Need some advice... Romanian webcam studios

[Needhelp]

So a couple of years ago... I am hiking in Romania looking for some Dacian ruins and visiting the sight where Jason and the Argonauts went ashore after finding the Golden Fleece... Seeing were Ovid was banished quite a nice trip. One of my sons is a history nerd so he researches these places and I take him and his brother...

So long story short I wake up early and decide to get a cup of coffee. Go down the street to a cafe sit down and wait for the the waitress to come over... When she does I am stunned... Anyway after going there every morning for about the next 3 mornings or so... She asks me if their coffee is that good... I say no but the view is the best in Romania so far.... Specially when you smile or some cheesy crap like that... Problem being I actually meant it. Well she was getting off her shift in a few hours and had time before her university class started to grab a quick lunch... I take her to lunch, walk her to class and number close a few dinners later and it's time for me to go home to the states... Didn't even kiss her seemed like such a shy girl and she is in person... Anyway 2 years later and multiple trips to Romania and we are engaged....I told her I loved her in 6 months she said she wouldn't say that till she felt she couldn't live without me... 18 months in she is hugging me crying and whispers it in my ear... She's dirt poor and her whole family is counting on her to finish college which she has almost done and make something of herself. She works incredible hard... And does not take advantage of me as far as money goes... In fact she stops me from helping her... Says you need to know I love you and not what you have and can do for me.

So I have a picture of her up at work... One of my co-workers goes hey did you know your girlfriend is a cam-girl... Sort of blew my mind.... I didn't believe him... Asked her about it and she went crazy....ended with her telling me she hates that I know and hates that she did those things... I was just pissed she didn't tell me... And I found out from someone I work with... And was like why are you so,worked up about something from 2 years ago. He was cool about it said he wouldn't tell anyone and then promised he hadn't seen her in a show... Which made me laugh... Even if he had, I see her in real life although he is an asshole so the thought of him jerking it to my future wife is kinda repulsive.


Thanks to mycamgirl I tracked her profiles down... And saw that she cammed for about 3 days .... Then she stopped and two months later she cammed for an hour and a half.... She was on like seven sites... Which is a lot for someone to register for in three days... I read some,posts here and found a pic or two of her shows online actually on one of her profiles. It is an obvious studio room down to the ikea furniture. Anyway barely anytime on cam but she has profiles everywhere... Here is the rub... I work in a profession that this could be very damaging if it came out. Specially if we are married. From what I have read she can't close the profiles because the studio owns them... She has confirmed that she does not have access to the accounts and didn't know where all they signed her up... She also never wants to go near the studio again and doesn't know if they are even open. She says her old boyfriend wanted her to do this to make money...

What are my options.... Money is not so much of an issue... Can I just buy the accounts and passwords from the studio? If I get them all shut down will it eventually go away. I understand their point of view, they invested time and money into her and with 3.5 hours of paid chat she wasn't a good investment...


According to mycamgirl she has done a total of 3.5 hours in private chat... I can find no record of those on the web... Although I assume livejasmin could release them at anytime... I guess they record everything? Any options to getting it erased? The same with cam4 and the others... But seems like most of her time was on livejasmin...

Honestly I don't care that she cammed... I dated strippers all through college... But I was not working in the area I am currently working in... At least not at the level I am at... And employees have been asked to resign in my field for similar things... Now it might be different because I did not cam only my future wife did?


And even if I get the profiles down... All those affiliate sites have her up... So is there even a point... Or is the best option if anyone asks or finds out just be honest and say yep she did it when young and it's in the past?


Because of my position I get a lot of rumors about me... The current one is that I am gay... Which is because I live in the south am not fat and dress nice without boots I assume... So I stand out... This would go nuclear as far as rumors go ... Thinking about moving to a less close minded area?

Any advice?

 

[Nordling]

Yeah, quit worrying about yourself and your "reputation," and decide whether or not you really love the woman in question. Nothing else should matter to you. Maybe find a job in which what your wife did years ago doesn't matter.

 

[Needhelp]

I guess you missed the part were I talked about moving to a different area... Were people are less judgmental... i know two cities were that is possible. Two masters degrees and and quite a bit of experience that would apply in no other sector make finding a different job a little out of the question.

