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Jupiter551 said:
mynameisbob84 said:
Nordling said:
When BDSM or D/S reach the level of racism, it's gone too far, IMHO.

There does exist a fetish for racial domination/humiliation though. If it's consensual, I guess it's okay. Plus, it's "racism" driven by fantasy and not hate - which means it's not really racism, I guess.

That said, this guy is quite possibly just a racist prick :?
I dunno man, you could potentially justify any fetish based on fucked up behaviour like that. I disagree, given that engaging with fantasies tends to encourage psychotics to act on them I think it's irresponsible to cater to fetishes like this one, pedophilia, murder etc.

The message should be no, it's not alright, and we're not going to condone it. Get help.

I think when I typed that, I was thinking more of the guys who go around asking to be humiliated because of their ethnicity - racial humilation and whatnot. In those instances, it's a case of a model being paid to say things she doesn't really mean in order to get a guy off.
That said, there is something a shade uncomfortable about a guy going around wanting to belittle and dominate someone in a sexual fashion because they're black or whatever.
 
Tigresslily said:
The_Brown_Fox said:
Nordling said:
This guy, "WhiteMasterr," has been around for a long time...this is his third member name that I've seen. He was banned as "Dickslapher," and as "WhiteMaster" (one r) I spotted him posting in DanielleKit's room and checked his posts to her profile page. What was shocking to me is his profile page where he apparently has a following. When BDSM or D/S reach the level of racism, it's gone too far, IMHO.

I have to remember to renew my 60-day ban for him on MFC. I know that there are models willing to play along with his race talk, but guys who are into that whole 'white master' thing need to first ASK THE MODEL ahead of time if she's comfortable with it. To just go in a model's room blurting out that kind of shit is stupid. But when you continue talking like that after she's told you she doesn't like it, then that's when you are officially a troll.

Asking me once if I'm up for a master/slave roleplay show will not get you banned. If, however, I politely tell you that I don't do that, and then you harass me with "Oh, come on! It's a first time for everything...I want you to be my little n***er slave," then you're gonna get banned for being a selfish and annoying douche with no respect for a model's boundaries.

Dickslapher (or whatever the hell he's calling himself today) is one of those douches who does not care if a model says "No, I'm not comfortable with that." He proceeds to run off at the mouth, KNOWING that she's uncomfortable. Certainly not the kind of "man" I'd want to encounter face-to-face.

I'm really glad to know about this guy, so I can put his on my ban list. I tend to get these guys alot...trust me it's even more annoying when you get 2 guys mailing you in the same hour-one wanting the white domination another wanting me to tell him I'm a nasty white girl. The irony behind it is the guys wanting the white-dominating usually want it because they think I'm Mexican. And no I'm not willing to act like that about a different nationality for money either. (Whatever right?) It literally got to the point where I just listed all of my nationalities on my profile after some assholes wouldn't believe me and said I was (not making this up) "trying to pretend I have some pride". I seriously hate people sometimes...
Yeah, the shear number of models posting positively on his profile makes me assume it's more about tokens than any kind of fetish on their part. Still...I think that's a dangerous form of business: exploiting someone for their bigotry? Very very strange.
 
mynameisbob84 said:
I think when I typed that, I was thinking more of the guys who go around asking to be humiliated because of their ethnicity - racial humilation and whatnot. In those instances, it's a case of a model being paid to say things she doesn't really mean in order to get a guy off.
That said, there is something a shade uncomfortable about a guy going around wanting to belittle and dominate someone in a sexual fashion because they're black or whatever.

When a black guy asks me to insult him for being a n***r, okay. When a guy I suspect is actually white asks me to insult him for being a n***r, um...

At least a quarter of the people who are obsessed with me having a specific reaction to a black cock are actually white. If a guy asks me "have you ever had a black cock?" then I can implement my test:

"does a quarter black count?" If guy says "yes", he's a racist white dude. If guy says "no", he's a proud black man. :p I don't mind either way, it just helps me to know if he's wanting me to feed his bigotry, or trying to offset years of being told he doesn't deserve a white chick. I'm not willing to do the former, but happy to help with the latter.
 
