I've always played the part of devils-advocate and tend to remain optimistic in situations that have others clamoring about and preparing for imminent chaos... not that i necessarily enjoy or go out of my way to do these things.. the one thing that stays constant between them are the facts. facts are friggin great!
Now i know this isn't an ideal situation for you and i am not trying to make light of that fact by any means!! (But i bet you at least smile, laugh, or at least agree by the time you read this!)
So, keeping this in mind, let's take a look at what's posted below from a different perspective, shall we?
CliffK1955 has tipped 100 tk
"This is for the asshole that never helps you"
Fact #1 - This guy just gave the cam model more money, there are negative connotations involved, yes, but we can find some *good* when we step back and look at it!
Fact #2 - He is wrong - he doesn't know you and the fact is you *do* donate to her
Fact #3 - You know who you are, what you do, and that you're not an asshole.
Fact #4 - I can't call the following, which very much my opinion, a fact! -- The guy obviously has a chip on his shoulder which stem these poignant ego issues that have him hanging out in multiple streams as a knight and no doubt acting the same way with other people, any chance he gets. It seems as if everyone else who doesn't tip what he does and when he wants them to are automatically deemed lesser than him and his well-off financially, gallantly respectable knight status. My friend, people like this guy usually don't have a damn thing going for them, don't have any money to speak of, can't afford what they're sending to begin with. They do this to show off and attempt to gleam, hoping someone notices so they get the attention they crave.. the sweet release of endorphins so they can feel good about themselves and mask the ill truth. So just to reiterate, the fact here is that everything i just said is not a fact at all, just my heavily opinionated speculation!
Fact #5 - Potentially you could take any perspective gained here today and use it as a fun game to maybe see if he'll keep tipping her because he thinks you don't. I'm not advocating anything by any means, because as much as it sucks you're going to eventually have to make a tough decision. Either find a way to cope with it until she gets rid of him, or you'll have to move on from her. Not trying to be harsh, but there's no other way to put it without lying or avoiding the facts!
Disclaimer- I said some things that could be viewed as harsh, especially if someone is just reading this and doesn't know the little back story. I don't know this person and i am purely speculating in a general sense, so please view it as such! I want to re-iterate that mental health is extremely important and not a joke. Those reading this if you know anyone who seriously needs help, reach out (to me, or otherwise) because there are resources available!!
-l