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The way I look at it, cam girls are a fantasy. The selection and variety of girls you can find on MFC is pretty wide. Its inevitable you will find someone you click with. This doesn't necessarily mean you will or should meet in real life. If a real-life relationship is what you expect by visiting a cam site, you are just arming yourself for a world of hurt. Would you go to a strip club expecting a relationship? I highly doubt you would.

I won't rule out the fact that it can happen, hell anything could happen, and I'm sure it has. Just don't get your hopes up or get upset if nothing does happen. I'm not going to pressure her, but I'll continue to ask and we both agree it won't go further than the Internet can offer. If you are really after a relationship, use a dating site. If you are after a hookup, try something like fling.com

Hell, I kind of wish it would happen for me and a particular cam girl. I know nothing is going to happen and I'm fine with that. IMO, this is the attitude you need to take in a girl's room.
 
Beingreal said:
I'm sorry,but after reading all these posts it's amazing how people forget how love,building friendships,etc works.It's a fact more and more people are meeting online(Safely!!!).

I know a friend who dated a cam girl and there is even a book on dating cam girls lol.

There is a BOOK on dating camgirls? Colour me interested!

Chapter 1: Why is everything in her house covered in babyoil?
 
I'd honestly love to know what gives any of you the sense of entitlement that you think we will give you anything more than seeing our pretty faces on the computer screen. We do not owe you to meet, a date or anything. If we say NO, its NO, bottom line. Feel privileged we give you the time of day and fulfill your needs for the time you have us, be grateful for that. You have no idea what we are like in our private lives, although we may stay true to ourselves on cam, and our personality is genuinely ours, do not disregard that we are here working. When many of us quit for the night we kiss our babies foreheads and snuggle up next to our hubbies. good for you if you know someone that dated a cam girl... wanna cookie? we are entertaining a fantasy and out of having hundreds of people in our rooms we chose to talk to you and make you feel special... take it for what it is. when a model gives you an inch do not take a mile, because that mile will take you right to banned camp.
 
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AlexLady said:
There's a big difference from meeting someone from the internet, and meeting a camwhore. Also, see how I just put a space after my punctuation? You should try it, it's fun.


MFC IS NOT A DATING SITE! IF YOU WANT A DATE GO TO THE GIRLS WHO ARE OFFERING DATES FOR TOKENS/MONEY OR WIN A DATE CONTESTS IF THAT IS WHAT YOU SO DESPERATELY WANT!!!!!!!!!
 
Beingreal said:
I'm sorry,but after reading all these posts it's amazing how people forget how love,building friendships,etc works.It's a fact more and more people are meeting online(Safely!!!).
You win at missing the biggest point here...

DO NOT GO TO A CAMSITE TO MEET A GIRL!

Go to a camsite to be entertained by her digital presence. That's it.
 
AmberCutie said:
Beingreal said:
I'm sorry,but after reading all these posts it's amazing how people forget how love,building friendships,etc works.It's a fact more and more people are meeting online(Safely!!!).
You win at missing the biggest point here...

DO NOT GO TO A CAMSITE TO MEET A GIRL!

Go to a camsite to be entertained by her digital presence. That's it.


EXACTLY! Do not start frequenting a cam girl thinking you will date them!
 
I think also it was Kiley made the point that asking a camgirl for a date or to meet is (if you're one of her regs) really inconsiderate, cos it puts her in a fucked up position of having to reject perhaps a good customer of hers - whose presence she might enjoy in her room - and still try to be gracious about it, when really you had no right to ask.

It's NOT the same as chatting up a chick in a store and asking her on a date, because her job isn't to make you feel special and be sexy for you - though she is still probably somewhat obliged to be polite about rejecting you so it's probably an uncomfortable situation.

Just forget about dating a camgirl. Period.

Don't make it a fantasy, don't even consider it - put it off your radar and do everyone including yourself a favour.

If you think you have "feelings" for a camgirl I think you need to stop visiting her for a while, and/or stop watching cams for a while - go do something else cos you're enjoying this in an unhealthy way
 
LovelyLemon said:
There is a BOOK on dating camgirls? Colour me interested!

Chapter 1: Why is everything in her house covered in babyoil?