Jupiter551 said:
mynameisbob84 said:
Nordling said:
When BDSM or D/S reach the level of racism, it's gone too far, IMHO.

There does exist a fetish for racial domination/humiliation though. If it's consensual, I guess it's okay. Plus, it's "racism" driven by fantasy and not hate - which means it's not really racism, I guess.

That said, this guy is quite possibly just a racist prick :?
I dunno man, you could potentially justify any fetish based on fucked up behaviour like that. I disagree, given that engaging with fantasies tends to encourage psychotics to act on them I think it's irresponsible to cater to fetishes like this one, pedophilia, murder etc.

The message should be no, it's not alright, and we're not going to condone it. Get help.

I would love to do a murder roleplay. I have a fantasy of getting chopped up and put in someone's freezer. But the technicalities seem a bit much.

However, I am planning on making a website that is all about murder and using special effects, and in a sexual context. I don't think it's irresponsible to do something like this; it's not as if someone who wouldn't ever kill someone is going to do so because they see fictional imagery of it. I'm sick of everyone blaming everyone else BUT the killer for their crimes. It's society, it's violent videogames, it's guns, blah blah blah. NO, THIS DOUCHEBAG IS JUST A FUCKING KILLER.

Sorry, a rant. It's also kind of like saying that consensual rape play is wrong because they might act it out in real life. That's just not how it works, and one could argue repression seems to be more damaging.

As far as consensual pedophilia; if a girl over the age of 18 wants to dress as a little girl and a man over the age of 18 wants to treat her like a little girl , even though it's not something I'd ever be interested in participating in, I can't think of a BETTER way to deal with that fetish.
 
VeronicaChaos said:
Jupiter551 said:
mynameisbob84 said:
Nordling said:
When BDSM or D/S reach the level of racism, it's gone too far, IMHO.

There does exist a fetish for racial domination/humiliation though. If it's consensual, I guess it's okay. Plus, it's "racism" driven by fantasy and not hate - which means it's not really racism, I guess.

That said, this guy is quite possibly just a racist prick :?
I dunno man, you could potentially justify any fetish based on fucked up behaviour like that. I disagree, given that engaging with fantasies tends to encourage psychotics to act on them I think it's irresponsible to cater to fetishes like this one, pedophilia, murder etc.

The message should be no, it's not alright, and we're not going to condone it. Get help.

I would love to do a murder roleplay. I have a fantasy of getting chopped up and put in someone's freezer. But the technicalities seem a bit much.

However, I am planning on making a website that is all about murder and using special effects, and in a sexual context. I don't think it's irresponsible to do something like this; it's not as if someone who wouldn't ever kill someone is going to do so because they see fictional imagery of it. I'm sick of everyone blaming everyone else BUT the killer for their crimes. It's society, it's violent videogames, it's guns, blah blah blah. NO, THIS DOUCHEBAG IS JUST A FUCKING KILLER.

Sorry, a rant. It's also kind of like saying that consensual rape play is wrong because they might act it out in real life. That's just not how it works, and one could argue repression seems to be more damaging.

As far as consensual pedophilia; if a girl over the age of 18 wants to dress as a little girl and a man over the age of 18 wants to treat her like a little girl , even though it's not something I'd ever be interested in participating in, I can't think of a BETTER way to deal with that fetish.
I'm not saying if you did that you should be BLAMED for a murder or whatever, but I think sexualising and fetishising it caters to individuals who are having or developing those fantasies. That they might be at a crossroads psychologically and having access to something that stimulates those fantasies may be a determining factor in what course of action they take.

Take a video game for example, and they do get plenty of blame from clueless people, but there would be a very distinct difference between a game like Call of Duty, packed with violence, and say a game where the player character was a serial killer and the objective was to abduct, rape and murder children without leaving evidence or getting caught...or something like that. I don't think that would even be rateable, I think it would be banned and for good reason. I sure as fuck wouldn't want to play a game like that, it's just not the same thing as other violence etc.

If a serial killer was caught and it was later found out he was logging large amount of time on that game it would be very difficult for anyone, even the games industry, to suggest there's no obvious correlation.

