If a model is reported for breaking rules will MFC ban her?

[JimsX]

OK, I want to be careful here. This model is one I used to visit often but I just cannot handle her doing this. She constantly breaks a rule (at least I think it's a rule). Her room is not very sexual, except for private show, but to me this is still wrong. She considers her small group her true friends and most of the guys are pretty cool. The problem is she always ... always shows family pictures (all of her family ... yeah). She wants her friends to know her and vice versa. To me this is utterly insane, not only for the obvious safety risk, but also because I am pretty sure this is against the rules, or at least it should be.

I have literally begged her to stop doing this. I stopped tipping and going to her room for months. Today on my first day back she was doing it again. I am done with her. It is so fucking wrong.

Now the thing is, she needs this job. She is a foreign model and she uses this money to support her family. She would be screwed if she lost it. I want her to stop and I have considered reporting her. I just want her to stop, but I do not want her to get banned.

Am I too worried? Should I just walk away and let her deal with any consequences?

 

[SexySteph]

Re: If a model is reported for breaking rules will MFC ban h

OK, I want to be careful here. This model is one I used to visit often but I just cannot handle her doing this. She constantly breaks a rule (at least I think it's a rule). Her room is not very sexual, except for private show, but to me this is still wrong. She considers her small group her true friends and most of the guys are pretty cool. The problem is she always ... always shows family pictures (all of her family ... yeah). She wants her friends to know her and vice versa. To me this is utterly insane, not only for the obvious safety risk, but also because I am pretty sure this is against the rules, or at least it should be.

I have literally begged her to stop doing this. I stopped tipping and going to her room for months. Today on my first day back she was doing it again. I am done with her. It is so fucking wrong.

Now the thing is, she needs this job. She is a foreign model and she uses this money to support her family. She would be screwed if she lost it. I want her to stop and I have considered reporting her. I just want her to stop, but I do not want her to get banned.

Am I too worried? Should I just walk away and let her deal with any consequences?

This is, I'm pretty sure, not against the rules. It's irresponsible, kinda crappy and pretty dumb but otherwise I think it's probably okay by MFCs rules.

I REALLY think you should just mind your own business on this. :twocents-02cents:

 

[Worship Jaclyn]

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I have nothing to say regarding it being against the rules and/or worth reporting but :handgestures-salute: that is pretty horrific in my humble opinion. I certainly don't think your feelings are an overreaction.

 

[RedHerby]

Re: If a model is reported for breaking rules will MFC ban h

Am I too worried? Should I just walk away and let her deal with any consequences?

yes yes yes

 

[JimsX]

Re: If a model is reported for breaking rules will MFC ban h

As I thought about it more, I am unsure what my goal would be anyway. I wish she would stop doing it, but don't want her banned. I would feel terrible.

Well if it's not against the rules, I will take the advice to leave it alone. I'll just move on to another model who doesn't do the things that creep me out. MFC is not the venue to share pics and vids of your nieces. :angry4:

Glad to see though that I am not the only one bothered by it.

 

[JickyJuly]

Re: If a model is reported for breaking rules will MFC ban h

If she's purposely showing photos of her children on a porn site (and mfc is a porn site), she's a despicable human. I'm not sure if she's breaking a law. I think MFC bans for things that break laws (as they should), and takes action on a case by case basis for legal things that break their site rules. I might get the camgirl stinkeye for saying this, but if I saw a model PURPOSELY showing her kids' photos on camera, I would report her without hesitation or guilt. There's no reason or excuse for it. It's exploitation and a violation of the children's privacy. If it's not illegal, MFC will probably just warn her. If it illegal, she's banned. Either way, she's an adult with decision making skills who made a shitty one.

Edit: Hold the phone. Nieces? Videos?! They aren't her kids and there are videos? Yeah. Report that. Insanity. Gawd. No one let juju get ahold of this. If she can make something out of nothing and run with it for months, imagine what she'd do with this shit.