I really want someone to post something relating to this book it would be highly lulz-worthy, 7 tokens says it's an e-book
 
Jupiter551 said:
LovelyLemon said:
There is a BOOK on dating camgirls? Colour me interested!

Chapter 1: Why is everything in her house covered in babyoil?

I really want someone to post something relating to this book it would be highly lulz-worthy, 7 tokens says it's an e-book


haha exaaaaaaaactly, I thought that perhaps someone had already found the perfect publisher for my memoirs, "Zen and the Art of Fisting".
 
LovelyLemon said:
Jupiter551 said:
LovelyLemon said:
There is a BOOK on dating camgirls? Colour me interested!

Chapter 1: Why is everything in her house covered in babyoil?

I really want someone to post something relating to this book it would be highly lulz-worthy, 7 tokens says it's an e-book


haha exaaaaaaaactly, I thought that perhaps someone had already found the perfect publisher for my memoirs, "Zen and the Art of Fisting".

I did a google search, nothing :(

I did find an article about how to find your perfect Romanian bride though, here's a short excerpt explaining how finding the right woman is umm, an allotment of cake:
To acquisition Romanian girls for dating and/or relationship who alive in America is a allotment of cake.
http://www.findfreearticles.co.uk/eastern-dating/romanian-girls-for-dating-marriage-in-usa/
 
my 2 cents, i remember reading about the craigslist killer.....it would be a real long shot to meet me in person. with that said, i met my best friend/roommate online but that took a lot of talking and meeting with other friends in a very very very public place for us to meet. it depends on the camgirl and a bunch of other factors.
 
blackxrose said:
my 2 cents, i remember reading about the craigslist killer.....it would be a real long shot to meet me in person. with that said, i met my best friend/roommate online but that took a lot of talking and meeting with other friends in a very very very public place for us to meet. it depends on the camgirl and a bunch of other factors.
But did you meet your best friend/roommate on a camsite?
 
Jupiter551 said:
LovelyLemon said:
There is a BOOK on dating camgirls? Colour me interested!

Chapter 1: Why is everything in her house covered in babyoil?

I really want someone to post something relating to this book it would be highly lulz-worthy, 7 tokens says it's an e-book

There is a whole separate thread about dating a cam model http://www.ambercutie.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=15&t=117&hilit=Cash81

A member here tried to write his own book. :lol:

Cash81 said:
Hello all:

I was informed about this website, esp. this thread, by Caireen after having a conversation with her regarding model/chatter relationships just the other day (I’ve forgotten if it was Tuesday or Wednesday). At any rate, I find everyone’s input intriguing (some reflective more than others) due to the fact that I’ve been apart of the porn chat world for… how many years has it been now? Oh, somewhere near a good 14+ yrs. FUCK! :think: This is gonna make me look like a sexually-addictive troll! Ah, well -- I am who I am! *beaming, unashamed wide-eyed grin* Note: I didn’t adhere to xxx-website rules in the mid ‘90s as I started chatting on them when I was 16, so that fact should be counted in my favor. *giggling and blushing from embarrassed excitement as I remember the good old days of dial-up internet-provided porn, and being a bad boy who should have been punished for visiting the sites using school computers* Anywho…hehe…I, too, would like to contribute my two cents and bump this thread for refreshing contributions.

