I've not been following this whole thread in detail, but you have reported her to the camsites right? It's completely fair enough you're continuing to talk to her out of curiosity/as your own personal way to get over the feelings you had for her, but it's really not ok that she's still active on all these sites considering some of the things she's said to you. I know a lot of it is grey area stuff, but at the very minimum she's breaking the rules of all the sites by requesting off site payments!
No, I have not. I admit, it's crossed my mind a few times - in part because I wonder if there are other members involved in this exact same situation with her right now. (Or there will be in the future). But I haven't been able to get myself to do it...I'm not sure why. Maybe part of me feels that despite everything, I don't have any particular desire to hurt this woman. (Whatever her life was that led her to be this way, I can't imagine that it was very good - no one likes being lied to, but I'm not sure I would see a satisfaction in her getting in trouble. Then again...seems she could just be a cam model, not do whatever this is that she's been doing).but you have reported her to the camsites right?
I also noticed that on some sites (I think Chaturbate is an example), the TOS say that they don't get involved in any "disputes" involving members and models that happen offsite. So would sites even care to know about this stuff?
In addition to setting up an account for me to pay her directly, she also shared identifying information. I had said there was no way in hell I was going to be sending money to someone, especially a Russian citizen, without knowing who she really is. It turned out that what she shared was real (I can't say more beyond that) but then she used this to say that now there's a special trust in place between us. From what I can tell about the way most sites work (correct me if I'm wrong), I'm not supposed to know her real name, where she lives and other real life details...but I do - because she provided this information (as a way to get money, in my opinion; not, as she claims, to prove her sincerity).
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