stories about this lol!!)
The good tippers?
They are the guys who I'm likely to PM just to say hi at the end of the show, or ask what they want to see for the next goal.
Treat them well and they will remember you. With camming, this goes both ways.
Does a wall of 1’s do more than a wall of 100’s?
If they both are the same total amount, I would do somewhere in between and make a wall of 50-75's.
to "make it rain" for the model. Also it's a 'beatable'
amount - maybe it can turn into a "tip competition" where somebody starts in with the 100s!
If the model has a game going like dice roll, try rolling the dice! Other people will see how cool the prizes are
and join in. It usually just takes one person to get the action going. Be that person to start the day flowing
in a positive direction, and they'll remember you.
After discussing with the model of course, should I maybe try to “showcase” some of her menu options?
Every model is different! I would be fine with this . Especially if the viewer did so by tipping for it when other
people are being cheap, to show them what happens when you actually tip.
BUT I get some guys who just ask others to tip and don't tip themselves. This is a faux pas for me.
I usually do remind them (nicely!) to please not comment on others' tipping.
What has helped for some of you?
This [not exact word for word.... lololol]
Cheap guy: Damn love. Your prices are waaay too high. And I'm the owner of 5000 companies AND famous, so I know what I'm talking about.
I mean I miiiiiight be inclined to go private if it was for 1token an hour and you did a nude anal dildo vibrator show while twerking in a handstand, watching my cam, showing feet at
exactly a 90 degree angle, and opening bobs though. Can you PM?
Amazing customer [tipped huge amount to more than reach goal] comments below: This is just because you're beautiful and I love your energy and your shows.
Me: Thank you amazing customer! [silences cheap guy and starts goal show]
It was just that moment of satisfaction for me like guess my prices aren't too high, sir.
What are some behaviors of guests that are room killers?
Breaking the site rules in any way, because then I have to kick them out.
All guests should read the terms and conditions of the site to find out what they can't
ask for.
It is NOT allowed for models to meet. If people ask me, not only do I feel
very uncomfortable but I have to kick them out too
so I don't risk a ban. Please read the TOS of whatever site you are on, because there are often a lot of nuances that people don't realize.
If a model is going off about the site rules left and right, she's not trying to be a tyrant. She is trying to not lose her account.
Guys who try to provide "constructive" feedback but it ISN'T constructive (I don't care if what they're saying is actually helpful.)
I mean things like "if you got nude right now and skipped the goal, you would do better"
Guys who tipped once then ran out of tokens and try to make me feel bad for asking them to tip again.
People who spam-promote themselves in the PM. I am nice to other models, just not the sneaky behavior like that.
Guys who tip a token and try to direct the show like "turn around for me at exactly a 45 degree angle to the camera. Now back up. Now look up and wink at the camera and
say I love sucking big dicks."
Not only is it sort of insulting, it makes me worry that they are recording my shows. Like why would they want everything so specific??.
Guys who say "make me hard then I'll tip" or something of the likes, as if I'm desperate. It's not a very nice way to treat women.
Guys who assume that because women are showing their bodies, that they don't deserve respect. I ban people like this.
Guys who come to a tipping site and say they don't tip. I also ban people like this.
My room is my place to be happy. If the vibe is off, I don't let that person stick around.
What would you like YOUR favorite guest to do to assist you?
Just be there for me, tip, and have a good time with me.
Tips when I am not
broadcasting are always nice!!
Today is a holiday and I'm sure any model would love a tip with a nice tip-note a surprise!
Tips when I am broadcasting obviously too. And private shows.
Joining my fan club always helps me. I read that it helps placement!! I don't know if that's true, but I do put a lot
into fan club content. and then you have the super generous people who get all the model's content for tokens AND join the fan club.
Tipping frequently, talking lots in the chat, having fun in the room. Fun is key. I like people with a good sense of humor.
And NO, Im not speaking of, for or as a moderator!
Im just a guy that wants to help out my girls where I can! < Thank you! I like your energy.
Best & with good vibes,
Ava