"The Idiot and the Camgirl"

[Zoomer]

Amber linked from another topic, and it reminded me of the many many many times i nearly posted in this thread - but never did

So here goes

I think I understand how feelings develop, and also why. The way I thought of it is:

To the girls it is work. The "relationships" that form are kinda like work friendships. Guys aren't co-workers, but it is the environment you are in (work). You can have awesome friends at work... but do you talk to them when you leave work? When you quit? So parallel to my working life - I've not kept in contact with anyone I've worked with, despite at the time being awesome friends whilst at work. So even huge amounts of chatting can be nothing more than "water cooler talk" when work is a bit slack. Still don't talk to them outside of work though...

The guys, they come to MFC for fun - a social (certainly if they stick and chat). Just as you do when you spend a lot of time with people in a social environment, you make friendships - heck, you may even end up liking someone enough to genuinely care for them. Do you intend to do this? Friendships naturally form via interaction, especially extended interaction which is enjoyable

So I don't think anyone comes to MFC intending to pick a girl up, or to find love at all - it isn't viewed as a dating site by anyone. But I can understand how feelings can develop over extended interaction for some guys when they view it in a social perspective! They don't think of it as the ladies work, and therefore the pure social interaction part takes over...
Is it intentional? no. Can they help it? Can anyone? I don't believe anyone can control their feelings either - so if it happens, it happens. That fact it does happen doesn't mean they come looking for love though

So I can understand how it happens. However, losing rationality or perspective is less understandable. Yes, I can get people falling for others - fact of life, don't ever intend it, occurs naturally. However, the guy should remember "the chances that this is reciprocal is, for all intents and purposes, zero - due to the place we are at" - so I am surprised that guys are upset/or expect feelings to be reciprocated! That, at least, should be very simple to reason...

 

[Jupiter551]

Good point, I think you nailed it about the co-worker dynamic.

 

[Bocefish]

DUH

 

[Sevrin]

With regard to the comparison between MFC and a workplace, it's worth noting that a lot of people meet their SO at work, and that a lot of people meet those they have short-term affairs with at work.

 

[Zoomer]

With regard to the comparison between MFC and a workplace, it's worth noting that a lot of people meet their SO at work, and that a lot of people meet those they have short-term affairs with at work.

Very true. A work environment does not preclude the ability to form such a relationship either :thumbleft:

Honestly I love the fact we can't really control feelings, and you can find love when you're not looking for it. It makes life exciting and interesting
"Falling in love" as always is fine imo, just as long as guys are considerate of the lady, realistic about the situation and don't go all weird if it isn't reciprocal!

After all, life would be dull if we could turn on/off feelings with the flick of the switch

If they honestly come searching for love from a cam model though, then I think they need their head examining :lol: :lol: If it happens whilst they are there, then oh well

 

[schlmoe]

Amber linked from another topic, and it reminded me of the many many many times i nearly posted in this thread - but never did

So here goes

I think I understand how feelings develop, and also why. The way I thought of it is:

To the girls it is work. The "relationships" that form are kinda like work friendships. Guys aren't co-workers, but it is the environment you are in (work). You can have awesome friends at work... but do you talk to them when you leave work? When you quit? So parallel to my working life - I've not kept in contact with anyone I've worked with, despite at the time being awesome friends whilst at work. So even huge amounts of chatting can be nothing more than "water cooler talk" when work is a bit slack. Still don't talk to them outside of work though...

I guess there are exceptions to every rule...I have made several friends at work over the years, and despite job/life changes, I am still very close to quite a few of them. The usual stuff...going out for after work drinks to talking during "off work hours"...even ("OMG") having dinner at each other's homes. Even more exceptional, for the last 7-8 years I have worked in a "virtual office" (telecommuter). I can count at least three "real" friends (and several more friendly acquaintances) that I have made in that arena. I could go on, but you get the idea...

