Do You Like Dirty Talk?

[YelloMit]

Over the years of being a member of a couple of cam sites, I've noticed that dirty talk has slowly drifted away in general (at least from what I've seen).... And I was wondering if any of you actually LIKE to talk dirty to models and/or members?

I mean personally, I find it extremely difficult to do so. I just think I'm terrible at it. I feel like I'm Brenda from the Scary Movie franchise.

But what about you? Models, do you like talking dirty to members? Or do you hate it, but only do it if they ask? Members, are you the same? I've always wondered.

 

[Shaun__]

My dirty talk tends to drift to politics, news, and art type stuff. Anything else would just seem silly to me, like I was trying to act in a budget porn.

 

[Ann_Sulu]

I love dirty talk however...

In public chat I hate it, because it feels like I'm trying to dirty talk a crowd. That just feels weird. I'm more of a one on one type of person when it comes to dirty talk.

If I'm in private, I feel weird if the guy is continuously dirty talking, since I know he's basically paying to type at that point. If it was offline, I might be able to get into it more when the guy is saying random sexy stuff continuously, but online in paid chat like that...yeah it puts me off.

Oh, and I absolutely hate it when members try dirty talk i free chat. If someone wants to send me a message or something that's fine, but dirty talk in free makes it super uncomfortable, since I know other members don't normally want to read it.

 

[ILikeUonTop]

I like talking dirty and have been told I am very good at it. But, when a woman (model) can talk dirty to me, its a huge turn on. In general, the models I have visited have told me that they don't feel confident in doing it however. I have found one or two that were very good at it, but mostly, of the people I watched, they seemed to like it when I talked dirty to them, but didn't feel comfortable enough to do the same.

On a cam site, I hate seeing guys try to talk dirty in public. I find the idea annoying and stupid. I only do it in private or if the model will do it in PM. I know one or two that will dirty talk to you in PM for a certain number of tokens. I found that experience fun the one time I did it.

So, yes, I like talking dirty and having someone talk dirty to me. And I too have found that the percentage of ladies I have talked to on cam sites aren't as gung ho as I am. I know they are out there, we just never seem to get together. :lol:

 

[LadyNausicaa]

-being dirty talk to-

in real life... actions speak way more than words according to the way my body responds.

on cam... i personally love being dirty talk to during sexy times, but i like it to be one on one.
Tip notes/PMs/during PVT/skype, ect.
knowing someone enjoying themselves is an awesome feeling. i always feel so awkward when the person on the other side doesn't say anything... but i understand if they're shy.

-talking dirty-

according to members, i get very talkative when i'm turned on and in the middle of pvt/grp.
as for dirty talk by request, i only feel comfortable if i have an idea of what they like.

"talk dirty to me please" ...... umm yeah you like that..?

"talk dirty about giving me a sloppy bj" no problem!

 

[JoleneBrody]

I hate it and I don't do it, even if they ask. I don't like to speak it and I don't like to hear it

 

[RubyDimples]

I love dirty talk and I honestly could talk dirty for hours at a time. I love to roleplay and taking on roles of other people. Some power in dirty talk for me to give and recieve. Arousing myself is probably the best with dirty talk and I'll never give that up for NOTHING!

:twocents-02cents:

 

[Jessi]

I like dirty talk from someone Im sexually attracted to. From randoms in my chat I just find it very awkward and a turn off. It can quickly derail a show for me.

Doing it myself is awkward because I don't know what to say, so I end up getting turned off.

 

[YelloMit]

I hate it and I don't do it, even if they ask. I don't like to speak it and I don't like to hear it

THIS. There's only been like 2 models I've known in my time that can pull it off. The rest just seems forced and not attractive.

 

[RoseGranger]

I am the world's worst dirty talker. So awkward. Maybe it's because I don't get turned on by being dirty talked to.

 

[Gen]

I'm so bad at it, and I find most guys who've done it to me are too :? When it's good, it's good but generally I don't like it. It can feel a bit awkward. I wish I was good at it!

I used to be the world's worst phone sex operator :lol: I also have a giggling problem, I giggle all the time during sexual encounters (and on cam), which makes a lot of guys uncomfortable.

 

[ComicOzzie]

Dirty talk is boring. Naughty talk is exciting.

 

[ILikeUonTop]

For any guy that is having trouble dirty taking, here is a pretty good guide to follow.

 

[Carmita Bonita]

I have a filthy mouth and dirty talk is a huge part of my shows.

However, doing that always invites an orgy of public dirty talking which is awkward and sometimes embarrassing. Ninja dirty tipping that you want to fuck my face, cum in my whore throat and stick your tongue up my ass...is much more proper and appreciated ^_^ lolz

So yes and yes to dirty talking on cam and off

 

[zippypinhead]

Man, I am so fucking awkward and terrible at dirty talk.

 

[Ann_Sulu]

Also, I wanna ask...I can't be the only one that finds it cute when someone is awkward with dirty talk right? Sorry I know it's hard for everyone who feels they aren't good at it, but I just can't help but smile when someone gets nervous over it.

 

[Mirah]

Also, I wanna ask...I can't be the only one that finds it cute when someone is awkward with dirty talk right? Sorry I know it's hard for everyone who feels they aren't good at it, but I just can't help but smile when someone gets nervous over it.

MY SAVING GRACE!

 

[Sansa]

I hate talking dirty, and it's awkward when someone else does it when it's unsolicited.

In a private, it's fine, although most don't type very much. But, there have been a few people who type erotically and eloquently and that is actually a substantial turn on (I like big words and I cannot lie?) and that is always welcome, well, in the bounds of a private, in public I have actually had people MFC mail me long bits of erotic fiction at random.

