Things Members Say That Make You Go "WTF?"

[Nordling]

Simple preferences are usually based on real things...like a bitter taste may put someone off certain food...it's culinary conditioning. And if someone chooses not to date someone because they're green, let us say, yeah, it's a preference but one based on false values...bigotry...but it's acceptable bigotry I guess. But if you refuse to deal with a green person in your job, then it's unacceptable bigotry.

If a person is going to be bigoted in their job, they probably should pick a job that doesn't include touching other humans.

 

[Anonymous]

About the race thing...I know this isn't exactly what you guys are referring to, but just let me have this little rant moment, please? LOL.

I think Black men should stop getting their Hanes (or Fruit of the Loom?) in a twist just because they saw that I had a White dildo, or just because they heard me say that I think interracial porn is hot. I get that it's part of a fantasy for them for everything to be Black and not White, but dude, there is something wrong with you if you're calling me a 'traitor to my race', or you're on a sex site getting offended about a damn dildo color. And if it's really that serious, are you gonna buy me an Amazon e-gift card so I can get another toy that's "the right color?" Nah, I didn't think so. LOL.

 

[Shaun__]

OT: I'm still baffled by the conundrum of: is it racist for a pornstar to say she won't have sex with a particular race? (A lot of guys will claim it is racist). Or is it just her choice, her business and her body?

I don't particularly care one way or the other FYI, I just think it's an interesting debate. I lean toward the second theory though.

Is it sexist if a man refuses to have sex with other men?

 

[Nordling]

OT: I'm still baffled by the conundrum of: is it racist for a pornstar to say she won't have sex with a particular race? (A lot of guys will claim it is racist). Or is it just her choice, her business and her body?

I don't particularly care one way or the other FYI, I just think it's an interesting debate. I lean toward the second theory though.

Is it sexist if a man refuses to have sex with other men?

Only if you're gay.

 

[RoseCavilla]

OT: I'm still baffled by the conundrum of: is it racist for a pornstar to say she won't have sex with a particular race? (A lot of guys will claim it is racist). Or is it just her choice, her business and her body?

I don't particularly care one way or the other FYI, I just think it's an interesting debate. I lean toward the second theory though.

I don't think there's really any debate here... If a girl is simply not attracted to men of a certain race she's not racist, guys are just babies about it: story time! Please note I didn't hear the beginning of this conversation. I highly doubt this is how he opened.

black guy at coffee shop (talking to Girl A) "Hey baby girl, you gonna let me stuff my thick black dick inside your pussy and cum in you?"

Girl A(who is Asain): "I'm sorry... I find myself unattracted to men of your race. That's just my personal preference. My friend loves that, though." (Girl A motions over to Girl B who's waiting in line. She has a few extra pounds but I still think she was very pretty. But I think the guy thought Girl A meant my hot-as-a-supermodel coworker.)

Guy: oh, so that's what's up? (Continues making small talk. Girl B gets her order and goes over to Girl A) So when is your friend gonna take a break and come over? I live two minutes away, really.

Girl A: what? Ah, this is her, sir. (Motions to Girl B)

Guy: what the fuck? Why am I not good enough for you? Just let me cum inside you baby girl you'll love it (I'm pretty sure Girl A doesn't understand words like "cum" because she never slaps him)

Girl A: no thank you, sir. I truly am not interested.

Guy: what the fuck? You're just racist. Stupid cunt. You probably have gonnorhea (he said it really weirdly, I'm trying to reflect that here)

Girl A: I'm sorry?

Guy: Fuck off, racist. Go die in the gutter.



This conversation was one o my biggest "wtf just happened" moments while working at that coffee house.

 

[emptiedglass]

So how long before they pass a law saying that all adult performers must paint themselves purple in order to avoid the so-called racism issue? :lol:

 

[PlayboyMegan]

(referring to only some pornstars who won't fuck out of their race in this post)
You don't have to be attracted to that race to fuck them. I put on camshows for men im not attracted to, only difference is, i dont care about their race.
Pornstars fuck people they aren't attracted to all the time. They'll fuck a 90yo man. They'll fuck a 400lb man. But as long as their white!!!!