In order to establish my “credibility,” for lack of a better term, on the subject, allow me to provide you all with some personal chatting history and dating experience forged during said history. All of my exes I met thru chat sites; and yes, all three were modeling when I first met them. Maybe it was naiveté on their parts, personal conduct on my part, the way I chatted with them whenever I was in their room, DEFINITELY! some luck in my favor, or just the fact that most women seem to like the sound of my voice (and hearing from them that I’m cute soon afterwards surely provides a confidence boost, too) -- I’m not sure as I’d never asked any of them what it was that made them choose to allow me to pursue them over the next chatter. But being in a position where my only amorous relationships have been with the aid of porn chat sites, I like to think that I am knowledgeable -- definitely not skilled, given the first of my two signature quotes below applies to me thru & thru….unfortunately :-( Now, you’re probably wondering if I’m some sort of recluse or overly-shy geek who is sexually repressed. I am and I’m not. Yes, I was a recluse, but not because I chose to be but rather because it was my only option when not being talked to outside of academic or business environments as a teenager & in my early- & mid-twenties. And, yes I am shy and sexually repressed (in its action form), but only because I have always been shy -- since being a toddler, I’m told -- and the repression due to the reclusion. However, all of these variables both drove and allowed me to study the common traits and similarities of women regarding sex in all its forms and what they like to receive in & from a sexual experience. My first relationship began and ended after I received some invaluable advice from an older and more seasoned chatter at the time – some of you may have even chatted with him yourself if you’ve been chatting for a long time, EvilBastard (referred top as “EB,” hereafter). After receiving his advice, which I’ll share in-part later in this post, forever changed the way I communicate with models, specifically, but women as a whole. However, please note now that it is advice partially contradicting what AmberCutie & the other models claim would be their requirements for pursuing a relationship with a chatter; but, that too, I intend to discuss. Lastly, I’m willing to share these tips & tricks which used to be kept under a lead tongue having been revealed to only one other person by me, because my last relationship, which ended on less than appealing or amicable terms, I have been jaded and resistant towards starting and pursuing any type of affectionate relationship that would move offlline. So, chatters: enjoy and continue with an attitude of inquisitive wonder; models: please carry on with a pov of questioning analysis and doubtful confirmation, but please resist the urge to blow off my claims until the end.

In the beginning, prior to this life changing advice I received, I was the model chatter all of our beauties here are claiming would be the standard imposed before ever considering meeting a fan face2face –
AmberCutie said:
The circumstances would have to be:
Someone who is around in my MFC room a LOT
Doesn't spend a lot of time in other girls' rooms (so I feel some sense of loyalty and honesty)
Exchanged personal emails and talked outside of MFC a little bit
Seen a picture (or better yet watched his camera to see what he looks like)
And it would definitely depend on the kind of humor/conversation we have inside and outside of MFC.
When I would find a model I liked and had the hope of dating one day, I would be faithful and dedicated to her whenever she was online staying in her room whenever I saw that she was online, staying planted even if she went on prolonged breaks while leaving her room open, and not departing until she logged off. Formerly, I thought that this would flatter her and make her take notice of my dedication. Of course, I would visit and get shows with other models when she wasn’t online, even during my first relationship which started with a girl who was on F4F (I can’t remember her online persona atm, but it was Tiffany-something-or-other[the last name had a ‘xxx’ in it]). The hook is I would keep these “outside” visits a secret not telling other models I was having them when asked if I chatted with other girls, thinking ignorantly that models only worked on the site -- they never spied in others’ rooms or perved themselves. Again, I was a teenager or young adult male at this time, so in my defense I claim the double-whammy of moronic stupidity! (You women know 99.999% of guys lose 99.99…% of all brain function when they’re horny since most of the blood rushes to the lil head:lol:) So because I would make the mistake of thinking I could cover up a lie with a falsity, sooner or later I would be found out by the models (yes, models plural) I was hoping to be able to court and start dating someday (I am still old fashioned in some areas when it comes to my ideals about dating and marriage *blushing slightly*). Ultimately, a form of this type of deception is what brought an end to my first real-world relationship with a cam girl: I was in the process of bringing her & her friend (her friend for my exes benefit and state-of-mind) down to Chicago so we all could spend some time together in Orlando, FL., since that was one of my exes favorite destinations. I say “form” because she had transferred from F4F (just going to use site acronyms or nicknames to avoid the risk of sending chatters away from MFC, and, thus, potentially $$ for the beauties posting here) a few months prior where, at the time, F4F was constricted to a single Canadian studio so she new and spoke with all the models -- hence, being able to keep tabs on my activity -- to Peeks that was a site with studios around the world; and thus, discovered me chatting and, here’s the key, schmoozing a girl the same way I had her in the beginning thinking I was trying to do the same with the new girl as I had with her. In retrospect and her defense, I guess there was a fraction of me that was trying to look more appealing than the other chatters to the other girl; but, that’s a moot point by now.