 

[mynameisbob84]

(I like big words and I cannot lie?)

You like big dictums, bb? I don't suffer from erudite dysfunction, bb. Hows about we sit around and ascribe antonyms to your anatomy? By the end of the conversation, one such antonym for your pudenda will be... dry... um, indubitably... also, antidisestablishmentarianism...

 

[Sansa]

(I like big words and I cannot lie?)

You like big dictums, bb? I don't suffer from erudite dysfunction, bb. Hows about we sit around and ascribe antonyms to your anatomy? By the end of the conversation, one such antonym for your pudenda will be... dry... um, indubitably... also, antidisestablishmentarianism...

They that dally nicely with words

 

[DuoShi]

I don't even know if what I do is considered dirty talk. I like to flirt talk a lot, and I probably do it too much. If I'm thinking of something that shouldn't be said in public (either due to rules or common sense), I put it in private tip notes. I guess my dirty talk is the goofy flirtation in my tip notes? I don't know.

 

[LilyMarie]

I don't even know if what I do is considered dirty talk. I like to flirt talk a lot, and I probably do it too much. If I'm thinking of something that shouldn't be said in public (either due to rules or common sense), I put it in private tip notes. I guess my dirty talk is the goofy flirtation in my tip notes? I don't know.

I know for a fact that I speak for at least a few models when I say that we love when you guys do that Members who are all talkative, fun and not really sexual in public chat can get really interesting when they suddenly act all different in tip notes. That always makes for a surprising moment, like "ha, I didn't think he could be that way!"

 

[hapa74]

I don't even know if what I do is considered dirty talk. I like to flirt talk a lot, and I probably do it too much. If I'm thinking of something that shouldn't be said in public (either due to rules or common sense), I put it in private tip notes. I guess my dirty talk is the goofy flirtation in my tip notes? I don't know.

I know for a fact that I speak for at least a few models when I say that we love when you guys do that Members who are all talkative, fun and not really sexual in public chat can get really interesting when they suddenly act all different in tip notes. That always makes for a surprising moment, like "ha, I didn't think he could be that way!"

I'm with Duo about putting things in private tip notes, though I think mine can range from little flirts to outright dirty talk. It totally depends on the mood at the moment, and I have to know that the person on the receiving end is receptive to that sort of thing. In a private I like to dirty talk (again only if I know the model on the other end is receptive and enjoys it), but I think sometimes it may be more "typing erotically" (like Tallula mentioned) kind of like painting a mental picture.

In public chat, I would never dirty talk, it would only ever be in a tip note. Even in Group Shows I go the route of using private tip notes, the other people watching don't need to see what's in my mind at that moment.

 

[CharlotteLace]

I've always thought dirty talk was way more about the tone behind it than the actual words being said. I mean, I feel my sexy talk vocabulary is kinda stunted (how many times can you say "pussy" before it loses all meaning?) but I think I make up for it in my tone when I'm enjoying myself. It's super noticeable when my voice lowers and you can tell I'm getting turned on. And I know for me, I could have a dude say "pass the salt," but if he says it with that little distinctive note in his voice, I'm going to get ready to jump him. That sexy lilt in somebody's voice is always what does it for me. So I guess unless the dude is really good at typing it in chat, and happens to catch me on an especially-amped day, it won't do it for me as much as hearing somebody say it in my ear.

 

[canman17]

I've always thought dirty talk was way more about the tone behind it than the actual words being said. I mean, I feel my sexy talk vocabulary is kinda stunted (how many times can you say "pussy" before it loses all meaning?) but I think I make up for it in my tone when I'm enjoying myself. It's super noticeable when my voice lowers and you can tell I'm getting turned on.

I can really enjoy the occasional dirty talk from a model during a show. What Charlotte points out about tone is true for me. Being able to tell that a model is enjoying what she is doing from the change in the tone of her voice can be a real turn on.

I rarely try to use dirty talk myself. Like many others I don't feel that I am good at it and feel a little awkward when I try to do it.

 

[BlairLuxe]

I had an ex who was very vocal in most ways. He was just a really loud person. For instance, there were several times when I caught him using EXACT lines from chick flicks to try to be sweet. So when he was dirty talking, it always kind of felt like he was just pulling lines from porn he had watched. It was always VERY overacted and felt really awkward. He would also pair it with really intense eye contact and in general it just made me feel like I was under a microscope.

So that kind of dirty talk is a big turn-off to me. However, if someone I find really attractive whispers in my ear something a little bit naughty... Ohhhh yeaaahhhhhh.

 

[foxyfaye]

I honestly just have noooo idea how to do dirty talk well. Without just blatantly copying girls I've heard do it well, or feeling like I'm reading lines or something. My boyfriend and I do a small amount of it, though. Members doing it in public chat is really awful; I've also had a member ask me to scream at his dick... Same thing there, I just feel silly! I feel like most of my cam persona is that I'm cute, members ask me if I'm a virgin because I look so innocent. I don't think I can pull off dirty talk well, or anything femdommy or whatever. :/

 

[Anonymous]

:whistle: :naughty:

 

[goldenaye666]

About as dirty as I ever talk is repeating a perverted pickup line or teasing someone about their unintended sexual word choice for laughs.

I like people more who are inexperienced with dirty talk, but make the effort to do it anyway. If they laugh while doing it, its even better.

 

[Ambers Troll]

Dirty talk can be super hot.... but it is pretty much for pvt, and it does take a degree of confidence. Mistime it or say the wrong thing, and it kills the experience.