Prime example to show 4 yrs of "friendship" is not what it seems

[NotYou]

This is not about me + a model, it's about a room i was in and her mod.

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Back Story for each person below and what their role is:
- [MODELS OTHER MOD] = Her long time mod (not sure for how long) who actually does stuff for the model all the time. He silences the rude guys, he supports her through lots of tips. He doesn't make random, stupid, pointless demands or postings of images etc.
- JJJohnson = Former moderator who has been "friends" (I use this term loosely, and you will see why after reading below). He was moderator for her for 4 years. He NEVER did anything. He came in, posted "I love you my BFF" images, then sat in her room doing nothing, not even talking to her in PM (I have asked her). So it raises suspicions to me that he may be a recorder and definitely someone wanting the "mod benefits" (of seeming cool and powerful).
- ME = Just a follower, friend, fan. The model sometimes makes me moderator when the others are not there as she is too nice/kind to silence or be rude to people, and plus she is busy multi-camming.
- MODEL = Broadcaster, obviously.
- Other names involved: there is at least one other name involved "heycat", he too is a moderator and a supporter like with her main mod as mentioned first (above). He talks to her, laughs with her, tips her, and everything. Right now he has not been on because he is away on vacation.

Other Notes:
- JJJohnson made many accounts and the model, because she thought he was a friend and quite frankly, she is too kind and nice she told her mod NOT to silence him. Understandably, as with most of us, he couldn't resist as he was too rude and going on and on. So he kept silencing, he kept making new, etc.
- This is only part of what was said, there was much more as it KEPT happening, but mostly him just saying the same stuff on repeat over and over... as you will see.

The model is TOO polite and kind, to a faut. I am a truly nice person and the person that says sorry yet she even makes me look like Satan with how sweet and kind she is. I genuinely don't believe she has a bad bone.