It was while chatting with this other model (who I was soon to discover was preying on my ignorance, and had been taking advantage of that ignorance since the first day I begin chatting with her) that I met EB and formed an online friendship. Little did I know, but would soon discover, he was the sensei, sifu, master (take your pick) to me being an apprentice on the verge of beginning my 2 year-long research period of knowing how properly to chat with models and not be taken advantage of, as so many disillusioned chatters are, with the option of pulling subliminal strings in ways to make models think about me more than the average chatter. You’re probably rolling your eyes at this and thinking I’m full of hot air. I’m fine with you jumping to that conclusion if you so choose; but for your own benefit or full disapproval, please continue to read my post with an open mind to the end and then pose whatever disagreement(s) you may have.

After a fallout between EB and the model, in a burst of rage directed towards her, he revealed to me the nature and expansion of their true relationship offline along with tricks and tips to use to test models and learn their true intentions: whether or not they’re potential relationship material, real-world fuck candidates (a.k.a. FWBs), or probable scam whores. NOTE: Models, please read all I am about to say with analytical eyes void of any emotion because my intent in sharing any of this is NOT to anger anyone (model nor chatter) but merely provide “methods,” if you will, to help my fellow chatters know if he’s being played -- thus saving himself from future and inevitable heartache and a loss of morale -- or if the girl he wants to get with is genuine in the claims she makes regarding pursuing a relationship.


Tips & tricks:
1) From the start or asap, let the model know that she is not the only girl you talk to or get shows with.

ADVANTAGE: Honesty and truthfulness is established on your end from the start (she will continue to deceive or not share information [if she’s nice enough to do the later]), and she cannot try to cock block you or try to place a guilt trip on you by saying she saw you chatting with another girl but thought you were different, and guesses she was wrong;
2)
AmberCutie said:
Someone who is around in my MFC room a LOT
Doesn't spend a lot of time in other girls' rooms (so I feel some sense of loyalty and honesty)

Contrary to what our beauties are “claiming” here by saying that they would want/require loyalty, spend ample time in other models rooms, too. To AmberCutie’s benefit, yes! I agree that you should spend as much time as you can in the girl’s room who you want to get with, but the purpose of spending a moderate amount of time in other girls’ rooms is to develop alternative plans (i.e. Plans B, C, D, etc.) to have on back-up in the event that plan A should fall thru the cracks.

ADVANTAGE: a) The above statement of having back-ups that you can already have up&running in the event the first girl of your choice turns out to be a dud or the magic you thought was apparent really isn’t; and, b) ADMIT IT, GIRLS! you get jealous/envious, just like we guys do, when you see a guy you want as your own flirting and chatting up another girl wishing it were you, or in the very least start getting possessive, even if just a little. So, the benefit is that when the girl of your choice sees you chatting with another model (it’s inevitable because models perv and/or stay idle in others’ rooms for a multitude of reasons that I’m not going to get into because of the length of this post already *facepalm* sorry, but I want to be thorough the 1st time through) she’ll know that you have options, will want you all to herself if she’s genuine and on the market, and will pay more attention to you and do more things for you to keep you happy, around, and coming back;

3) Controversial, so apply at your own risk :lol:: During the initial fazes of trying to capture special attention and seniority in her room, tell the model that you’re getting the show for her, not yourself. My addition: only get shows when she is visibly horny, even to the point of being sexually frustrated (hopefully, you can identify the visible, verbal, and tonal differences between these two states of sexual intrigue), and let her do what she wants to do when she asks you what you want to see. Tell her that you’re getting the show for her and her alone, so you’re sole purpose is allowing her the opportunity to cum and seeing her with that beautiful smile that lights up the room. I guarantee you this line will make her heart melt and draw her that much closer to wanting to know (both personally and biblically) the “real” you, if it doesn’t instantly push her over the edge.

