It's a scale thing I think. My only experience with token sites is MV Live and the number of members in a room at any one time is a lot lower than maybe somewhere like MFC or Chaturbate. If there are only 3 or 4 of you in the room and one of them is a whale then there's less social glue to keep you hanging around.
Interestingly, I just found out why the big spending guy disappeared. She was chatting with a long term regular - a totally lovely guy who visits fairly infrequently but tips her really well when he does - and the whale guy took exception to the fact that he was briefly not the centre of attention. Threw all of his toys out of the pram, left some unpleasant comments in the chat and hasn't been seen since.
Yep. Usually their own dysfunction is the end of them, one way or the other
It's not the way I expected it to go to be honest. I thought he would just spend his way to getting attention and his eventual departure would be as a result of getting bored and moving on. Just goes to show that the ego and jealousy thing runs in both directions.
I quite like MV Live as a member but it has a few "quirks".
thank god you are back. what's going on with alicia_uwu? is she still making bank?
Thank you!!! It took an entire year but I didn't take it out of the menu. Don't give up hope, ladies!!OMG, I'm happy for you!!!
I rest my case. It will get worseI have most definitely done that - If just one person is contributing, and there are no other viewers who have also been big contributors recently. Sometimes the member has already PMd me at the time saying "if you're tired and just wanna go feel free, just didn't want you to not make your token goal" or some such. It really feels nice, and that we're being treated as human and not a performing robot.
Once again, makes zero sense.
I had this very conversation last night with a guy on Chaturbate. He wants my attention, he knows I know he has the tokens to KEEP my attention but then just randomly goes and tips 1000 tokens and tells the room they need to finish the goal.
Interesting this. I also think it's nice to know who's in the room to greet people — especially regulars. But, I've read advice on a bunch of threads that for sanity sake make sure you turn off room entry notifications. I can understand if you are a model that gets hundreds or more visitors. For someone like me that has tens of visitors, rarely breaking 100, it's nice to see when your regulars are coming and going.
I am on the edge of this meltdown with 2 regulars — a dark blue and dark purple. They are spending money somewhere but not with me. To maintain these colors you have to have tipped x amount in the past 2 weeks. These 2 guys that visit me almost every show PM me their fantasies and try to direct me but never tip. I try to be subtle and tease them into tipping, but now I'm at the point of laying into them to tip or GTFO and banning them. As someone that's worked retail a lot, it's hard to do that.
I took a survey of users and they all said they'd rather say hi to me first. They want to "lurk" and "read the room" first.It also makes me wonder if MVLive members assume that us models are ignoring them.
I know that some members won't say a word to the model until she's said hi first (Some members of this forum have also said that they want models to greet them first). So this is another reason that it'd be cool if MLive had a better system. I'd made the suggestion to MV a long time ago, and I imagine that other models have too. On other sites we get enjoyment from seeing familiar names enter the room. Think of the show Cheers when Norm Peterson enters the bar, and everyone shouts "NORM!" in unison.
*I'm actually watching the final episode of Cheers right now on Peacock as I type this...
We are predictable, aren't we? I can be a pig too, I admit. But I really do care about my model friend, and truly appreciate her.
You just summarised men lol!