 

[eclipse76]

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A Romanian (then in Russia) model was doing that a few years ago, but in public chat and on her profile. She took the pictures down once people warned her.
But she still doesn't care much about talking about her real life. Does her name start with a 'A'?

 

[JimsX]

Re: If a model is reported for breaking rules will MFC ban h

If she's purposely showing photos of her children on a porn site (and mfc is a porn site), she's a despicable human. I'm not sure if she's breaking a law. I think MFC bans for things that break laws (as they should), and takes action on a case by case basis for legal things that break their site rules. I might get the camgirl stinkeye for saying this, but if I saw a model PURPOSELY showing her kids' photos on camera, I would report her without hesitation or guilt. There's no reason or excuse for it. It's exploitation and a violation of the children's privacy. If it's not illegal, MFC will probably just warn her. If it illegal, she's banned. Either way, she's an adult with decision making skills who made a shitty one.

See, this is where I started on this whole thing, and my thinking on it came from the library show thread where someone said that even if the model was clothed she still showed a kid on an adult site. It's the same thing here: she is clothed but she does share pics and it just feels so very wrong. She argued with me that it's fine because they are not actually on cam and if she is banned then public shows should be banned. I guess she missed that memo.

I waffle back and forth on this, because she is a good person and her intentions are not bad, just very stupid. My issue was I am not sure it if it's illegal or against the rules, or if it is just very disgusting and moronic. I was not the only one today who complained to her about it so I won't be shocked if it's already been reported. I've already decided I am done going to her room or tipping her.


@Eclipse, not this is not the same model.

 

[LoonaVision]

Re: If a model is reported for breaking rules will MFC ban h

You can send email to mfc admins and ask them just to warn her to stop doing what she is doing.

 

[Sevrin]

Re: If a model is reported for breaking rules will MFC ban h

I don't think what she is doing is right, but I doubt that, by showing those pictures, she is putting children in danger, which should be your only concern here. My guess is that she is helping to support those kids with the income she earns. I doubt that the lives of those children would be improved by having Auntie Boobs4U lose her job.

 

[mynameisbob84]

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I know of a certain middle-aged model who could tell you a thing or two about MFC's ban policy regarding models who break the rules... :?

 

[fandango]

Re: If a model is reported for breaking rules will MFC ban h

I feel quite conflicted over this one. On the one hand I feel like she is clothed the kids arent being shown in any explicit way then its not really that big of a deal but then on the other hand kids on a porn site is a giant NoNo, even if MFC is slightly different from a regular pornsite in that there are a lot of rooms that are entirely non sexual, all kinds of red flags would be going off for me.

I guess it sort of depends on the vibe of the room. If shes running a count down to sexytime or anything like that its very wrong but if she is just chatting in a non sexual way and sharing things about her life with her regulars then its maybe a bit different, I dont know. Just thinking about it is making me uncomfortable.

If I were you I would just move on and leave her to it. I dont believe in trying to force my morality on others so even if I think something is wrong unless its breaking the law or MFC rules I wont say anything but I wont stay and be a part of it.

I know kids on cam is an instant ban but im not sure about a photo of kids. Seems to be a bit of a grey area unless someone knows for certain?

 

[LaceyRoyce]

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I'm curious:

What if the model was a Never nude, never sexual type of girl. What if she shows up, and chats and that's all she does.
would it still be wrong to you guys?

Is it because "she's on a porn site"

Is it also wrong for the author of a very sexual series of books to show pics of his kids on a daytime tv show?
etc.. etc....

It gets into some really grey areas.
Like having pets on cam in non-sexual ways (my dogs are always in and out)
Vs masturbating with a dog in the room...

