That entire situations sounds ridiculous. She must really value his ongoing presence to put up with all that rubbish, especially referring to her in chat as 'my wife'. Surprised she doesn't pull him into line. Maybe she enjoys a bit of drama here and there. 6-7 years is a long time to let that arrangement run for; are you sure it's not her real husband acting out a moderator profile persona?
I am absolutely certain. This guy is Russian and her husband is the same as her (both Romanian).
I have seen a photo of each, and they are very different people (this moderator has a photo of himself uploaded to the CB chat GIFs) and she has shown photos on cam of herself with her husband.
She has to be getting something intangible from it, some kind of psychological or emotional payoff, otherwise I don't believe she would allow it. On the flip side there are models who I have seen that have been doing this for many years, who still don't really have a very good understanding of healthy men, or very high confidence in themselves too though, so who knows. It's always super shocking when I see that. It sucks that some models don't know how to attract the healthy loyal types, differentiate them from the others, and keep them. However I certainly hope that, that is not the true case w this lady, because that is really negative and damaging.
This is basically the reason, I think.
She was like it with her other moderator too, I had to be her moderator for a while just to constantly silence him because she removed all other moderators (because of THIS Russian one jealous of them all), and this other (American) Moderator was constantly jealous and annoyed that he was no longer one. He would constantly come and be rude and horrible to her and ask to be moderator again. The Russian moderator would never silence him, because he was happy and glad he had got one upon him. She would not silence or ban him because, similarly with the Russian one, he had been with her from the start (not a tipper though). So she genuinely thought of him as a "friend" and kept saying this to him and saying she won't silence/ban him because he is her friend. All the while this American ex-mod is constantly coming being horrible to her in chat for HOURS and saying the same nonsense and only bothering to try to get his moderator status back.
I would ask her in PM why is she letting him continue to do it, she would basically just tell me to "ignore him" and "he's my friend". I tried explaining no friend cares that much about being a moderator and starts to insult you like that, ever. Eventually, she did agree (not on the same day), and she made me a moderator so I could be the one to silence him as I really did hate how he was treating her, and i, with pleasure, silenced him instantly.
He made 100s of accounts over the coming days, and some of them I would see in the user list and know it was him instantly and silence him (he never seemed to use a VPN, so his profile location and age were always the same, he was such a dumb guy - 40yr old in USA). He gave up for a month or 2, then came back again. The cycle repeated itself, and eventually, I reported him and all of his accounts to CB and then he did seem to go forever, he has not returned since.
But my point here is, she really does seem to have some kind of problems with her confidence and (in my opinion) other issues going on, she never likes to silence or ban anyone, no matter how horrible they are being with her. She prefers to just ignore it and pretend it is not happening.
I think a lot of guys seem to sense this and are then attracted to it (not her fault, it's them preying on her, i know this) and come be horrible etc to her.