As for consensual rape play...not imo, because consensual rape play absolutely revolves around the clear understanding that it IS consensual and it IS play, and that's the only acceptable way for it to be. I've been with more than one woman who asked to do rape fantasies but not for one second did I believe they wanted to be actually raped. I just can't equate that to wanting to simulate murdering your lover, or for them to pretend to be a child you're abusing. It's different imo.
 
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Jupiter551 said:
VeronicaChaos said:
Jupiter551 said:
mynameisbob84 said:
Nordling said:
When BDSM or D/S reach the level of racism, it's gone too far, IMHO.

There does exist a fetish for racial domination/humiliation though. If it's consensual, I guess it's okay. Plus, it's "racism" driven by fantasy and not hate - which means it's not really racism, I guess.

That said, this guy is quite possibly just a racist prick :?
I dunno man, you could potentially justify any fetish based on fucked up behaviour like that. I disagree, given that engaging with fantasies tends to encourage psychotics to act on them I think it's irresponsible to cater to fetishes like this one, pedophilia, murder etc.

The message should be no, it's not alright, and we're not going to condone it. Get help.

I would love to do a murder roleplay. I have a fantasy of getting chopped up and put in someone's freezer. But the technicalities seem a bit much.

However, I am planning on making a website that is all about murder and using special effects, and in a sexual context. I don't think it's irresponsible to do something like this; it's not as if someone who wouldn't ever kill someone is going to do so because they see fictional imagery of it. I'm sick of everyone blaming everyone else BUT the killer for their crimes. It's society, it's violent videogames, it's guns, blah blah blah. NO, THIS DOUCHEBAG IS JUST A FUCKING KILLER.

Sorry, a rant. It's also kind of like saying that consensual rape play is wrong because they might act it out in real life. That's just not how it works, and one could argue repression seems to be more damaging.

As far as consensual pedophilia; if a girl over the age of 18 wants to dress as a little girl and a man over the age of 18 wants to treat her like a little girl , even though it's not something I'd ever be interested in participating in, I can't think of a BETTER way to deal with that fetish.
I'm not saying if you did that you should be BLAMED for a murder or whatever, but I think sexualising and fetishising it caters to individuals who are having or developing those fantasies. That they might be at a crossroads psychologically and having access to something that stimulates those fantasies may be a determining factor in what course of action they take.

Take a video game for example, and they do get plenty of blame from clueless people, but there would be a very distinct difference between a game like Call of Duty, packed with violence, and say a game where the player character was a serial killer and the objective was to abduct, rape and murder children without leaving evidence or getting caught...or something like that. I don't think that would even be rateable, I think it would be banned and for good reason. I sure as fuck wouldn't want to play a game like that, it's just not the same thing as other violence etc.

If a serial killer was caught and it was later found out he was logging large amount of time on that game it would be very difficult for anyone, even the games industry, to suggest there's no obvious correlation.

As for consensual rape play...not imo, because consensual rape play absolutely revolves around the clear understanding that it IS consensual and it IS play, and that's the only acceptable way for it to be. I've been with more than one woman who asked to do rape fantasies but not for one second did I believe they wanted to be actually raped. I just can't equate that to wanting to simulate murdering your lover, or for them to pretend to be a child you're abusing. It's different imo.
I think the line is hard to draw.

For example, what if the serial killer was already a sociopath planning on killing people, and he just played the video game because that's the kind of stuff he's in to? Correlation, yes - causation, no.

My opinion is that unless someone extremely immerses themselves in a mindset, engaging in a fantasy scenario here and there isn't going to make much of a difference. There is a huge leap between fantasy and reality, and engaging in the fantasy of the complete control and dominance surrounding murder isn't going to make you more likely to murder someone. Especially if you just watch a little fake murder porn now and then.

I engaged in rape play with Mr. Ex very often, and he has done it for years. I adamantly believe he is no closer to being a rapist now than with years of fantasy play under his belt. I enjoy fantasies about fetish slavery, and I have since childhood; I am no closer to selling myself in to white slavery now than any normal adult.