The idea that by showing a picture of a child puts that child in danger is interesting. When I was talking to the NY times reporter, he kept asking me "why dont you share your real name? Why do you refuse to have your face in pictures" and I kept trying to explain that there are dangerous people on the internet. He started out by coming at it like "this job must be bad/you must be ashamed" and then changed his tune when he realized he actually deals with the same thing. He is very VERY careful about what family pictures he posts to his facebook page, because as a famous author, he's concerned that some wierdo will see the pictures of his children and they will be in danger.






The other day i was doing a cum show, and looked up and realized a picture of my grandma was staring down at me. It squicked me out.... but i don't think i should be banned for it.

I've also shared a very personal picture of my grandparents on camera. In a non sexual situation, chatting about her illness. It was done because it was very important to me that my room sees me as a real person, and know that i wasn't making up a 'sick grandma' when I wanted to go to nz.





I guess the question is, how much danger is there to these children by being broadcast as related to her with pictures, and at what point is that an abusive situation where people should step in, and at what point is that a parents choice. in the same way we let parents make choices about their childs healthcare that could put the kid in danger. Where is the "this is my choice as a parent" and "this is a choice you don't get to make for your child"


I don't actually have any answers... just this topic brought up some really strange grey areas for me

 

[JimsX]

Re: If a model is reported for breaking rules will MFC ban h

I don't think what she is doing is right, but I doubt that, by showing those pictures, she is putting children in danger, which should be your only concern here. My guess is that she is helping to support those kids with the income she earns. I doubt that the lives of those children would be improved by having Auntie Boobs4U lose her job.

This is all that has held me back. I know she is the breadwinner for the family right now and while she does work on at least one other camsite, MFC provides the bulk of her income. I would feel terrible causing her to lose her income for what may be a moral, rather than a legal/rules, issue. She does not do public nude, so that makes it less bad I think, but MFC is still a "porn site." If I were watching porn and the camera panned to a nightstand with pics of the pornstar's kids I would be horrified.

I will send her an MFC mail telling her I am leaving and why. I guess my fear (besides her losing her job) is an idiot such as Jicky finding out and launching another crusade to ruin a woman's life.

 

[zippypinhead]

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Did you just call Jicky an idiot for fucking agreeing with your reaction? The hell, man.

 

[Gen]

Re: If a model is reported for breaking rules will MFC ban h

Did you just call Jicky an idiot for fucking agreeing with your reaction? The hell, man.

I'm guessing (and hoping) he meant Juju and got them confused?

 

[zippypinhead]

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Did you just call Jicky an idiot for fucking agreeing with your reaction? The hell, man.

I'm guessing (and hoping) he meant Juju and got them confused?

Ah, that would make sense.

 

[JimsX]

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Ahhhhh FUCK!!!! I did not notice that!! Of course I meant Juju!!!


So sorry Jicky!! Dammit :icon-cry:

Too late too edit. I hope Jicky reads all the way down. Dang, I should not type when I am sleepy

 

[JickyJuly]

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*starts a petition to have all men removed from the internet because a dude accidentally called me an idiot*

:lol:

 

[JickyJuly]

Re: If a model is reported for breaking rules will MFC ban h

I'm curious:

What if the model was a Never nude, never sexual type of girl. What if she shows up, and chats and that's all she does.
would it still be wrong to you guys?

Is it because "she's on a porn site"

Is it also wrong for the author of a very sexual series of books to show pics of his kids on a daytime tv show?
etc.. etc....

It gets into some really grey areas.
Like having pets on cam in non-sexual ways (my dogs are always in and out)
Vs masturbating with a dog in the room...

The idea that by showing a picture of a child puts that child in danger is interesting. When I was talking to the NY times reporter, he kept asking me "why dont you share your real name? Why do you refuse to have your face in pictures" and I kept trying to explain that there are dangerous people on the internet. He started out by coming at it like "this job must be bad/you must be ashamed" and then changed his tune when he realized he actually deals with the same thing. He is very VERY careful about what family pictures he posts to his facebook page, because as a famous author, he's concerned that some wierdo will see the pictures of his children and they will be in danger.






