Do women want a male in their cam chats?

[r56_jcw]

Hi all, I'm new here, just had a quick question. I'm trying to find out how to get involved as a devoted stunt cock I guess. I'm curious to know if there is ever a desire, or a need for a woman to have a man they regularly do shows with. I work full time and don't need the money, but am definitely interested in it for the long run with a single person.

I'm not sure if anyone knows the best spot to try and search out something like this but any direction would be helpful.

 

[ZoeBanx]

so like, free sex with a hot cam girl? yes there's totally a huge demand for that. in fantasyland.

 

[TokenGesture]

 

[Mintx]

There's a huge demand from non-sex worker men to have free, hot, amazing, NSA with camgirls. But I have never seen a cam girl ask for a "stunt" cock to appear in her work. I, personally, would not film with a regular joe who was most likely using me for a voyeur fetish and free sex. It'd be with a partner after months of a committed relationship, or another cam model before I'd choose someone who knows nothing about the work side of sex work.

 

[Emberblaze]

Lolololol.
No dude.

 

[LittleLei]

No.

 

[AudriTwo]

i am praying for you.

 

[paige_orion]

I've known one girl to ask for a stunt-cock for cam-land. And she was a hard-core Streamate domme looking for a dude who would let her bust his balls with her high heels, slap him, spit in his face, etc, while he kept his hands to himself and she kept the money. She found one.

Somehow, I don't think that's the kind of stunt-cock you're talking about.

 

[Phoenix4987]

The ones that do already have that slot filled. That ones that don't receive many, many applications on a daily basis. Your cock isn't special and I'm sure most women would prefer the company and excitement of their favorite toy without having to go through the intricate screening process only to be met with disappointment when they can't reach climax with you. Lot of risk for little reward. Hope this helps.

 

[Ms_Gingersnatch]

Well, how does your stunt cock resume look? Any experience? Qualifications? Special skills? Why are you interested in the position? Why would someone want to "hire" you?

Not being a bitch; I'm honestly curious. Also, these are pretty typical questions that one should contemplate before entering any industry.

 

[MiaFoxUK]

To be fair to the guy if i could just sign up and be in a pop band and stuff id totally do it. I love the costumes and i think touring would be fun, seeing the world, getting free drinks and dancing about on stage. I mean, I cant sing and ive only ever sang in the shower or once on a bus by accident with headphones on but i should totally apply to taylor swift and perform with her, yeah?

 

[dark_mermaid]

There is huge demand! We're camgirls, always horny and we love cocks. Please sign up at chaturbate and go from female room to female room and ask if they want your stunt cock on cam with them. Post the answers here.

 

[Just_A_Guy]

I work full time

So after a long day at work you'd still have the energy/patience/stamina etc required to perform in a cam show? Call me wierd and a lazy ass but I couldn't do it.

 

[r56_jcw]

I really don't have a basis for anything in the question I asked, hence why I asked it. I wanted to have a better understanding of what "sex workers" are looking for? challenges they face etc. Shows how little I know as I thought it was called a cam model as written in most of your profiles. I get you're selling yourself, and truth be told I have no idea the hours you work etc. But maybe its a long not so enjoyable day, or maybe you have a tonne of fun and love the work you do. The fact that a lot of you are solo makes me feel that you're masturbating or money and I wouldn't call it a sex worker, just my view.

All of your replies definitely help paint somewhat of a clearer picture, Phoenix4987 and Ms_Gingersnatch I really felt your points were very constructive. Mintx, your last bit of what you wrote is what I really wanted to hear. Despite the sarcasm of other replies I get it, makes sense if you think of it in the way that I wrote which used the word stunt cock. Let me elaborate a bit below.....

As for me, I think my thoughts run a bit too deep to write it all here, so I'll just scratch the surface, which really boils down to relationships and the changes that go along with the evolution of relationships over time. Personally I have somewhat high sex drive, despite working a full day I enjoy having sex one or two times per day. That being said after a few years of a relationship having sex every day seems to be a bit too much for the partners I've had, and of course they have other interests in life, I'm not the only interest of theirs, hobbies, etc are good and I think all folks should have them. The frequency of sex in my opinion poses a problem for a lot of men. However most of the men that I know that use to get laid frequently eventually cheat. Personally, I believe that is morally wrong and never have cheated on a partner I've had. If you are in a "sex worker" business then it sorta solves the problem of sex. And as long as you like the person then heck, you're on your way to a relationship which i think is even better. Obviously the challenge may become what happens if your partner is no longer a sex worker, never really thought of that till now.