ADVANTAGE: This will both flatter her & give her a greater sense of freedom to cum the way she wants to cum atm. Let’s be frank (ladies, you can be Jenny *ba-dum-CHING*).:lol: Corny and stupid joke -- sorry! *facepalm* Who doesn’t like to be flattered, and who knows a woman’s body better than herself? Besides, I’m almost certain that if you allow a woman to cum the way she wants to cum and w/o the restriction of having to continually be watching the screen every second to ensure that she’s doing what you want to see and making you happy, she’ll cum in a faster time and more enjoyable way for the both of you than she would otherwise simply because she’s more relaxed. And, what person doesn’t have more enjoyable sex/masturbation when they’re relaxed and void of tension?
NOTE: The following are tricks I picked up and developed on my own during my self-study --

4) Treat AND talk to ALL! models like you would any woman in real life if you were beaming with confidence and know you were the perfect match for her. The optimum word here is: confidence, not “cockiness” -- which you hopefully know are two ENTIRELY and EXTREMELY different qualities. I suggest listening to Bryan Adams’, Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman:


To gain a greater sense of what I’m talking about in this model; and, remember to resist any urges to confess your undying love for her :lol: (you hopefully know not to do this w/o needing me to tell you), not make the mistake 40+% of chatters make and ask her if she will marry you even if you think she will know you are just joking around, and whenever and wherever possible use the mistakes and errors other chatters make when chatting in public to your advantage by making light of the situation and cracking jokes, usually at the expense of the other chatter, and keeping her smiling. This last part is big because, just like in real life, 98% of women, maybe more, want a guy who can make them laugh. So, being able to turn an annoying situation filled with begging & demanding chatters into a humorous & joyful comedy-type hour will rack up the brownie points in your favor quicker than the continual bell-ringing of slot machines in a Vegas casino. Just be sure not to make the jokes at the expense of one of her other premiums because doing so will only create a contentious & possibly detrimental situation.

ADVANTAGE: Probably being 20+, hopefully you know by now that women are extremely attracted to self-confident men, but esp. those who still have an air of boyishness within them. Why? Women tend to lack confidence themselves when it comes to dating during the initial phases. (HA! Y’all girls thought you were gonna get an open door to get at me and start your rebuttal, didn’t you?! :lol: ;)) This is the main reason why women very rarely! ask the guy they find cute/hot/what-have-you out on a date, rather waiting & hoping for him to step up to the plate and take the initiative – not too mention the fact that women are always comparing themselves to one another internally and thus already feel overly self-conscious about themselves & their looks. And, why maintain a little boyishness? All women are intrinsically created/born with the desire to nurture and care for, no matter whether they have a baby, be a mother, or not. So having an air of cute-boyishness in you will feed this part of her psyche and make you more desirable in her eyes without conscience knowledge of why. In other words, you’ll be on her mind more-often-than-not when she’s not online [if she’s a cam-girl], and frustrating her when you’re not in her room spending time with her when she is. My suggestion is to be goofy, rather than needy. I never have tested this theory, but I’d assume that being needy is separated by a thin line from aggravating; so if you’re trying to win over a cam model but appear needy…. You can piece the rest of that sentence together. Needless to say it’s a recipe for disaster just waiting to made at some future date.

5) Perfect your story-telling abilities. On the whole, girls are much more mental than we guys. While guys tend to be more visual and driven by sight, women are fueled more by how a guy is able to speak to them than they are by his looks. This is probably another reason for why the man was created to pursue the woman: we are motivated by how they look, and they are, in turn, receptive primarily to how we talk to them -- the probable reason for the occurrence of the geek winning over the super model, occasionally. Notice the use of “geek” here, as supposed to “nerd”. So if you can speak to her mind and stimulate her intellectual arousal, you’ll get a head start in the race towards her Favorite’s podium.

ADVANTAGE: Sex for women is like sports for men -- it's a whole body experience and it stays with them for days after it’s happened. Being mental creatures, if you’re able to recite a good story to her with the incorporation of most, or all, her senses in the description of the story, she will literally be able to experience it in her mind and it will nearly be as if it really happened. The only thing that will have been absent is your physical form.

For example: Imagine me taking your left hand in my right, and gripping it with a firm yet delicate touch as I lead you blind-folded down the corridor that I’ve scented with the aroma of jasmine & lilac towards a room filled with white rose petals that I’ve sprinkled strategically over the path I intend to lead you toward the bed. (4 out of the 5 senses touched on in just the one sentence.)

6) Realize that you are trying to win her over at her place of work: not at a socializing event, not during her downtime, but at work. So, however much possible, show/fake concern for her success and offer advice to her wherever possible that would both help her to excel in getting more tips & shows and make you appear more beneficial in getting close to.

tubby556 said:
Heart, real women don't give a shit about money, houses, cars, jewelry, all that. The women that do aren't worth your time and effort. Focus on real women. They cherish you for you.
There are a lot of models here on the forum, as well as MFC, that are real women for sure. Just about every model from this forum I've visited (few of you are hard to track down) won't mind if you hang out like a bum and just talk. They aren't here for just the money.
You and the other guys here that act like gentlemen are what keeps things alive.