The other day i was doing a cum show, and looked up and realized a picture of my grandma was staring down at me. It squicked me out.... but i don't think i should be banned for it.

I've also shared a very personal picture of my grandparents on camera. In a non sexual situation, chatting about her illness. It was done because it was very important to me that my room sees me as a real person, and know that i wasn't making up a 'sick grandma' when I wanted to go to nz.





I guess the question is, how much danger is there to these children by being broadcast as related to her with pictures, and at what point is that an abusive situation where people should step in, and at what point is that a parents choice. in the same way we let parents make choices about their childs healthcare that could put the kid in danger. Where is the "this is my choice as a parent" and "this is a choice you don't get to make for your child"


I don't actually have any answers... just this topic brought up some really strange grey areas for me

For me, the problem is not that showing a picture directly endangers a child. It's that children are people, and certainly have a right not to be shown on an adult website ever in their lives if they do not choose to. Children are not property or pets, and, often, I feel parents forget and disrespect that. With the right of making choices for a child comes the responsibility of putting their best interests first. Parents who make improper medical choices for their child might be misguided or uneducated on the matter, but they think they're doing what is best for the kid probably. NOTHING about putting a kid on a porn site is beneficial for that child. In my opinion, she is being INCREDIBLY disrespectful to these children. I also feel that someone who is cool putting a child's face out there while members are floating around with their wangs in their hands looking for fap material, is being careless to a fault with that child and incredibly rude to members. To me, there's zero grey area here. I would call Twitter grey area, and that still skeeves me out a bit. At some point, I thought it was said that she is an aunt and there are videos involved? Maybe I read something wrong while I was seeing red? BUT, if I were to find out, as a parent, that someone in my family was showing my children in video on a porn site (meant as fap material or not), they would be dead to me, and I would be seeking legal assistance to have them stopped and punished if possible.

 

[lovesheidi]

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i'm going to guess MFC isn't at all okay with this and she would at least get a strong warning. I mean, its a sex site, like i dont want to be flipping through penthouse and suddenly theres a pic of a models kid. SHE might not be naked, but you can go from a public cumshow right into her room, pics of her kids....gahblahgarbl. no. lets not potentially sexualize minors.

 

[JimsX]

Re: If a model is reported for breaking rules will MFC ban h

Well, I finally managed to chase her down. I could not bring myself to report her (yet), but I took advice from all of you and used it in a long talk with her. It baffles me that she could not see the creepiness involved with this, but she is someone who denies to a point she works on an adult site and tries her best to simply make it a nightly gathering of her gang. But I think now she sees the light. Showing pics and vids of your family gatherings is just not OK on a camsite. Of course she could have been bullshitting me to get me to lay off, but I did tell her that if I see it again I would not hesitate to report her.

So yeah, coward's way out, but someone said earlier (forgot which member it was) that she is feeding those kids with her MFC earnings. With no education past grade 10 her options are limited. I had to think about the ramifications on everyone else. But I still don't feel real good.

Not the answer some of you were looking for (and not me either) but there it is. I hope my decision leads to her actually stopping.

 

[JerryBoBerry]

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Of course she could have been bullshitting me to get me to lay off, but I did tell her that if I see it again I would not hesitate to report her.

She should ban you. Way too stalkerish and telling her what she can and can't do. Definitely none of your business. Someone behaved like that to me I'd get rid of them any way i could. No way i'd tolerate your behavior.

 

[JimsX]

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She should ban you. Way too stalkerish and telling her what she can and can't do. Definitely none of your business. Someone behaved like that to me I'd get rid of them any way i could. No way i'd tolerate your behavior.

Fair point, and in any other situation I'd feel the same as you do. My whole point was she is doing something at least dancing around the rules (anything to do with kids on a camsite is wrong) and I really do not want her to lose her job. I was and am torn. But I am leaving it behind.