 

[MFCGod]

So I have a picture of her up at work... One of my co-workers goes hey did you know your girlfriend is a cam-girl

why are you so,worked up about something from 2 years ago.

And saw that she cammed for about 3 days .... Then she stopped and two months later she cammed for an hour and a half.... She was on like seven sites... Which is a lot for someone to register for in three days...

So you're saying she cammed for 3 days, 2 years ago, but your co worker recognises her as a camgirl just from a photo you have up?

This seems like such a legit story

 

[Needhelp]

Yeah I totally get that comment and I thought it was quite a freak accident... And really shitty luck That this guy recognized her as well... That's like winning the lottery odds I think. There are probably thousands of cam girls... And she should have been lost in the Internet... By the way he said he was never able to catch her online... And who really knows if it was just 3.5 days... That's what was on mycamgirl

Anyway I have had two very unhelpful comments... And no answers...

My question was if anyone knows if it's possible to buy studio accounts from a studio in romania and shut them down and if that is even a viable option or if it will not really effect anything.

 

[justjoinedtopost]

My question was if anyone knows if it's possible to buy studio accounts from a studio in romania and shut them down and if that is even a viable option or if it will not really effect anything.

I can't say if it is possible or not, but I know it sounds like one of the dumbest ideas I have ever heard. The shit is out there, deal with it. Assuming (as MFCGod pointed out) that your remarkably implausible tale is legit.

 

[KayleePond]

No need to get all snippy with us. You've shown up here out of the blue asking for help without so much as introducing yourself first, which would have been polite. We aren't obligated to answer your questions and if anyone chooses to, you don't get to dictate how they do it. You're coming here asking for a favor with a pretty weird story, so perhaps some more manners would be in your best interest.

I think that perhaps the best advice was already given at the start, which is to stop worrying about it so much. Part of why people haven't responded about gaining access to the recordings or getting the accounts deleted is that it's so completely not possible that it isn't even worth really addressing. Sites can't just give that stuff out to random people! WE can't even get our own private show recordings. I'm not sure how livejasmin does it, but that's the case on MFC. You might be able to find Streamate recordings around the web, but I don't think they'll give them to us on demand. They certainly wont delete them. The whole concept of trying to buy the accounts from the studios is super weird. I suggest just giving up on that idea.

You're pushing us on giving advice about moving, but we don't know anything about where you are or your industry. Who could even answer this question better than you? Certainly not us! I mean...yeah move, maybe? I don't know the other variables for you if you move. That's really a personal call.

If she really only cammed for such a short time, it's pretty unlikely that anyone will recognize her or find out. It's probably more likely if you stay at your current job because you already have a guy who knows. If someone finding out is likely to ruin your life at the current place, I say move just to play it safe as long as it isn't totally messing up your family/social life.

 

[Nordling]

I guess you missed the part were I talked about moving to a different area... Were people are less judgmental... i know two cities were that is possible. Two masters degrees and and quite a bit of experience that would apply in no other sector make finding a different job a little out of the question.

Yes, a large accumulation of education makes finding another company to work for MORE difficult. Makes sense. Of course, I'd suggest when you apply, you learn the difference between "were" and "where."

 

[Needhelp]

first thanks, I got the answer I needed. No point in trying to get the accounts closed down... And it sounds like any recordings are pretty buried.

As to moving... I was stating that's something I considered... And honestly was not seeking advice on it...

I apologize if my response was not polite... I didn't intend for it to be rude at all...

The more education you have the more specialized your niche is... A general engineer has a lot of options a nuclear engineer only a few...

And for were and where... Very dyslexic understand the difference but will never keep them straight... The same with their and there and to and too...

I tried to give an I introduction by giving a back story/history...

And if you want weird the guy from work is weird... Like a cam girl nut... He likes a specif type of girl and has hundreds of them saved in his phone divided up by country... Very very creepy... I assume because I am marrying a women who cammed he thinks I am part of his club? And now attempts to discuss this with me.

Hope everyone has a very pleasant day! Genuinely apologies for any offense... I Don't see it... But that doesn't mean it's not there... So again sorry if I came off as rude not my intention...