Yes, and no -- while this is true, remember what I just said and keep in mind that money rules this world and using it opens doors quicker than trying to schmooze your way thru a door cracked open does. So, while you don’t “need” money to potentially win a girl over, it will help your chances considerably, esp. with a cam girl; and make the time-frame of your efforts less.

ADVANTAGE: When girls are “no holds barred” 100% honest, most will admit that the guy with money will have a better chance of getting them than the guy without, all else being equal. So having the money to spend on the girl will open the door of her interest faster because all cam girls pay attention to their customers, how much more-so their regulars, if just to keep them happy, returning, and buying. In Vegas terms: it’s a fish compared to a whale in the house’s eyes.

7) Lastly, when you first “meet” a model, spend some time in her room, an ample amount, and just stay idle doing some “recon” research. Study the mood of her chat room, the way she talks with her chatters, and how she manages her room.

ADVANTAGE: I cannot say enough about initial reconnaissance to give it the credit it’s deserving of, and how much having the habit now of unconsciously doing this helps me still. Doing this type of study from the start will grant you easier access and ability to jumping in line right behind her favorite chatters and occasionally ahead of her not-so-welcoming regulars; when you begin chatting with her, you will instantly know what types of questions to ask, when to ask what, and what types of mannerisms/body actions to look for to know what type of mood she’s in (e.g. playful, giddy, annoyed, po’d, tired, etc.); and, at the times that you detect she may be getting annoyed and/or tired of working albeit no longer fun, you will be able to step in and provide a helping hand, thus allowing her to relax and rest more easing some of her mental fatigue. Even though I’m no longer chasing online skirts, because I’ve done this step for so long, I’m able to do so automatically, unconsciously, and almost instantaneously. And I believe if anyone who dedicates themselves to the practice of doing this initial investigation, can get to the point of it being automatic, too. Also, studying the model before chasing after her can potentially save you significant amounts of money, headache, and stress, if you are to discover that the personality behind the pretty face and/or tight body don’t appeal to you the way you initially thought the hot body would. NOTE: This type of “study”/analysis will be harder for some than others due to people’s mental make-up. I suspect it will be easier for those who are more sensing than intuitive (if you’ve ever taken a Myers-Briggs test, hopefully you understand my reference), but both traits will help in this aim: no matter whether S or I.

Now, I am by no means saying that these guidelines will work on every model or win over the most cunning models. All that I am attesting to is it will both better your chances and decrease the amount of time & money (of which I’ve spent tens of thousands by now) it takes you to be “seen” and recognized by the model(s) of your choosing. Also, note that not all models are truthful about their offline relationship status for the purpose of making more money. And ever since taking the stance I know have about starting a relationship with a cam girl, I’m even often giving the advice and viewpoints from the male chatters side of the court to models I frequent and have become friends with to help them earn more and make their online job more profit boosting for their bank account. Ultimately, it is because of this untruthfulness that the added benefit to doing a little idle recon and usefulness for knowing a bit about the girl you want to win over before ever even talking to her for the first time is gained.

Here’s to your future study & pursuit in becoming an online and/or real-world playa: Cheers! :beer: :handgestures-fingerscrossed:
 
Here are some bits that I feel worth pulling altogether and summarizing (non-summary bits split from the numbers):

1. Camsites are not dating sites. Do not go there thinking you will meet up with a camgirl.

2. I like how you said that if you're interested in meeting her off-work, get her off-work contact info and then never visit her work again. If she won't give you her off-work contact info, obviously she's not interested.

3. When you request to meet up with a girl who is currently at work (be it at a camsite or in a gas station), you put her in an awkward situation, which affects her ability to do her job.

I had one guy when I worked at a gas station tell me that since the customer is always right I had to give him my phone number. I threatened to call the cops. Was I off-game for a bit after that? Sure bet I was! It might not affect my income, but it probably affected the customers who came to the store right after him, and maybe some of them decided not to come to that store again. (I was so flustered, I forgot someone's change, and forgot to give another person back their card...)

