VeronicaChaos said:
Jupiter551 said:
mynameisbob84 said:
Nordling said:
When BDSM or D/S reach the level of racism, it's gone too far, IMHO.
There does exist a fetish for racial domination/humiliation though. If it's consensual, I guess it's okay. Plus, it's "racism" driven by fantasy and not hate - which means it's not really racism, I guess.
That said, this guy is quite possibly just a racist prick :?
I dunno man, you could potentially justify any fetish based on fucked up behaviour like that. I disagree, given that engaging with fantasies tends to encourage psychotics to act on them I think it's irresponsible to cater to fetishes like this one, pedophilia,
murder etc.
The message should be no, it's not alright, and we're not going to condone it. Get help.
I would love to do a murder roleplay. I have a fantasy of getting chopped up and put in someone's freezer. But the technicalities seem a bit much.
However, I am planning on making a website that is all about murder and using special effects, and in a sexual context. I don't think it's irresponsible to do something like this; it's not as if someone who wouldn't ever kill someone is going to do so because they see fictional imagery of it. I'm sick of everyone blaming everyone else BUT the killer for their crimes. It's society, it's violent videogames, it's guns, blah blah blah. NO, THIS DOUCHEBAG IS JUST A FUCKING KILLER.
Sorry, a rant. It's also kind of like saying that consensual rape play is wrong because they might act it out in real life. That's just not how it works, and one could argue repression seems to be more damaging.
As far as consensual pedophilia; if a girl over the age of 18 wants to dress as a little girl and a man over the age of 18 wants to treat her like a little girl , even though it's not something I'd ever be interested in participating in, I can't think of a BETTER way to deal with that fetish.
I'm not saying if you did that you should be BLAMED for a murder or whatever, but I think sexualising and fetishising it caters to individuals who are having or developing those fantasies. That they might be at a crossroads psychologically and having access to something that stimulates those fantasies may be a determining factor in what course of action they take.
Take a video game for example, and they do get plenty of blame from clueless people, but there would be a very distinct difference between a game like Call of Duty, packed with violence, and say a game where the player character was a serial killer and the objective was to abduct, rape and murder children without leaving evidence or getting caught...or something like that. I don't think that would even be rateable, I think it would be banned and for good reason. I sure as fuck wouldn't want to play a game like that, it's just
not the same thing as other violence etc.
If a serial killer was caught and it was later found out he was logging large amount of time on that game it would be very difficult for anyone, even the games industry, to suggest there's no obvious correlation.
As for consensual rape play...not imo, because consensual rape play absolutely revolves around the clear understanding that it IS consensual and it IS play, and that's the only acceptable way for it to be. I've been with more than one woman who asked to do rape fantasies but not for one second did I believe they wanted to be actually raped. I just can't equate that to wanting to simulate murdering your lover, or for them to pretend to be a child you're abusing. It's different imo.