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Hi All

This is my first post here. I’ve looked through the forums trying to find similar posts to what I’m about to share to no avail 😐

Due to the COVID-19 pandemic and living alone I thought I’d give MFC a try to kill the boredom and as a chance for some socialisation. I met a model and got chatting back in December 2020 and still talk together presently.

She is by no means one of the sites popular models, but she is pretty and makes good conversations (though English is not her first language). We initially chatted and I tipped her for items off of her tip menu, then eventually had a private session together which was great 😊.

Around that time she mentioned some of the other models in her studio had regulars that send them money directly as a means of supporting them as they take only a meagre percentage of the tokens they make. I was quite straight in telling her I’m not down with that but I’m still happy to have other private sessions and tip etc.

As time has progressed, we’ve had c2c sessions together and she’s told me she likes me etc etc (what I kinda thought is the usual ego massage), I just played along with it, told her I liked her and she was my favourite model on the site (which to be fair is true).

Before our 5th private, she offered to do a longer Skype session for the same amount of tokens. So liking a good deal I took her offer and it was great. This is where I’m not sure if I’m being played or I’m playing her starts.

After exchanging Skype, I started getting some texts and some pictures from her (not nudes, just her in her normal life) which I thought was cool. Gradually she started telling me she loved me and would like to meet after COVID is done. Again I just went along with it thinking it’s the norm to get more tokens from me.

Since Tuesday (9/2/21) she has been offline for Chinese New Year but has still sent me texts and pictures of her life. Then today, she video called me (normally I’m fine with) but this time it was with her family...a little strange I thought, even stranger when the talk turned to when I’m marrying her 😐.

Now, I enjoy talking to and having fun with this model, but the fact is she lives the other side of the world to me, and I really thought this whole “we’ll meet up” thing was just the usual keeping me sweet play.

My concern now is, does she really think I’m coming to meet her? Have I inadvertently played her by going along with the “I love yous” and the “I miss yous “? Or is this still her thinking she’s playing me? I try to be a nice guy, I’m respectful and polite and really don’t want to hurt her feelings if what she’s saying is legit.

For context, she is mid 20’s and I’m mid 30’s.

thoughts....?

(Apologies if this is posted in the wrong place)
 
Then today, she video called me (normally I’m fine with) but this time it was with her family...a little strange I thought, even stranger when the talk turned to when I’m marrying her 😐.
Well, if you actually don't want to marry her, just say so, break it off and up and leave. There is probably nothing to save here, and if you try it will be weird forever. You led each other on to such a degree that you now have this situation to deal with, and I guess you just assumed all the time that she had the exact same culture as you with regard to sweet talking, mutual, casual internet masturbation and "innocent fun". You probably shouldn't end up marrying her in order to save her from being disappointed.

And finally: if this is yet another episode of the fan fiction we had here last week, I never wrote this.
 
Since Tuesday (9/2/21) she has been offline for Chinese New Year but has still sent me texts and pictures of her life. Then today, she video called me (normally I’m fine with) but this time it was with her family...a little strange I thought, even stranger when the talk turned to when I’m marrying her 😐.

Wait she talked about marriage with you in front of her family? Where is she from?
 
Back tattoo?



Fan fiction?



@CheeseMoon I appreciate this has obviously gone too far in the quest for sexual gratification. I have no intention of marrying her to save her disappointment.



@Danigirl Maybe one day I will look back and laugh, but the shock of it has somewhat dulled my sense of humour.



@cbhours Yep was in front of her family (I assume, they are good actors if it’s an elaborate scam), the only thing could have made it more awkward is if I had answered the call whilst jackin’ it.



Yes she is from SE Asia.
 
Back tattoo?
Fan fiction?
Yes back tattoo. Read the whole thread if you have the stomach for it, and also the sticky post with the collection of "In love with a cam girl" threads.
The fan fiction thing was a thread here last week. Or, it became increasingly apparent as the thread progressed it was fan fiction (with unusually good grammar).

I am going to assume what you say is true and offer my sympathies, because I would probably have been as surprised and freaked out as you if the cam model I spent a lot of time talking to both on and off cam a couple of years ago had started seriously talking about marriage (our ridiculous age difference aside). Why? Because she never once offered me anything for free, never asked me to stop spending and was more than happy to take my money, just like "your" cam model apparently is.

If her talk about marriage wasn't just some stupid misunderstanding lost in translation, what is it she actually wants? To come to your country, become a kept woman and have the social comforts of a marriage on top of that? Because taking your money as a cam girl and practically being your fiancée doesn't make a whole lot of sense to my western mind. Maybe she has other expectations and cultural baggage.

And here is a free tip: for the exact same reasons as you now have, I stopped giving my real name to models and stopped talking to them on WhatsApp, SnapChat, Skype or any other platform that isn't the cam site. There are simply too many who want you to be their plane ticket out of wherever they currently live.
 
Back tattoo?



Fan fiction?

There's a lot of guys who come here with almost the same exact story.

Man meets cam model. Man and cam model fall hopelessly in love. Cam model still wants money. Man wants to know "is this real or am I being scammed". This story, and various other variations of it, has been played out ad nauseum on the forum. So, most people don't really take these threads serious anymore. Especially since Amber created a sticky post compiling some of the biggest "does she love me" threads on the forum, where you'll see exactly what we will answer, which is "If you're here asking us these questions, then you know the answer. You're being love conned".

At this point, since there's still a lot of guys who post about their situations with cam models, and are assumedly not reading any of the other posts asking basically the same exact thing, it's pretty natural to assume that at the very least a good chunk of the people posting these threads are not posting actual situations and instead are just writing out their own fanfiction in the hopes of getting free attention, usually attention that feeds into their sexual fantasies. Which, obviously, bugs cam models since providing fap material is part of our jobs and not something we would like to do for free.

Oh, and some dude got a cam model's name tattooed on his back to prove his undying love for her, because he had a super big galaxy brain. 10/10 move.
 
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@CheeseMoon Back tattoo sounds like an interesting read, I shall I have to have a look.



I’m not sure what she actually wants, it completely blindsided me in all honesty. It doesn’t make a lot of sense to me either, maybe she’s under the illusion that because of where I’m from I have money maybe or the quality of life is better?



I don’t mind giving my name and where I’m from generally, but I never share money details with anyone. Like I said though, I was quite straight in telling her I’m not down for sending her cash.



I think like you, I’ve learned my lesson. It’s all good fun having c2c and Skyping until something like this happens, and freaks you out!



@cbhours Close, Cambodia’s communist neighbour (not Laos).
 
@Marceline Ok, I can imagine. I can see why guys think they fall in love with models, but I generally try and live in reality, it gets financially dangerous when reality and fantasy start blurring together.

I guess due to lockdowns, and lack of social contact, I let my guard down with this one.

Thanks for filling me in on the back tattoo.
Was the name he got actually her real name, or her cam name?
 
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