Whatever you tip and however you tip is really up to you. As long as you are tipping, you are supporting the model. I'm sure each model has their own preferences, but all tips are always appreciated, whether they acknowledge you directly or not. If you're only tipping for attention, get a private for guaranteed service. If you feel like x amount of tip has more entitlement than y amount of tip or are worried that a big tip is not getting the entitlement you think it deserves, then I think you are no longer doing this for "fun" and should take a break or something.
This is the third time in this thread you've twisted my words to stand on a soapbox and lecture me, and it is extremely irritating. And it's the second thread you've done it in. I don't want to get into a back and forth or a flame war, but if it's going to be a pattern and this is just how you are going to interact with me in this forum, I want to address it right now because it's making my experience on the forum unpleasant, and this place is one of the good things going on in my life right now. If you're going to respond to me, respond to what I've written or not at all. I never used the words "attention" or "deserve." You did.
There are times that I tip models just to give them money and to support them as a fan. I do this all the time. I enjoy doing it, and sometimes a genuine smile and thank you is all I want.
But sometimes, and you may find this shocking, but sometimes I go to a cam model's room in order to watch the model perform and to masturbate. When I do this, I approach the tip as a commercial exchange between myself and the model - my money in exchange for a service. This service is to do things I find sexually arousing. This is why I go to the model's room, rather than masturbating while staring at a blank white wall or using the limitless power of my imagination to imagine erotic adventures with Anya Taylor-Joy.
Sometimes I do this by explicitly buying things from the tip menu or through a negotiated agreement with the model. But sometimes it's a little more vague than that. There is the use of tip enabled toys in which the model appears to derive sexual pleasure when tipped, or the model is doing some other performance in exchange for people tipping such as a striptease.
What I have found is that when I make a large tip, I get fewer
interactions with the model than another member in the same performance who is doing multiple smaller tips. Please go back and read the post of mine you responded to. The word
attention is not there. That is because I chose this word very deliberately. What I meant when I said interactions is that the model responds to the lovense toy less, or spends less time continuing the striptease, that kind of thing, than if I break the tip up into multiple smaller tips. I am not asking for the model's attention. In fact, I often find the direct attention I receive in a 1 on 1 to be too much, and is not the experience I want or enjoy. I just want to encourage the model to continue in a certain kind of performance. So your repeated insistence that I go private misses the point and is not helpful, as I previously explained but you ignored. In addition, going private does not contribute to the show goals, which is often what I am there to do.
As a result, I find that exchange less satisfying and by that I mean I find it less arousing for me. So I have changed the way I interact with the model to tip the exact same overall amount, split into multiple smaller tips, to have more satisfying interactions. It is not about what I
deserve. Deserve does not factor into things at all. Tips are a form of communicating with the model, and I have found that one way of tipping better communicates what I want, and results in a better experience for me. I do not make demands of the model. I do not complain. I don't say anything to the model at all. I do not think I am entitled to anything. In fact, I am approaching things in what I think is the least disruptive way of handling it and that's by responding according to the behavior the model is encouraging in the room.
And now my interactions with the models are better, the models are none the wiser and are still being tipped generously and in accordance with their room rules, and the only people who know anything about it are the people in this thread that I've shared this information with in what was an attempt to be helpful. Please stop presuming to tell me how to behave in a cam model room when I've found what works for me, and don't presume to tell me when I'm having fun or need a break. It's condescending and unpleasant.