Back to OP/topic: I'll reiterate what most have said: MFC is not the place to come to find a GF. If it turns out that you gain a new "internet buddy", great! But be aware that even that will most probably be fleeting or ephemeral...such is the way of the internet. {of course there could be exceptions to this rule...lol}

 

[Traditio]

No girl" plans" to fall in love with Justin Bieber. It happens and lead nowhere... Same for MFC models. Members should be realistic about the chances... But dreaming and fantasizing is maybe the best part of life.

 

[Jupiter551]

No girl" plans" to fall in love with Justin Bieber... But dreaming and fantasizing is maybe the best part of life.

Dreaming and fantasizing about Justin Bieber is the best part of life? bscene-hanged:

 

[Traditio]

No girl" plans" to fall in love with Justin Bieber... But dreaming and fantasizing is maybe the best part of life.

Dreaming and fantasizing about Justin Bieber is the best part of life? bscene-hanged:

hmmm - if you read that in my sentence then maybe your inner self is trying to tell you something...

 

[Anna_Swallows]

I might come off a bit rude, so I do apologize. But I do have to say that being on the model side I am SICK AND TIRED of the wanting to MEET bs. We are cam girls, there is a reason that we do this in the safety of our own homes, behind closed doors in front of a computer. Do you realize that we have our own private lives that we live off cam, people in our home town that we have as friends? When I am on cam I am entertaining, it is my full time JOB. yes it is an awesome job, but when that computer and cam are off, Im enjoying my private time without being watched by 100's of guys. speaking of, what makes you think that you are any more entitled to meet her than anyone else. She is smart for keeping you at bay... HELLO... why on earth would anyone meet any guy they met on a site that pays girls for private shows with toys and such. I know I for one am not trying to end up in a ditch dead. I dont know why your guys cant get it through your heads that we dont want or care to meet you, really... its not rude, its just blunt and honest. yes you may worship the ground i walk on when im on cam and thats great, and im all yours for that time, but enough with the meeting shit because quite frankly its way too invasive and makes us feel uncomfortable. If i had any interest in meeting a guy off the internet it sure as hell wouldn't be one who's seen me naked or watched me toy myself on a regular basis... seriously think about it. It creeps us out and we start buying guns and shit!

I totally agree and couldn't have said it better myself. I would say that MOST, not all, camgirls don't want to meet up with their customers. This is our JOB, period. So tired of guys wanting to meet, the answer is NO and will always be NO.

 

[LadyLuna]

Quite honestly, the answer to "Can we meet" is always no. Because any guy who asks to meet me is automatically suspect. If that offends anyone, sorry, but you have no idea the lengths some stalkers will go to in order to win their target's trust before springing the trap. So even if I've known you for years, the minute you ask to meet me, a warning bell goes off.

(And if there are exceptions, as soon as I say them they will cease to be exceptions cause then they might just have read what I've written.)

 

[MadisonLeigh]

Well said, Luna.

If a model wants to meet you, she will let you know. If a member asks to meet me, even if he seems like a nice guy, that's a huge red flag. Even if I was willing to meet up with members (which I'm not), I wouldn't meet up with every guy who asked - there would have to be a lot of trust involved and it would have to be something that I initiated.

 

[Anna_Swallows]

With regard to the comparison between MFC and a workplace, it's worth noting that a lot of people meet their SO at work, and that a lot of people meet those they have short-term affairs with at work.

Comparing MFC and a regular workplace for meeting your SO or to have short-term affairs is not an accurate comparison. I have met alot of past guys that I dated in a regular work place but NONE on MFC. Here is the difference....first, at a regular work place, I am fully clothed, we don't start out discussing anything of a sexual nature, I get to "see" them everyday, get to know them, some of their personal life, interests, etc and you can move forward from there. Meeting someone on MFC for dating is NOTHING like that. While it is my "workplace", I would say myself and MOST models are not even open to the possibility to date someone from MFC or any other cam site. When trying to meet someone on a cam site, you bypass a lot of things and they see you naked from the get go and probably playing with some toys. Its a sexual environment right away. And most likely not everything being said between you two is truthful since this is a cam site. I will date a guy that I work with from the mall or other regular workplace before I even consider dating a customer from my room.

