A little history of Shy and Myself...
Back in her drab brown couch days.
One day a bunch of us in the lounge 1000 decided to do room raids to see what sort of reactions we got. It was decided they would be "uncle" raids, with everyone having uncle in the beginning of their names (not my idea, mind you, but I obviously got in on them).The first room we hit was KittyWilde's room. And she was great. We had about 30 uncles show up in her room and start saying hi and other things like "it's family reunion time, Kitty!" Kitty ended up laughing so hard and right before we left told us we were entertaining her more than she was entertaining us.
So we do about 10 or so more raids over the day. Some with great reactions, some with no reactions, and some with 'why did we bother?' reactions.
Then someone said we should hit Shy's room. And we all knew what would happen if we did. She'd get pissed and ban us all. It took no more than 1 minute for her to get obviously aggravated and start banning. She banned me, as well. I should note that this was back when she had a reputation for not being personable, easy to irritate (sometimes just saying hi to her seemed to irritate her), and often very condescending to people in her room.
So, over a year later I go into her room... and I decided I finally wanted to see her naked. So I took her private. She actually declined the first two attempts, then accepted. She remembered me from the uncle raid (the only time I was ever in her room before this). She didn't get naked and she was trying to feel me out as a hater or not. I never actually hated her, even back in the drab brown couch days, but I wasn't really a fan of hers, either. So, we talked for about 20 minutes in private, maybe 25. She made me turn my own cam on, which required me to turn on my light as I was laying in bed early on. After the private, she added me to her friends list, on the condition that if I was just trying to get close then piss her off she'd ban me for 60 days, and every 60 days thereafter.
Since then we've had fun. We've had some very nice privates. We've joked in her room or PMs. I had to yell at her for nearly scratching her tattoo when she got it, and showed her 5 of mine that same night so she knew I wasn't making up what I was saying about taking care of tattoos. And so on.
So, if you're not a dick in her room (and, mind you, I wasn't a dick the day she banned me, I really only said hi-- but I was part of the room raid), tip, take her private, and just be a normal person, you'll find she's quite different from the drab brown couch days.
But, you do have to spend more than a few minutes in her room to discover that.