Just to give you an idea or a mental image. I grew up watching porn like "jen n dave" (sad what happened there eventually) and "wifey's world" there are a few others that I can't remember. However interestingly when you look at what made this porn so appealing is they all had a partner they appeared to have a relationship with, I can't help but think the creativity of the sites they ran only helped their relationship.... learning things you like and dislike while getting paid for it.

Thanks for all your comments... I like the rest of you have to go to work now

 

[cammingcouple]

Of course there are. Just like there's a bus driving around with gorgeous women going on a national bikini tour looking for two oil boys who can grease them up before each competition.

 

[cammingcouple]

So after a long day at work you'd still have the energy/patience/stamina etc required to perform in a cam show? Call me wierd and a lazy ass but I couldn't do it.

I do it everyday. Yeah, I'm usually tired, but that dissipates pretty quickly if it's a good night on. If it's dead, I won't last very long until I say fuck it (literally, I turn off the cam, fuck my girlfriend, and go to bed).

 

[caireen]

Hi all, I'm new here, just had a quick question. I'm trying to find out how to get involved as a devoted stunt cock I guess. I'm curious to know if there is ever a desire, or a need for a woman to have a man they regularly do shows with. I work full time and don't need the money, but am definitely interested in it for the long run with a single person.

I'm not sure if anyone knows the best spot to try and search out something like this but any direction would be helpful.

like.. why? why not just find a non-camgirl to have regular sex with? fucking on cam is totally different and probably not as fun. you have to think about camera angles and sometimes hold your body in weird positions to get the shot. and the lights are hot. and people can be rude. like.. why even? just find a fuck buddy.

 

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This calls for a Picard facepalm.

 

[EleanorGee]

The fact that a lot of you are solo makes me feel that you're masturbating or money and I wouldn't call it a sex worker, just my view.

What would you call it then? Just out of curiosity...

 

[AmberCutie]

What would you call it then? Just out of curiosity...

I imagine his answer will be "cam model" as he doesn't understand that Sex Worker is the umbrella term for those working in the adult industry and probably thinks it means escort/prostitute/etc.

 

[EleanorGee]

I imagine his answer will be "cam model" as he doesn't understand that Sex Worker is the umbrella term for those working in the adult industry and probably thinks it means escort/prostitute/etc.

Oh, no doubt. I'm just hoping to watch him shove his foot in his mouth for some giggles

 

[AudriTwo]

Sounds to me you have your type of porn. Solo porn has been around forever. I have a vintage vhs of chicks masturbating.

Just stick to masturbating, brah. Don't think about it too hard.

No one is going to ask you to be their stunt dick, because there are already dudes in the industry that are trustworthy and who we know can already perform at high demand.


Also sex work is an umbrella term for anyone that sells sex or uses their sexuality to sell a fantasy. Sex is also not just penis and vagina.

 

[ZoeBanx]

dude... what. not everyone cheats for purely sexual reasons.... it's called..... emotions. sex workers have them too, and you're not some special commodity just because you like to fuck a lot. we're not all sex starved nymphos just because we masturbate on cam and we're not using toys because we can't find a real cock lol if we needed a man to fuck we could call up almost any single guy we know or go to any bar and find one. why are you so entitled?

 

[dark_mermaid]

What makes you think we're all single to begin with? It seems to me like you really don't know the difference between fiction and reality.

Please happily masturbate to the thought we're all missing your stunt cock

 

[Ms_Gingersnatch]

Ok, so, the desire to fuck someone regularly is not a qualification for being a stunt cock on cam. Here's a sample of what I meant by your qualifications and talents. This is adapted from another post I wrote a while ago, but seems relevant, so apologies to those that have seen some of this before...

Do you have any of the following non-sex abilities:
Correctly set up lighting,
Fix the camera white balance,
Know WTF fps and encoders are and what to do with them,
Arrange many windows on the screen so you can see everything,
Interact with viewers and entice them,
Make sales,
Do marketing,
Take and edit photos,
Very meticulous grooming and hygiene,
Etc.

Do you possess any of the following sex related talents:
Extensive knowledge of common fantasies, kinks, and fetishes,
Ability to stay hard when guys say things like "Mmmm... can I lick your boyfriend's asshole while he fucks you and then suck his cock clean?"
Ability to keep going when guys say that your dick is too small,
Ability to stay hard when guys say that your cock is the wrong race (if you're white, they'll say she'd like a black cock better; if you're not white, someone will say something racist),
Ability to handle the pressure of a dozen guys insisting that you cum NOW,
Ability to stay hard even if the countdown drags on for hours,
Ability to be hard within 10 seconds when a private show starts (without warning),
Ability to consistently pull out within 0.5 seconds when the private show ends without warning (even if you're not done) because we need the other 29.5 seconds to get our clothes on,
Ability to cum on demand,
Ability to avoid crippling orgasm insecurity after someone comments that the size of your load is disappointing,
Ability to perform even though your partner is flirting with others and making the viewers feel most important,
Ability to keep fucking at strange but aesthetically pleasing angles that look good on cam but may not feel good in real life and are likely to cause muscle cramps somewhere in your body,
Ability to forgo your own pleasure and do whatever it takes to ensure that you are pleasing the audience while causing as little friction and stretching as humanly possible to your partner (usually friction and stretching feel nice, but in this case, you don't want to put wear and tear on the money maker),
Etc.

Importantly, do you have any experience or proof that you can do any of these things? If not, no one will work with you. The best way to build your camming stunt cock resume is to get on cam and do some camming by yourself. Yes, that will involve flirting with men, performing for them, and fielding many, many requests to put something up your ass.

 

[SaffronBurke]

I thought it was called a cam model as written in most of your profiles.

The fact that a lot of you are solo makes me feel that you're masturbating or money and I wouldn't call it a sex worker, just my view.

Cam models are a type of sex worker. As are strippers, porn stars, clip makers, pro Dommes, phone sex operators, sexters, and plenty of other people who make their money off of sexual activities.

If you want to have sex multiple times a day, find a girl who also does and be fuck buddies, date, whatever it is that works for you best. Wanna fuck on cam? Follow the same process, add in the step of signing up to a camsite together, and boom! You're doing it.

 

[AwesomeKate]

I think I understand what OP wants.

He has a higher libido than all the women whom he has dated in the past. He wants to avoid this situation in the future by dating a camgirl so that he is guaranteed to get laid twice a day because it's her literal job to fuck him.

In conclusion, he wants other people to pay for his escort service.

Here is why this is a bad idea:
1. Sex on camera is not nearly as enjoyable as you imagine it to be.
2. Girls, on average, make more money camming alone than with a male partner.
3. You would need to quit your job in order to perform regularly with your partner. Hours usually need to be consistent and long in order to earn a living.

My suggestion is to give up on being a stunt cock. There are better ways for you to get laid more regularly. My favorite option for mismatched libidos is to practice polyamory with future partners. No cheating necessary and no promise of fidelity either. Research it. The community of people involved is growing.

 

[Ms_Gingersnatch]

Oh, also, if this is your solution for a libido disparity in your relationships, have you considered ethical non-monogamy? That could include swinging, an open relationship, or polyamory. May I recommend the book The Ethical Slut https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Practical-Relationships-Adventures/dp/1587613379 and also this site: https://www.morethantwo.com/ (I'm poly, not a swinger, so you will have to do your own swinging research).

Edit: @AwesomeKate beat me to it, but the links should still help. Poly is awesome, and probably just what you're looking for...

 

[AudriTwo]

Ability to keep fucking at strange but aesthetically pleasing angles that look good on cam but may not feel good in real life and are likely to cause muscle cramps somewhere in your body,

 

[EllaGray]

You know, normally I'd give you some shtick about how we get requests for this multiple times a day and how you can't just want to cam because you want a ton of free sex.

But, I've just run a 5k and exfoliated my skin, so I'm trying to be a better person. Here's what you gotta do: Make an account at www.chaturbate.com and register as a male performer. I promise you will be inundated with beautiful women all demanding your time and attention, all with open wallets and aroused genitalia, begging you to come over and fuck them, or paying you tons of cash to watch you jerk that ultra virile cock of yours. Seriously, go do it today, you'll be drowning in women.

LOL who the fuck am I kidding, yea I ran a 5k but I'm not trying to be a better person. Go fuck yourself, literally. Get a fleshlight, its the one vagina that won't let you down. Also, stop trying to fuck your faves, we don't want you.