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jjjohnson0013: You had [MODELS OTHER MOD] silence me on other account and that wrong
JJJohnson You are a mean woman
JJJohnson you no longer my friend and i had to make new account to speak
JJJohnson YOU NO LONGER MY FRIEND
ME No loss for her. it shows what type of a person you truly are JJ.
ME Bye bye JJ
JJJohnson i AM A FRIEND
JJJohnson SHE TELLS ME I AM NOT MOD AS SHE HATES ME
ME She definitely did not say she hates you haahahaha
JJJohnson MY SHE DID IN PM
MODEL no hate u
ME MODEL could never hate someone, you clearly don't know her
ME Stop being a drama queen JJ and grow up
JJJohnson WHY YOU HAVE [MODELS OTHER MOD] SILENCE MY JJJOHNSON02013 ACCOUNT
ME She didn't.. he did it because you are very rude and disrespectful
JJJohnson SHE DID
MODEL ?
JJJohnson [MODELS OTHER MOD] ALWAYS GETTS SPECIAL TREATMENT
ME you're lucky i am not mod you'd be silenced on every account you make
JJJohnson HE ALWAYS A MOD NO MATTER WHAT
ME Maybe cos he is never rude or horrible to her and he helps her and supports her via tokens.
ME Grow. Up. JJ
JJJohnson [@ME] i been coming here over 4 years
JJJohnson and you all can go to hell I am done with her
ME You say one thing JJ yet, here you are
JJJohnson I am here to see her apologise to me and unsilence my jjjohnson02013 account and have me as her MOD
JJJohnson as i see what Kind of person she is SELFISH
ME Well you're gonna be here all day cos that aint happening sunshine :loll
MODEL u have my love and respect
MODEL but if u choise to hate me
MODEL its just your decision
JJJohnson If i have your lover and respect then i would still be a MOD
JJJohnson and not silenced on my other account
JJJohnson I see you really care for yourself
ME ok I will stop now, I give up. I can't talk to dumb people
JJJohnson This is the only room I MOD for on Chaturbate as You were my favorite and if you choose you not want me to be MOD any more and have [MODELS OTHER MOD] as mod always what respect is that tp me
ME Actually, you used to mod for Anna Bell Peaks, but she realized how much of an idiot you was when you threw a tantrum in her room and she banned you.
JJJohnson and i realized who was a broadcaster that cares for themselves only
JJJohnson I am not dumb [@ME] it shows what she did to me and my other accfount what a horrible person she is
ME If you respect and care about MODEL, you will not be doing this to her. You know she is a kind, friendly and loving person.
JJJohnson I will never forgive her for this day
ME All you're doing is making her life worse when it doesn't need to be
JJJohnson she hurt my Feelings and i do not appreciate it
JJJohnson I was her friend who came on here to MOD on other account and she ruined that
JJJohnson she basically does not care anymore
JJJohnson MODEL was my bestest friend until today in pm what she told me that i am not needed here anymore
MODEL i can support all this
JJJohnson she did this to hurt me and her other MODS
ME :STUPID
JJJohnson as Long as I am not MOD you are not my Friend and you are not forgiven
JJJohnson You hurt me today
JJJohnson Thanks for a even worse day MODEL
JJJohnson I will never forgive you for this ever
MODEL u will
JJJohnson I will not
JJJohnson she care for herself as how can she say I have her love and respect if i am done this
JJJohnson she loves [MODELS OTHER MOD] only and nobo9dy else matters really
JJJohnson I see her true self today
JJJohnson Treat others how you want to be treated but i was not mod today and she cares for [MODELS OTHER MOD] only and all other to hell with them from her
JJJohnson 4 years and now this
JJJohnson AFTER TODAY FOR WHAT MODEL DID TO ME I WILL MAKE SURE HER ACCOUNT ON CHATURBATE IS CLOSED
JJJohnson YOU TREATED ME LIKE CRAP TODAY AND I DO NOT APPRECIATE IT
JJJohnson SO SAY GOODBYE TO YOUR ACCOUNT AS TODAY IS YOUR LAST DAY
JJJohnson i AM UPSET
JJJohnson You care nothing for me and never did
JJJohnson I see you care for yourself most of all
ME That is a lie. If she cared only for herself, she'd tell you to get lost yet she continues to be nice to you
JJJohnson :karma I hope MODEL you happy with yopurself for how you treated me today
ME I don't know anyone else who would still be so kind to you after all the stuff you have said to her today
JJJohnson [@ME] she basically told me i was not mod today as she does not care anymore for me or any of her other MODS
JJJohnson If MODEL says i have her love and respect she showed none today to me
JJJohnson Worst broadcaster on the internet and on chaturbate
JJJohnson karma will get her
MODEL jj u can write what u want
MODEL no will put at my heart
JJJohnson As Long as you hate me and want me no longer as MOD on my jjjohnson02013 account I want you to know I will commit suicide Kill myself in real now
JJJohnson Thanks for ruining my LIFE
JJJohnson I am doing to kill myself now cause of you
MODEL stop with this
JJJohnson you started this hate on me
MODEL my heart not know to hate
JJJohnson no MOD you care about [MODELS OTHER MOD] more and other mods are nothing yto so so why keep on living life
JJJohnson I will for real kill myself now
JJJohnson Thanks for a life ruined
JJJohnson I trused you as my friend
JJJohnson I trusted U and you not give a damn about nobody but yourself so I have a knife ready to end it all
JJJohnson the one person who I really loved as my friend
JJJohnson turned her back on me like many other too i know
ME Maybe you need to reflect on that, as it shows who YOU are JJ, not who everyone else is.
JJJohnson I know you hate me thats why i am no longer a mod on my jjjohnson02013 account
JJJohnson when she tells you in PM you are worthless to her and she care for [MODELS OTHER MOD] more
JJJohnson thats why I am no longer MOD as [MODELS OTHER MOD] get special priviliges
JJJohnson at least on judgement day i will not need to answer to GOD for this day
JJJohnson I see now who you need as a friend
JJJohnson all this time MODEL you were never really my friend
ME She sees those that respect and care about her. Those who are NOT rude or abusive. THEY are MODEL'S friends. It's simple.
JJJohnson I see what kind of person you are
JJJohnson AND WHEN YOU CARE ABOUT HER SHE SHOWS RESPECT BY TAKING AWAY YOU MODERATOR AND TELLING YOU NO NEED ANYMORE FOR YOU
JJJohnson TELLING YOU YOU BASICALLY ARE WORTHLESS TO HER
JJJohnson I SEE WHY SHE IS STILL SINGLE

 

[Marceline]

Prime example of someone who clearly should not be on a cam site and needs to seek professional psychiatric help.