I believe if someone is already predisposed to be a rapist or killer or molester, they will probably engage in fantasy play to fuel their cravings. But I believe it would take years of immersion and a huge disconnect from reality to turn an average person in to a rapist or murderer just based on a video game or pornography. Would the availability of violent materials encourage someone who is unstable? I would believe that, but does that mean we cannot cater to the average adult because a small minority might come in to contact with unsettling materials? Based on that philosophy, I should never be allowed to perform on cam or release photos of myself, because although I am an adult, I look young, and someone who is already unstable might look at my photos and be triggered to molest children.
 
Some basic guy:"why are you doing this, you are too pretty to sell yourself".

Me:"actually I am having fun here and just so you know people "sell" themselves in every industry. If you don't agree with that, you have never held a job in your life, gone for an interview or had any types of relationships"
 
Evvie said:
I think the line is hard to draw.

For example, what if the serial killer was already a sociopath planning on killing people, and he just played the video game because that's the kind of stuff he's in to? Correlation, yes - causation, no.

My opinion is that unless someone extremely immerses themselves in a mindset, engaging in a fantasy scenario here and there isn't going to make much of a difference. There is a huge leap between fantasy and reality, and engaging in the fantasy of the complete control and dominance surrounding murder isn't going to make you more likely to murder someone. Especially if you just watch a little fake murder porn now and then.

I engaged in rape play with Mr. Ex very often, and he has done it for years. I adamantly believe he is no closer to being a rapist now than with years of fantasy play under his belt. I enjoy fantasies about fetish slavery, and I have since childhood; I am no closer to selling myself in to white slavery now than any normal adult.

I believe if someone is already predisposed to be a rapist or killer or molester, they will probably engage in fantasy play to fuel their cravings. But I believe it would take years of immersion and a huge disconnect from reality to turn an average person in to a rapist or murderer just based on a video game or pornography. Would the availability of violent materials encourage someone who is unstable? I would believe that, but does that mean we cannot cater to the average adult because a small minority might come in to contact with unsettling materials? Based on that philosophy, I should never be allowed to perform on cam or release photos of myself, because although I am an adult, I look young, and someone who is already unstable might look at my photos and be triggered to molest children.
Yeah I don't know, but see I think rape play and slavery roleplay, isn't really about the act of rape or enslavement - I believe both those scenarios are often about lack of control, or rather the illusion of not being in control. In a sexually repressed society there are all sorts of things we might feel conscious or unconscious shame for doing or enjoying - in some people that shame can be almost debilitating, in others it creates fetishes and in most of us it's barely noticeable until our boundaries are pushed. Engaging in a roleplay where we are supposedly not in control allows us to experience things we would normally feel a little hesitant to, or it makes things we'd normally do just a little spicier - because there's no shame attached: we're playing a role where we're expected to make demands (or to fulfill them, even if they're filthy) - while at the same time knowing that we're safe and only doing the kinds of things we want to with someone we're hot for (unlike, obviously, actual rape/slavery).
So anyway that's why *I* think rapeplay and the act of actually raping someone aren't related. I also don't believe an actual rapist would get the sense of power he needs from something he knows isn't real, that's just speculation though.

As for the other stuff, well I don't know that either but every serial killer etc I read about or see a documentary about or whatever seems to have a bunch of things in common, and one of them is having fantasies that get more and more extreme (because at the same time they're getting numb to them) until they end up living them out for real. Now I think you're right in that someone who isn't going to commit murder isn't going to be influenced to commit murder but the question I would raise is, is a computer game or sexual roleplay that involves raping and murdering someone going to appeal to anyone without the fantasy of actually doing it? I really doubt it.

This is essentially straying into the psychology of sociopaths and psychopaths and even the experts have relatively scarce knowledge of this stuff, which none of us are.

Take pedophilia for example though, if they made CGI kiddie porn legal, or pedophilic camgirl roleplay for that matter, do you really think it's going to stop someone who would otherwise molest a child? I don't think so. It MAY spur them on to make it real ("better" than the fantasy), or it may not, but I don't think it's going to satiate their need, and I also don't think anyone but a potential child sexual predator is going to watch it in the first place.
 