 

[PlayboyMegan]

OT: I'm still baffled by the conundrum of: is it racist for a pornstar to say she won't have sex with a particular race? (A lot of guys will claim it is racist). Or is it just her choice, her business and her body?

I don't particularly care one way or the other FYI, I just think it's an interesting debate. I lean toward the second theory though.

I don't think there's really any debate here... If a girl is simply not attracted to men of a certain race she's not racist, guys are just babies about it: story time! Please note I didn't hear the beginning of this conversation. I highly doubt this is how he opened.

black guy at coffee shop (talking to Girl A) "Hey baby girl, you gonna let me stuff my thick black dick inside your pussy and cum in you?"

Girl A(who is Asain): "I'm sorry... I find myself unattracted to men of your race. That's just my personal preference. My friend loves that, though." (Girl A motions over to Girl B who's waiting in line. She has a few extra pounds but I still think she was very pretty. But I think the guy thought Girl A meant my hot-as-a-supermodel coworker.)

Guy: oh, so that's what's up? (Continues making small talk. Girl B gets her order and goes over to Girl A) So when is your friend gonna take a break and come over? I live two minutes away, really.

Girl A: what? Ah, this is her, sir. (Motions to Girl B)

Guy: what the fuck? Why am I not good enough for you? Just let me cum inside you baby girl you'll love it (I'm pretty sure Girl A doesn't understand words like "cum" because she never slaps him)

Girl A: no thank you, sir. I truly am not interested.

Guy: what the fuck? You're just racist. Stupid cunt. You probably have gonnorhea (he said it really weirdly, I'm trying to reflect that here)

Girl A: I'm sorry?

Guy: Fuck off, racist. Go die in the gutter.



This conversation was one o my biggest "wtf just happened" moments while working at that coffee house.

I'm assuming you're not a pornstar and this wasn't for a shoot? That's the key thing here, IMO. I think my post above said it all.

 

[PlayboyMegan]

I'm triple posting. Sorry, racism makes me all uppity.

Refusing to fuck a black man when you are a pornstar is the exact same thing as refusing to put on a cam show for a black man.
"hey! I turned on your cam, and I just noticed you're black....I wasn't aware of that. I not do privates for black men. Just not my preference, sorry."
Do you see why that's extremely racist now???????

 

[Jupiter551]

(referring to only some pornstars who won't fuck out of their race in this post)
You don't have to be attracted to that race to fuck them. I put on camshows for men im not attracted to, only difference is, i dont care about their race.
Pornstars fuck people they aren't attracted to all the time. They'll fuck a 90yo man. They'll fuck a 400lb man. But as long as their white!!!!

Yeah you're right, but on the other hand a woman has the right to decide who or what goes into her body right? Her having to justify it seems beside the point.

I realise this is not a can of worms to be opened in this thread.

 

[PlayboyMegan]

(referring to only some pornstars who won't fuck out of their race in this post)
You don't have to be attracted to that race to fuck them. I put on camshows for men im not attracted to, only difference is, i dont care about their race.
Pornstars fuck people they aren't attracted to all the time. They'll fuck a 90yo man. They'll fuck a 400lb man. But as long as their white!!!!

Yeah you're right, but on the other hand a woman has the right to decide who or what goes into her body right? Her having to justify it seems beside the point.

I realise this is not a can of worms to be opened in this thread.

Absolutely. But I think Nordling said it best. If you feel the need to discriminate against a race, don't do porn. If I was only willing to perform for white guys in my room, camming would not be a suitable job for me.
Also, how is it possible to not be attracted to a race as a whole? They all have different body types, different facial features, different personalities, etc. Unless you've seen EVERY single person in the world from that race, how can you make that assumption that they are ALL unattractive??? Unless, you are, racist.

 

[Nordling]

(referring to only some pornstars who won't fuck out of their race in this post)
You don't have to be attracted to that race to fuck them. I put on camshows for men im not attracted to, only difference is, i dont care about their race.
Pornstars fuck people they aren't attracted to all the time. They'll fuck a 90yo man. They'll fuck a 400lb man. But as long as their white!!!!

Yeah you're right, but on the other hand a woman has the right to decide who or what goes into her body right? Her having to justify it seems beside the point.

I realise this is not a can of worms to be opened in this thread.