 

[Jupiter551]

I might come off a bit rude, so I do apologize. But I do have to say that being on the model side I am SICK AND TIRED of the wanting to MEET bs. We are cam girls, there is a reason that we do this in the safety of our own homes, behind closed doors in front of a computer. Do you realize that we have our own private lives that we live off cam, people in our home town that we have as friends? When I am on cam I am entertaining, it is my full time JOB. yes it is an awesome job, but when that computer and cam are off, Im enjoying my private time without being watched by 100's of guys. speaking of, what makes you think that you are any more entitled to meet her than anyone else. She is smart for keeping you at bay... HELLO... why on earth would anyone meet any guy they met on a site that pays girls for private shows with toys and such. I know I for one am not trying to end up in a ditch dead. I dont know why your guys cant get it through your heads that we dont want or care to meet you, really... its not rude, its just blunt and honest. yes you may worship the ground i walk on when im on cam and thats great, and im all yours for that time, but enough with the meeting shit because quite frankly its way too invasive and makes us feel uncomfortable. If i had any interest in meeting a guy off the internet it sure as hell wouldn't be one who's seen me naked or watched me toy myself on a regular basis... seriously think about it. It creeps us out and we start buying guns and shit!

I totally agree and couldn't have said it better myself. I would say that MOST, not all, camgirls don't want to meet up with their customers. This is our JOB, period. So tired of guys wanting to meet, the answer is NO and will always be NO.

I sympathize and agree with what alexa7 said, but not the abrasive, self-important attitude of how she said it.

She needs to get over herself, it's really sad that she comes off as thinking she's so much better than her customers are.

 

[Anna_Swallows]

I might come off a bit rude, so I do apologize. But I do have to say that being on the model side I am SICK AND TIRED of the wanting to MEET bs. We are cam girls, there is a reason that we do this in the safety of our own homes, behind closed doors in front of a computer. Do you realize that we have our own private lives that we live off cam, people in our home town that we have as friends? When I am on cam I am entertaining, it is my full time JOB. yes it is an awesome job, but when that computer and cam are off, Im enjoying my private time without being watched by 100's of guys. speaking of, what makes you think that you are any more entitled to meet her than anyone else. She is smart for keeping you at bay... HELLO... why on earth would anyone meet any guy they met on a site that pays girls for private shows with toys and such. I know I for one am not trying to end up in a ditch dead. I dont know why your guys cant get it through your heads that we dont want or care to meet you, really... its not rude, its just blunt and honest. yes you may worship the ground i walk on when im on cam and thats great, and im all yours for that time, but enough with the meeting shit because quite frankly its way too invasive and makes us feel uncomfortable. If i had any interest in meeting a guy off the internet it sure as hell wouldn't be one who's seen me naked or watched me toy myself on a regular basis... seriously think about it. It creeps us out and we start buying guns and shit!

I totally agree and couldn't have said it better myself. I would say that MOST, not all, camgirls don't want to meet up with their customers. This is our JOB, period. So tired of guys wanting to meet, the answer is NO and will always be NO.

I sympathize and agree with what alexa7 said, but not the abrasive, self-important attitude of how she said it.

She needs to get over herself, it's really sad that she comes off as thinking she's so much better than her customers are.

Jupiter,

If you heard this on a daily basis from customers, everyday you cam, throughout the WHOLE day, you would probably feel the same way. I love the way she said it and agree with her. A customer or someone who DOESNT cam for their work most likely is not going to understand this. I am not so full of myself but I don't want guys thinking they can meet me, have sex with me or think they can have any personal info about me. Enjoy us cam models for the time we are on cam, but after that.....I want my time to be my own.
Just for the simple fact of this.....we meet these guys on a cam site where they are jerking off to us taking off our clothes and they are thinking all this explicit sexual things they want to do with us. Most likely while we models are "doing our thing", we are thinking "I hope I am going to make enough today to pay the rent, light bill, car payment....etc..." So why in the heck would we even entertain the idea of meeting a man off this site, bringing them into our personal area where most of us have kids, maybe a bf or husband. Its NOT safe for us, our family, friends, etc. I get so tired of guys thinking that since we are on this site trying to make money that we MIGHT actually want to meet a guy on here. :twocents-02cents:

 

[Traditio]

HELLO... why on earth would anyone meet any guy they met on a site that pays girls for private shows with toys and such.

we meet these guys on a cam site where they are jerking off to us taking off our clothes and they are thinking all this explicit sexual things they want to do with us.