 

[NotYou]

Prime example of someone who clearly should not be on a cam site and needs to seek professional psychiatric help.

Ironically, in further messages from the other mod and myself, we stated the exact same thing.
To note: this guy "JJJohnson" is a 40 year old man.

 

[Kiki Jane]

Ironically, in further messages from the other mod and myself, we stated the exact same thing.
To note: this guy "JJJohnson" is a 40 year old man.

...a 40 year old man who says "I thought I was your bestest friend" and throws big tantrums. I wouldn't make him mod of kindergarten circle time!

 

[Emberblaze]

I got as far as him saying he was going to kill himself because not modding for her ruined his life and my eyes started rolling so hard I worried I might injure them and had to stop reading.

Wtf even?

*Wonders how long it will take for him to show up on this forum*

 

[Tedfred79]

I got as far as him saying he was going to kill himself because not modding for her ruined his life and my eyes started rolling so hard I worried I might injure them and had to stop reading.

Wtf even?

*Wonders how long it will take for him to show up on this forum*

You missed

"At least on judgement day I won't have to answer to God for this day"

I chuckled- envisioning conversation at the gates

Saint Peter I gave 10% and was a hell of a chaturbate moderator until they took it away.

 

[Emberblaze]

You missed

"At least on judgement day I won't have to answer to God for this day"

I chuckled- envisioning conversation at the gates

Saint Peter I gave 10% and was a hell of a chaturbate moderator until they took it away.

I just can't understand this guy.
He thinks God is going to be mad some girl wouldn't let him moderate her porn chat room?

*Slow blinking*

I have a plush dog that I treat like it's my real pet and I'm not this unstable.

 

[JoleneBrody]

Good lord if I read the word “mod” one more time my eyes are going to pop out. This is a prime example of why models need tough skin and to handle their own shit. The fact that this is even being posted about here in itself is kind of cringey and sad.

Ban and move on. If they keep coming back just keep banning and keep moving on.

 

[Dan Epstein]

I was offered to be a mod once, and my reply was :"My job is to get you traffic, make sure it converts, that your payments arrive on time, and to be a community manager. I am the one who should be moderated before I'm losing my mind, thanks".

 

[yummybrownfox]

That was painful to read. Lol. I like token sites, but man, dudes be doing too much...all up in their feelings like it’s a damn soap opera. “I will never forgive you!” “Why you won’t add me to your friends list, bb?” “Why you won’t give me your phone number, bb?”

Some people are absolutely exhausting. And super nice, sugary sweet cam girls (who can’t bring themselves to ban the pricks who ruin the vibe of her room) will get walked all over by these people.

 

[MollyMidnight]

Before this forum, I thought mods were super helpful, knowledgeable people that you just couldn't do without. That all their advice would be golden etc etc.

I'm so glad I had you all to set me straight.

 

[tekwolf]

There are 2 kind of mods basically the ones who know what they doand ask before doing anything clear guidelines how should be modded in the room of the performer(every performer has other guidelines) and acts on those guidelines.

Second type as stated above joining posting gifs, emotes, etc.... and don`t doing shit most of the time it are high tippers who became mod just to keep them a big NO NO.

I mod myself and when i mod i uphold the guidelines as the performer wants it , maintain for several the twitter (yay for daily dickpics makes me feel not so little anymore ), keep an eye on traffic and suggest things which could improve traffic or which are becoming a fashion so the performer can focus fully on her chatroom and keep the members happy and tipping.
So Molly there are also useful mods

 

[DJ_Pioneer]

I think as a member the best thing to do when there is drama like this in a room between a model and another member the best course of action is to not be apart of it in any way. Jumping in and trying to help the model will most likely only escalate the situation further. The Ban Hammer should come down hard and swift before things get out of hand because stuff like this doesn't do anything positive for anyone involved.

