Umm.
"Of course! The show is going to be about 2 weeks long..."
Umm.
If it had been slow in the room, I would have humored him. XD"Of course! The show is going to be about 2 weeks long..."
And yet women never say, "don't do that"
lol. I tell dudes at least a dozen times a night, "My name isn't honey/sweetheart/darling/babe". After 2-3 sickly sweet compliments, I tell them that their compliments mean nothing if they're not going to put their money where their mouth is. I also tell them that their compliments are gross and make me want to yak.
And yet women never say, "don't do that"
Um...yes, we do. So many men just suck at giving women good, genuine compliments without fucking it up somehow. Lmao. Wind up giving us a backhanded compliment (and then you're clueless as to why we're suddenly annoyed with you)...or sounding creepy...or your compliment suddenly turns into you bashing other women...
For example, if you think we have beautiful boobs, just say it and leave it at that. There's no need to add in remarks like "I'm so tired of these bitches on here with the fake tits." Whoa, dude. Chill. And the "I like a woman with a little meat on her bones" guys ranting about skinny women. See, all that just ain't necessary.
I think cheesy-ish romantic talk like that can work in person from a man I at least know a little bit, enough to be attracted to him and to enjoy those kinds of compliments. But it comes across as insincere and lame online, from a random screenname that just popped into my room. It's hard not to roll my eyes and for me it's a turn off. But I have melted into a puddle of "fuck me right now" in reaction to similar lines in person from a man I'm really into.People have generally lost the art of communicating with one another. Seduction is another art that is lost.
Right. We are already there offering whatever we are offering, they don't need to butter us up, all they need to do is start the cashflow.Plus, I'm not on cam to be seduced. If a guy is trying to "seduce" me by writing some pretty but meaningless nonsense like that in my chat he's just wasting my time.
I think cheesy-ish romantic talk like that can work in person from a man I at least know a little bit, enough to be attracted to him and to enjoy those kinds of compliments. But it comes across as insincere and lame online, from a random screenname that just popped into my room. It's hard not to roll my eyes and for me it's a turn off. But I have melted into a puddle of "fuck me right now" in reaction to similar lines in person from a man I'm really into.
Plus, I'm not on cam to be seduced. If a guy is trying to "seduce" me by writing some pretty but meaningless nonsense like that in my chat he's just wasting my time.
Yes! The second compliment usually coming after you tell them to pay for their request.I always laugh at the guys who give a compliment sandwich, or similar..
"Hi bb you are a gorgeous flower..."
"...show me your tits..."
".....you're so beautiful"
I have noticed this quite a lot recently on Chaturbate... obviously the names are always slightly different. This grey guys name has two r's in it "jvcrr" not "jvcr". But they try go to any lengths to scam models and get free shit, it's ridiculous.
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Nope, I don't do discounts.
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Did you really just ask a fat chick if she can suck her own toes? Cause HAHAHAHA NO.
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I had a rude awakening one of the last times I was on SM, because I told a guy I would suck my toes in excl (I used to be able to, easily)... And I couldn't! So humiliating. Maybe he likes to see big girls try and then embarrass themselves?
Yes! The second compliment usually coming after you tell them to pay for their request.
This is how I see their reasoning: "Oh shit, she's asking for money - guess I should've compimented her more. Ok, here's another one... Must work this time!"
Did you both turn this into a "positive" by having a laugh and joke about the fact you could but now can't or was he all serious and annoyed? I understand it could have gone either way.
Honestly for me I would have just been laughing - but in a fun way and would have hoped after you saw me laughing in a "haha" way, you'd join me and we'd just be "oh well" lol.
Maybe I just notice this more because it's abrasive, but I always thought it was, compliment > request > insult
Wow you're so beautiful
Show me them tits?
Boob flash is 100 tokens
Flat chested ugly ass whore
What are you talking about? To him, that was a nat 20 in charisma. She shouldn't merely give him a discount! She should be grateful she got to not only witness but be the object of such a compliment! Sadly his intelligence wasn't high enough for insults.
I'm confused
I just meant in general, it seems like members usually give a compliment, ask for something, act like a dick when asked to pay
I wasn't referencing a specific occasion or model
Don't worry about it. Was making a lame dnd joke related to all the tons of members who do that to each cammer daily. Wasn't meaning any specific instance.
I don't want to degrade you in that way".
Then don't go on camsites? like?????
I know right...dumbass. I think it was even more insulting that he thought I would buy that logic lol
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news for you all... but all cam models are obviously super dumb!!
I think it's funny how guys have this thought/idea that you are, even though it's they that are the moronic dumbasses - I was oblivious to just how stupid people were until I found Chaturbate. I mean, just wow!
I'm not on CB but I can only imagine. I have to say, the cool people I've met on MFC make up for the dumb asses. What irritates the shit out of me though is that I have "no anal" on my whiteboard, my room topic, AND my profile and people still PM me DO YOU DO ANAL. ARGH.
I'm not on CB but I can only imagine. I have to say, the cool people I've met on MFC make up for the dumb asses. What irritates the shit out of me though is that I have "no anal" on my whiteboard, my room topic, AND my profile and people still PM me DO YOU DO ANAL. ARGH.
I get that all the time too with requests and pms.... I ask them to read my rules that I don't do C2C, so then they just stick a dick pic into pm anyway and ask me to judge and I say tip and I'll let you know what I think and they scatter quick... So many dudes want their ego either stroked or squashed about their dick size and want C2C or pics to do it and always without tip for me... I won't do it and they get mad.