The 40 Day No Fap Challenge

[Brad]

An update: Aella has taken to Twitter asking for "definitions of masturbation." I think she's caving!!

Like, for example, what if I rub my nipples but stay completely away from my pussy? Hmm? HMMMM?

Whatever you do just make sure to stay away from a hot tub, or more specifically the water jets in a hot tub.

 

[Aella]

Per the "Do women cum easily after a long drought" question:

it depends. At first, a woman will get ridiculously horny, and will cum very very easily. After a certain amount of time (10 days - 3 months, depending on the woman), her body and sex drive will reset to how it was before she ever did anything. In essence, she will be a virgin again. At that point and afterwards, it will take as long as it did her first time ever.

In my case, how long it takes is anywhere from 10 days to 3 weeks, though I haven't figured out what the exact factors are and how they work.

Keep denying it Aella! You will hit a wall, and it will get easier after that wall is breached. Yes, it will get harder before it gets easier, but IT WILL GET EASIER. Eventually.

I've heard it's that case with men - that there's a 'hump' to get over - so I'm desperately hoping it'll be like this for me. Mainly because this is torment.

Thank you for the encouragement! Are you speaking from experience? =D

 

[mynameisbob84]

I checked out your profile (which is awesome btw :thumbleft and noticed you already have Silent Fappage and Drunken Fappage for sale. Is it just me or would Cathartic Fappage just be the perfect end to the Fappage Trilogy?

"You've seen her fap silently. You've seen her fap drunkenly. But for the past 40 days, she hasn't fapped at all. This Summer, Aella is back and ready to fap... again. In... CATHARTIC FAPPAGE. There will be cum. Oh, there will be cum..."

:dance:

 

[bud9752]

Sorry for the BAD NEWS but you picked the wrong time to start your 40 DAYS

 

[Crumb]

I know I can go without for at least a week ( I was prepping myself for some possible sexy time ) and it was getting easier not to fap the longer I went without... although there were moments when I nearly gave in lol

 

[Diana Blake]

I'll be close. I've been away from camming and sexy times since April 8th and I won't be home again until the 14th but... then I'll be having ALL the orgasms!

 

[SweepTheLeg]

Deciding to raise the ante. I'll go 50 days and unleash my wrath upon the world on my birthday.

 

[SaffronBurke]

My first thought upon seeing the thread title was "Lent? But, that's over!"

I think the longest I've ever gone was a week or two, and then only because I was either in too much pain, stress, or exhaustion to have the drive or energy, or I was getting laid regularly enough that I didn't need/want to. I don't think I even lasted a week after my husband died, even though I intended not to for a while out of respect. My sex drive is just way too high to do without.

 

[pg240]

Per today's tweet from Aella (FUCK THIS FUCKING 40 DAY FUCKING GAH. GAH. WHY DID I DO THIS. WHY DID YOU LET ME DO THIS. I'M GOING TO PUNT A TODDLER), I think it's safe to say she's getting a wee bit cranky.

 

[MissyLuvsU]

How the hell did I miss this thread? I saw Aella's twitter posts about her no fapping challenge but didn't know there was a thread on it.

*laugh manically* I think I am gonna have some fun with this... lol

 

[Aella]

How the hell did I miss this thread? I saw Aella's twitter posts about her no fapping challenge but didn't know there was a thread on it.

*laugh manically* I think I am gonna have some fun with this... lol

Oh my god.
My ability to be nice is rapidly diminishing. I am instead shooting you with a deathglare and cracking my knuckles. It is taking all my willpower to focus on things that aren't my vagina.

Nights are the hardest. In the dark... alone... like I am right now... with porn just a few clicks away...

And I'm also doing a tip-100-tkns-to-make-me-watch-5-minutes-of-porn deal, where I describe the resulting fury and horny to you, as well as which parts of the porno turned me on the most. There are lots of swear words.

So far those times have been the hardest. When people make me watch porn. It's like... a constant strain to not move my clothes against my body. Gurhg.

 

[HiGirlsRHot]

At the risk of stating the obvious, if you are serious about not masturbating, why the hell are you posting on AC?.

I mean it is like holding AA meetings in bar :?

Also I found being sick makes me want to jack off less. Not recommended..

 

[SweepTheLeg]

I just want to point out I never had to give up masturbating to want to punt a toddler.

Day 4. Hmmm maybe there is a correlation between productivity and not masturbating. The first day I spent it with friends and the next day I rested from the day before, so I didn't notice it too much. But yesterday and today i've been running A LOT- did a 5K yesterday, and then today ran 2 miles up hill and walked another half mile at a 10.0 incline. When at home in between video game goodness i've been cleaning and doing things- I went through my collection of tshirts and donated 20 to goodwill. I only have 100 tshirts left.

 

[JerryBoBerry]

I just want to point out I never had to give up masturbating to want to punt a toddler.

Day 4. Hmmm maybe there is a correlation between productivity and not masturbating. The first day I spent it with friends and the next day I rested from the day before, so I didn't notice it too much. But yesterday and today i've been running A LOT- did a 5K yesterday, and then today ran 2 miles up hill and walked another half mile at a 10.0 incline. When at home in between video game goodness i've been cleaning and doing things- I went through my collection of tshirts and donated 20 to goodwill. I only have 100 tshirts left.

i get the same effect from one a day multi vitamins.

 

[JerryBoBerry]

At the risk of stating the obvious, if you are serious about not masturbating, why the hell are you posting on AC?.

I mean it is like holding AA meetings in bar :?

Where else can you talk so openly about sexual issues among people who know what you are talking about and are use to being completely open to these things?

This sites scope ranges from sex to movies, to guns to everything that pisses us off; even new births, and everything in between. Seems like the perfect place to discuss it.

 

[SweepTheLeg]

Just want to point out, my first post agreeing to such a challenge, I'm a glutton for punishment. I've gone on MFC, I've watched clips of porn, I've looked at pictures on twitter too. Just haven't punched the clown.

 

[MissyLuvsU]

For your viewing pleasure Aella

You're welcome.

 

[Jason314]

I've actually reached the 40 days sometime in 2012. It was around the beginning of March (I think the 5th if I recall correctly), and lasted until near the end of April... so it was almost 60 days.

If you were to ask me to start now, that would be difficult.

 

[HiGirlsRHot]

At the risk of stating the obvious, if you are serious about not masturbating, why the hell are you posting on AC?.

I mean it is like holding AA meetings in bar :?

Where else can you talk so openly about sexual issues among people who know what you are talking about and are use to being completely open to these things?

This sites scope ranges from sex to movies, to guns to everything that pisses us off; even new births, and everything in between. Seems like the perfect place to discuss it.

All true, but it is also one of the few forums were people routinely posted sexy gifs, and porn clips. I figure most people masturbate cause they are horny (and sometimes bored) reading/seeing all the sexy stuff would make me horny and want to fap. Just saying.

 

[LadyLuna]

Aella, keep going! You can do this!

I recommend, for nighttime, a bunch of relaxing music. Something that doesn't make you want to have sex, but instead makes you want to sleep. You can pick, of course. Some people might prefer animal sounds, myself I use Enya (but pick her songs very carefully). NOTHING with a strong beat, as that would make you more horny.

You're doing great girl!

 

[Aella]

I really intended to respond directly to all of you, but then missyluvsu pretty much smashed my brain in.

Ok. Cold shower time. Or pacing quickly. Slap myself in the face. KEEP IT TOGETHER AELLA.

 

[SweepTheLeg]

I enjoy the gif of little caprice best. Maybe I'm not just that into visual and would need to hear them, but just the action in those gifs aren't doing anything for me at all. Oh god, I hope this challenge hasn't killed my dick already!

 

[Red7227]

Seems mildly appropriate.

 

[Aella]

I enjoy the gif of little caprice best. Maybe I'm not just that into visual and would need to hear them, but just the action in those gifs aren't doing anything for me at all. Oh god, I hope this challenge hasn't killed my dick already!

You are my best friend right now.

 

[JerryBoBerry]

I'm more turned on by reading than visual to tell the truth. Aella, have you ever checked out these sites?
http://www.literotica.com/stories/index.php
and
http://www.asstr.org/main.html

Both have a LOT of adult stories to read.

 

[Aella]

I'm more turned on by reading than visual to tell the truth. Aella, have you ever checked out these sites?
http://www.literotica.com/stories/index.php
and
http://www.asstr.org/main.html

Both have a LOT of adult stories to read.

asstr gets dirtier. And the search function is better.

I was reading some a few days ago. i should not have done that. and now i'm drinking.

gods of the prudes give me strength, this i pray.

 

[SweepTheLeg]

Day 5: closest i've been yet into breaking. It may have been my own way of rebellion against my productivity. I stayed strong and no shots were fired.

 

[Crumb]

I've decided to take up this challenge.

for no other reason than to see if I can do it.
will only sneak onto mfc to watch non nude girls

 

[pg240]

I'm more turned on by reading than visual to tell the truth. Aella, have you ever checked out these sites?
http://www.literotica.com/stories/index.php
and
http://www.asstr.org/main.html

Both have a LOT of adult stories to read.

I'm a fan of literotica. Some good stuff there among the vast array of not-so-good. I'll check out the other site for sure. Thanks for the tip, even though it wasn't meant for me!

 

[pg240]

Oh, and by the way, if anyone cares, I continue to be the master of my domain. Piece of cake.