The "not want to meet" part comes over loud and clear. I understand and respect all those arguments about that it is a job, that it is not safe etc. etc.
What disturbs me is the tone that says "guys who jerks to models on cam are freaks and we would never consider such a guy because he is a pervert". At least that is how the aggressive wording comes over to me.
It sounds a bit like looking down on the people who finance your job.

 

[Anna_Swallows]

HELLO... why on earth would anyone meet any guy they met on a site that pays girls for private shows with toys and such.

we meet these guys on a cam site where they are jerking off to us taking off our clothes and they are thinking all this explicit sexual things they want to do with us.

The "not want to meet" part comes over loud and clear. I understand and respect all those arguments about that it is a job, that it is not safe etc. etc.
What disturbs me is the tone that says "guys who jerks to models on cam are freaks and we would never consider such a guy because he is a pervert". At least that is how the aggressive wording comes over to me.
It sounds a bit like looking down on the people who finance your job.

Interesting....considering I don't see where it says "guys who jerks to models on cam are freaks and we would never consider such a guy because he is a pervert" in my post whatsoever. I am something of a pervert myself. I am just saying I won't ever go out with a guy that I "met cyberly" from a cam site that i am working.

 

[Traditio]

Interesting....considering I don't see where it says "guys who jerks to models on cam are freaks and we would never consider such a guy because he is a pervert" in my post whatsoever. I am something of a pervert myself. I am just saying I won't ever go out with a guy that I "met cyberly" from a cam site that i am working.

As i said that is what i read out of it and not something that stands in clear words in there.
I may be wrong. As non-english i misinterpret from time to time... apologies if i misjudged your words.

 

[Anna_Swallows]

And my post wasn't about ALL guys, its meant for the ones that think we will meet up with them. There happen to be alot of very nice, sane guys that come on the sites, but for the ones that aren't....well, thats who I am referring to.

 

[Anna_Swallows]

This thread is a good one and it really shows how the mindset of a camgirl and that of the guy is.

One one hand, you have the camgirl telling you that this is her job and most of them don't want to meet up whether on purpose or by accident. They want their privacy when offline, some won't even tell their real name no matter how much the guy tips or how long they have been their "regular".

On the other hand, (and I am generalizing what I have picked up from this thread overall), you have some guys saying that caming is like any other job and the camgirl could possibly find a guy on here. The guy would say he is different from the rest of them and he is ok to go out with.

My question for the guy would be, would you want your daughter to go out with a guy she met off MFC. And if you say that your daughter would never be on there to begin with, I will tell u that MY dad has no idea I am on there.

I know I will probably get some backlash for coming off like a bitch, but its really late and I am tired so I really don't care. I happen to be blunt and straightforward anyways. I just find the mindset between "the idiot and the camgirl" interesting.

 

[Jupiter551]

I sympathize and agree with what alexa7 said, but not the abrasive, self-important attitude of how she said it.

She needs to get over herself, it's really sad that she comes off as thinking she's so much better than her customers are.