 

[iforgotmyname]

Re: If a model is reported for breaking rules will MFC ban h

If she's purposely showing photos of her children on a porn site (and mfc is a porn site), she's a despicable human. I'm not sure if she's breaking a law. I think MFC bans for things that break laws (as they should), and takes action on a case by case basis for legal things that break their site rules. I might get the camgirl stinkeye for saying this, but if I saw a model PURPOSELY showing her kids' photos on camera, I would report her without hesitation or guilt. There's no reason or excuse for it. It's exploitation and a violation of the children's privacy. If it's not illegal, MFC will probably just warn her. If it illegal, she's banned. Either way, she's an adult with decision making skills who made a shitty one.

Edit: Hold the phone. Nieces? Videos?! They aren't her kids and there are videos? Yeah. Report that. Insanity. Gawd. No one let juju get ahold of this. If she can make something out of nothing and run with it for months, imagine what she'd do with this shit.

mfc is not a porn site. it's an adult entertainment site, even though they violate every code that allows it to be classified as such on a daily basis. and i think u guys are making mountains out of mole hills. u act as if members are sitting in her room masturbating to this. if they wanted to jerk it to clothed children they could just pull the ads out of the sunday newspaper. it would seem more appropriate to start crucifying parents for having sex in the privacy of their own homes while their children are present in the next room. lets be real, a lot of rooms on mfc are basically the equivalent of the old myspace chat rooms where people are just hanging out and making new friends because they are bored at home and there is nothing sexual going on whatsoever. and also mfc states that they encourage models to form relationships with members on a personal level if they choose to do so, which could actually be really confusing to a model on what would be considered appropriate to talk about. yea i know they should probably just give their friends their facebook or yahoo info and talk about their family with them there. anyway we are all entitled to our own opinion and i'm not really trying to attack anybody for their personal beliefs, i'm just trying to provide a different view on the topic. i actually came across this forum because i was trying to search how to report mfc for all the laws they themselves break and how they constantly turn the other cheek to their top earners who are breaking laws and rules that other models who earn less get banned for. i think that's the real problem. that site has come so far from what it was initially intended and obligated to be. at this point it seems as if they believe they are untouchable and unfortunately, but not suprisingly, i can't find any sites with info on where to report and give proof of their violations to an agency that will actually take legal action against a company like this. so if anybody could give me some information on how to go about that it would be greatly appreciated

 

[JickyJuly]

Mfc IS a porn site. They have an age page to get in. So, the bad news (for you) is that you're wrong. And, the good news is that there is nothing for you to report! I guess you could spend your new found time digging up more really old threads around here.

 

[yummybrownfox]

and i think u guys are making mountains out of mole hills. u act as if members are sitting in her room masturbating to this. if they wanted to jerk it to clothed children they could just pull the ads out of the sunday newspaper. lets be real, a lot of rooms on mfc are basically the equivalent of the old myspace chat rooms where people are just hanging out and making new friends because they are bored at home and there is nothing sexual going on whatsoever. and also mfc states that they encourage models to form relationships with members on a personal level if they choose to do so.

Forming relationships with members doesn't mean to be careless and inconsiderate towards your loved one's personal info (photos, in this case). This isn't about people masturbating to family photos. Showing off family photos is something you do when you're chitchatting with your IRL friends or co-workers...not when you're broadcasting to random people in the public chat of an adult site.

Models need to be a bit smarter about the information they share on cam sites, and remove any thought they may have of "Oh, I can share anything with these guys cuz they're my friends!"

 

[JimsX]

@iforgotmyname

 

[marvelb0y]

Based on the responses here, I can just see it happening. One day a "well intentioned" white knight is just going to rain on all of your parades by getting not only a specific model in trouble but the entire site. I really can't believe the OP started a post for this "issue." Just mind your own business, find another model or better yet, leave adult cam sites.

 

[StellaPark]

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