OK, I I think I get what you're saying. I want people to have fun in my room and I like to be accommodating to everyone. And I don't frequent the female rooms much. Too much drama and too many assholes.
I'm married (open) to a woman, but I've enjoyed male cams for the past several years. My favorite guy reached out to me as a gray user and I've been watching him ever since. I'm frequently the only tipper in his room and I've spent a good bit on long privates because I enjoy him.
That's why I'm nice to gray users, but I've become less likely to respond to demands. I simply ignore them but there are some i have fun with.
And I DO look at user lists and I see the bots, anonymous users and grays in my room and others.
Last night I was the only person in my favorite's (hope that's an acceptable description) I was the only one tipping and there were plenty of other purple and blue users. I did it because I like hil and feels he deserves it. At least someone other than I bought a private show.
So yes, I see the same shit in the male rooms from these cheap motherfuckers and asshole gray users who demand too much. I don't say shit about it because it's none of my business.
I'd love to be more interesting to viewers and maybe I should do more research so I can be. This isn't a second career, but being paid is nice and the only private I've given was fun and I did what the viewer wanted.
And yes, I'm very self depricating even though I don't look bad for my age, at least according to my few viewers.
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I'll be more careful with which topics I reply to.
And I have no problem with constructive criticism, especially when its presented the way you and Marie Elise did.