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One of my first nights on...things are going well, getting tipped nicely and having fun with the group (and myself :tongue3:) when out of nowhere this guy (I'll call "D") busts out with: "Hmmm yer pretty. I'd chain you in basement. No food or water. Take turns raping you with my daddy." Me and half my guys were like "WTF?!?" I'm usually quick on my feet, but how do you react to that? Thankfully, I didn't have to. A couple of the guys chased him off...but honestly, WTF?!?
 
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Harley69Quinn said:
One of my first nights on...things are going well, getting tipped nicely and having fun with the group (and myself :tongue3:) when out of nowhere this guy (I'll call "D") busts out with: "Hmmm yer pretty. I'd chain you in basement. No food or water. Take turns raping you with my daddy." Me and half my guys were like "WTF?!?" I'm usually quick on my feet, but how do you react to that? Thankfully, I didn't have to. A couple of the guys chased him off...but honestly, WTF?!?
Ban.
Either he was just trying to scare you (likely!) or he was serious (not so likely). Both are reasons for an immediate ban.


Me: *tweets YouTube teaser for my favorite facebook game that's about to be released for Android*
guy: ill play you when it comes out
me: That's not possible, you can only play it with your facebook account :)
guy: whats ur facebook name? Lol
 
LilyMarie said:
Me: *tweets YouTube teaser for my favorite facebook game that's about to be released for Android*
guy: ill play you when it comes out
me: That's not possible, you can only play it with your facebook account :)
guy: whats ur facebook name? Lol

Also, bb, where do you live? Lol. What's your daily routine? What time is best to come visit? Just in case you're not in, where do you keep your spare key? Lol :?
 
LilyMarie said:
Me: *tweets YouTube teaser for my favorite facebook game that's about to be released for Android*
guy: ill play you when it comes out
me: That's not possible, you can only play it with your facebook account :)
guy: whats ur facebook name? Lol
Though depending if the guy knows what you do for a living (apparently plenty have no clue) it's not SUCH an outrageous question to ask someone, except in camworld.
 
Jupiter551 said:
LilyMarie said:
Me: *tweets YouTube teaser for my favorite facebook game that's about to be released for Android*
guy: ill play you when it comes out
me: That's not possible, you can only play it with your facebook account :)
guy: whats ur facebook name? Lol
Though depending if the guy knows what you do for a living (apparently plenty have no clue) it's not SUCH an outrageous question to ask someone, except in camworld.
Even if he doesn't know that I cam (because it doesn't say 'camgirl' in my Twitter bio, and I don't have 'MFC' in my twitter name...) he'll still be able to figure out that somebody with a profile pic of herself in a bra doesn't want the I've-seen-her-in-a-bra people to become I-know-her-real-name people ;)
 
Nephilim6666: hey dear.. proove that u r real. pls show ur feet
 
musechoes: and muse thinks, id fuck that till shes speaking in tongues and her head spins around

musechoes: and the martian says "youd suck the dick of the last guy that fucked her"

This guy talks in nonsense all night long, but breaks character/the fourth wall sometimes.
 
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CarinaChateau said:
Chellelovesu said:
would you do roleplay in private?
star wars roleplay? :)
i wasn't thinking of you roleplaying laia, i prefer R2D2
who do you want me to be?
C3PO with his big golden penis?

:lol:

Ha! I'd love that. I have a R2D2 dress!


He was super sweet, haha, I didn't have anything to support a Star Wars RP, so we went Harry Potter instead :)
Snape&lily 4 life!
 
Mr11inchD: hey bb finger ass
Me: Mind your manners please, D, and use tip notes for requests.
Mr11inchD: lol I dont need maners i have an 11 inch dick
... And you can go take your impossibly large horsecock over to the door and shut it.

It's funny. I usually leave guests and basics on just so my rooms has some movement, but I turn it off as soon as either a guest or a basic does anything to annoy/disgust me

I think the longest I've ever gone without muting them is 5 minutes, and that's STILL with some asshat begging me to piss in a cup and drink it.
 
DDFeign: omg id titfuck u
DDFeign: id titfuck you
DDFeign: you like to be titfucked?
DDFeign: but whjat if i cum up onto your face when i cum?
DDFeign: is it ok?
DDFeign: what if i cum on your tits and then you lick it off your tits?
DDFeign: will u lik my cum off your tits?

The best part was how the model completely ignored him the entire time.