 

[tekwolf]

I think as a member the best thing to do when there is drama like this in a room between a model and another member the best course of action is to not be apart of it in any way. Jumping in and trying to help the model will most likely only escalate the situation further. The Ban Hammer should come down hard and swift before things get out of hand because stuff like this doesn't do anything positive for anyone involved.

When she doesn`t banhammer his ass the mod should step in and silence him.
By what i was reading she wouldn`t have banned him

 

[NerdyZoey]

Man she really is nice because I would have banned so long ago and went back to work. Pretty much anyone bickering like this would be gone

 

[DJ_Pioneer]

When she doesn`t banhammer his ass the mod should step in and silence him.
By what i was reading she wouldn`t have banned him

And that is the models choice, but as a member it is just better to ignore the one who is causing the drama and hope that he leaves or that she eventually bans him if there is no mod present.

 

[Mila_]

I hope he tipped her loads offline to put up with that behavior, I suspect it wasn't the first time in 4 years.

 

[AudriTwo]

She is either extremely tolerable or he pays a lot offline or purchases additional content.

I'd ban him, there is no reason to have sucide used as a way to emotionally manipulate someone to their will.

 

[NotYou]

I hope he tipped her loads offline to put up with that behavior, I suspect it wasn't the first time in 4 years.

She is either extremely tolerable or he pays a lot offline or purchases additional content.

I'd ban him, there is no reason to have sucide used as a way to emotionally manipulate someone to their will.

I think many moons ago he tipped her a few tokens. But that was a long time ago. He has been grey for a VERY long time, at least 1 year.
He definitely does not and has not tipped her offline.

I think he "creeped" his way in when she first started and then she formed a "friendship" with him, and with her being so polite and friendly, she thought he was being nice, kind and helpful etc (as many models do). He has done this kind of thing at least once before that I know of, but via PM with her. I remember her telling me he (she didn't use this expression) "threw a tantrum". She said it in a way as if she was to blame..

Finally today (yesterday - Thanksgiving) she BANNED him.
She kept her kindness and politeness stating she didn't hate him, she still respected and loved him as a friend (and the worse part is she meant/means it - see, TOO nice!!).
He then came back with another, completely different named account "samuel" and pretended to be a "friend" of "JJJohnson", typing the EXACT same as JJJohnson did lol.. Obviously no one fell for it.

I think a way he wormed his way into her those 4 years ago are for several reasons: she is not a native English speaker and does struggle (she uses a translator); she is friendly and polite; and she is very shy and nervous; very trusting.
Those combined made her an easy and vulnerable target for that type of guy, unfortunately.


Regardless of if I, or someone else had responded to him, he was typing and typing and typing the same things over and over, until he was silenced each time. So, I definitely wasn't fanning the flame. I stopped many times because I was bored and just annoyed with the fact he is so dumb (and it was going in circles).

 

[Deleted member 36060]

I thought drama was for TV/Movies and high school

 

[NerdyZoey]

You seem way too attached to this. Walk away. Block yourself

 

[Emberblaze]

You seem way too attached to this. Walk away. Block yourself

Then how will I get another episode of "Days of our mods"?

 

[NotYou]

haha not exactly attached, I just couldn't believe how someone who supposedly was someone's friend (yes even on a camsite) could be so stupid, dumb, angry etc.
And I figured it was a little way to show other, newer models that you do need thick skin and that they should not blame themselves for doing something to make a guy be like this. I mean, I have had women think THEY are the problems "oh no did I lead him on" and all kinds of things. When no, it's jst these types of guys are the predator (no matter how dumb they are) and they are emotionally unstable and shouldn't be on these sites in the first place.

 

[justjoinedtopost]

Sounds to me like good ole heycat has got the right idea here.

 

[Dan Epstein]

This is what happens when I spend too much time with design software: