HarmlessSquirrel said:mynameisbob84 said:Unless it's like a domme/sub type thing where the guy is getting off on being controlled by the model, I don't understand why you'd even want to spend time in the room of a model who insists on giving her members ultimatums like that, let alone only spend time in her room.
If a model got pissy with me for visiting other models, I likely wouldn't be going to back to her room any time soon.
I completely agree. The models I'm a regular with are totally the opposite. They flat out tell us to have a good time in other rooms. It they have a particular friend, sometimes they even encourage us to go to their room. I don't think I've ever heard that from any model I've visited who I had any interest in visiting again. I go where I want to, but I certainly appreciate the easy-going attitude, which is the only thing that makes sense unless they're offering to be my girlfriend, which hasn't happened yet, and I'm not holding my breath.
Maybe the issue of jealousy is worth its own thread, since it seems to come up from time to time in lots of other ones. I mostly try to be understanding about both sides, because my impression is that both models and members deal with it quite often. The whole social aspect of MFC compared to some other sites surely makes the problem worse.
I have had a lot of models ask me if I spend time/tokens with other models, and it seems to happen more often when the model is going through a slower time on MFC. I get that. They put themselves out there and also need to earn something, so it makes a certain amount of sense that a model would be upset at the thought of a regular spending time and money that theoretically could have been hers. But I also agree with others in this thread that members should keep any issues like that to themselves (and certainly many won't shut up and do make an issue of it in order to feel more important or humble-brag), because it's unfair to the third model who gets caught up in something that's not her fault. Like HarmlessSquirrel said, I don't think that a model should expect exclusivity from a member, because there's no viable way for her to return that exclusivity.
Anyway, if models sometimes get jealous, it must be nothing in comparison to the jealousy that they surely experience from members. I've seen plenty of that first hand. Hell, if I am honest with myself, I know that I have even felt jealous when I've been chatting with a favorite model and suddenly she is going private with someone else ... or if I am the only one in public chat and the model is having a long PM conversation with someone who is watching in a PM window. I don't like that I've had those thoughts, but sometimes people have intrusive thoughts/emotions and it's up to them to still manage to behave in a sociable manner.
Sorry for the long rambling post...