4. Anything is possible. That doesn't mean you should go searching for the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. The only people who find it are the ones who stumble upon it without searching.
 
AmberCutie said:
blackxrose said:
my 2 cents, i remember reading about the craigslist killer.....it would be a real long shot to meet me in person. with that said, i met my best friend/roommate online but that took a lot of talking and meeting with other friends in a very very very public place for us to meet. it depends on the camgirl and a bunch of other factors.
But did you meet your best friend/roommate on a camsite?

hecks no. we met on a chatsite that's set up for people to meet in person. it was like a super lame dating site. lol that and we only chatted with each other when we had other friends in the chats and we had mutual friends we'd known for years from gaming.
 
LadyLuna said:
The only people who find it are the ones who stumble upon it without searching.

I think that probably perfectly sums up models and members dating - it COULD happen but if it did it wouldn't be by design, but accident. Just like when you meet someone in real life - it only happens when you aren't looking for it, it just happens.

Anyone who comes to a nude cam site with the intention of finding a mate is an idiot.
 
Ive had a handful of members(not going to name names) who have openly admitted to me that they are "dating" a cam girl. Like they haven't even met or anything. One guy asked me to meet and I told him maybe some day way down the line if we become close then sure. Months later he PM'd me saying he's not interested in meeting anymore, and that he's now seeing a cam girl on MFC Since I passed up the offer. I was like good for you? He wont give me her name or any other details. But really...Are there any success stories out there? Im just curious. I know MFC isnt eharmony but so many men think so. "BB how much to fuck that ass in person?" Not a million tokens thats for sure.....
 
I suggest listening to Bryan Adams’, Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman:

Baahahahahhahaha!

Chapter 1: Why is everything in her house covered in babyoil?

Lemon...do you ever stop being hilarious? Please let me know when you do your stand up tour. Freaking hysterical. :lol:
 
I haven't had time to read -every- reply to this, mainly the 1st page ones...

I can see & understand how this situation could have happened... especially if the model was fairly new or has low self esteem or many other personal things she could be dealing with. So i will not dismiss the fact that in these 2 peoples situation-- that this could have been a "fantasy love affair" or something. I have friends who I could very well see doing something similar because they seem to chase love & confuse their love lives all to hell. Some of my girl-friends seem to fall for just about anything for the possibility of "love" and "happiness" and they end up in those dead-beat relationships where they are usually abused, cheated on, or just treated like crap amongst many other things. They crave male-attention.

So- to keep this short & give my :twocents-02cents: I understand how this situation could have happened & could have seemed very innocent at first. The model might not be thinking "like a model" & thinking with her true self & let her guard down. But then started to put it in better perspective. She may have gotten some advice which made her start thinking more like a camgirl instead of a girl chatting online on any other social site.
I agree with previous posts about -camsites are not dating sites- & all of the other posts pointing in that direction.

But, to give the OP a little benefit of the doubt, I do see the possibility of this occurring & he must take it as another lesson learned & move on & take the advice posted here.
Good luck
 
RE: "CASH81" point of view on how to date a camgirl or whatever that was...lol

my response after reading that: Like, whoa!
This guy umm... needs a real life? The fact that he spent sooooo much time on researching camgirls & the how-to's is just kind of... creepy i guess.
And I may have come across a few members who have attempted similar tactics, but I still stick to work is work.

I think any guy who is THAT interested in trying to date a camgirl specifically-- has some issues. It kinda reminds me of those people who desperately try to find ways to date celebrities/music artists etc.... They have an un-natural obsession. And this dudes posts just Screams it! IMO...
 
I think all those MFC models who have those "win a date" raffles give dudes hope on MFC that maybe some models do actually want to meet members. It's crazy for sure. I wonder how legit those dating raffles are and if a date actually ever takes place.
 
blackxrose said:
AmberCutie said:
blackxrose said:
my 2 cents, i remember reading about the craigslist killer.....it would be a real long shot to meet me in person. with that said, i met my best friend/roommate online but that took a lot of talking and meeting with other friends in a very very very public place for us to meet. it depends on the camgirl and a bunch of other factors.
But did you meet your best friend/roommate on a camsite?

hecks no. we met on a chatsite that's set up for people to meet in person. it was like a super lame dating site. lol that and we only chatted with each other when we had other friends in the chats and we had mutual friends we'd known for years from gaming.
Ah ok, see that's the point we are trying to make in arguing here. It's ok to meet people from the Internet in general, it's not ok to expect to meet girls from camsites specifically. ;)
 
AmberCutie said:
blackxrose said:
AmberCutie said:
But did you meet your best friend/roommate on a camsite?

hecks no. we met on a chatsite that's set up for people to meet in person. it was like a super lame dating site. lol that and we only chatted with each other when we had other friends in the chats and we had mutual friends we'd known for years from gaming.
Ah ok, see that's the point we are trying to make in arguing here. It's ok to meet people from the Internet in general, it's not ok to expect to meet girls from camsites specifically. ;)

I'm not even sure it's that is it? Are camsite members more likely to kidnap you and murder you than other people on the internet? I doubt it.

I think the point is, the girl comes here for her job (or fun or both), not dating - and the guys should be here for recreation too. For a guy, coming to a pornsite to find a girlfriend is a fucking stupid thing to do, and from a woman's perspective I expect the last place she intends to look for a prospective partner is a porn site - even if she works there! lol.

I'm off to listen to some Bryan Adams.
 
Jupiter551 said:
I'm not even sure it's that is it? Are camsite members more likely to kidnap you and murder you than other people on the internet? I doubt it.

I think the point is, the girl comes here for her job (or fun or both), not dating - and the guys should be here for recreation too. For a guy, coming to a pornsite to find a girlfriend is a fucking stupid thing to do, and from a woman's perspective I expect the last place she intends to look for a prospective partner is a porn site - even if she works there! lol.

I'm off to listen to some Bryan Adams.
My post had nothing to do with the safety aspect. You pretty much repeated my point. :)
 
AmberCutie said:
Jupiter551 said:
I'm not even sure it's that is it? Are camsite members more likely to kidnap you and murder you than other people on the internet? I doubt it.

I think the point is, the girl comes here for her job (or fun or both), not dating - and the guys should be here for recreation too. For a guy, coming to a pornsite to find a girlfriend is a fucking stupid thing to do, and from a woman's perspective I expect the last place she intends to look for a prospective partner is a porn site - even if she works there! lol.

I'm off to listen to some Bryan Adams.
My post had nothing to do with the safety aspect. You pretty much repeated my point. :)

Well then, I think we can both agree that we each have fantastic opinions :D
 
Jupiter551 said:
AmberCutie said:
Jupiter551 said:
I'm not even sure it's that is it? Are camsite members more likely to kidnap you and murder you than other people on the internet? I doubt it.

I think the point is, the girl comes here for her job (or fun or both), not dating - and the guys should be here for recreation too. For a guy, coming to a pornsite to find a girlfriend is a fucking stupid thing to do, and from a woman's perspective I expect the last place she intends to look for a prospective partner is a porn site - even if she works there! lol.

I'm off to listen to some Bryan Adams.
My post had nothing to do with the safety aspect. You pretty much repeated my point. :)

Well then, I think we can both agree that we each have fantastic opinions :D

yea, for most camgirls though it's a mix of safety and it's their job. if it was a desk job and someone asked her out at the job she could *possibly* get fired or scolded. it's a recreational site, not a dating site. they have match.com for a reason.
 
blackxrose said:
yea, for most camgirls though it's a mix of safety and it's their job. if it was a desk job and someone asked her out at the job she could *possibly* get fired or scolded. it's a recreational site, not a dating site. they have match.com for a reason.

Yeah and here's to the day match.com encourages its female members to get nude and masturbate on cam :mrgreen:

Somehow I think that's the reason some guys want to "date" camgirls lol
 
Guys will hit on women whenever and wherever we encounter them. It doesn't matter whether they have a good chance of finding a life partner or soul mate or mother of their children. Women will appreciate the attention of guys who admire them and treat them with respect. What matters is that there are men and there are women. Saying that its inappropriate or futile is missing the point. It's like saying that it's inappropriate to flirt in a grocery store or library or workplace.
 
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