Hi! I have been camming since April of this year and while I am no expert,
I can try my best to answer your questions. Please note that what works for me
may not work for you & that's ok
Every model is different!
To stay organized, I am answering your questions one at a time. Sorry for the copy/paste, it's easier for my brain to do it this way.
How many tokens should I charge for access to:
=> My Social Media Link in my Bio -
I don't offer Skype. I choose to keep everything on-site except Twitter.
For Twitter I do 77. I follow them back if they subscribe, there's "safe for work" but interesting content on there.
For personal reasons of not wanting my camming info revealed to my phone contacts,
and my anxiety around it, I don't have Snap, Insta, or WhatsApp. I do not use Reddit because I don't want trolls commenting under my photos.
I do just fine without it, although I get asked for Snap a lot. I tell them they have to find me on the site for now.
Eventually I will get a second "camming phone" with only those social media on there.
My advice would be not to do any shows off the site if they ask.
My reasoning is, if they're going to a TOKEN SITE to try to get somebody to accept...not tokens...there's gotta be something shady going on.
TBH you can be successful without social media so don't worry about it if it's not for you!
There's a wish-list section in the bio area and it's free to add that. I wish I had added it sooner lol.
I use Lovense and the site's wishlist because I know nobody can see my info.
=> Private Skype Texting / Live Cam -
I don't do this at all. If they ask, I try to upsell them on staying on site for a private.
Another factor here is the site charges tokens per minute automatically - you're risking them cheating you on payment if you stray from this.
"Sorry, I don't do anything off the site. But my private shows on here are amazing!"
There are SO many scams out there. Basically, if they try to make it more complicated than it has to be then it's probably a scam.
If they try to get YOU to pay them or buy a gift card (or their 'secretary' does...lol saw that one too) it's absolutely a scam.
LEGIT members who want to and gladly spend tokens are out there!
=> A Photo Album -
( should I separate the albums into two categories (pics & vids) and charge more for vids album? or keep together in one growing album? )
I separate them- I didn't even know there was a way to combine tbh.
For me personally, I do a different theme for each album, with a "storyline" even if it's just taking off an item.
I think of them like a fashion editorial with lighting, set, styling, and angles and plan as such.
=> PM’s -
( charge per PM or set one price on my tip menu for unlimited PM’s? If someone is making me uncomfortable in
PM’s and get upset they paid X amount, should I just block? Or kick? Or say to them they’re making me
uncomfy? )
OMG you have to see my old thread about this - I don't know if it's still here or not. Block them if you feel uncomfortable. I wish I had learned this sooner.
I do 18 per PM OR free for fan club. If they scoff at the price I remind them there's a way to get it free - join my fan club. Haven't had a complaint since!
I feel like most guys respect that models charge for PM. The ones that don't prey on new models and I got a lot of them when I was new. It's so important
to set boundaries. That's the top thing that improved camming for me - when I decided to say no more often and not feel bad about it.
=> What do I do about regulars?
Tell them straight up what your preferences are about dirty talk/what happens in private vs. public.
Every model is different, and these people can't read minds. They don't know unless we tell them.
If they start getting too crazy I usually ask if they want to switch to private, or remind them that they can make me feel good with a tip.
My put it in a tip note line is "I love hearing in the -tip notes- what you're thinking about...."
=> Lovense?
Yes, you can set up everything through the Lovense browser.
Get the adapter, not the phone app. When I started doing it with the phone app, it never stayed connected.
I use the Lush and Domi which are "standard camming items," but it's important not to rely on them. I do shows without them too.
I also wanted to switch things up, so just got the new Mission and did a "guess what's in the box" game with it to reveal.
I wish I had more "buildup" for introducing the Lush. If I could re-start camming, I'd do a goal countdown for it with a surprise
reveal. Surprise reveals are everything. People love reality TV for that reason - the suspense. If you keep people guessing, they stay viewing.
It's important to stay engaged with the viewers when using these items! I try to think "if I had no lush right now, would this still be an interesting show?" when creating my shows.
I feel like eventually, they may become "over-done," so I'm looking for the next new item.
=> Dice?
It's an "app/bot." If you go to "apps/bots" tab, you can search 'dice roll,' 'wheel spin' etc. I price my dice anywhere from 55-99 depending on what the prizes are.
Recently I did a chance to unlock photos for 24 hours via dice roll for 99 (or guess the lucky number to have a free way to participate ) , and people were into it.
For prizes you can do things off your tip menu, I also offer a quick cam watching as a rare prize because it's asked for so often (but I like watching cams a lot of models prefer not to. It's up to you! We are all different.)
=> Toys etc?
Yes absolutely! But, you never want to do it in a "sob story" way - just keep things fun.
With camming, it is wise to not mention personal/financial issues if at all possible.
The shady, scummy people unfortunately could prey on that. I hate to even say that but it's so true.
Always negotiate from a position of power, and be willing to walk away.
Lovense has a wish list that is private!
=> Getting From Clothed to Un-clothed?
I'm so sorry to hear that, and I hope things improve soon.
There are so many ways to do that. What worked for me yesterday and the goal was met quickly = multi-goal with lovense dream. 3 clothing items on (tank top, bra underwear).
150 per item off then stay nude for a few, then repeat (I ended up body painting instead of putting the items back on, then goal to wash off the body paint but that's just me. Every
show is unique & different!)
Another thing that has worked for me - tip menu 500 clothes off half hour, but you can roll the dice or spin the wheel in the range of 55-99 depending on the other prizes for
clothing items off/nude quickly.
I've noticed people will always say it's 'too expensive.' So I try to sell on value, not price. What can I offer that nobody else can? How can I meet their needs and solve their problems
(sales is problem solving).
Learning about luxury branding and branding for artists has helped me immensely. I apply a lot of sales principles to camming too.
P.S. What's a "thread" vs "sticky thread"?
No idea on this one. lol
hugs & good vibes,
Ava