Absolutely. But I think Nordling said it best. If you feel the need to discriminate against a race, don't do porn. If I was only willing to perform for white guys in my room, camming would not be a suitable job for me.
Also, how is it possible to not be attracted to a race as a whole? They all have different body types, different facial features, different personalities, etc. Unless you've seen EVERY single person in the world from that race, how can you make that assumption that they are ALL unattractive??? Unless, you are, racist.

Exactly. That's the whole point, we all have a right to like or dislike individuals...but when it's not because of their character, unique looks or smell (lol), but because of the class, group, ethnicity, religion or race, it's bigotry.

That's not to say that people HAVE to sleep with anyone who asks them--that's silly--you can refuse for whatever reason you want...but if it's not the individual you're refusing, but the group he or she was born into...it's bigotry.

 

[Shaun__]

OT: I'm still baffled by the conundrum of: is it racist for a pornstar to say she won't have sex with a particular race? (A lot of guys will claim it is racist). Or is it just her choice, her business and her body?

I don't particularly care one way or the other FYI, I just think it's an interesting debate. I lean toward the second theory though.

Is it sexist if a man refuses to have sex with other men?

Only if you're gay.

Even people in porn have a right to not have sex with people they find unattractive, they do not have to have sex with 400 pound 80 year old ugly people or anyone else. It is a just a job and they have the right to chose who they are with.

 

[Nordling]

OT: I'm still baffled by the conundrum of: is it racist for a pornstar to say she won't have sex with a particular race? (A lot of guys will claim it is racist). Or is it just her choice, her business and her body?

I don't particularly care one way or the other FYI, I just think it's an interesting debate. I lean toward the second theory though.

Is it sexist if a man refuses to have sex with other men?

Only if you're gay.

Even people in porn have a right to not have sex with people they find unattractive, they do not have to have sex with 400 pound 80 year old ugly people or anyone else. It is a just a job and they have the right to chose who they are with.

Of course they do. You have 100% control over your body and who sticks what into it. But if your REASONING is the class someone belongs to, rather than the person's actual character or unique look and smell, it's VERY LIKELY bigotry.

 

[PlayboyMegan]

OT: I'm still baffled by the conundrum of: is it racist for a pornstar to say she won't have sex with a particular race? (A lot of guys will claim it is racist). Or is it just her choice, her business and her body?

I don't particularly care one way or the other FYI, I just think it's an interesting debate. I lean toward the second theory though.

Is it sexist if a man refuses to have sex with other men?

Only if you're gay.

Even people in porn have a right to not have sex with people they find unattractive, they do not have to have sex with 400 pound 80 year old ugly people or anyone else. It is a just a job and they have the right to chose who they are with.

You are right. But pornstars still do. Some will fuck any guy they find unattractive UNLESS they're a different race. THAT'S racism, IMO. "I'll fuck ugly guys that I don't want to, but not other races." That's not okay.

 

[Shaun__]

Of course they do. You have 100% control over your body and who sticks what into it. But if your REASONING is the class someone belongs to, rather than the person's actual character or unique look and smell, it's VERY LIKELY bigotry.

If you are not physically attracted to a person you are not attracted. You can not call someone a bigot, because they have different preferences. I personally did not wake up one day and fill out a sheet to decide what I like, it just sort of happened as I got older.

 

[Shaun__]

You are right. But pornstars still do. Some will fuck any guy they find unattractive UNLESS they're a different race. THAT'S racism, IMO. "I'll fuck ugly guys that I don't want to, but not other races." That's not okay.

They have a right to decide what they find attractive. If they are hurting them it is one thing, but not having sex with them is not what I would call harmful.

 

[AmberCutie]

Of course they do. You have 100% control over your body and who sticks what into it. But if your REASONING is the class someone belongs to, rather than the person's actual character or unique look and smell, it's VERY LIKELY bigotry.

If you are not physically attracted to a person you are not attracted. You can not call someone a bigot, because they have different preferences. I personally did not wake up one day and fill out a sheet to decide what I like, it just sort of happened as I got older.

Yeah, definition of bigot ' "one who regards or treats the members of a group (as a racial or ethnic group) with hatred and intolerance" and I don't think that choosing not to sleep with someone because of their looks qualifies as hatred or intolerance.

Again, I think in this day and age, people are too quick to call someone racist or a bigot, instead of just realizing people have preferences.

 

[Nordling]

Of course they do. You have 100% control over your body and who sticks what into it. But if your REASONING is the class someone belongs to, rather than the person's actual character or unique look and smell, it's VERY LIKELY bigotry.

If you are not physically attracted to a person you are not attracted. You can not call someone a bigot, because they have different preferences. I personally did not wake up one day and fill out a sheet to decide what I like, it just sort of happened as I got older.

Yeah, definition of bigot ' "one who regards or treats the members of a group (as a racial or ethnic group) with hatred and intolerance" and I don't think that choosing not to sleep with someone because of their looks qualifies as hatred or intolerance.

Again, I think in this day and age, people are too quick to call someone racist or a bigot, instead of just realizing people have preferences.

Agree, except I'm not referring to an individual's looks...but when someone takes the broad category of a group to be intolerant of an individual. And once again, if a person chooses to not sleep with someone, that's all they should say... "I'm not attracted to YOU." Their GROUP should be inconsequential in conversation. Nearly everyone has a least some bigotry...we live in a society that has huge segments that are openly bigoted. This leaks over into folks who try their best not to be, but no one's a robot.

 

[LacieLaPlante]

I might be ignorant, but I always thought that when girls refused to do interracial it was because of the size of the penis they'd be fucking. Black porn stars are known for having MONSTROUS penises, and interracial porn generally seems to be about splitting apart a small vagina. I might refuse simply not wanting my pussy to be destroyed, or have to fake enjoyment when I'm actually being hurt.

IDK. Thats where I always thought it stemmed from, less than racial problems.

 

[AmberCutie]

Of course they do. You have 100% control over your body and who sticks what into it. But if your REASONING is the class someone belongs to, rather than the person's actual character or unique look and smell, it's VERY LIKELY bigotry.

If you are not physically attracted to a person you are not attracted. You can not call someone a bigot, because they have different preferences. I personally did not wake up one day and fill out a sheet to decide what I like, it just sort of happened as I got older.

Yeah, definition of bigot ' "one who regards or treats the members of a group (as a racial or ethnic group) with hatred and intolerance" and I don't think that choosing not to sleep with someone because of their looks qualifies as hatred or intolerance.

Again, I think in this day and age, people are too quick to call someone racist or a bigot, instead of just realizing people have preferences.

Agree, except I'm not referring to an individual's looks...but when someone takes the broad category of a group to be intolerant of an individual. And once again, if a person chooses to not sleep with someone, that's all they should say... "I'm not attracted to YOU." Their GROUP should be inconsequential in conversation. Nearly everyone has a least some bigotry...we live in a society that has huge segments that are openly bigoted. This leaks over into folks who try their best not to be, but no one's a robot.

I get what you're saying and agree to an extent, but you can't argue that it is FAR TOO COMMON for people to immediately scream "Racism" or "bigotry" if a person says "I'm not attracted to you" to a person of a different race or group. The assumption is really what irritates me. Even if it's true in many cases, I find the finger-pointing more annoying than the "crime" itself.

 

[Nordling]

Yes, and excess finger pointing weakens the point...much like crying wolf. But that is not to say that bigotry doesn't exist and shouldn't be called out when it jumps the shark.

 

[Nordling]

I might be ignorant, but I always thought that when girls refused to do interracial it was because of the size of the penis they'd be fucking. Black porn stars are known for having MONSTROUS penises, and interracial porn generally seems to be about splitting apart a small vagina. I might refuse simply not wanting my pussy to be destroyed, or have to fake enjoyment when I'm actually being hurt.

IDK. Thats where I always thought it stemmed from, less than racial problems.

It may in some cases but then it should be about penis size, not race...since some of the largest dicks in the industry are sported by men with European ancestry.

 

[LacieLaPlante]

I might be ignorant, but I always thought that when girls refused to do interracial it was because of the size of the penis they'd be fucking. Black porn stars are known for having MONSTROUS penises, and interracial porn generally seems to be about splitting apart a small vagina. I might refuse simply not wanting my pussy to be destroyed, or have to fake enjoyment when I'm actually being hurt.

IDK. Thats where I always thought it stemmed from, less than racial problems.

It may in some cases but then it should be about penis size, not race...since some of the largest dicks in the industry are sported by men with European ancestry.

I didn't know that! :] Learn something new everyday.

 

[Nordling]

I might be ignorant, but I always thought that when girls refused to do interracial it was because of the size of the penis they'd be fucking. Black porn stars are known for having MONSTROUS penises, and interracial porn generally seems to be about splitting apart a small vagina. I might refuse simply not wanting my pussy to be destroyed, or have to fake enjoyment when I'm actually being hurt.

IDK. Thats where I always thought it stemmed from, less than racial problems.

It may in some cases but then it should be about penis size, not race...since some of the largest dicks in the industry are sported by men with European ancestry.

I didn't know that! :] Learn something new everyday.

lol I just assume most folks have heard of John Holmes.

 

[LacieLaPlante]

I might be ignorant, but I always thought that when girls refused to do interracial it was because of the size of the penis they'd be fucking. Black porn stars are known for having MONSTROUS penises, and interracial porn generally seems to be about splitting apart a small vagina. I might refuse simply not wanting my pussy to be destroyed, or have to fake enjoyment when I'm actually being hurt.

IDK. Thats where I always thought it stemmed from, less than racial problems.

It may in some cases but then it should be about penis size, not race...since some of the largest dicks in the industry are sported by men with European ancestry.

I didn't know that! :] Learn something new everyday.

lol I just assume most folks have heard of John Holmes.

Had to google him but.. Jesus he's not very good looking now! How did all these young, attractive male porn stars turn into cretins? I am now scared for the beloved James Deen.

 

[Nordling]

Ha ha! Yeah, it used to almost seem like a rule..that male porn stars had to look like ass but have huge penises. lol Sadly, Johnny "Wad" Holmes died some years back. Brad Pitt played him in a movie. Which seemed kind of ironic to me.

 

[PlayboyMegan]

I might be ignorant, but I always thought that when girls refused to do interracial it was because of the size of the penis they'd be fucking. Black porn stars are known for having MONSTROUS penises, and interracial porn generally seems to be about splitting apart a small vagina. I might refuse simply not wanting my pussy to be destroyed, or have to fake enjoyment when I'm actually being hurt.

IDK. Thats where I always thought it stemmed from, less than racial problems.

Then you would say, "I don't want to work with penises over ____inch" You wouldn't have to even mention race.

 

[Nordling]

Oops, my error. It was Val Kilmer who played John Holmes in "Wonderland," not Brad Pitt... Someone named "Michael Pitt" was in the movie, lol, I'll pretend that's what confused me.

 

[southsamurai]

me myself and i, we tend to love racial diversity in all it's forms, and in porn its even better!

is it racist to not enjoy the physical characteristics of one particular race or another? nah not really, our sense of what is beautiful (outside of basic symmetry and ratio) is usually formed when we are young enough to have only seen our own family for the most part, so its pretty normal to find one's own ethnicity more beautiful than others, and to feel a sense of the different towards that which is not in our basic sense of beauty.

that being said, its pretty damn easy to get over if you have a modicum of brain about your person. yeah i was lucky. my family is as cracker white as you can get overall, but i grew up in a predominantly african american neighborhood, so i had plenty of exposure to that particular ethnicity early on. do i therefore only enjoy the beauty of those two? nope. i love me some asian folk, and hispanic/latino folk too. heck i even dig inuit ppl's unique form of beauty, which seems to be distinct from the rest of the native american genotype slightly.

since the area i grew up in is pretty damn redneck i had to figure out racism too damn young. (sometime ask me how long it took me to figure out what the "N word" actually meant, its vaguely funny) here's my conclusion that i havent really changed since i was about 12: ignorance starts racism. if you know people of different races ( i hate that term btw.. we're all one damn race.. the human race) then you are less likely to hate them blindly. after ignorance comes indoctrination. if the message of racism is beat into you long enough by people who are supposed to teach you right from wrong, then yer deep into it until life shows you how damn pointless and stupid it is.

if you arent racist, be grateful you dont have to carry that burden around. if you are? then get the frak over it already!