 

[Not_Reqd]

With alll the porn clips and cam girls I've watched, if I was walking in a store and they were walking out, I prolly wouldn't recognize them. However if she hasn't cammed in "2 years" and that dude recognized her..... I'm thinkin' she's cammed recently.

What will co-workers do? Google her name? Big deal. Chances are nothing will come up. I googled a girl I've talked to for 3 years and all that came up was her enrollment at University of English.

 

[zippypinhead]

Man, this reads like fucking fiction.

 

[HiGirlsRHot]

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So I have a picture of her up at work... One of my co-workers goes hey did you know your girlfriend is a cam-girl... Sort of blew my mind.... I didn't believe him... Asked her about it and she went crazy....ended with her telling me she hates that I know and hates that she did those things... I was just pissed she didn't tell me... And I found out from someone I work with... And was like why are you so,worked up about something from 2 years ago. He was cool about it said he wouldn't tell anyone and then promised he hadn't seen her in a show... Which made me laugh... Even if he had, I see her in real life although he is an asshole so the thought of him jerking it to my future wife is kinda repulsive.

Any advice?

Rather than try for a technological solution how about a human one. If she cammed as little as you said than ya it is really bad luck that one of your co-workers found out about her. The odds that more than one worker would find her independently are astronomical. So why not approach the one co-worker, beg, bribe, cajole, or hell even threaten to tell you who else has told, and to keep it to himself. Unless one of you is pretty awful human being he probably will do it.

If he doesn't well then deal with it at the time, move, develop a thick skin or whatever. You have virtually no chance of removing all traces of her naked pictures from the internet.

As far as him jerking it to your wife, if she is camgirl hot, than guys will probably jerk it to her in street clothes, it is how we respond to sexy woman. It's also the downside of having a relationship with a hot girl, she is going to attract male attention deal with it.

 

[PunkInDrublic]

Put me in the dude is telling duck tales camp.

As far as him jerking it to your wife, if she is camgirl hot, than guys will probably jerk it to her in street clothes, it is how we respond to sexy woman.

What does camgirl hot mean? Never heard it before. I think I know what pornstar hot or stripper hot means but have never heard this.

 

[HiGirlsRHot]

Put me in the dude is telling duck tales camp.

As far as him jerking it to your wife, if she is camgirl hot, than guys will probably jerk it to her in street clothes, it is how we respond to sexy woman.

What does camgirl hot mean? Never heard it before. I think I know what pornstar hot or stripper hot means but have never heard this.

Pretty much the same.

 

[PunkInDrublic]

Pretty much the same.

Roger, I don't think I know what stripper hot or pornstar hot means then. Thought it meant a Jenna Jameson type look and camgirl hot was going to be a more natural girl next door look.

 

[Sevrin]

Pretty much the same.

Roger, I don't think I know what stripper hot or pornstar hot means then. Thought it meant a Jenna Jameson type look and camgirl hot was going to be a more natural girl next door look.

I don't think "camgirl hot" means anything more than "coed hot" or "stewardess hot" or "waitress hot" or "that woman I saw at the grocery store the other day hot". If a woman exists, and is reflecting visible light, someone's gonna have found her hot at some point.

In any case, should he ever visit again, I offer my congratulations to the OP on his happiness, real or imagined. I wouldn't worry too much about creepy dude outing your missus. If your company is as uptight as all that, he's not going to earn brownie points by publicizing his obsession with naked online ladies.

 

[NickT]

This story has so many odd things, I'm not sure if it's real or not, but I'll offer some advice in any case. Deny, deny, deny. Hopefully, you haven't blabbed around about this or confirmed it with anyone else. If she does her hair and makeup differently, no one is going to be match her with her past. If this guy starts telling other people, deny it and report him to HR for sexual harassment.

 

[maskpull]

Does a studio boss have ability to access live show or recorded video of his model whenever he want.

 

[yummybrownfox]

Because of my position I get a lot of rumors about me... The current one is that I am gay... Which is because I live in the south am not fat and dress nice without boots I assume... So I stand out...

:lol:

Best part of the thread!