Could this really have worked or do i have to blame myself for distrust or being to anxious?

[Sjuulke046]

I admit, you are right about that and i should had known better. But can I ask for a honest opinion. Look at how things went in the story i wrote in this topic. Does anyone can imagine that this was some kind of trap again because everything seemed to be very good ( almost like following a guide ). During the first 'relationship' it was clearly a scam and i always had to beg her why things were different as i expect to see as normal within a relationship. But during this second relationship she did everything and she was inb most cases even the first and i never had to beg for things that seemed important to me. Ofcourse until turning point

I mean, can a colombian women really be that crazy to put on sucb a big act, getting her family to me and mine to her v( of course video-call ). In my openion these are big and important steps. So i almost cannot imagine it was done by her for manipulation

 

[Vixxen81]

I admit, you are right about that and i should had known better. But can I ask for a honest opinion. Look at how things went in the story i wrote in this topic. Does anyone can imagine that this was some kind of trap again because everything seemed to be very good ( almost like following a guide ). During the first 'relationship' it was clearly a scam and i always had to beg her why things were different as i expect to see as normal within a relationship. But during this second relationship she did everything and she was inb most cases even the first and i never had to beg for things that seemed important to me. Ofcourse until turning point

Let me see if I can clear this up for you.

We like your money. We like your participation. We like your compliments. If you insist on insisting yourself upon on us, we're either going to ban you or cave and say "yeah I would totally marry you if it weren't for like a million reasons."

Tip for services, not affection.

 

[Vixxen81]

I mean, can a colombian women really be that crazy to put on sucb a big act, getting her family to me and mine to her v( of course video-call ). In my openion these are big and important steps. So i almost cannot imagine it was done by her for manipulation

Yes, my husband would bend over backwards to orchestrate whatever you wanted to make sure I got your money instead of someone else getting it. OPEN YOUR EYES.

 

[Maxi]

I admit, you are right about that and i should had known better. But can I ask for a honest opinion. Look at how things went in the story i wrote in this topic. Does anyone can imagine that this was some kind of trap again because everything seemed to be very good ( almost like following a guide ). During the first 'relationship' it was clearly a scam and i always had to beg her why things were different as i expect to see as normal within a relationship. But during this second relationship she did everything and she was inb most cases even the first and i never had to beg for things that seemed important to me. Ofcourse until turning point

So anyway, the Cumberland Pie also has a breadcrummy, cheesy crust on top that acts as a crispy crunch to each bite.

Honestly, if you’re into the aforementioned-earlier-in-thread-pies - check it out. Cooking can be a fun alternative to being ‘scammed by cam models’.

 

[inertvolcano]

Ofcourse until turning point

You're being coy about this turning point in a way that makes me feel like you're setting up for some kind of big reveal and I'd rather just hear what it is than play a game.

 

[Marceline]

Does anyone can imagine that this was some kind of trap again because everything seemed to be very good

Yes. You said that you haven’t known her for very long. I’m guessing a few months at most? Does it seem totally normal to introduce your entire family to someone after “dating” them for a relatively short time? That’s a huge step that’s not normally done so early into a relationship.

She’s aware that you’ve already been love conned. This could be her way of trying to gain your trust/make it seem real, so that later on she can ask for more money using the typical love con excuses like “such and such family member is sick and I need help paying their medical bills” or something of that sort.

Stop using cam sites as dating sites and instead find a nice lady on a dating app who lives near you who you can cook yummy shepherd’s (or cottage) pie for.

 

[Sashacurves]

So anyway, the Cumberland Pie also has a breadcrummy, cheesy crust on top that acts as a crispy crunch to each bite.

Honestly, if you’re into the aforementioned-earlier-in-thread-pies - check it out. Cooking can be a fun alternative to being ‘scammed by cam models’.

I've never heard of cumberland pie is this a northern thing? The crunchy top sounds amazing I wanna try

 

[Maxi]

I've never heard of cumberland pie is this a northern thing? The crunchy top sounds amazing I wanna try

I think it is! I know M&S do a really good one

 

[Nienna]

I think it is! I know M&S do a really good one

M&S makes a lot of good things. I wish we could still get their products in Canada. I used to love their chicken curry in a can. Just add basmati rice, and dinner is served. They also had these frozen mini Melton-Mowbray pies. Num num!

 

[MarieElise]

Ahhh I miss M Aand S. And Boots, does Boots still exist/ still in business?

I mean, can a person really be that crazy to put on sucb a big act, getting her family to me and mine to her v( of course video-call )?

Yes, I took the nationality out because I don't think nationality or even sex/ gender has anything to do with it. But yes, any person can or would, if they wanted your money bad enough. People do way more complicated and worse for less.

 

[cbhours]

I mean, can a colombian women really be that crazy to put on sucb a big act, getting her family to me and mine to her v( of course video-call ). In my openion these are big and important steps. So i almost cannot imagine it was done by her for manipulation

Meeting a Colombian models family should not be a factor in your decision. Some models lie to their family to get them to play along, some willingly play along, sometimes they aren't even family and that brother or cousin is actually the boyfriend.

Asking to meet your family isnt common but I think I did recall someone mentioning such a request once on this forum.

Regarding PayPal...no company gives less of a f**k than PayPal. They don't require proof they don't even require clues they will end that account on a whim.

Do you continue to send 100 a week so not exceeding 400 dollars a month?

What part of Colombia is she from?

Edit: and how did I end up hungry? ..except for the mince pie part you guys lost me at raisins

 

[Sjuulke046]

Do you continue to send 100 a week so not exceeding 400 dollars a month?

No, mostly it was more

 

[Sjuulke046]

What part of Colombia is she from?

Bucaramanga

 

[yummybrownfox]

True, but many models decide to start using it by their self. And by the wasy, i actually helped the first model to trick PayPal to show them that everything is fine and that there are other reasons why they see these high and recurring amounts

Ok. They shouldn’t be using it for cam stuff though, and if you truly want to help the model you should be using safe methods of paying them. Not giving them advice about how to “trick PayPal.”

Maybe you interpret this a bit to strong! because I did not meant that she should let me be with her during her shows. I meant that she should not make a secret of it and talk about it and honestly answering my questions and maybe concerns. She decided herself to let me be with her during the shows. And by the way, after the first relationship i did read several artikels on the internet about models that do have a relationship, and the most models itself says that it's important

What questions and concerns? She can give you as much info as she’s comfortable. The models in those internet articles said that what is important? Many models (especially on here) will tell you that they don’t want their boyfriends/husbands in the room with them while they’re camming. You say that she wants you there, and that’s cool. But if she were to change her mind about that and wants her privacy to cam (without your presence), would you respect her wishes and not give her a hard time? She also doesn’t have to give you explicit details everyday about everything she did on cam…how much she made…her model name on the site.

in that case i do respect and take the answer into account. Thanks All through it's a bit depending on the personallity of both

So because Marie was willing to answer your personal question about her relationship, you do respect and take her answer into account…Got it…

And about what behaviors makes you conclude that I ensure myself to survive that kind of relationship

You’re asking inertvolcano for “relationship “ advice, but he’d already given you excellent advice in his previous post…post #6 in this thread. People are just trying to help you so you don’t keep playing yourself (fooling yourself into thinking you have a girlfriend), and having to keep making threads like this. Good luck.


And I’m more of an apple pie…and peach cobbler girl myself…..

 

[rockin_rod]

nooo shepherds pie is lamb and cottage pie is beef! But agree the beef version is way better

I've been living here in Aus for >20 years, but I still get asked about the differences between the two.
After a lot of experimenting, I came up with an alternative version, which is a spicy ground beef and rich tomato base with black or pinto beans and caramelised red onions, topped with crunchy hash browns, then grated 3-cheese mix and crushed plain potato chips (crisps for the Brits), which bakes up nice and crispy. Not healthy, but delicious on a cold winter day.
Side note: McVities Digestive biscuits make the best cheesecake base ever IMO, chuck in a blender with melted butter then pack down into the cake tin. Mmmmm.

 

[prizenka]

I love apple pie

 

[yummybrownfox]

I think my favorite dessert is the red/white/blue U.S.A. flag cake (with strawberries and blueberries) that my grandmom used to make every year for her 4th of July cookouts. Everything she makes is perfection…including her tea that she puts oranges in.

 

[inertvolcano]

No, mostly it was more

You seem to think everything about your relationship was going well until the mysterious "turning point" but you were sending her over $400 a month. Relationships are not a subscription service. If you met someone in a bar and hit it off you wouldn't offer to start paying her bills. Whether she is legitimate or not is irrelevant. You're trying to buy love and that was never going to and will never work.

 

[Lilly_____]

I think my favorite dessert is the red/white/blue U.S.A. flag cake (with strawberries and blueberries) that my grandmom used to make every year for her 4th of July cookouts. Everything she makes is perfection…including her tea that she puts oranges in.

That sounds absolutely delicious
I love apple pie and not to brag but I can bake a delicious apple pie

I don't know many american foods but I absolutely love american pancakes with bacon grease, i could eat piles of it.

Pancakes here are a whole different thing though, they're savory and very thin, kind of like a crepe, but rolled up and with ground beef filling.. i think if burritos and crepes had kids, it would be our pancakes. It's funny how they have the same name but are completely different foods.



And the most common pies here are chicken with vegetables for savory and banana pie for sweet (i don't like any sweets made of banana though). There1s also a lemon pie that is more like a mousse on top of a biscuit - I love this one.

 

[cbhours]

No, mostly it was more

Like how much we talking and why is that past tense? *Re-reads* oh ok so you are saying this story already has an ending and you just havent posted it yet?

 

[AudriTwo]

What about quiches? I love me a good ham and cheese quiche.

 

[Vixxen81]

I think my favorite dessert is the red/white/blue U.S.A. flag cake (with strawberries and blueberries) that my grandmom used to make every year for her 4th of July cookouts. Everything she makes is perfection…including her tea that she puts oranges in.

Have you ever had pretzel strawberry pie? So good and refreshing.

 

[MarieElise]

Best thread ever. I literally can't stop coming back and getting more ideas for things to eat/try!

 

[Vixxen81]

I have never had quiche, it looks "wet" to me. Is it?

 

[ElGato]

I have never had quiche, it looks "wet" to me. Is it?

Quiche is awesome. It's not "wet" but to use a word nobody likes, it's slightly "moist". Think of maybe like a firmly cooked omelet

 

[Vixxen81]

Quiche is awesome. It's not "wet" but to use a word nobody likes, it's slightly "moist". Think of maybe like a firmly cooked omelet

Ahhh ok, I think I'll make an attempt.

Here's the recipe for the pie I mentioned. The pic isn't very appetizing but I promise it's awesome.

Strawberry Pretzel Pie

Salty and sweet describes this delicious pie to a tee. This pie 's crust is made from crushed and sweetened pretzels with a bit of melted butter to hold everything together. A sugared whipped topping and a cream cheese layer is spread over the baked crust, and finished with a chilled frozen...

www.allrecipes.com

 

[MarieElise]

Flan and souffle are more wet. I think? I think flan is the name for the wet cheesey type quiche done in a puff pasrty? I could be wrong on that though. I don't like flan, but quiche is good. It's a wonderful brunch food imho. Souffle is great, but it desn't have a crust/ shell. It's just kind of the filling. It's amazing, if you haven't tried savory souffle, and you like quiche, you should consider it!

 

[ElGato]

Flan and souffle are more wet. I think? I think flan is the name for the wet cheesey type quiche done in a puff pasrty? I could be wrong on that though. I don't like flan, but quiche is good. It's a wonderful brunch food imho. Souffle is great, but it desn't have a crust/ shell. It's just kind of the filling. It's amazing, if you haven't tried savory souffle, and you like quiche, you should consider it!

I love all manner of quiche. Don't think I've ever met one I did not like.

Unlike the claim made by the old book...
"Real Men Don't Eat Quiche"

 

[Lilly_____]

ohhh i looove quiches, especially leek quiches, but also bacon and mushroom quiches
i'm hungry again!!

 

[Marceline]

Flan and souffle are more wet. I think? I think flan is the name for the wet cheesey type quiche done in a puff pasrty?

The texture of flan is kinda like a mix of pudding/custard and jello. At least the flan I’ve had. I’ve never really been a fan of it, though. The quiches I’ve had is more… dense? Like a scrambled egg pie.