Jupiter,

If you heard this on a daily basis from customers, everyday you cam, throughout the WHOLE day, you would probably feel the same way. I love the way she said it and agree with her. A customer or someone who DOESNT cam for their work most likely is not going to understand this. I am not so full of myself but I don't want guys thinking they can meet me, have sex with me or think they can have any personal info about me. Enjoy us cam models for the time we are on cam, but after that.....I want my time to be my own.
Just for the simple fact of this.....we meet these guys on a cam site where they are jerking off to us taking off our clothes and they are thinking all this explicit sexual things they want to do with us. Most likely while we models are "doing our thing", we are thinking "I hope I am going to make enough today to pay the rent, light bill, car payment....etc..." So why in the heck would we even entertain the idea of meeting a man off this site, bringing them into our personal area where most of us have kids, maybe a bf or husband. Its NOT safe for us, our family, friends, etc. I get so tired of guys thinking that since we are on this site trying to make money that we MIGHT actually want to meet a guy on here. :twocents-02cents:

Sure, that's fine, guys shouldn't expect to meet camgirls nor should they ask to. I do have an issue with statements like this though:

She is smart for keeping you at bay... HELLO... why on earth would anyone meet any guy they met on a site that pays girls for private shows with toys and such. I know I for one am not trying to end up in a ditch dead.

I mean, no shit right, but it's kind of the pot calling the kettle black isn't it? Sure you'll get some guys who want to meet you, you also get some guys who want you to shove toy cars up your ass and pretend you're a giant robot or some shit, yeah there are freaks out there...but saying "why would anyone meet any guy" that watches MFC is just flat out fucking insulting.

So is the last part, implying guys on MFC are any more likely to stalk and kill you than people anywhere else.

Hey, you know how when you're not on cam you're a regular person? Well for the most part when us guys aren't watching you cam, so are we. We have families, jobs, friends, girlfriends and wives, too.

I mean shit, if you guys want to generalise and talk about how you'd never consider dating a guy who uses MFC that's kinda the pot calling the kettle black isn't it? You think most guys want to introduce their families to a chick who makes a living dildoing her snatch in front of thousands of strangers?

I mean hell, you guys can pigeonhole members as creepy perverted scum all you like, but if you want to talk about aberrant sexual behaviour you guys would be higher on the list than most of us. Most people would consider masturbating in front of thousands of strangers more sexually deviant than guys masturbating to naked chicks over the internet.

:twocents-02cents:

My question for the guy would be, would you want your daughter to go out with a guy she met off MFC. And if you say that your daughter would never be on there to begin with, I will tell u that MY dad has no idea I am on there.

Well my counter-question is, would you want your son to go out with a chick he met working on MFC? And are you saying MFC is worse than porn? Or do you just not realise all guys watch porn? And if it's "worse" than other porn, how does that reflect on you as a service provider?

BTW, I don't agree that MFC models are sexually deviant, not worthy of introducing as prospective spouses or whatever...I'm just trying to show you what the argument is from another perspective. People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.

 

[Anna_Swallows]

I sympathize and agree with what alexa7 said, but not the abrasive, self-important attitude of how she said it.

She needs to get over herself, it's really sad that she comes off as thinking she's so much better than her customers are.

Jupiter,

If you heard this on a daily basis from customers, everyday you cam, throughout the WHOLE day, you would probably feel the same way. I love the way she said it and agree with her. A customer or someone who DOESNT cam for their work most likely is not going to understand this. I am not so full of myself but I don't want guys thinking they can meet me, have sex with me or think they can have any personal info about me. Enjoy us cam models for the time we are on cam, but after that.....I want my time to be my own.
Just for the simple fact of this.....we meet these guys on a cam site where they are jerking off to us taking off our clothes and they are thinking all this explicit sexual things they want to do with us. Most likely while we models are "doing our thing", we are thinking "I hope I am going to make enough today to pay the rent, light bill, car payment....etc..." So why in the heck would we even entertain the idea of meeting a man off this site, bringing them into our personal area where most of us have kids, maybe a bf or husband. Its NOT safe for us, our family, friends, etc. I get so tired of guys thinking that since we are on this site trying to make money that we MIGHT actually want to meet a guy on here. :twocents-02cents:

Sure, that's fine, guys shouldn't expect to meet camgirls nor should they ask to. I do have an issue with statements like this though:

She is smart for keeping you at bay... HELLO... why on earth would anyone meet any guy they met on a site that pays girls for private shows with toys and such. I know I for one am not trying to end up in a ditch dead.

I mean shit, if you guys want to generalise and talk about how you'd never consider dating a guy who uses MFC that's kinda the pot calling the kettle black isn't it? You think most guys want to introduce their families to a chick who makes a living dildoing her snatch in front of thousands of strangers?




LOL....I had to laugh at your comment about dildoing her snatch.....

You misread my post obviously. I NEVER said not to go out with a guy that watches MFC....hell, probably one of my ex's goes on MFC or another similar site. I said I wouldn't go out with one of my regulars from my room or someone I MET FROM THE SITE. I watch some porn and go on MFC and Stream to watch other models. The point I think being missed is going out with someone from the camgirls room. Guys shouldn't ask that nor expect that we want to go out if thats where we "met" you.

 

[Jupiter551]

I didn't misread your post, I was pointing out that alexa7 said

HELLO... why on earth would anyone meet any guy they met on a site that pays girls for private shows with toys and such.

That's why I said she thinks she's better than her customers. She looks down on guys for watching girls with toys and such...while she's one of the girls with toys.

It's not just arrogant, it's fucking stupid.

 

[Traditio]

My question for the guy would be, would you want your daughter to go out with a guy she met off MFC. And if you say that your daughter would never be on there to begin with, I will tell u that MY dad has no idea I am on there.

To answer that question: No I am not happy for my daughter to meet guys that she has only met on the internet before. It is quite unrelevant if she met them on mfc or in any other chat room.
And yes - i am a hypocrite here because i met my wife that way - we first talked on a discussion board in old fido-net. (before the internet was en vogue.) But out of this experience i know that it is possible to get friends over the internet.
I just wonder if it is a big difference between mfc and e.g. WorldOfWarcraft were ppl meet and get friends over time.

 

[Sevrin]

I just wonder if it is a big difference between mfc and e.g. WorldOfWarcraft were ppl meet and get friends over time.

You can find creeps anywhere and you can find your mate anywhere, even on the net. At least two couples got married over the past year or so after meeting online in my gaming guild, and we've had to boot at least one guy I can think of after receiving complaints about him being creepy and overly familiar with female members.

The thing about MFC is that relationships between models and members start out kind of backwards, going from often intensely and anonymously sexual in the beginning to getting to know things about each other's everyday lives later on. That's not how "normal" relationships develop and it's the reason why many models feel uncomfortable about meeting guys they meet on a site like that, even if they are free and possibly looking for a mate. Then again, there's nothing terribly "normal" about anything that goes on at a site like MFC.

 

[Lydia_Deetz]

I met my husband on the internet on dating site. We talked for 7 months before I ever met him face to face. He also has been known to frequent MFC and that is how I got my start camming.

My husband is a total pervert and I love him. :-D

All that being said I would not meet anyone from MFC because I like keeping my two lives separate.

Yes there are creeps on MFC just like there are creeps walking down my street right now. I don't judge every guy on MFC that way though. I think most members especially the ones I have gotten to know on this forum are stand up dudes.

I think the girls are not so eloquently trying to say the creepy dudes (not you guys) are so relentless and annoying that they ruin it for the nice guys.

Personally if I happened to meet Jup at the grocery, and he told me who he was I wouldn't immediatley think he was going to hack me into little pieces :roll:

But if I met the guy who said he wanted to cut my guts open and fuck my organs at the grocery I would have a different reaction :lol:

 

[Jupiter551]

Thankyou Lydia for giving me the benefit of the doubt about not hacking you to pieces :lovestory:

 

[Zoomer]

But if I met the guy who said he wanted to cut my guts open and fuck my organs at the grocery I would have a different reaction :lol:

I don't think that reaction would be limited to only those who work as cam girls If anyone said that to anyone...

My question for the guy would be, would you want your daughter to go out with a guy she met off MFC. And if you say that your daughter would never be on there to begin with, I will tell u that MY dad has no idea I am on there.

You insinuate we're all fucking psychos, and that the only reason we would ever want to really meet is for sex Honestly, I wouldn't want my daughter meeting any guy alone she hasn't known or been introduced to via friends etc. So it all comes down to trust and judgement. I'd impart advice about meeting people - public places, day time, don't take lifts.

However, beyond a shadow of a doubt - the most glaringly obvious and overlooked point is this. TAKE A FRIEND(S). There is no reason not to turn up un-chaperoned, unless of course you want to have sex with them :lol: :lol: I would advise her to take many friends. If he isn't capable of getting on with them, or doesn't want to meet them - then it is clear what his interest is.

Any person who'd say "no" to meeting with you and your friends is probably not someone you'd want to meet alone If you wouldn't want to meet with friends, then there is zero chance you'd want to be friends anyway. As for a model not wanting to meet a guy, even if she had her friends - same but slightly different. You've zero interest in being friends with anyone from MFC - so back to that old work analogy! Fine and social whilst at work, but out of it... you just don't want to know Nothing wrong with that.

Honestly - common sense, good use of judgement, honesty and trust - it is entirely safe to meet people who you are unsure/nervous about meeting. If you don't want to meet, it's easy - you don't want to meet. As soon as a guy asks to meet you wouldn't want to meet them? It's simple, you just plain don't want to be friends with them It's the work place analogy. You don't have to make out they are creeps, just be honest - you really don't care about them outside of work. It's FINE!

 

[Anna_Swallows]

As a cam girl, this is my JOB. NO, I am not trying to make friends, let people know what I do for a living and you probably will NEVER run into me EVER since I have my state blocked. I would say plenty of models block the state they live in for privacy issues.

I will clear this up....
I DON'T HAVE AN ISSUE MEETING SOMEONE VIA INTERNET, I AM ON SEVERAL DATING SITES AND VERY MUCH SINGLE.
that being said.....I will NOT look for or meet up with someone that I chat with on MFC or Stream...not going to happen. And don't even say "whats the difference, I met my sign. other on the internet" Its alot different. I am not trying to meet friends in person or start any relationship based off MFC or Stream where they have seen me naked, with dildos, etc first.....where is it going to lead? If I want to meet friends or someone to date, I will go on Match or something....and start from there.

I also wouldn't suggest the guys to be trying to "date" women off MFC or other similar sites for the same reasons (if thats where you originally met them). Not for a relationship anyways. Best to keep it separate.

You want friends or to date....send me a pm and I will give you a list of dating or friendship sites.....You want to just find someone for sex....try Ashleymadison.com or Adultfriendfinder......you want to watch (and tip) women that are naked, with toys, chatting online, having fun....go to MFC or other adult webcam site.

 

[Jupiter551]

As a cam girl, this is my JOB. NO, I am not trying to make friends, let people know what I do for a living and you probably will NEVER run into me EVER since I have my state blocked. I would say plenty of models block the state they live in for privacy issues.

I will clear this up....
I DON'T HAVE AN ISSUE MEETING SOMEONE VIA INTERNET, I AM ON SEVERAL DATING SITES AND VERY MUCH SINGLE.
that being said.....I will NOT look for or meet up with someone that I chat with on MFC or Stream...not going to happen. And don't even say "whats the difference, I met my sign. other on the internet" Its alot different. I am not trying to meet friends in person or start any relationship based off MFC or Stream where they have seen me naked, with dildos, etc first.....where is it going to lead? If I want to meet friends or someone to date, I will go on Match or something....and start from there.

I also wouldn't suggest the guys to be trying to "date" women off MFC or other similar sites for the same reasons (if thats where you originally met them). Not for a relationship anyways. Best to keep it separate.

You want friends or to date....send me a pm and I will give you a list of dating or friendship sites.....You want to just find someone for sex....try Ashleymadison.com or Adultfriendfinder......you want to watch (and tip) women that are naked, with toys, chatting online, having fun....go to MFC or other adult webcam site.

Cool so you're on match.com :dance: